FabSwingers.com forum: tried all i can :-(

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I'm Jo I have tried all I can but I think because I'm in a totally sex less marriage that no one will even try to get to know me, I took advice here before but to no avail , please someone tell me where I'm going wrong ???

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Tough enough for single guys tougher again for married guys

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Tough enough for single guys tougher again for married guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tough enough for single guys tougher again for married guys"
great help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What put me off Ur profile is that u go into too much detail about Ur personal life, sounds like u want pity.

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What put me off Ur profile is that u go into too much detail about Ur personal life, sounds like u want pity.

Just my opinion

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on the contrary previously I was told to be honest ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye and pity is noting people on this want to here. As your man said it's hard enough being a single fella on this never mind married one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well what ur profile says is way too much info regarding your private life no need to go into detail its not a job interview i no guys who are married and have met women on here which is fine to them but u profile will deffo turn alot of people off.... personally we do not 110% meet any married or attched men and women for that matter but thats how we work... but deffo ur profile has too much info about ur personal life gonna be honest here but people dont care all they want is fun and not life storys thats just the truth im not being harsh but if u asked for help im trying too give it too ya i wish u well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats the 1st time I've looked at Ur profile, i wld prefer to read more about u and the kind of guy u r not bout Ur wife and kids.

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ye and pity is noting people on this want to here. As your man said it's hard enough being a single fella on this never mind married one. "
not looking for pity off anyone I have a great life as regard family I'm available to talk to at any time but as far as I can see ladies just don't want a married man even though my wife is in agreement ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, you will have a tougher time on here being married.

But there are some attached women on here who prefer meeting other attached men.

But I agree, way too much info about your wife, kids and your relationship with your wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ye and pity is noting people on this want to here. As your man said it's hard enough being a single fella on this never mind married one. not looking for pity off anyone I have a great life as regard family I'm available to talk to at any time but as far as I can see ladies just don't want a married man even though my wife is in agreement ???"

Ye but your on a site that is only about you if your wife is in agreement just mention it don't go on about your kids

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Tough enough for single guys tougher again for married guys great help "

I wasnt tryin to be smart

I was givin my opinion on what u asked

Maybe its ur attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thats the 1st time I've looked at Ur profile, i wld prefer to read more about u and the kind of guy u r not bout Ur wife and kids.

Just my opinion"
hi I'm Jo I'm 38 luv going out for crack really enjoy fun ( as in every day laughter )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sory again, but one forum people said just b honest n say what is going on at home, Sory for being to honest, so should I tell lies ?? Coz that's not me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be honest about being married doesn't mean you have to give all other details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sory again, but one forum people said just b honest n say what is going on at home, Sory for being to honest, so should I tell lies ?? Coz that's not me !"

be honest eg ur married no one wants to ur life with ur kids an wife after that talk about u no one eles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have a look at about 10 other guys profiles and u will get a much better idea on what to write up no one cant tell u what to say about you only u can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What put me off Ur profile is that u go into too much detail about Ur personal life, sounds like u want pity.

Just my opinion

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agree ! sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mention your married ye but say why your on this and what you want to get from it. Like it is a bit of a turn of for women to see what you said. Like I'm only trying to help you out but it is hard enough for single males to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"have a look at about 10 other guys profiles and u will get a much better idea on what to write up no one cant tell u what to say about you only u can "
I agree with you but I was just trying to be honest, maby I should have told lies from the start ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mention your married ye but say why your on this and what you want to get from it. Like it is a bit of a turn of for women to see what you said. Like I'm only trying to help you out but it is hard enough for single males to get a meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have a look at about 10 other guys profiles and u will get a much better idea on what to write up no one cant tell u what to say about you only u can I agree with you but I was just trying to be honest, maby I should have told lies from the start ???"

lies why would u lie ur married and thats all u need to say no more than that how u telling lies by saying ur married cause u are married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok well heres my tuppence worth. Same as they say..way too much about your family and as your on here...some will say thats hypocritical?

And i hope you dont mind me saying, but some people might find the spelling mistakes to be offputting? Good luck in whatever you decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lies why would u lie ur married and thats all u need to say no more than that how u telling lies by saying ur married cause u are married "
Sory I know u r right x but others here told me to b totally honest n I thought I was, silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like your not even lieing if you don't mention your kids and all that's not lieing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok well heres my tuppence worth. Same as they say..way too much about your family and as your on here...some will say thats hypocritical?

And i hope you dont mind me saying, but some people might find the spelling mistakes to be offputting? Good luck in whatever you decide

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ha ha I detest this fone

it does it the whole time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take a look at niallos profile look at his info thats kind of what ur aiming for.. and just a hi is deffo not going to work u need to connect with people how on earth is people ment to connect to just hi

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

The odds arent in your favour for regular meets

for one your over 40,married n single guy

The facts of swinging are it will be harder for u

That plus ur attitude seems all wrong

Whiney and questioning ppls advice which u asked for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"take a look at niallos profile look at his info thats kind of what ur aiming for.. and just a hi is deffo not going to work u need to connect with people how on earth is people ment to connect to just hi "

Ye one liners aren't the Way ford mate

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Niallo ur on here a wet week and ur already being held up as the standard of profile to aim for

Way to go dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Niallo ur on here a wet week and ur already being held up as the standard of profile to aim for

Way to go dude

Ahh was on this before so know What to write haha but thanks any way bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Niallo ur on here a wet week and ur already being held up as the standard of profile to aim for

Way to go dude

Ahh was on this before so know What to write haha but thanks any way bud

thumbs up i have to say dont get lost coming to tramore now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Niallo ur on here a wet week and ur already being held up as the standard of profile to aim for

Way to go dude

Ahh was on this before so know What to write haha but thanks any way bud

thumbs up i have to say dont get lost coming to tramore now lol"

Haha I'll try not to lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ye one liners aren't the Way ford mate"
I'm not a whingy person, I only deleted my text earlier, ( after I was told it wasn't about me ) just wish I could meet someone n let them decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Niallo ur on here a wet week and ur already being held up as the standard of profile to aim for

Way to go dude

Ah no Hal! Id go for your profile every time! Drool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Niallo ur on here a wet week and ur already being held up as the standard of profile to aim for

Way to go dude

Ah no Hal! Id go for your profile every time! Drool!

Haha who's profile haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read ur profile before u deleted the sob story and no "hi" is even worse. im married also so im not judging u here. im gonna tell u something about ur only public pic....its crap..!!! At least put up ur bum. nobody cares that ur in a tux its the body that we want to see.also your attitude is pretty bad.you asked for opinions on a public forum and then slated the ones that gave you what u wanted. If i were you i would delete my profile and start again with a new name and a better attutide coz u gonna get fuck all after this thread...!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read ur profile before u deleted the sob story and no "hi" is even worse. im married also so im not judging u here. im gonna tell u something about ur only public pic....its crap..!!! At least put up ur bum. nobody cares that ur in a tux its the body that we want to see.also your attitude is pretty bad.you asked for opinions on a public forum and then slated the ones that gave you what u wanted. If i were you i would delete my profile and start again with a new name and a better attutide coz u gonna get fuck all after this thread...!!!!"

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GroupGathering

Bring it in folks, seems like this guy needs a break (as in a party)

Let him network etc. ...

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