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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Intersting point I heard the other day! A woman told me that it's her husband who chooses the men she can meet and not herself! I found this a very strange statement! Any other couples like this? as a female your husband chooses what men you meet?

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south

No I decide as I am the one who needs to have some attraction with them so as long as hubby no prob with them also we can play !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way I would leave him to choose for me lol that just does not make sence to me and it's part of fun choosing and flirting !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I noticed this at some parties, chatting and flirting with a girl and she says I have to go ask hubby if we can play.I didnt.horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed this at some parties, chatting and flirting with a girl and she says I have to go ask hubby if we can play.I didnt.horses for courses"

But it's a couple so she should say that rather than saying "we are playing"

I would always ask not tell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I noticed this at some parties, chatting and flirting with a girl and she says I have to go ask hubby if we can play.I didnt.horses for courses"
if she was part of a couple and that couple play with others seperatly then she had no need to ask her hubby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..x"
so what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet?"
surely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!"
surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him" "
a i know but i don't think anyone in a happy relationship would want that badly to sleep with someone.....if it upset other half

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

For us it has to be both 100% happy or we don't play. Mr Mcjoy would never choose for me, nor I for him.

Miss Mcjoy

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet?"

Exactly no fun if all not happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him" a i know but i don't think anyone in a happy relationship would want that badly to sleep with someone.....if it upset other half"
true but also I think if jealousy is a little part of you then swinging with your partner is threading on eggshells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him" a i know but i don't think anyone in a happy relationship would want that badly to sleep with someone.....if it upset other halftrue but also I think if jealousy is a little part of you then swinging with your partner is threading on eggshells "
wouldn't have to be jealousy though.....to not approve....so to speak...of someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him" a i know but i don't think anyone in a happy relationship would want that badly to sleep with someone.....if it upset other halftrue but also I think if jealousy is a little part of you then swinging with your partner is threading on eggshells wouldn't have to be jealousy though.....to not approve....so to speak...of someone"
id imagine what runs through a lot of male heads is "god he's better looking then me and his fucking my gf/wife, I can't let this happen" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way I would leave him to choose for me lol that just does not make sence to me and it's part of fun choosing and flirting !!!"

I agree I'd be the very same

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

we both choose and have to agree 100% as we prefer bi curious guys. but were the same with cpls we choose to play with, both have to be 100% happy or else no meet.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"I noticed this at some parties, chatting and flirting with a girl and she says I have to go ask hubby if we can play.I didnt.horses for courses"

as we dont play seperatly, if this did happen with either a guy or a girl , we would be calling one another up to the room as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet?"

YES

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

at a party we play sepertly and together so not a issue....but if we are meeting a cpl of course we both have to be 100% happy or it just wont go anywhere.....but i think thats normal thats why we enjoy parties so much

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre

We both decid if ones not happy move on ....no taking one for the team here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The new vincent browne pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking permission and choosing for her,is she like 7 asking can she go play?? Choose....i wouldn't let my hubby chose my dinner for me!!!Let alone a guy...

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

i know in the dom/sub world this is the way its done do maybe they were that type of cpl......just thinking out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know in the dom/sub world this is the way its done do maybe they were that type of cpl......just thinking out loud"

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

We both have to be happy with who we play with and never push either into anything we arnt happy with. Some couples play separately at parties which is their thing but other couples like us don't as we enjoy encounters together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.

That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet?"

Yes no meet!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I wouldn't like my partner choosing for me either but if we were at a party and he specifically didn't want me to play with someone I'd rather not rock the boat for the sake of a shag...

If you're playing as a couple you have to be tight and united together in this or it all falls apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't like my partner choosing for me either but if we were at a party and he specifically didn't want me to play with someone I'd rather not rock the boat for the sake of a shag...

If you're playing as a couple you have to be tight and united together in this or it all falls apart. "

Agree

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