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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else find it rude for people to open a pm window (or multiple windows) on you in chat without asking first if its ok? It seems to be getting worse with some folk not understanding common courtesy. It's really the equivalent of walking up to someone and interrupting their convo without saying excuse me. Just my little pet peeve x

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Anyone else find it rude for people to open a pm window (or multiple windows) on you in chat without asking first if its ok? It seems to be getting worse with some folk not understanding common courtesy. It's really the equivalent of walking up to someone and interrupting their convo without saying excuse me. Just my little pet peeve x "

Very rude -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single men are the worst at it from our point of view im the ahem face of us until its time to verify etc i think a little hey is it ok to pm would be nice totally agree

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Its common curtsey to ask someone if its of to pm as those that u wish to pm may already be in convo with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terra I am delighted anyone would want to talk with me Cherry so doesn't bother me much !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

or at the least when they do open the box to ask 'is this ok?" or "do you mind the pm?", ect.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We have pm 's turned off for anyone that isnt on our friends list so its all good , no more pm's without asking

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"or at the least when they do open the box to ask 'is this ok?" or "do you mind the pm?", ect. "

well not exactly like when u open a box if hes gotten that far its to late

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

yes it is very rude but there is a function that allows you to block pm and allow only ppl you want e.g. friends

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"yes it is very rude but there is a function that allows you to block pm and allow only ppl you want e.g. friends"

feckit Mrs Davies nest get me on ur friends list then

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

_razy-cpl are faster then me lol

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"yes it is very rude but there is a function that allows you to block pm and allow only ppl you want e.g. friends

feckit Mrs Davies nest get me on ur friends list then "

are we not friends cj? will solve that real soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sure cherry u keep doing it to me asking for shower cam I'm getting annoyed over it haha

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"yes it is very rude but there is a function that allows you to block pm and allow only ppl you want e.g. friends

feckit Mrs Davies nest get me on ur friends list then

are we not friends cj? will solve that real soon "

oooh waits in anticipation

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"_razy-cpl are faster then me lol"

are we

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

only eleven more sleeps

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"_razy-cpl are faster then me lol

are we "

were still talking about pm's here aren't we

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"_razy-cpl are faster then me lol

are we "

with your fingers

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"only eleven more sleeps"

is that all feck now ull have me count/wishing the days away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its yer own fault kearnsey. ya spoiled me with the first one so

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"only eleven more sleeps

is that all feck now ull have me count/wishing the days away "

think of it as foreplay

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"only eleven more sleeps

is that all feck now ull have me count/wishing the days away

think of it as foreplay"

more like edging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some regular posters think its a private club and address each others posts ignoring posts from outside their imaginary circles

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"some regular posters think its a private club and address each others posts ignoring posts from outside their imaginary circles"

not in my experience of chat but i have seen four or five convos going on at once where two or three peeps are chatting to each other and it gives the look that they are ignoring others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find it rude for people to open a pm window (or multiple windows) on you in chat without asking first if its ok? It seems to be getting worse with some folk not understanding common courtesy. It's really the equivalent of walking up to someone and interrupting their convo without saying excuse me. Just my little pet peeve x "
i don't use the chat service but any site I was ever on down through the years where u could pm somebody, I just went ahead and pmd them, there was either a reply or no reply but maybe I'm misleading in understanding the situation

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Anyone else find it rude for people to open a pm window (or multiple windows) on you in chat without asking first if its ok? It seems to be getting worse with some folk not understanding common courtesy. It's really the equivalent of walking up to someone and interrupting their convo without saying excuse me. Just my little pet peeve x i don't use the chat service but any site I was ever on down through the years where u could pm somebody, I just went ahead and pmd them, there was either a reply or no reply but maybe I'm misleading in understanding the situation "
exactly what we are talking about do u not think its rude especially if they are involved in a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wud be happy for any contact get bored talking to myself

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I wud be happy for any contact get bored talking to myself "
chat like any established group can be hard to get in to by just going in and saying hi all u may get a response u may not but persist u will get a reply and just join in as is done here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find it rude for people to open a pm window (or multiple windows) on you in chat without asking first if its ok? It seems to be getting worse with some folk not understanding common courtesy. It's really the equivalent of walking up to someone and interrupting their convo without saying excuse me. Just my little pet peeve x i don't use the chat service but any site I was ever on down through the years where u could pm somebody, I just went ahead and pmd them, there was either a reply or no reply but maybe I'm misleading in understanding the situation exactly what we are talking about do u not think its rude especially if they are involved in a chat"
i don't know how the chat room works here but on other sites I was on, u chat amongst the room then if u want to individually talk with someone u mail them privatley

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Anyone else find it rude for people to open a pm window (or multiple windows) on you in chat without asking first if its ok? It seems to be getting worse with some folk not understanding common courtesy. It's really the equivalent of walking up to someone and interrupting their convo without saying excuse me. Just my little pet peeve x i don't use the chat service but any site I was ever on down through the years where u could pm somebody, I just went ahead and pmd them, there was either a reply or no reply but maybe I'm misleading in understanding the situation exactly what we are talking about do u not think its rude especially if they are involved in a chati don't know how the chat room works here but on other sites I was on, u chat amongst the room then if u want to individually talk with someone u mail them privatley "

yes works the same but i think and its only my thought that u at least say in the room can u pm some don't like pm others are happy to carry on a side chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its yer own fault kearnsey. ya spoiled me with the first one so "
I was bullied into that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find it rude for people to open a pm window (or multiple windows) on you in chat without asking first if its ok? It seems to be getting worse with some folk not understanding common courtesy. It's really the equivalent of walking up to someone and interrupting their convo without saying excuse me. Just my little pet peeve x i don't use the chat service but any site I was ever on down through the years where u could pm somebody, I just went ahead and pmd them, there was either a reply or no reply but maybe I'm misleading in understanding the situation exactly what we are talking about do u not think its rude especially if they are involved in a chati don't know how the chat room works here but on other sites I was on, u chat amongst the room then if u want to individually talk with someone u mail them privatley

yes works the same but i think and its only my thought that u at least say in the room can u pm some don't like pm others are happy to carry on a side chat "
u might not want the whole room to know your pmn them! If u don't want to talk just say no thanks

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

That's true but most likely ur pm will be ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's true but most likely ur pm will be ignored "
does a new window open when ur pmd or just the persons name in a lil box at bottom of screen?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"That's true but most likely ur pm will be ignored does a new window open when ur pmd or just the persons name in a lil box at bottom of screen? "

a small window in the middle of the chat box opens why not slip in and try it out

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"That's true but most likely ur pm will be ignored does a new window open when ur pmd or just the persons name in a lil box at bottom of screen?

a small window in the middle of the chat box opens why not slip in and try it out "

Phwoooarrr... Ya slag, Cj!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's true but most likely ur pm will be ignored does a new window open when ur pmd or just the persons name in a lil box at bottom of screen?

a small window in the middle of the chat box opens why not slip in and try it out "
tgats diff to any site I used in past! Usually the persons name came up In a little red box to let u know u had a pm! I'm on phone

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"That's true but most likely ur pm will be ignored does a new window open when ur pmd or just the persons name in a lil box at bottom of screen?

a small window in the middle of the chat box opens why not slip in and try it out

Phwoooarrr... Ya slag, Cj! "

hmmm Micheal Micheal Micheal what ever will we do with u

well i suppose i left my self open for that one

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"That's true but most likely ur pm will be ignored does a new window open when ur pmd or just the persons name in a lil box at bottom of screen?

a small window in the middle of the chat box opens why not slip in and try it out

Phwoooarrr... Ya slag, Cj!

hmmm Micheal Micheal Micheal what ever will we do with u

well i suppose i left my self open for that one "

My apologies!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

@knickersoaker i get yer point of not wanting the room to know you want to pm someone thats why if you open a box. its best to ask 'do you mind the pm?"

@kearnsey. i didnt have to twist yer arm too much. n whens the next one btw? i need my fix!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"That's true but most likely ur pm will be ignored does a new window open when ur pmd or just the persons name in a lil box at bottom of screen?

a small window in the middle of the chat box opens why not slip in and try it out

Phwoooarrr... Ya slag, Cj!

hmmm Micheal Micheal Micheal what ever will we do with u

well i suppose i left my self open for that one

My apologies! "

none required u probably owe me that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate when Im chatting in the room, typing away , look up and some coont has pm'd me asking if I will watch them wank and half the sentence ive typed has gona in the pm box, they get instantly closed. They don't ask then I usually say I don't want to chat, simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate when Im chatting in the room, typing away , look up and some coont has pm'd me asking if I will watch them wank and half the sentence ive typed has gona in the pm box, they get instantly closed. They don't ask then I usually say I don't want to chat, simple."

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"Anyone else find it rude for people to open a pm window (or multiple windows) on you in chat without asking first if its ok? It seems to be getting worse with some folk not understanding common courtesy. It's really the equivalent of walking up to someone and interrupting their convo without saying excuse me. Just my little pet peeve x "

Very very rude, one at a time is my motto,,,

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