FabSwingers.com forum: Jealousy and Possessiveness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is a question aimed at swinging cpls here - and I'm not asking you to nane names or reveal anything you don't want to...

I'm not a swinger. Never have been. New to this world but I find it attractive, excitng even. My question is - do feelings of jealousy and possessiveness come into play much when you see your partner getting it on with someone else..?

In addition -

1. Can this be a turn-on ?

2. Is this a "natural" stage and effect of swinging that has to overcome before you can continue swinging happily ?

In my v.limited experience of swinging, there was a definite personality clash. I didn't feel jealous or possessive at any time but as the meet went on, I grew to dislike the other cpl a fair bit. It was too late to stop at that stage tho let's say...

I'd like to hear your views and solutions ! Thanks !