FabSwingers.com forum: Quell the rising tension

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't know mate..... seems to me that while there is plenty of disagreeing .....people can move past and get on(kinda)....better than before.....just my opinion though

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back"

hey hey well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum is for a bit of craic and banter in my opinion not used for people to have a go at each other. If someone pisses you off or annoys you just block em and move on.

It's good to laugh and have humour in day to day life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i don't know mate..... seems to me that while there is plenty of disagreeing .....people can move past and get on(kinda)....better than before.....just my opinion though

I know that but every post with the last week or so has gone off the topic in hand and turned into one big disagreement

I'm not saying everyone should be of the same opinion either but sometimes it's best to agree to disagree without the slagging match

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The forum is for a bit of craic and banter in my opinion not used for people to have a go at each other. If someone pisses you off or annoys you just block em and move on.

It's good to laugh and have humour in day to day life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey everyone!!!

Its Friday tomorrow!!!

What will the weekend bring??

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back"

iam looking forward to 8th anyway pretty sure no one is gunnin for me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back

iam looking forward to 8th anyway pretty sure no one is gunnin for me lol"

Can't wait for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i don't know mate..... seems to me that while there is plenty of disagreeing .....people can move past and get on(kinda)....better than before.....just my opinion though

I know that but every post with the last week or so has gone off the topic in hand and turned into one big disagreement

I'm not saying everyone should be of the same opinion either but sometimes it's best to agree to disagree without the slagging match

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i agree..... but i just want to point out....as long as i have been here the banter always contained heavy bouts of slaging ...... with out being mean so to speak

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey everyone!!!

Its Friday tomorrow!!!

What will the weekend bring??"

In work for the weekend but off then for Limerick the following week

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back

iam looking forward to 8th anyway pretty sure no one is gunnin for me lol

Can't wait for it "

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Hey everyone!!!

Its Friday tomorrow!!!

What will the weekend bring??"
whoohoo irs Friday I luv Fridays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fully agree with you its gone a bit far tbh glad i aint invold lol keep the leace people its ment to be fun

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back"

I shnap at no one . Make lust not war.

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back

iam looking forward to 8th anyway pretty sure no one is gunnin for me lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I miss something??...

I thought people HAD moved on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did I miss something??...

I thought people HAD moved on

Missed nothing

Moving along now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think alls good now.

If anything the last week or so has helped me wean out the bitter/nasty folk here.

The majority are Top Class & we'll all disagree obviously. There's alot of testosterone flying about. It's natural.

I'm your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did I miss something??...

I thought people HAD moved on

Missed nothing

Moving along now..."

Glad to hear it... Taxi for Fooey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with healthy debate. You can still carry on a conversation and comment on a thread using the 'reply and quote' option. That's why it's there. Do you complain and think debate shows like Question Time is a show just to argue and raise tension? Debating is in the human make up. It's the beautiful thing that makes us all individual. If you look at it as a debate rather than slagging. You'll feel better.

Maybe someone can start a daily debate thread. Then you can avoid it. I guarantee though, you'll all have a nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back"

Totally agree.....well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have no problem with a debate

But don't confuse debating with slagging

So where were we with this being almost the weekend

Anyone any exciting plans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't. I don't slag people. I wouldn't waste my time. I only engage in debate if someone attempts to steam roll a conversation or ignorantly disregard something I have said or someone else has said. In the end. Afterward I hold no grudges.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Have no problem with a debate

But don't confuse debating with slagging

So where were we with this being almost the weekend

Anyone any exciting plans "

i agree debate is healthy......being rude is not.....no plans of the swinging kind yet.....but not free sat so kinda limited

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't. I don't slag people. I wouldn't waste my time. I only engage in debate if someone attempts to steam roll a conversation or ignorantly disregard something I have said or someone else has said. In the end. Afterward I hold no grudges.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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that's kinda what i mean.....people don't in general hold grudges as far i can tell .....and most can banter for want of a better word....and not hold grudges....imo the forums are great lately....minus and nasty Ness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's kinda what i mean.....people don't in general hold grudges as far i can tell .....and most can banter for want of a better word....and not hold grudges....imo the forums are great lately....minus and nasty Ness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prime example. Jack and I had a lively debate a couple of days ago. Done and dusted. You don't see us pouncing on each others comments at every opportunity. We can work away on here as normal and enjoy the craic. Would you concur Jack?

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Have no problem with a debate

But don't confuse debating with slagging

So where were we with this being almost the weekend

Anyone any exciting plans "

no plans yet yerselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to work so I don't have any plans really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have no problem with a debate

But don't confuse debating with slagging

So where were we with this being almost the weekend

Anyone any exciting plans

no plans yet yerselves

Both working this all this weekend so nothing can be planned lol

Will make up for it in limerick tho

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Have no problem with a debate

But don't confuse debating with slagging

So where were we with this being almost the weekend

Anyone any exciting plans

no plans yet yerselves

Both working this all this weekend so nothing can be planned lol

im sure ye will.we might see ye there

Will make up for it in limerick tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prime example. Jack and I had a lively debate a couple of days ago. Done and dusted. You don't see us pouncing on each others comments at every opportunity. We can work away on here as normal and enjoy the craic. Would you concur Jack?"
absolutely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have to mind my little donkey......got em nutered and he got bad infection....so have to baby him and keep the meds in lol....is feckin deadly though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have to mind my little donkey......got em nutered and he got bad infection....so have to baby him and keep the meds in lol....is feckin deadly though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever it was u just replied to in the thread just deleted

Once again i say I think I have been taken up wrong. I wasn't taking things personal. I just replied how i saw it. If I replied and quoted to a post is was more then likely I actually agreed to

Most if what was being said

I don't make things on here personal. I'm blunt and say what I think but no way was I making anything personal

So sorry I can't mind who it was who took offence. Believe me i wasn't having a go at you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whoever it was u just replied to in the thread just deleted

Once again i say I think I have been taken up wrong. I wasn't taking things personal. I just replied how i saw it. If I replied and quoted to a post is was more then likely I actually agreed to

Most if what was being said

I don't make things on here personal. I'm blunt and say what I think but no way was I making anything personal

So sorry I can't mind who it was who took offence. Believe me i wasn't having a go at you"

I'm confused lol

Who was that for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have to mind my little donkey......got em nutered and he got bad infection....so have to baby him and keep the meds in lol....is feckin deadly though....

what i....i do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused too.. but them I'm normally confused so pass no remarks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever it was u just replied to in the thread just deleted

Once again i say I think I have been taken up wrong. I wasn't taking things personal. I just replied how i saw it. If I replied and quoted to a post is was more then likely I actually agreed to

Most if what was being said

I don't make things on here personal. I'm blunt and say what I think but no way was I making anything personal

So sorry I can't mind who it was who took offence. Believe me i wasn't having a go at you"
did u put that in wrong tread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really confused now! Who's message was deleted? & jack wtf are you talking about a donkey for? Did you get the snip?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a friend who I used to call him jerry but he has an awful stutter (his real name is Paul) jerry was a nickname..

One night while out in the pub someone asked him "why does he call you jerry?"

He replied "I dunno but hee haw hee haw hee haw he always calls me that"

That night I christened him donkey

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

This is all very well but has anybody found HEGO yet ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever it was u just replied to in the thread just deleted

Once again i say I think I have been taken up wrong. I wasn't taking things personal. I just replied how i saw it. If I replied and quoted to a post is was more then likely I actually agreed to

Most if what was being said

I don't make things on here personal. I'm blunt and say what I think but no way was I making anything personal

So sorry I can't mind who it was who took offence. Believe me i wasn't having a go at you

I'm confused lol

Who was that for?"

Who ever it was who thought I was making a personal attack on

The thread was removed so seeing as this is really part of what went on i posted here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really confused now! Who's message was deleted? & jack wtf are you talking about a donkey for? Did you get the snip?

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is this not the what you doin for weekend tread......

that what im doing for weekend ya fookers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back

iam looking forward to 8th anyway pretty sure no one is gunnin for me lol"

You're in my sights mrs d

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever it was u just replied to in the thread just deleted

Once again i say I think I have been taken up wrong. I wasn't taking things personal. I just replied how i saw it. If I replied and quoted to a post is was more then likely I actually agreed to

Most if what was being said

I don't make things on here personal. I'm blunt and say what I think but no way was I making anything personal

So sorry I can't mind who it was who took offence. Believe me i wasn't having a go at you

I'm confused lol

Who was that for?

Who ever it was who thought I was making a personal attack on

The thread was removed so seeing as this is really part of what went on i posted here

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think i must have missed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the last of the great wangdoodle's

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm really confused now! Who's message was deleted? & jack wtf are you talking about a donkey for? Did you get the snip?

is this not the what you doin for weekend tread......

that what im doing for weekend ya fookers

Leave us know how that goes wont ya lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really confused now! Who's message was deleted? & jack wtf are you talking about a donkey for? Did you get the snip?

is this not the what you doin for weekend tread......

that what im doing for weekend ya fookers

Leave us know how that goes wont ya lol "
dose that mean don't tell ya......yas are sum cunts .....he is the cutest little dude ever.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of testosterone flying around the forums? I don't think so, just too much bullshit. All the regulars/trolls getting shirty with each other is so boring and just switches others away from the forums. I think it was Warren Buffet said something like; if you've got something to say (giving out) to someone, save it till tomorrow. worth thinking about. Love and light to you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dull

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm really confused now! Who's message was deleted? & jack wtf are you talking about a donkey for? Did you get the snip?

is this not the what you doin for weekend tread......

that what im doing for weekend ya fookers

Leave us know how that goes wont ya lol dose that mean don't tell ya......yas are sum cunts .....he is the cutest little dude ever.....

No I want to know how the ass is doing

Have a thing for asses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of testosterone flying around the forums? I don't think so, just too much bullshit. All the regulars/trolls getting shirty with each other is so boring and just switches others away from the forums. I think it was Warren Buffet said something like; if you've got something to say (giving out) to someone, save it till tomorrow. worth thinking about. Love and light to you all."
that in no way tickled my fancy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really confused now! Who's message was deleted? & jack wtf are you talking about a donkey for? Did you get the snip?

is this not the what you doin for weekend tread......

that what im doing for weekend ya fookers

Leave us know how that goes wont ya lol dose that mean don't tell ya......yas are sum cunts .....he is the cutest little dude ever.....

No I want to know how the ass is doing

Have a thing for asses "

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

"This is all very well but has anybody found HEGO yet ??"

HEGO as far as i know HEWENT

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is all very well but has anybody found HEGO yet ??

HEGO as far as i know HEWENT"

HEGONE

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is all very well but has anybody found HEGO yet ??

HEGO as far as i know

HEWENT"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really confused now! Who's message was deleted? & jack wtf are you talking about a donkey for? Did you get the snip?

is this not the what you doin for weekend tread......

that what im doing for weekend ya fookers

Leave us know how that goes wont ya lol dose that mean don't tell ya......yas are sum cunts .....he is the cutest little dude ever.....

No I want to know how the ass is doing

Have a thing for asses "

Animal Farm! The porn one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm really confused now! Who's message was deleted? & jack wtf are you talking about a donkey for? Did you get the snip?

is this not the what you doin for weekend tread......

that what im doing for weekend ya fookers

Leave us know how that goes wont ya lol dose that mean don't tell ya......yas are sum cunts .....he is the cutest little dude ever.....

No I want to know how the ass is doing

Have a thing for asses

Animal Farm! The porn one!

A ffs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is all very well but has anybody found HEGO yet ??

HEGO as far as i know

HEWENT

Lol the big question is did the search party return from the HEGO search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is all very well but has anybody found HEGO yet ??

HEGO as far as i know HEWENT

HEGONE "

HEDEADNOW??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really confused now! Who's message was deleted? & jack wtf are you talking about a donkey for? Did you get the snip?

is this not the what you doin for weekend tread......

that what im doing for weekend ya fookers

Leave us know how that goes wont ya lol dose that mean don't tell ya......yas are sum cunts .....he is the cutest little dude ever.....

No I want to know how the ass is doing

Have a thing for asses

Animal Farm! The porn one!

Lol worst is read that book at school god where we shocked when we got the video

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is all very well but has anybody found HEGO yet ??

HEGO as far as i know HEWENT

HEGONE

HEDEADNOW??????

HECOULDBE

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Tensions seem to be rising here day on day with the past two weeks

Everyone is snapping at people and the fun is going out of the thread

A lot of meet and greets and parties planned for this year so far..hope it doesn't flow over to those nights

Bring the banter back

iam looking forward to 8th anyway pretty sure no one is gunnin for me lol

You're in my sights mrs d"

i sure hope so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is all very well but has anybody found HEGO yet ??

HEGO as far as i know HEWENT

HEGONE

HEDEADNOW??????

HECOULDBE"

WHOHEBE

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around

"The forum is for a bit of craic and banter in my opinion not used for people to have a go at each other. If someone pisses you off or annoys you just block em and move on.

It's good to laugh and have humour in day to day life.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

"This is all very well but has anybody found HEGO yet ??

HEGO as far as i know HEWENT

HEGONE

HEDEADNOW??????

HECOULDBE

WHOHEBE"
WHOWHOBE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WHOHEBE"

HEGOBEWHOHEBE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever it was u just replied to in the thread just deleted

Once again i say I think I have been taken up wrong. I wasn't taking things personal. I just replied how i saw it. If I replied and quoted to a post is was more then likely I actually agreed to

Most if what was being said

I don't make things on here personal. I'm blunt and say what I think but no way was I making anything personal

So sorry I can't mind who it was who took offence. Believe me i wasn't having a go at you

I'm confused lol

Who was that for?

Who ever it was who thought I was making a personal attack on

The thread was removed so seeing as this is really part of what went on i posted here

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this thread all about you?? cool

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Do u really have a baby donkey jack or you read my numerous I love donkey posts and are just teasing hal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do u really have a baby donkey jack or you read my numerous I love donkey posts and are just teasing hal?"
i really do he 4ish have him since few months old.....heavy deadly.....a proper character

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