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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfourntelty my last two planned meets have not gone quite how I had imagined as both had cancelled by way of not getn back in touch how common is this

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Unfourntelty my last two planned meets have not gone quite how I had imagined as both had cancelled by way of not getn back in touch how common is this "

Seems pretty common for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfourntelty my last two planned meets have not gone quite how I had imagined as both had cancelled by way of not getn back in touch how common is this "

I doubt the meet was ACTUALLY planned though alot of the very busy people here say stuff like yeah sure we'll meet next week but they probably mean yeah maybe Im interested but its not setnin stone.

Nothing is ever set in stone in life (especially here) lots of busy networking going on here so much that some find it hard to keep track what was said to who.

Grouphug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you arrange time and place?

Were you actually stood up?

Did they cancel before?

Sorry just confused because it's not clear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I mean stood up as in Everytin planned and set and then a no show

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Randy town oh how original ur in bits Aswell I wudn b so quick ta mouth off , smell of northy off ya"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sigh! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I mean stood up as in Everytin planned and set and then a no show "

Were you talking on phone the day of?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Right did u arrange time and place for the meet? ??? U arrive and they did not show up.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Randy town oh how original ur in bits Aswell I wudn b so quick ta mouth off , smell of northy off ya "

He has been stood up so we will allow him ti talk shit.just once tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being stood up is shit... when was the last time you talked to them? Did you cam/phone with them to make sure they are who they say they are

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Randy town oh how original ur in bits Aswell I wudn b so quick ta mouth off , smell of northy off ya "

Well with lovely etiquette like that , I'm sure there will be more........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Randy town oh how original ur in bits Aswell I wudn b so quick ta mouth off , smell of northy off ya "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do people smell differently if from north , south, east or west

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very common try not to take it to heart i've been stood up 7 times for coffee meets from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs celtic are you on the island of ireland?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mrs celtic are you on the island of ireland?"

I am indeedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its very common try not to take it to heart i've been stood up 7 times for coffee meets from here "

Me too but you just got to move on and strike them from the list

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Never been stood up yet but im sure theres always a first time. If I say I will meet then I will turn up

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Never been stood up yet but im sure theres always a first time. If I say I will meet then I will turn up "

Can't wait to organises meet with you now!

;-)

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never been stood up yet but im sure theres always a first time. If I say I will meet then I will turn up

Can't wait to organises meet with you now!

;-)"

Lol....will you be my first to stand me up then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not been stood up yet but i think i would be very very angry if i was.i dont forget too easily..!!!

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

It is very common . The secret is good communication on the run up the meet . A bit like foreplay , gets the juices flowing and if it really doesn't suit the other person you will be able to tell if they are serious . So don't say I'll meet you next week and expect them to do all the running it's 2 way. If you don't communicate the day before or on the same day then you can be sure the meet is cancelled as they have probably got a better offer . I know it sound like a bit or ground work but it makes for a more successful meet .

Anyone agree with my theory ???

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Never been stood up yet but im sure theres always a first time. If I say I will meet then I will turn up

Can't wait to organises meet with you now!

;-)

Lol....will you be my first to stand me up then "

Lol

I doubt it

I couldn't be so lucky to get a meet with you!

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never been stood up yet but im sure theres always a first time. If I say I will meet then I will turn up

Can't wait to organises meet with you now!

;-)

Lol....will you be my first to stand me up then

Lol

I doubt it

I couldn't be so lucky to get a meet with you!

"

Never say never.....might get drawn in the ss at somepoint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is very common . The secret is good communication on the run up the meet . A bit like foreplay , gets the juices flowing and if it really doesn't suit the other person you will be able to tell if they are serious . So don't say I'll meet you next week and expect them to do all the running it's 2 way. If you don't communicate the day before or on the same day then you can be sure the meet is cancelled as they have probably got a better offer . I know it sound like a bit or ground work but it makes for a more successful meet .

Anyone agree with my theory ??? "

I do and I don't. Most of my shows I have contacted before. Ffs one guy I was texting as he was allegedly Enroute to me and then tried to say he had knocked on my door but go no reply. When called out on it he eventually came clean and said he ha f chickened out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is very common . The secret is good communication on the run up the meet . A bit like foreplay , gets the juices flowing and if it really doesn't suit the other person you will be able to tell if they are serious . So don't say I'll meet you next week and expect them to do all the running it's 2 way. If you don't communicate the day before or on the same day then you can be sure the meet is cancelled as they have probably got a better offer . I know it sound like a bit or ground work but it makes for a more successful meet .

Anyone agree with my theory ???

I do and I don't. Most of my shows I have contacted before. Ffs one guy I was texting as he was allegedly Enroute to me and then tried to say he had knocked on my door but go no reply. When called out on it he eventually came clean and said he ha f chickened out."
id be so angry that he made me look like an idiot.got no reply..!! ggrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mrs celtic are you on the island of ireland?

I am indeedy "
even tho your profiles hidden! who would be crazy enough to stand you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is very common . The secret is good communication on the run up the meet . A bit like foreplay , gets the juices flowing and if it really doesn't suit the other person you will be able to tell if they are serious . So don't say I'll meet you next week and expect them to do all the running it's 2 way. If you don't communicate the day before or on the same day then you can be sure the meet is cancelled as they have probably got a better offer . I know it sound like a bit or ground work but it makes for a more successful meet .

Anyone agree with my theory ???

I do and I don't. Most of my shows I have contacted before. Ffs one guy I was texting as he was allegedly Enroute to me and then tried to say he had knocked on my door but go no reply. When called out on it he eventually came clean and said he ha f chickened out.id be so angry that he made me look like an idiot.got no reply..!! ggrrrr"

Yes he was very quickly told to take long walk off short pier and blocked

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Never been stood up yet but im sure theres always a first time. If I say I will meet then I will turn up "

Ohh you turn up....and turn on

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"It is very common . The secret is good communication on the run up the meet . A bit like foreplay , gets the juices flowing and if it really doesn't suit the other person you will be able to tell if they are serious . So don't say I'll meet you next week and expect them to do all the running it's 2 way. If you don't communicate the day before or on the same day then you can be sure the meet is cancelled as they have probably got a better offer . I know it sound like a bit or ground work but it makes for a more successful meet .

Anyone agree with my theory ??? "

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Never been stood up yet but im sure theres always a first time. If I say I will meet then I will turn up

Can't wait to organises meet with you now!

;-)

Lol....will you be my first to stand me up then

Lol

I doubt it

I couldn't be so lucky to get a meet with you!

Never say never.....might get drawn in the ss at somepoint "

I must start bribing the organisers! Lol

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