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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So if you met someone after chatting a lot and even talking about what you would do in a dirty way, what would you do if when you met you didn't fancy them?

How would you say you didn't want more than just a beer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would say....this is just a get to meet u date..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet to be in that position!

Bad judgement call on your behalf more so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yet to be in that position!

Bad judgement call on your behalf more so"
why so???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

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i dont agree...

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I have never had that happen I worried thinking what if they don't like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

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note to self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope sorry guys until u meet iv had guys who I think great to chat to but when time comes u meet u want to run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

note to self"
meaning????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope sorry guys until u meet iv had guys who I think great to chat to but when time comes u meet u want to run

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exactly...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope sorry guys until u meet iv had guys who I think great to chat to but when time comes u meet u want to run

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agree 100%...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope sorry guys until u meet iv had guys who I think great to chat to but when time comes u meet u want to run

Yep, that true... I take my previous comment back!!

I have been in that situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

note to selfmeaning????"
that you don't know if you fancy someone until you meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

note to selfmeaning???? that you don't know if you fancy someone until you meet them "
thats for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

note to selfmeaning???? that you don't know if you fancy someone until you meet them thats for sure"
good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope sorry guys until u meet iv had guys who I think great to chat to but when time comes u meet u want to run

Yep, that true... I take my previous comment back!!

I have been in that situation!

That's a different scenario. The original post meant when you're actually at the meat.

IMO if I did that to someone here id feel terrible. Means it was a bad judgment call on my behalf to commit to everything before hand and not walking the walk when on person. UNLESS OF COURSE THERE WAS EXTREME LIES THAT THE OTHER PARTY HAF TOLD PREVIOUSLY-LOOKS ETC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

note to selfmeaning???? that you don't know if you fancy someone until you meet them thats for sure good for you"

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would continue with the meet have the beer and be polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would continue with the meet have the beer and be polite.

And you'd obviously Grouphug the shit out of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope sorry guys until u meet iv had guys who I think great to chat to but when time comes u meet u want to run

Yep, that true... I take my previous comment back!!

I have been in that situation!

That's a different scenario. The original post meant when you're actually at the meat.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I would continue with the meet have the beer and be polite.

And you'd obviously Grouphug the shit out of them

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yep I love hugs so why not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would continue with the meet have the beer and be polite.

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yup...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is hard to determine completely the level of attraction before you meet!

I have been lucky that 2-3 I fancied. But the first one (not from here) was a disaster and trying to politely say thanks but no thanks was really hard.

Sob stories came out and she kept buying extra drinks, funny looking back at it but cringe worthy at the time.

What would you do? You have meet with high expectations of sexual contact but the person just doesn't turn you on.

(Yes I know you shouldn't meet like that but it's just a situation that has happened to one person I have chatted too, treat it as if you meet under those circumstances)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would continue with the meet have the beer and be polite.

Yep, it's always good to be polite!!....

Then change your number....

Cancel your membership....

Disappear!! #poof

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I would continue with the meet have the beer and be polite.

Yep, it's always good to be polite!!....

Then change your number....

Cancel your membership....

Disappear!! #poof

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good it still here fooey and I did not scare u off just yet.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

note to selfmeaning???? that you don't know if you fancy someone until you meet them thats for sure good for you

I think you get a gut feeling for the person long before you meet , be that someone you fancy and want to take it further....or someone you chat to face to face and have a abit of craic !!!!

I've been very fortunate to meet both type's , and still keep in regular contact with.....above all have manners and respect the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would continue with the meet have the beer and be polite.

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would do the same. No need to be rude.be nice and go your own ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

note to selfmeaning???? that you don't know if you fancy someone until you meet them thats for sure good for you

I think you get a gut feeling for the person long before you meet , be that someone you fancy and want to take it further....or someone you chat to face to face and have a abit of craic !!!!

I've been very fortunate to meet both type's , and still keep in regular contact with.....above all have manners and respect the person

totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

note to selfmeaning???? that you don't know if you fancy someone until you meet them thats for sure good for you

I think you get a gut feeling for the person long before you meet , be that someone you fancy and want to take it further....or someone you chat to face to face and have a abit of craic !!!!

I've been very fortunate to meet both type's , and still keep in regular contact with.....above all have manners and respect the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you click on a chatting level doesn't mean the attraction will be physical, a polite lets stay chatting should be acceptable otherwise freedom to choose is compromised if you feel obliged to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is why I have a social meet first with no expectations of fun afterwards

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Nope sorry guys until u meet iv had guys who I think great to chat to but when time comes u meet u want to run

Yep, that true... I take my previous comment back!!

I have been in that situation!

That's a different scenario. The original post meant when you're actually at the meat.

Cant agree with that.attraction is at least partly physical.no amount of pics or camming can show u wat a person is realky like, how they carry themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope sorry guys until u meet iv had guys who I think great to chat to but when time comes u meet u want to run

Yep, that true... I take my previous comment back!!

I have been in that situation!

That's a different scenario. The original post meant when you're actually at the meat.

Cant agree with that.attraction is at least partly physical.no amount of pics or camming can show u wat a person is realky like, how they carry themselves"
thats so true...im so shy and ya would never think it from these forums

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

I think sometimes if your chatting and messaging for ages u become familiar and start to think of them as a sister almost (or brother) and then a meet never happens, so moral of the story is,less mails then meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant agree with that.attraction is at least partly physical.no amount of pics or camming can show u wat a person is realky like, how they carry themselves"

That is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had this problem yet my first meet was very attractive

You all sound decent in the fact you'd be polite to them even though you dont want to take it further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't had this problem yet my first meet was very attractive

You all sound decent in the fact you'd be polite to them even though you dont want to take it further

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im taking notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i would say....this is just a get to meet u date..!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't had this problem yet my first meet was very attractive

You all sound decent in the fact you'd be polite to them even though you dont want to take it further

im taking notes

Aw you have nothing to worry about huni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't had this problem yet my first meet was very attractive

You all sound decent in the fact you'd be polite to them even though you dont want to take it further

im taking notes

I always take notes, the majority of any meets I have had have been posters to the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't had this problem yet my first meet was very attractive

You all sound decent in the fact you'd be polite to them even though you dont want to take it further

im taking notes

I always take notes, the majority of any meets I have had have been posters to the forum"
had to look at mine there.not tooany forumites on my veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't had this problem yet my first meet was very attractive

You all sound decent in the fact you'd be polite to them even though you dont want to take it further

im taking notes

Aw you have nothing to worry about huni

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awww my young padwan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't had this problem yet my first meet was very attractive

You all sound decent in the fact you'd be polite to them even though you dont want to take it further

im taking notes

I always take notes, the majority of any meets I have had have been posters to the forum"

Its the forums that really make people stand out in a good way, but also in a bad way sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

curvy is the ultimate example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"curvy is the ultimate example

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ur date is confirmed huni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't had this problem yet my first meet was very attractive

You all sound decent in the fact you'd be polite to them even though you dont want to take it further

im taking notes

I always take notes, the majority of any meets I have had have been posters to the forumhad to look at mine there.not tooany forumites on my veris."

Lol forgot to add a word most of my recent meets I've met have been forumites not all my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't had this problem yet my first meet was very attractive

You all sound decent in the fact you'd be polite to them even though you dont want to take it further

im taking notes

I always take notes, the majority of any meets I have had have been posters to the forumhad to look at mine there.not tooany forumites on my veris.

Lol forgot to add a word most of my recent meets I've met have been forumites not all my meets

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lol....its the forum stalkers that i met...the ones that read them but dont chat on them

all lovely men tho

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"I think you'd know, if you've been chatting so long, whether you 'fancied' them or not before you met!?

i dont agree...

note to selfmeaning???? that you don't know if you fancy someone until you meet them thats for sure good for you

I think you get a gut feeling for the person long before you meet , be that someone you fancy and want to take it further....or someone you chat to face to face and have a abit of craic !!!!

I've been very fortunate to meet both type's , and still keep in regular contact with.....above all have manners and respect the person

Cya soon then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"curvy is the ultimate example

ur date is confirmed huni

Can't wait huni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's why I prefer meeting for a drink or coffee only first. Because you just never know if that sexual chemistry is going to be there in person.

At least you can be polite and a chat and then you can arrange to meet up again if you want... or not.

It happened to me a few times that I wasn't attracted to them in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that's why I prefer meeting for a drink or coffee only first. Because you just never know if that sexual chemistry is going to be there in person.

At least you can be polite and a chat and then you can arrange to meet up again if you want... or not.

It happened to me a few times that I wasn't attracted to them in person. "

You are definitely not alone in that sweet whispers

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around

"Nope sorry guys until u meet iv had guys who I think great to chat to but when time comes u meet u want to run

Yeah been there done that.

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around

"that's why I prefer meeting for a drink or coffee only first. Because you just never know if that sexual chemistry is going to be there in person.

At least you can be polite and a chat and then you can arrange to meet up again if you want... or not.

It happened to me a few times that I wasn't attracted to them in person. "

Yeah think that's the way to go, you can never tell until you meet someone in person.

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