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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on this site a few years now, and met one lovely couple not long after joining, but since then, nothing. I very rarely get replies following my first message . I always include face and body pics, never pics of my dicks as I believe they all look the same, and save it as a surprise if I was to meet anyone, Idescribe myself, hair colour eyes body etc, am never push or rude, so whats going wrong? Am I just never going to get any fun Lol?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder is it because your last verification is over 2 years ago and people wonder why are you not meeting?

Otherwise I can't really say why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on this site a few years now, and met one lovely couple not long after joining, but since then, nothing. I very rarely get replies following my first message . I always include face and body pics, never pics of my dicks as I believe they all look the same, and save it as a surprise if I was to meet anyone, Idescribe myself, hair colour eyes body etc, am never push or rude, so whats going wrong? Am I just never going to get any fun Lol?!"
on the site a few years and only one meet? Jesus this gets better and better not a dig at you OP just thinking out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics!

You only have pics available to 'friends', a few imaginative, well taken public pics might make a difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The reason I have no meets is not through personal choice! I suppose I could get on cam chat or that but honestly it bores the shit out of me, and I'm very busy! If I'm not working then I am training, and if I'm not training then I'm in the pub with my mates! Like I said previously I'm always polite, but it never gets me anywhere, perhaps I should be mean lol. But in all seriousness I am worried that I might be being too nice, is that possible? Or maybe my profile needs changing, I know I sound desperate, and that's probably because I am!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pics!

You only have pics available to 'friends', a few imaginative, well taken public pics might make a difference."

Yeah, the pics I do have hidden are ones that include face shots, I know an awful lot of people in my local area and would prefer if they didn't know my business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candy actually made a good point there. Add more public pictures.

Expand your profile text more, what are you looking for, a bit of sense of humour in it doesn't hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take pics with your face hidden and public them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol"

How the feck would you have time to meet anyone with all that going on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lo

How the feck would you have time to meet anyone with all that going on? "

I will make time, trust me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol"

None of this is in your profile though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I like your profile your just too far away

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol"

A pro DJ... Why would you need this to meet. I worked in clubs for years and having sex was never a problem..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some girls don't even read the emails, they just look at the profile and if they don't like they delete the message

so sort your profile out with all the interesting stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol

A pro DJ... Why would you need this to meet. I worked in clubs for years and having sex was never a problem.."
because when I do work the ahem 'women' who do throw themselves at me are not usually very sober (I never drink when I work) and I don't find it very attractive, especially when there is a room full of people who I am trying to entertain and keep interested, plus it probably wouldn't be professional riding some woman in a DJ booth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol"

Im into adventure/adrenaline sports n if I saw that on your profile it would definitely get my interest. Im sure others too would like the sound of you more too!! And as SW says few headless public pics would be a good idea.....nice teasing pics even better again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol

Im into adventure/adrenaline sports n if I saw that on your profile it would definitely get my interest. Im sure others too would like the sound of you more too!! And as SW says few headless public pics would be a good idea.....nice teasing pics even better again "

you can have the outgoing adventure one....im in for the firefighter...mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol

Im into adventure/adrenaline sports n if I saw that on your profile it would definitely get my interest. Im sure others too would like the sound of you more too!! And as SW says few headless public pics would be a good idea.....nice teasing pics even better again "
just so happens I'm in Wexford today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame Im in work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/02/14 12:24:27]

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol

A pro DJ... Why would you need this to meet. I worked in clubs for years and having sex was never a problem.. because when I do work the ahem 'women' who do throw themselves at me are not usually very sober (I never drink when I work) and I don't find it very attractive, especially when there is a room full of people who I am trying to entertain and keep interested, plus it probably wouldn't be professional riding some woman in a DJ booth!"

Thats a first because normally the 'groupies' are the sober ones hanging around the dj box. The d*unk ones are usually off dancing or/and trying to jump anything that moves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol

Im into adventure/adrenaline sports n if I saw that on your profile it would definitely get my interest. Im sure others too would like the sound of you more too!! And as SW says few headless public pics would be a good idea.....nice teasing pics even better again

you can have the outgoing adventure one....im in for the firefighter...mmmmm "

Now now Annie.....play nicely n share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on this site a few years now, and met one lovely couple not long after joining, but since then, nothing. I very rarely get replies following my first message . I always include face and body pics, never pics of my dicks as I believe they all look the same, and save it as a surprise if I was to meet anyone, Idescribe myself, hair colour eyes body etc, am never push or rude, so whats going wrong? Am I just never going to get any fun Lol?!"
it may be because of your multiply dicks ..... All though i would have though that would have helped....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have now updated my profile, please have a look and let me know what you all think and if I can make any improvements, I still have yet to add photos but that will come when I can get home!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Now pics in ur fire fighter outfit would get us going mmmmmmmmmmm i mite just have to start a little fire in my bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have now updated my profile, please have a look and let me know what you all think and if I can make any improvements, I still have yet to add photos but that will come when I can get home!"

Much better. A few teasing pics n I think we will all cum when we get home

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"What is it women look for in a profile when they receive a message off a single guy? I'm a chef, a pro DJ, a trained firefighter, rescue boat cox, cliff and cave rescue expert, and an all round nice guy! Just can't understand what I'm doing wrong lol

Im into adventure/adrenaline sports n if I saw that on your profile it would definitely get my interest. Im sure others too would like the sound of you more too!! And as SW says few headless public pics would be a good idea.....nice teasing pics even better again

you can have the outgoing adventure one....im in for the firefighter...mmmmm "

annie! i thought we agreed i have first dibs on any firefighters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the profile is improving.. maybe add a bit more what kind of meets you like

and do tell us when you've added those pics... I need to have a perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the profile is improving.. maybe add a bit more what kind of meets you like

and do tell us when you've added those pics... I need to have a perv"

Ah ya dirty perv sweety

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

New photos are up, more to come!

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