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advice for a lady at her first party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok peeps just need a few tips for a lovley lady thats attending our party.. she is quite nervous well very nervous and she has asked me to put this on here as she does not want to look like an idiot... so can u guys can give her advice and tips for her first party thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No better way to put folk at ease by a Grouphug at the beginning

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Tell her I'll look after her haha I'm nervous as fuck goin to this venue aswel gonna try meet a few at the bar first break the ice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Remember guys pre drinks friday for people staying the friday night and locals and then pre drinks on the saturday.. Ino the poor thing is really nervous but can't wait to go at the same time

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

That's the way I am I'm real excited yet hav that wierd feelin in my belly and not wind before any smart arse says that haha I'll be the same goin to your one I'll stand with her we can be nervous together and comfort each other haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was the same the first time i went to the venue few drinks in me and i was flying to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have been to a few partys, tell her to chat and relax and have a laugh, as on first partys people just chat and if they are confortable , might play, as no pressure on you's to play.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

as its a meet and greet i presume there wont be any playing in the venue it will be in the hotels afterwards when ppl hook up.....so tell her its just like any regular party......and if you could put her in contact with a more experinced single lady that might help

we cant make it but hope ye have a blast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we look after her on the night she have nothing to worry about.. she be too busy partying.. cant wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we look after her on the night she have nothing to worry about.. she be too busy partying.. cant wait "

now your talking girl lol so dragging u up on the dance floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as its a meet and greet i presume there wont be any playing in the venue it will be in the hotels afterwards when ppl hook up.....so tell her its just like any regular party......and if you could put her in contact with a more experinced single lady that might help

we cant make it but hope ye have a blast"

If its in the venue in dublin then yes there can be playing on site. There are rooms upstairs for that.

Our advice is to go to pre drinks if you can so when you go the the party later its not so daunting walking into a room full of strangers.

Also don't expect party hosts to make any introductions for you. If they're good hosts they might do so or give you a quick tour... But not all do this. But make it known that you're new...they're not mind readers after all!

Above all relax and enjoy yourself and you're also the boss of yourself. No means no!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no its our meet and greet so there will be no playing at all take it too the rooms if they wish as its a public place...

i have arrange for us too meet this lady next week for a coffee an a chit chat.

shes more nervous of people she dont no there and how does she approch people thats her biggest fear on the night...

however i want to make everybody feel right at home as if it was there party well in the end it is there party its not ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then going to the Friday night drinks is the best thing she can do. Its what we did for the cork one and really put us at ease for Saturday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then going to the Friday night drinks is the best thing she can do. Its what we did for the cork one and really put us at ease for Saturday "

im organising 2 pre meet drinks one on the friday and the other on the night of the party to makes a little bit easy for everybody im pm her when she comes back online and if she needs anymore advice il put it up for her but thank u too all who given this lady your advice thats very kind of u all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she be fine we keep her occupied .. im bringing me dancing shoes .. after last time i was waddling like a duck next day..

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By *irty MurtyMan
over a year ago

my place

Ah curvy send her my way il mind her for the weekend,

I really am a nice guy honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah curvy send her my way il mind her for the weekend,

I really am a nice guy honest "

for some strange reason mj i think you might be booked up that weekend and just maybe u might get lost and end out in tramore in a house that u dont no hehe

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