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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have this theory that people who work with the public (nurses, guards, hairdressers, teachers, people in sales/marketing, cab drivers and so on!) are such more successful at getting meets due to the fact that they are better able to talk to people (and basically aren't all weird and quiet)

(I also heard someone say recently that in order to be well balanced socially you need to speak to at least 8 other adults per day lol)

Just a theory, comments please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have this theory that people who work with the public (nurses, guards, hairdressers, teachers, people in sales/marketing, cab drivers and so on!) are such more successful at getting meets due to the fact that they are better able to talk to people (and basically aren't all weird and quiet)

(I also heard someone say recently that in order to be well balanced socially you need to speak to at least 8 other adults per day lol)

Just a theory, comments please "

hmm,kinda agree,i work with the public but i wudnt say i was really out going ,i can be a bit shy with ppl i dont know,and yes i get lots of offers for meets but thts only cos im female with a pulse lol

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"So I have this theory that people who work with the public (nurses, guards, hairdressers, teachers, people in sales/marketing, cab drivers and so on!) are such more successful at getting meets due to the fact that they are better able to talk to people (and basically aren't all weird and quiet)

(I also heard someone say recently that in order to be well balanced socially you need to speak to at least 8 other adults per day lol)

Just a theory, comments please "

my 8 other personalities and I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fact! !!!!!!!

;)

GroupBonding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I have this theory that people who work with the public (nurses, guards, hairdressers, teachers, people in sales/marketing, cab drivers and so on!) are such more successful at getting meets due to the fact that they are better able to talk to people (and basically aren't all weird and quiet)

(I also heard someone say recently that in order to be well balanced socially you need to speak to at least 8 other adults per day lol)

Just a theory, comments please

my 8 other personalities and I agree "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I have this theory that people who work with the public (nurses, guards, hairdressers, teachers, people in sales/marketing, cab drivers and so on!) are such more successful at getting meets due to the fact that they are better able to talk to people (and basically aren't all weird and quiet)

(I also heard someone say recently that in order to be well balanced socially you need to speak to at least 8 other adults per day lol)

Just a theory, comments please

hmm,kinda agree,i work with the public but i wudnt say i was really out going ,i can be a bit shy with ppl i dont know,and yes i get lots of offers for meets but thts only cos im female with a pulse lol "

a babe with a pulse!! But yeah I hear ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to get a rapport going via messaging as most women are inundated with mail and are understandably spoiled by choice but if you get a chat going then yes confidence and familiarity can be a help and dealing with public regularly is a bonus for chatters

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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

I work with the public was a taxi driver as well slowly getting meets now maybe there is hope for me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I work with kids but get ALOT of interaction with Parents/Adults/Colleagues so that's why I do okish here.

Me then thinking I kinda cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting theory - probably a lot of truth in it too. If you are extroverted by nature and well used to chatting to people, you are less likely to feel the 'distance' between people and come across as shy or whatever. I think you're gonna be more successful swinging if you are naturally extroverted and can make people feel safe, at ease and make them laugh too...

but yeah, you are onto something there highlighting those kinds of professions !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I work with kids but get ALOT of interaction with Parents/Adults/Colleagues so that's why I do okish here.

Me then thinking I kinda cool "

woops sorry to burst that bubble dtg lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting theory - probably a lot of truth in it too. If you are extroverted by nature and well used to chatting to people, you are less likely to feel the 'distance' between people and come across as shy or whatever. I think you're gonna be more successful swinging if you are naturally extroverted and can make people feel safe, at ease and make them laugh too...

but yeah, you are onto something there highlighting those kinds of professions !"

Chatterboxes will do well in moat situations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting theory - probably a lot of truth in it too. If you are extroverted by nature and well used to chatting to people, you are less likely to feel the 'distance' between people and come across as shy or whatever. I think you're gonna be more successful swinging if you are naturally extroverted and can make people feel safe, at ease and make them laugh too...

but yeah, you are onto something there highlighting those kinds of professions !"

I have read really appealing profiles in the past too, only to find out later the person works in marketing or sales..

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i totally agree. i used to work in the public sector but im still a shy person tho

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I work on my own and live in the middle of nowhere on my own.I often go days without speaking face to face with someone.apart from my kids and dog

And im kinda shy wen I meet ppl first

Do ok on the meet side of things tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have this theory that people who work with the public (nurses, guards, hairdressers, teachers, people in sales/marketing, cab drivers and so on!) are such more successful at getting meets due to the fact that they are better able to talk to people (and basically aren't all weird and quiet)

(I also heard someone say recently that in order to be well balanced socially you need to speak to at least 8 other adults per day lol)

Just a theory, comments please "

Maybe also its the fact that shifts/hours vary so more time to play!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

It's personality and attitude. I don't fit into any of the professions and I do ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career."

or get out more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have this theory that people who work with the public (nurses, guards, hairdressers, teachers, people in sales/marketing, cab drivers and so on!) are such more successful at getting meets due to the fact that they are better able to talk to people (and basically aren't all weird and quiet)

(I also heard someone say recently that in order to be well balanced socially you need to speak to at least 8 other adults per day lol)

Just a theory, comments please "

well now i have my doubts about this theory, i have to converse with at least 30 ppl during the day and i can honestly say that i am fast becoming a manic hater of the human race, i long for a whole week where i don't want to meet another person. Its actually got to the point where i am finding the four walls of my house a sanctuary

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By *requent VisitorMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Would def agree to a certain extent as am in that list and sector I am in it relies on me being very approachable but then know farmers who work round animals all day that have more banter than anyone put together lol! so not always black and white but yes agree helps!.

Some people can be very chatty though in a work related role and clam up when chat to the opposite sex etc, nerves what where they ever created for!.

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

I'm fecked so.talk to little kids and baby all day lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I have this theory that people who work with the public (nurses, guards, hairdressers, teachers, people in sales/marketing, cab drivers and so on!) are such more successful at getting meets due to the fact that they are better able to talk to people (and basically aren't all weird and quiet)

(I also heard someone say recently that in order to be well balanced socially you need to speak to at least 8 other adults per day lol)

Just a theory, comments please

well now i have my doubts about this theory, i have to converse with at least 30 ppl during the day and i can honestly say that i am fast becoming a manic hater of the human race, i long for a whole week where i don't want to meet another person. Its actually got to the point where i am finding the four walls of my house a sanctuary "

I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deal with the public everyday it defo helps when it comes to meets etc but then again there are some strange people but its good to talk

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

or get out more lol "

Take me out miss noire? Oh and I don't mean in mafia terminology

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

or get out more lol

Take me out miss noire? Oh and I don't mean in mafia terminology"

an offer I could hardly refuse, what ya at tomorrow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have this theory that people who work with the public (nurses, guards, hairdressers, teachers, people in sales/marketing, cab drivers and so on!) are such more successful at getting meets due to the fact that they are better able to talk to people (and basically aren't all weird and quiet)

(I also heard someone say recently that in order to be well balanced socially you need to speak to at least 8 other adults per day lol)

Just a theory, comments please

well now i have my doubts about this theory, i have to converse with at least 30 ppl during the day and i can honestly say that i am fast becoming a manic hater of the human race, i long for a whole week where i don't want to meet another person. Its actually got to the point where i am finding the four walls of my house a sanctuary "

oh here we go

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

or get out more lol

Take me out miss noire? Oh and I don't mean in mafia terminology

an offer I could hardly refuse, what ya at tomorrow lol "

Having u take me out if you will or we could just get room and stay in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not much hope for me! spend my time at sea,talking to seagulls & fish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

or get out more lol

Take me out miss noire? Oh and I don't mean in mafia terminology

an offer I could hardly refuse, what ya at tomorrow lol

Having u take me out if you will or we could just get room and stay in. "

I vote for the second option.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not much hope for me! spend my time at sea,talking to seagulls & fish "

maybe... if you tried talking to them..

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

or get out more lol

Take me out miss noire? Oh and I don't mean in mafia terminology

an offer I could hardly refuse, what ya at tomorrow lol

Having u take me out if you will or we could just get room and stay in.

I vote for the second option..... "

Deal miss noire... See you tomorrow... I'll bring me pussy pump lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

or get out more lol

Take me out miss noire? Oh and I don't mean in mafia terminology

an offer I could hardly refuse, what ya at tomorrow lol

Having u take me out if you will or we could just get room and stay in.

I vote for the second option.....

Deal miss noire... See you tomorrow... I'll bring me pussy pump lol"

happy days

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

or get out more lol

Take me out miss noire? Oh and I don't mean in mafia terminology

an offer I could hardly refuse, what ya at tomorrow lol

Having u take me out if you will or we could just get room and stay in.

I vote for the second option.....

Deal miss noire... See you tomorrow... I'll bring me pussy pump lol

happy days"

So we agreed tomorrow..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

or get out more lol

Take me out miss noire? Oh and I don't mean in mafia terminology

an offer I could hardly refuse, what ya at tomorrow lol

Having u take me out if you will or we could just get room and stay in.

I vote for the second option.....

Deal miss noire... See you tomorrow... I'll bring me pussy pump lol

happy days

So we agreed tomorrow.."

yes! are you sure you don't deal with the public Llong, you're very good at this

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"Na. I'm a techie nerd . Maybe I need change career.

or get out more lol

Take me out miss noire? Oh and I don't mean in mafia terminology

an offer I could hardly refuse, what ya at tomorrow lol

Having u take me out if you will or we could just get room and stay in.

I vote for the second option.....

Deal miss noire... See you tomorrow... I'll bring me pussy pump lol

happy days

So we agreed tomorrow..

yes! are you sure you don't deal with the public Llong, you're very good at this "

Cool noire mail me we sort details.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deal with a lot of people face to face every day at work and apparently people perceive me as bubbly. So sometimes I actually quite enjoy not talking to anyone in my free time.

With new people I can be a bit awkward, especially if there's not much in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deal with a lot of people face to face every day at work and apparently people perceive me as bubbly. So sometimes I actually quite enjoy not talking to anyone in my free time.

With new people I can be a bit awkward, especially if there's not much in common. "
Well meeting someone from off here,has some thing in common!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I deal with a lot of people face to face every day at work and apparently people perceive me as bubbly. So sometimes I actually quite enjoy not talking to anyone in my free time.

With new people I can be a bit awkward, especially if there's not much in common. Well meeting someone from off here,has some thing in common!!! "

fact!

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