FabSwingers.com forum: At a loss!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just wanted to ask people here would they have done something different because im at a loss!!

A situation unfolded where a guy from here told a woman a pack of lies i haven been in the same situation by same person and found out proceeded to tell this lady about all the lies it was very upsetting and obviously heartbreaking but i taught she deserved to know. We were speaking and she seemed very nice but then out of the blue yesterday she blocked me here and sent me a text sayin she hadnt spoke to him n didnt want to n wanted me and him to never contact her again or she would block my phone number its like she blames me, im at a total loss because in the long run i was fooled too by this person and if roles were reversed id be thankful to someone telling me

would ye have done anything different or would u react the same as she did?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lesson learned.. Keep out of it in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people react in funny ways especially on forums like this paranoia plays a big part. Sorry to hear this. I wouldn't take it too personally

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Do what I do, first sign of drama or politics I just move on and focus on the ppl I kno to be genuine. And stable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I feel horrible about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do what I do, first sign of drama or politics I just move on and focus on the ppl I kno to be genuine. And stable"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm in my experience, ur better off to keep quite and let them find out for themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think i will do in the future it just that in this circumstance it was little bit more complicated and involved me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butterfly I think you were right.

IT'S ESSENTIAL THAT WOMEN NETWORK WITG EACH OTHER HERE. LOOK AFTER EACH OTHER....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MYOB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"MYOB"

As she stated she is involved personally!!!

Shudda went to specsavers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Butterfly I think you were right.

IT'S ESSENTIAL THAT WOMEN NETWORK WITG EACH OTHER HERE. LOOK AFTER EACH OTHER....

I totally agree!!!! With looking after each other if there's danger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"MYOB"

What's that? Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"MYOB

What's that? Sorry"

Mind your own business

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Mind your own business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's he telling to mibd his own bees wax?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feed back thats what i taught i was doing but i guess she didnt see it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She seems like one of those women who never listens/always goes for the rebel and gets told "I told you so" alot.

I've a sister like her, never listens to any helpful advice. But we still have to

her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i made and learned from that mistake years ago....keep out. you kst get blamed in the end...sorry ur upset tho. you thought you were doing right..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless holding back what you know could effect the safety of others I'd let them learn the hard way.

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

"I just wanted to ask people here would they have done something different because im at a loss!!

would ye have done anything different or would u react the same as she did?????"

The Lord works in mysterious ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think i will do in the future it just that in this circumstance it was little bit more complicated and involved me personally "
I got dragged into this. Mess too best thing for all involved is learn the lesson and concentrate on their own lives

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didnt mean to cause any problems i only told wat i knew because i didnt want anyone else hurt and end up in my situation and i knew he was lien i thaught ye would appriciate the information obviously it was hard to hear he was a good lier but i didnt think ye would get mad at me over it would ye have perfered not to know? I taught i was doing the right thing i wish someone had told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one blaming you did what you thought was right

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Chances are, like you, she'll figure out he's lying eventually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chances are, like you, she'll figure out he's lying eventually... "

That's the problem with lies t het are eventually found out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Il be stay out of it next time

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

If only it wasn't against forum rules I'd post some great lies I've been messaged on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this has happened, this place can be terrible sometimes, theres some real unscrupulous ones who think nothing of causing shit for others, I guess if this lady has blocked you it could be more to do with the fact she wants to distance herself from the whole situation, as harsh as it may seem I can understand why she would do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's exactly what's was thinking. She's hurting and wants to distance herself

You thought you were doing her a favour. Don't feel bad anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's exactly what's was thinking. She's hurting and wants to distance herself

You thought you were doing her a favour. Don't feel bad anymore

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yolo ur boobage looks mighty fine in ur avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh thank you cc

You're revealing all these days but I miss your mighty fine ass avatar bouncing back at me every time I read the forums heehee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh thank you cc

You're revealing all these days but I miss your mighty fine ass avatar bouncing back at me every time I read the forums heehee

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lol ah well im workin on the ass so will update a pic soon...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh thank you cc

You're revealing all these days but I miss your mighty fine ass avatar bouncing back at me every time I read the forums heehee

lol ah well im workin on the ass so will update a pic soon...lol "

Oh yes plz!!

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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

yolo ur boobage looks mighty fine in ur avatar

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

time everyone learned the messenger always gets shot.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yolo ur boobage looks mighty fine in ur avatar

You should see it in stereo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yolo ur boobage looks mighty fine in ur avatar

You should see it in stereo!!

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maybe i will one day

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

yolo ur boobage looks mighty fine in ur avatar

You should see it in stereo!!

"
I have to say yolo has a fine pair of knockers in that pic too.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

yolo ur boobage looks mighty fine in ur avatar

You should see it in stereo!!

I have to say yolo has a fine pair of knockers in that pic too.

have to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yolo ur boobage looks mighty fine in ur avatar

You should see it in stereo!!

I have to say yolo has a fine pair of knockers in that pic too.

That subtle tease!...

Leaving a little something to the imagination!! Mmmmm .....

(Sorry, am I drooling again??)

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

yolo ur boobage looks mighty fine in ur avatar

You should see it in stereo!!

I have to say yolo has a fine pair of knockers in that pic too.

That subtle tease!...

Leaving a little something to the imagination!! Mmmmm .....

(Sorry, am I drooling again??)

"
stop drooling fooey im telling in you.

YOLO fooey is having a look at your boobage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hhhmmm instead of my ears burning my boobs have been swelling

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Hhhmmm instead of my ears burning my boobs have been swelling

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snd swelling they are !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lesson learned.. Keep out of it in future

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Anyhoos congrats on the pregnancy butterfly

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