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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A woman in your eyes is ugly! She then transforms her life and appearance and she becomes attractive to you! Pretty normal ye?

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Ah a chick flik....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman in your eyes is ugly! She then transforms her life and appearance and she becomes attractive to you! Pretty normal ye?"

Maybe, if you're living in a bad hollywood teen movie.

Did this woman have glasses and her hair up all the time?

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"A woman in your eyes is ugly! She then transforms her life and appearance and she becomes attractive to you! Pretty normal ye?

Maybe, if you're living in a bad hollywood teen movie.

Did this woman have glasses and her hair up all the time?"

Great minds....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman in your eyes is ugly! She then transforms her life and appearance and she becomes attractive to you! Pretty normal ye?

Maybe, if you're living in a bad hollywood teen movie.

Did this woman have glasses and her hair up all the time?"

Glasses give me the horn!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A woman in your eyes is ugly! She then transforms her life and appearance and she becomes attractive to you! Pretty normal ye?

Maybe, if you're living in a bad hollywood teen movie.

Did this woman have glasses and her hair up all the time?"

so a woman's imagw cannot change, is that what your implying? This thread is a general not one person in particular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman in your eyes is ugly! She then transforms her life and appearance and she becomes attractive to you! Pretty normal ye?

Maybe, if you're living in a bad hollywood teen movie.

Did this woman have glasses and her hair up all the time?"

Glasses and hair up is the new sexy look

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Clarify your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman in your eyes is ugly! She then transforms her life and appearance and she becomes attractive to you! Pretty normal ye?"

What is it you are actually asking???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll say it as it is! A woman might be overweight and have a bad appearance in your eyes! She changes her lifestyle, her diet and physical lifestyle and her appearance changes hence in your eyes she might go from not attractive to the opposite extreme!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U mean a girl who starts to look after herself life and appearance wise ?? Ugly duckling swan thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll say it as it is! A woman might be overweight and have a bad appearance in your eyes! She changes her lifestyle, her diet and physical lifestyle and her appearance changes hence in your eyes she might go from not attractive to the opposite extreme! "

And?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or is what you are saying is that you turned someone down o before cos you didnt fancy them now they look different you fancy your chances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll say it as it is! A woman might be overweight and have a bad appearance in your eyes! She changes her lifestyle, her diet and physical lifestyle and her appearance changes hence in your eyes she might go from not attractive to the opposite extreme!

And? "

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll say it as it is! A woman might be overweight and have a bad appearance in your eyes! She changes her lifestyle, her diet and physical lifestyle and her appearance changes hence in your eyes she might go from not attractive to the opposite extreme!

And? "

as I said this can occur can't it? It's a pretty normal occurance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or is what you are saying is that you turned someone down o before cos you didnt fancy them now they look different you fancy your chances? "
im not speaking about one in particular but yes along those lines! U might not fancy someone before but they changed and you do now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women are beautiful it's just your perception that needs to change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll say it as it is! A woman might be overweight and have a bad appearance in your eyes! She changes her lifestyle, her diet and physical lifestyle and her appearance changes hence in your eyes she might go from not attractive to the opposite extreme!

And? as I said this can occur can't it? It's a pretty normal occurance "

It occurs as often as someone wants to make changes in their life I would say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is what you are saying is that you turned someone down o before cos you didnt fancy them now they look different you fancy your chances? im not speaking about one in particular but yes along those lines! U might not fancy someone before but they changed and you do now "

Well I would say if she has any wit, she 'll let you think you have a chance then turn you down like you did to her lmao

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think personally its rather shallow to think like that. If I changed my hair colour and u prefer me that hair colour u would fancy ie me more.

Yes people can change lifestyles but appearance does not change u as a person or ur personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think personally its rather shallow to think like that. If I changed my hair colour and u prefer me that hair colour u would fancy ie me more.

Yes people can change lifestyles but appearance does not change u as a person or ur personality "

im speaking now along the lines of serious dating! Everybody has their opinion on it but I could never fancy a woman enough through personality alone to date her

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

If attractiveness was purely based on the physical image, then yes, I'm sure a change of appearance could alter things. It's pretty shallow though.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Or is what you are saying is that you turned someone down o before cos you didnt fancy them now they look different you fancy your chances? im not speaking about one in particular but yes along those lines! U might not fancy someone before but they changed and you do now "

Shallow Hal syndrome...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Sometimes with ugly buurds, beauty is in the eye of the beer holder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking of hal wheres his thread gone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree, and as another user said beauty is in the eye of the beholder, tall, short, big, small, if you get on with the person and the chemistry is there the appearance is secondary, to me at least

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If attractiveness was purely based on the physical image, then yes, I'm sure a change of appearance could alter things. It's pretty shallow though. "
ill put it this way tho! A woman might dislike her appearance and her personality might reflect that! She does something about it and her real personality comes flooding to the fore! That can also happen IMO

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I totally agree, and as another user said beauty is in the eye of the beholder, tall, short, big, small, if you get on with the person and the chemistry is there the appearance is secondary, to me at least "

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would have to be attracted to the person with looks and personality.

Im not. Going to date someone who looks like

Johnny Depp with a personality of a wet fish.

That can't hold down s conversation or make me laugh.

But im certainly not going out with someone

that spends way to much time in front of the mirror either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree, and as another user said beauty is in the eye of the beholder, tall, short, big, small, if you get on with the person and the chemistry is there the appearance is secondary, to me at least "
here here

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I would have to be attracted to the person with looks and personality.

Im not. Going to date someone who looks like

Johnny Depp with a personality of a wet fish.

That can't hold down s conversation or make me laugh.

But im certainly not going out with someone

that spends way to much time in front of the mirror either. "

Personally I wouldn't go near a woman that looked like Johnny Depp anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a balance for me if dating.

Decent looks and decent personality.

Gail Platt has a GREAT personality but I wouldn't have a relationship with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gail platt?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If attractiveness was purely based on the physical image, then yes, I'm sure a change of appearance could alter things. It's pretty shallow though. ill put it this way tho! A woman might dislike her appearance and her personality might reflect that! She does something about it and her real personality comes flooding to the fore! That can also happen IMO "

My fair lady

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"There has to be a balance for me if dating.

Decent looks and decent personality.

Gail Platt has a GREAT personality but I wouldn't have a relationship with her. "

I can see standards aren't a big thing with you if that's the definition of a great personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be a balance for me if dating.

Decent looks and decent personality.

Gail Platt has a GREAT personality but I wouldn't have a relationship with her.

I can see standards aren't a big thing with you if that's the definition of a great personality! "

I've standards, she's a great personality our Gail Platt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There has to be a balance for me if dating.

Decent looks and decent personality.

Gail Platt has a GREAT personality but I wouldn't have a relationship with her.

I can see standards aren't a big thing with you if that's the definition of a great personality! "

michael somehow I'd say you wouldn't refuse her

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"There has to be a balance for me if dating.

Decent looks and decent personality.

Gail Platt has a GREAT personality but I wouldn't have a relationship with her.

I can see standards aren't a big thing with you if that's the definition of a great personality! michael somehow I'd say you wouldn't refuse her "

Is she not just about the most irritating character on tv at the moment?

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"I would have to be attracted to the person with looks and personality.

Im not. Going to date someone who looks like

Johnny Depp with a personality of a wet fish.

That can't hold down s conversation or make me laugh.

But im certainly not going out with someone

that spends way to much time in front of the mirror either.

Personally I wouldn't go near a woman that looked like Johnny Depp anyway "

I wouldn't refuse....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be a balance for me if dating.

Decent looks and decent personality.

Gail Platt has a GREAT personality but I wouldn't have a relationship with her.

I can see standards aren't a big thing with you if that's the definition of a great personality!

I've standards, she's a great personality our Gail Platt"

Mr69: It's just 'our Gail'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there's nowt attractive 'baht our Gail, did tha not see them E.T. pics ont' interweb?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be a balance for me if dating.

Decent looks and decent personality.

Gail Platt has a GREAT personality but I wouldn't have a relationship with her. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Glasses give me the horn!"

Ms Slut and I both wear glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah Glasses are in atm.

Cute Glasses/Hair Up

Cute.... is better than sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this???

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

Does excessive beer help?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would have to fancy them to have a sex with

them would not and could not if no attraction there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? "

The last time I saw this question here World War III started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? "

wouldnt hav sex with anyone I didnt fancy ... rather go home and have a wank lol dont agree with the "a ride is a ride" philosophy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? "

as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? "

I don't think you can ask that as a straight question because you've usually seen personal pics of the person before having sex with them, which can definitely help with a 'yes' decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her"

well il b honest im a bit shallow I have to be attracted to them ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her

well il b honest im a bit shallow I have to be attracted to them ..."

i don't think I could adopt a very fussy attitude towords physical attraction on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah Glasses are in atm.

Cute Glasses/Hair Up

Cute.... is better than sexy "

Do i have yo wear my hair up next time so?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her

well il b honest im a bit shallow I have to be attracted to them ...i don't think I could adopt a very fussy attitude towords physical attraction on here "

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well I wouldnt drop my standards/ type of woman I wanna meet just cus im in here ...

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"I'll say it as it is! A woman might be overweight and have a bad appearance in your eyes! She changes her lifestyle, her diet and physical lifestyle and her appearance changes hence in your eyes she might go from not attractive to the opposite extreme! "

If this was a bad chick flick she wud tell u where to go and go for the guy that liked her wen she was overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her

well il b honest im a bit shallow I have to be attracted to them ...i don't think I could adopt a very fussy attitude towords physical attraction on here

.

well I wouldnt drop my standards/ type of woman I wanna meet just cus im in here ..."

I didn't ask it to start a war.

I just wondered, as I get some messages from guys, we chat a bit then they ask for a meet. I ask for a face pic and they don't...so it seems to me at times that I just need to have the 'Pulse Factor' which doesn't sit well with me at all. Maybe that has made me even more fussy with who I mean as I do need to feel attracted to the guy.....personality and chat first obviously but I will be honest and say he does need to appeal to my taste in looks as I should also need to appeal to his as well......and there does need to be some chemistry between us as well.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her

well il b honest im a bit shallow I have to be attracted to them ...i don't think I could adopt a very fussy attitude towords physical attraction on here

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well I wouldnt drop my standards/ type of woman I wanna meet just cus im in here ...

I didn't ask it to start a war.

I just wondered, as I get some messages from guys, we chat a bit then they ask for a meet. I ask for a face pic and they don't...so it seems to me at times that I just need to have the 'Pulse Factor' which doesn't sit well with me at all. Maybe that has made me even more fussy with who I mean as I do need to feel attracted to the guy.....personality and chat first obviously but I will be honest and say he does need to appeal to my taste in looks as I should also need to appeal to his as well......and there does need to be some chemistry between us as well.

"

Maybe the interaction with you online is enough for most men to be attracted to you? I wouldn't necessarily need to see what someone looks like to know whether or not I'd be prepared to meet them, and its not just the "pulse" factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her

well il b honest im a bit shallow I have to be attracted to them ...i don't think I could adopt a very fussy attitude towords physical attraction on here

.

well I wouldnt drop my standards/ type of woman I wanna meet just cus im in here ...

I didn't ask it to start a war.

I just wondered, as I get some messages from guys, we chat a bit then they ask for a meet. I ask for a face pic and they don't...so it seems to me at times that I just need to have the 'Pulse Factor' which doesn't sit well with me at all. Maybe that has made me even more fussy with who I mean as I do need to feel attracted to the guy.....personality and chat first obviously but I will be honest and say he does need to appeal to my taste in looks as I should also need to appeal to his as well......and there does need to be some chemistry between us as well.

Maybe the interaction with you online is enough for most men to be attracted to you? I wouldn't necessarily need to see what someone looks like to know whether or not I'd be prepared to meet them, and its not just the "pulse" factor. "

id be diffsrebt to that ... I could get on amazingly with someone but if I didnt find then attractive to look at sexual encounter is off the cards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her

well il b honest im a bit shallow I have to be attracted to them ...i don't think I could adopt a very fussy attitude towords physical attraction on here

.

well I wouldnt drop my standards/ type of woman I wanna meet just cus im in here ...

I didn't ask it to start a war.

I just wondered, as I get some messages from guys, we chat a bit then they ask for a meet. I ask for a face pic and they don't...so it seems to me at times that I just need to have the 'Pulse Factor' which doesn't sit well with me at all. Maybe that has made me even more fussy with who I mean as I do need to feel attracted to the guy.....personality and chat first obviously but I will be honest and say he does need to appeal to my taste in looks as I should also need to appeal to his as well......and there does need to be some chemistry between us as well.

Maybe the interaction with you online is enough for most men to be attracted to you? I wouldn't necessarily need to see what someone looks like to know whether or not I'd be prepared to meet them, and its not just the "pulse" factor. "

That's a fair point Michael. I have chatted to a few guys on here and got on great but when we met for a coffee meet there was no chemistry at all....we were mates but I just didn't want to take it further. Maybe its me.....and I am looking for too much in a meet.....but I cannot f*ck a guy that I am only attracted to personality wise if there is no chemistry as I have to want his body as well as his wit!.!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah bollix!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah bollix! "

whats wrong???

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I use be an ugly cunt in school I got alri lookin as I got older and my hair grew after my ma cut it and had it like someone put a bowl on it and cut around it ha and then I discovered make up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well il just say ive got better lookin as I got older lol thank god acne has come and gone lol

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"well il just say ive got better lookin as I got older lol thank god acne has come and gone lol "
I was lucky never to suffer with that I could only imagine how bad I would of been then haha

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"I use be an ugly cunt in school I got alri lookin as I got older and my hair grew after my ma cut it and had it like someone put a bowl on it and cut around it ha and then I discovered make up "

Is that Mr. or Mrs talking ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have gone by the makeup stage....its polyfila now! lmao

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"I have gone by the makeup stage....its polyfila now! lmao "

No way lol,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have gone by the makeup stage....its polyfila now! lmao

No way lol,,,"

Thank you Tom....all I am saying is its a good job my son is a builder and gets stuff cost price!

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"I use be an ugly cunt in school I got alri lookin as I got older and my hair grew after my ma cut it and had it like someone put a bowl on it and cut around it ha and then I discovered make up

Is that Mr. or Mrs talking ? "

hahaha my fella doesn come on here I'd be gettin a bit worried if he said anything like that I'll be hidin my make up bag ha

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"I have gone by the makeup stage....its polyfila now! lmao "
hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her

well il b honest im a bit shallow I have to be attracted to them ...i don't think I could adopt a very fussy attitude towords physical attraction on here

.

well I wouldnt drop my standards/ type of woman I wanna meet just cus im in here ...

I didn't ask it to start a war.

I just wondered, as I get some messages from guys, we chat a bit then they ask for a meet. I ask for a face pic and they don't...so it seems to me at times that I just need to have the 'Pulse Factor' which doesn't sit well with me at all. Maybe that has made me even more fussy with who I mean as I do need to feel attracted to the guy.....personality and chat first obviously but I will be honest and say he does need to appeal to my taste in looks as I should also need to appeal to his as well......and there does need to be some chemistry between us as well.

Maybe the interaction with you online is enough for most men to be attracted to you? I wouldn't necessarily need to see what someone looks like to know whether or not I'd be prepared to meet them, and its not just the "pulse" factor.

That's a fair point Michael. I have chatted to a few guys on here and got on great but when we met for a coffee meet there was no chemistry at all....we were mates but I just didn't want to take it further. Maybe its me.....and I am looking for too much in a meet.....but I cannot f*ck a guy that I am only attracted to personality wise if there is no chemistry as I have to want his body as well as his wit!.! "

But chemistry might not be that he's wow drop dead gorgeous, it's just something about him or her that you think yep I'd have sex with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask a question I have been wanting to ask for ages...?

The guys and girls you meet on fab for sex.....would really fancy then and chat them up if you met them in a 'real life' night out?

opps Am I bad asking this??? as long as she's ok looking to me! I don't need this huge physical attraction to have sex with her

well il b honest im a bit shallow I have to be attracted to them ...i don't think I could adopt a very fussy attitude towords physical attraction on here

.

well I wouldnt drop my standards/ type of woman I wanna meet just cus im in here ...

I didn't ask it to start a war.

I just wondered, as I get some messages from guys, we chat a bit then they ask for a meet. I ask for a face pic and they don't...so it seems to me at times that I just need to have the 'Pulse Factor' which doesn't sit well with me at all. Maybe that has made me even more fussy with who I mean as I do need to feel attracted to the guy.....personality and chat first obviously but I will be honest and say he does need to appeal to my taste in looks as I should also need to appeal to his as well......and there does need to be some chemistry between us as well.

Maybe the interaction with you online is enough for most men to be attracted to you? I wouldn't necessarily need to see what someone looks like to know whether or not I'd be prepared to meet them, and its not just the "pulse" factor.

That's a fair point Michael. I have chatted to a few guys on here and got on great but when we met for a coffee meet there was no chemistry at all....we were mates but I just didn't want to take it further. Maybe its me.....and I am looking for too much in a meet.....but I cannot f*ck a guy that I am only attracted to personality wise if there is no chemistry as I have to want his body as well as his wit!.!

But chemistry might not be that he's wow drop dead gorgeous, it's just something about him or her that you think yep I'd have sex with you

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That's it exactly.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well il just say ive got better lookin as I got older lol thank god acne has come and gone lol I was lucky never to suffer with that I could only imagine how bad I would of been then haha "

twas a night are take my wors for it ... BUT iys great when the girls that used to take the piss chase after u now and u can say ..."nah ir not for me" lol

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"well il just say ive got better lookin as I got older lol thank god acne has come and gone lol I was lucky never to suffer with that I could only imagine how bad I would of been then haha

twas a night are take my wors for it ... BUT iys great when the girls that used to take the piss chase after u now and u can say ..."nah ir not for me" lol"

haha ye say it feels great I love the feelin of throwin somethin back in someone's face after they piss me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abd Ali don't think that makes you fussy just ensures that the sex has a better chance of being good

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Ah bollix!

whats wrong???"

I don't have a body!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah bollix!

whats wrong???

I don't have a body! "

You do Michael...I have seen it!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Ah bollix!

whats wrong???

I don't have a body!

You do Michael...I have seen it! "

was that you peeping in my window?

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry


"Yeah Glasses are in atm.

Cute Glasses/Hair Up

Cute.... is better than sexy

Do i have yo wear my hair up next time so????? "

No annie your beautiful as you are

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Ah bollix!

whats wrong???

I don't have a body! "

If u were just a head how are u typing??

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Ah bollix!

whats wrong???

I don't have a body!

If u were just a head how are u typing??"

thought control?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah Glasses are in atm.

Cute Glasses/Hair Up

Cute.... is better than sexy

Do i have yo wear my hair up next time so?????

No annie your beautiful as you are"

Awh...shucks..lol xxx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah bollix!

whats wrong???

I don't have a body!

You do Michael...I have seen it!

was that you peeping in my window? "

lmao....no you sent me a full frontal shot of you Michael

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