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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At what stage does it get creepy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the attraction is there does age really matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the attraction is there does age really matter? "
exactly

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"At what stage does it get creepy?"

When your kids are nearly as old...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the attraction is there does age really matter? "
yea it matters.....usually bit ceedy if the younger person is under 22 23ish imo.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i think thats a bit of a tricky one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose I just feel like if both parties are into it why does it matter. We are all adults in the end.

Given if one is under 18 and there are laws being broken well that's a different story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its down to yourself if you like them then theres no harm everyone has their own preferences and some agree some dont. either way its your choice and its a free one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what stage does it get creepy?

When your kids are nearly as old..."

Yes when they are the age my daughter would bring home as her date....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

although i keep lowering and highering my age limits....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 23yr old daughter,so creepy for me is 20-30.....im cool with over 30's....im attracted to people my age in general apart from the odd one or two with cheeky smiles and naughty twinkles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me too although i feel guilty meeting a young lad.i like around my own age and older.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

With me b prob bout 80

But I cud pass her off as granny

Id just hav to remember no snoggin in piblic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With me b prob bout 80

But I cud pass her off as granny

Id just hav to remember no snoggin in piblic "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me too although i feel guilty meeting a young lad.i like around my own age and older. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me too although i feel guilty meeting a young lad.i like around my own age and older. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me too although i feel guilty meeting a young lad.i like around my own age and older. "
im shocked :P

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Like to think if ya get on it wouldn't matter....but I think for me middle to late twentys would be the youngest I would consider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With me b prob bout 80

But I cud pass her off as granny

Id just hav to remember no snoggin in piblic "
her teeth could end up in your mouth !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me too although i feel guilty meeting a young lad.i like around my own age and older. im shocked :P

"

im in cougar training with you tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With me b prob bout 80

But I cud pass her off as granny

Id just hav to remember no snoggin in piblic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the average younger person ....below maybe 22ish.....hasn't experienced enough to truly be able to avoide or recognise manipulations .....of more experienced people..... Imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me too although i feel guilty meeting a young lad.i like around my own age and older. im shocked :P

im in cougar training with you tho "
haha wasnt the reply i was expecting but i liiiiike :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were all adults here so age IMO is just a number if attractions there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were all adults here so age IMO is just a number if attractions there "
adult is a legal term to refer to someone's age..... It is not a term to reflect someone's maturity level....or developmental level.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think age is just a number if you have that attraction my last two long term relationships one was 13 years older the other was 12 younger lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were all adults here so age IMO is just a number if attractions there adult is a legal term to refer to someone's age..... It is not a term to reflect someone's maturity level....or developmental level....."
ye true but if a hot 18 yo offered it on a plate to me I wouldn't refuse but I guarentee if a good looking 18 yo man offered on a plate to a woman in her 30's plus most would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were all adults here so age IMO is just a number if attractions there adult is a legal term to refer to someone's age..... It is not a term to reflect someone's maturity level....or developmental level.....ye true but if a hot 18 yo offered it on a plate to me I wouldn't refuse but I guarentee if a good looking 18 yo man offered on a plate to a woman in her 30's plus most would "
your vast experience as a 30something woman has though you this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were all adults here so age IMO is just a number if attractions there adult is a legal term to refer to someone's age..... It is not a term to reflect someone's maturity level....or developmental level.....ye true but if a hot 18 yo offered it on a plate to me I wouldn't refuse but I guarentee if a good looking 18 yo man offered on a plate to a woman in her 30's plus most would your vast experience as a 30something woman has though you this "
my vast experience in listening to what most women say about young men has! ask women 30 plus to be honest and answer would ye have sexual fun with a good looking lad of 18 and I guarentee what most will say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were all adults here so age IMO is just a number if attractions there adult is a legal term to refer to someone's age..... It is not a term to reflect someone's maturity level....or developmental level.....ye true but if a hot 18 yo offered it on a plate to me I wouldn't refuse but I guarentee if a good looking 18 yo man offered on a plate to a woman in her 30's plus most would your vast experience as a 30something woman has though you this my vast experience in listening to what most women say about young men has! ask women 30 plus to be honest and answer would ye have sexual fun with a good looking lad of 18 and I guarentee what most will say "
then woman do mature faster....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were all adults here so age IMO is just a number if attractions there adult is a legal term to refer to someone's age..... It is not a term to reflect someone's maturity level....or developmental level.....ye true but if a hot 18 yo offered it on a plate to me I wouldn't refuse but I guarentee if a good looking 18 yo man offered on a plate to a woman in her 30's plus most would your vast experience as a 30something woman has though you this my vast experience in listening to what most women say about young men has! ask women 30 plus to be honest and answer would ye have sexual fun with a good looking lad of 18 and I guarentee what most will say then woman do mature faster.... "
lol it's a common fact women mature faster then men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age means ....nothing...i should know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To anyone....would it bother you if you found out your 22yr of daughter......was sagging.....a 22yr old

a 30something

a 40something

a 50something??? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was 18 and "on a break" from my now husband.... i was with a man that was 35....however i am now almost 35 and cannot even dare to think of being with a boy that age....not a hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I do like younger men than me. But in terms of maturity I have set myself an age limit on here which is 28.

However if there was real attraction there and for whatever reason we'd happen to meet in real life the youngest I ever would go would probably be around 21. I don't have children so I can understand when women on here say they shouldn't be younger than them.

But I just feel it would be wrong if they were younger.

But reality that I would meet someone that young and they'd be mature enough to attract me, is very unlikely.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Were all adults here so age IMO is just a number if attractions there adult is a legal term to refer to someone's age..... It is not a term to reflect someone's maturity level....or developmental level.....ye true but if a hot 18 yo offered it on a plate to me I wouldn't refuse but I guarentee if a good looking 18 yo man offered on a plate to a woman in her 30's plus most would your vast experience as a 30something woman has though you this my vast experience in listening to what most women say about young men has! ask women 30 plus to be honest and answer would ye have sexual fun with a good looking lad of 18 and I guarentee what most will say "

I for one would be flattered but the answer would be no

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I most certainly would not meet an 18 yr old to me my daughter is a yr younger I don't care how fit he is 18 is way young.

Im not opposed to people meeting younger people but 18 is too young.

My mother best friend is 62 and her boyfriend is 34 and are very happy together. .

I say good on her. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" my vast experience in listening to what most women say about young men has! ask women 30 plus to be honest and answer would ye have sexual fun with a good looking lad of 18 and I guarentee what most will say "

Your vast experience in listening, hmmm interesting, i have read some of your posts in the last few days and listening would not be one of your strong points to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" my vast experience in listening to what most women say about young men has! ask women 30 plus to be honest and answer would ye have sexual fun with a good looking lad of 18 and I guarentee what most will say

Your vast experience in listening, hmmm interesting, i have read some of your posts in the last few days and listening would not be one of your strong points to be honest"
different strokes for different folks and all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the attraction is there does age really matter? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not fuck an 18 year old, again with the good looks, what for you might be good looks for me might not be so you can't say that really, although you and i have a very different perception of what matters when meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the attraction is there does age really matter? "
lol ms naughty im outside your age gap,,,,,damn i need a time machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a man to be over 30 .think they would have better head for this Site.and me experience.,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with you n.a.l.i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with you n.a.l.i"
xxx honey..the older the fiddle the sweeter the tune,hehe

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Feck it, it's great to be old !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not old, mature and wise

Due to a good few experiences in the last few months i can safely say give me mature any day , unreal!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck it, it's great to be old ! "
just my point of view..and what I have seen on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman over a summer back when i was 17,she was 48,she thought me a lot about love making,but we never after that summer as she went back to england.But thing is she's now in her 70's,thats wierd to imagine what she looks like now!

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around


"At what stage does it get creepy?

When your kids are nearly as old...

Yes when they are the age my daughter would bring home as her date....lol "

Our thoughts exactly, that's when we'd start to feel uncomfortable.

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By *ot_pants56Couple
over a year ago

Sligo

Once either person has passed mid to late 20s and there is no cognitive disability, but age gaps is not a great idea in long term relationships, as the older person nears their 50s cracks can begin to show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what stage does it get creepy?

When your kids are nearly as old...

Yes when they are the age my daughter would bring home as her date....lol

Our thoughts exactly, that's when we'd start to feel uncomfortable. "
my son is 19 so ya I would agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I draw the line at teenagers, and over fifties it is just my choice. I am quite active and need someone who can Handel me.

I have a 17 year old nephew/ god son so it would just feel wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my age til about 45 defo wouldnt go over 50 because that near the same age as my mum.

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"If the attraction is there does age really matter? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was married to a guy 14 years older then myself... Didnt bother me.

For meets Im sexploring the younger end of the spectrum but over 30's. And with a mature head on their shoulders. Have to be able to talk... There was a couple chatting to me. He was over 30. She was 23.... Too close to my daughters age....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was married to a guy 14 years older then myself... Didnt bother me.

For meets Im sexploring the younger end of the spectrum but over 30's. And with a mature head on their shoulders. Have to be able to talk... There was a couple chatting to me. He was over 30. She was 23.... Too close to my daughters age...."

***cough cough*** (MATURE HEAD)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was married to a guy 14 years older then myself... Didnt bother me.

For meets Im sexploring the younger end of the spectrum but over 30's. And with a mature head on their shoulders. Have to be able to talk... There was a couple chatting to me. He was over 30. She was 23.... Too close to my daughters age....

***cough cough*** (MATURE HEAD)"
Oh you!!!! Cant you think of anything else??? On their shoulders DTG!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I met a woman over a summer back when i was 17,she was 48,she thought me a lot about love making,but we never after that summer as she went back to england.But thing is she's now in her 70's,thats wierd to imagine what she looks like now!"

Creepy..... ....mental images go away!!!!

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