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"Seriously guys!!! Your first message to a woman shouldn't be "looking for fun today" without as much of a conversation, it's getting tiresome always pressing the delete button. And is there women out there that actually reply to a message like that and would meet them without knowing anything about them?? Am I been too careful or too old? sigh " or to horny  | |||
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"Same here I gave just been called a traveler by one guy cause he wanted more the coffee if he was to travel to Waterford guys like wtf is goin on wit ye !" what's the problem wit travellers,,but yes seriously soon as a Girl mails me wit 'hey wanna fcuk ' it's a delete  | |||
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"Same here I gave just been called a traveler by one guy cause he wanted more the coffee if he was to travel to Waterford guys like wtf is goin on wit ye ! what's the problem wit travellers,,but yes seriously soon as a Girl mails me wit 'hey wanna fcuk ' it's a delete "really u get messages like that shocking! !!!!  | |||
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"Yes think ur right guys think they can get a ride what by just messaging sayin I'm in ur town or passing through "Yes only last week got a message from a Welsh rugby supporter looking to hook up while in town | |||
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening " When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think  | |||
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think "i find things get boring and repetitive when talking to a person for a week or so consecutively! I'm here only about 3 weeks but it's very difficult to have a continuous chat with somebody on here | |||
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"Tom nothing wrong wit travelers but I'm nor one and wont take abusive frm any guy cause he wants more then coffee! " I'd love to have sex wit a traveller or his wife, one of my last 'to do' items, any travelling girls available ? | |||
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"I think "some" guys think that swinging is about having a quick fuck, getting an easy lay, For me I've always look for a mental stimulation before anything else and those who met me know exactly what I'm talking about!!" | |||
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"I think "some" guys think that swinging is about having a quick fuck, getting an easy lay, For me I've always look for a mental stimulation before anything else and those who met me know exactly what I'm talking about!! "What ARE you talking about?
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think i find things get boring and repetitive when talking to a person for a week or so consecutively! I'm here only about 3 weeks but it's very difficult to have a continuous chat with somebody on here "If it's getting boring than you either not chatting to the right people or you may want to change what your talking about, Are you expecting to meet a girl, fuck and leave without a bit of conversation, you may only be here for 3 weeks but don't be naive or you will be joining the others that are here over a year with no meets or veri's...... | |||
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think i find things get boring and repetitive when talking to a person for a week or so consecutively! I'm here only about 3 weeks but it's very difficult to have a continuous chat with somebody on here
If it's getting boring than you either not chatting to the right people or you may want to change what your talking about, Are you expecting to meet a girl, fuck and leave without a bit of conversation, you may only be here for 3 weeks but don't be naive or you will be joining the others that are here over a year with no meets or veri's......"where did I say any of that! I said continuously chatting on here, not in person! women go on with "I need to get to know you" but you chat to her today, she talks you might mail her again in a few days, she ignores! She might talk to you again for a few mails a few days after again! There is no consistency so then the "getting to no you" part is totally dragged out! See my point? | |||
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think i find things get boring and repetitive when talking to a person for a week or so consecutively! I'm here only about 3 weeks but it's very difficult to have a continuous chat with somebody on here
If it's getting boring than you either not chatting to the right people or you may want to change what your talking about, Are you expecting to meet a girl, fuck and leave without a bit of conversation, you may only be here for 3 weeks but don't be naive or you will be joining the others that are here over a year with no meets or veri's......"do u believe everyone without vers is naive and thinks that's all there is to a meet??????? | |||
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think i find things get boring and repetitive when talking to a person for a week or so consecutively! I'm here only about 3 weeks but it's very difficult to have a continuous chat with somebody on here
If it's getting boring than you either not chatting to the right people or you may want to change what your talking about, Are you expecting to meet a girl, fuck and leave without a bit of conversation, you may only be here for 3 weeks but don't be naive or you will be joining the others that are here over a year with no meets or veri's...... do u believe everyone without vers is naive and thinks that's all there is to a meet???????"Absoutly not, but unfortunately veris are important to women when they are looking to meet guys, for been genuine, they'll show up etc, not the content in the veri of what they got up too, I was trying to explain (obviously badly) that if he doesn't put the time in to chat he mat never get a meet and personally I don't meet anyone that's been here longer than a year (or 6 months) and haven't met anyone or been veri. | |||
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think i find things get boring and repetitive when talking to a person for a week or so consecutively! I'm here only about 3 weeks but it's very difficult to have a continuous chat with somebody on here
If it's getting boring than you either not chatting to the right people or you may want to change what your talking about, Are you expecting to meet a girl, fuck and leave without a bit of conversation, you may only be here for 3 weeks but don't be naive or you will be joining the others that are here over a year with no meets or veri's...... do u believe everyone without vers is naive and thinks that's all there is to a meet???????
Absoutly not, but unfortunately veris are important to women when they are looking to meet guys, for been genuine, they'll show up etc, not the content in the veri of what they got up too, I was trying to explain (obviously badly) that if he doesn't put the time in to chat he mat never get a meet and personally I don't meet anyone that's been here longer than a year (or 6 months) and haven't met anyone or been veri. "and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault? | |||
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think i find things get boring and repetitive when talking to a person for a week or so consecutively! I'm here only about 3 weeks but it's very difficult to have a continuous chat with somebody on here
If it's getting boring than you either not chatting to the right people or you may want to change what your talking about, Are you expecting to meet a girl, fuck and leave without a bit of conversation, you may only be here for 3 weeks but don't be naive or you will be joining the others that are here over a year with no meets or veri's......where did I say any of that! I said continuously chatting on here, not in person! women go on with "I need to get to know you" but you chat to her today, she talks you might mail her again in a few days, she ignores! She might talk to you again for a few mails a few days after again! There is no consistency so then the "getting to no you" part is totally dragged out! See my point?"Reality is if she's chatting to and fro she is somewhat interested, Not everyone is online daily, but as I say to guys who chat to me "stay in my radar" cause women do get a lot of mail so unfortunately for you guys you have to put the effort in to stay lightening in her inbox (no pun intended) | |||
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think i find things get boring and repetitive when talking to a person for a week or so consecutively! I'm here only about 3 weeks but it's very difficult to have a continuous chat with somebody on here
If it's getting boring than you either not chatting to the right people or you may want to change what your talking about, Are you expecting to meet a girl, fuck and leave without a bit of conversation, you may only be here for 3 weeks but don't be naive or you will be joining the others that are here over a year with no
meets or veri's...... do u believe everyone without vers is naive and thinks that's all there is to a meet???????
Absoutly not, but unfortunately veris are important to women when they are looking to meet guys, for been genuine, they'll show up etc, not the content in the veri of what they got up too, I was trying to explain (obviously badly) that if he doesn't put the time in to chat he mat never get a meet and personally I don't meet anyone that's been here longer than a year (or 6 months) and haven't met anyone or been veri. "its a feckin catch 22.....longer ur here without...harder it is to get.....  | |||
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it "Fact! The end | |||
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it "i think sweeping generalizations don't suit the world and defo don't suit fab .....way to many different people on here!!!!!  | |||
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think i find things get boring and repetitive when talking to a person for a week or so consecutively! I'm here only about 3 weeks but it's very difficult to have a continuous chat with somebody on here
If it's getting boring than you either not chatting to the right people or you may want to change what your talking about, Are you expecting to meet a girl, fuck and leave without a bit of conversation, you may only be here for 3 weeks but don't be naive or you will be joining the others that are here over a year with no meets or veri's...... do u believe everyone without vers is naive and thinks that's all there is to a meet???????"Jack don't mind the begruders I know your saving yourself for that someone special and well there's always DTG as well, | |||
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it
Fact!
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it i think sweeping generalizations don't suit the world and defo don't suit fab .....way to many different people on here!!!!! "Jack I have sent you a private message | |||
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it i think sweeping generalizations don't suit the world and defo don't suit fab .....way to many different people on here!!!!!
Jack I have sent you a private message"This could be it Jack,,, | |||
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"Jack your veris a very special thing far too many ppl are free and easy with there's, if u don't have one by Xmas I'm goin to give u one myself,,, "i don't want to reprimand you again ...but i think im going to gave too | |||
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it i think sweeping generalizations don't suit the world and defo don't suit fab .....way to many different people on here!!!!!
Jack I have sent you a private message
This could be it Jack,,, "Tom I think you should have a coffee meet with Jack and come back on tell us all about it | |||
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it i think sweeping generalizations don't suit the world and defo don't suit fab .....way to many different people on here!!!!!
Jack I have sent you a private message
This could be it Jack,,,
Tom I think you should have a coffee meet with Jack and come back on tell us all about it "probly have to be in his emmm ....block.....i don't think they do day realise.... | |||
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it
Fact!
The end that's just narrow mindedness making u think everyone fits into your brackets of right and wrong.......that's all that is!" | |||
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"What's the latest? " you have missed out.............. group hug especially for you | |||
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"What's the latest? you have missed out.............. group hug especially for you "Yeah it got a bit much there for a wee bit. *Hugs you all back* | |||
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" and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault?" I wouldn't call it fault, but since you said it, who's fault is it then? | |||
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it i think sweeping generalizations don't suit the world and defo don't suit fab .....way to many different people on here!!!!!
Jack I have sent you a private message
This could be it Jack,,,
Tom I think you should have a coffee meet with Jack and come back on tell us all about it "That's brilliant, I could do the eight hour return trip to wexford and me and Jack could share some of those big red ripe juicy wexford strawberries, JACK ?  | |||
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" and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault? I wouldn't call it fault, but since you said it, who's fault is it then? " i wouldn't blame anybody working known facts! The lad could been trying his hardest get a meet! | |||
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" and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault? I wouldn't call it fault, but since you said it, who's fault is it then? i wouldn't blame anybody working known facts! The lad could been trying his hardest get a meet! " without | |||
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" and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault? I wouldn't call it fault, but since you said it, who's fault is it then? i wouldn't blame anybody working known facts! The lad could been trying his hardest get a meet! without " maybe, maybe not! | |||
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" and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault? I wouldn't call it fault, but since you said it, who's fault is it then? i wouldn't blame anybody working known facts! The lad could been trying his hardest get a meet! without maybe, maybe not! " exactly! One thing on this site tho is it's much harder for a lad to get a meet then a woman, remember that | |||
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"Sorry but I gave 3 unverified guys a chance if coffee yesterday none showed now wheather they think fook it no sex I ain't showing but it was a chance to get verified none the less I think if u havent been verified within 6 months forget it i think sweeping generalizations don't suit the world and defo don't suit fab .....way to many different people on here!!!!!
Jack I have sent you a private message
This could be it Jack,,,
Tom I think you should have a coffee meet with Jack and come back on tell us all about it
That's brilliant, I could do the eight hour return trip to wexford and me and Jack could share some of those big red ripe juicy wexford strawberries, JACK ? "don't kid yourself tom...you couldn't handle wexford strawberries  | |||
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" and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault? I wouldn't call it fault, but since you said it, who's fault is it then? i wouldn't blame anybody working known facts! The lad could been trying his hardest get a meet! without maybe, maybe not! exactly! One thing on this site tho is it's much harder for a lad to get a meet then a woman, remember that "so you have been keep reminding us in the 3 weeks you've been here. | |||
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" and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault? I wouldn't call it fault, but since you said it, who's fault is it then? i wouldn't blame anybody working known facts! The lad could been trying his hardest get a meet! without maybe, maybe not! exactly! One thing on this site tho is it's much harder for a lad to get a meet then a woman, remember that
so you have been keep reminding us in the 3 weeks you've been here. "that's pretty much inivitable! You don't need to be a rocket scientist to realise it | |||
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" and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault? I wouldn't call it fault, but since you said it, who's fault is it then? i wouldn't blame anybody working known facts! The lad could been trying his hardest get a meet! without maybe, maybe not! exactly! One thing on this site tho is it's much harder for a lad to get a meet then a woman, remember that "Yeah but its not impossible for a guy to get a meet. If you(the general you not you specifically) haven't in six months or a year got one, realistically the only common denominator in all of it is you. If it's a problem, maybe the person needs to look at what t het are doing and/or the profile and take steps to change it | |||
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" and do you not think in some cases been here 6 months with no meet might not be 100 % the lads fault? I wouldn't call it fault, but since you said it, who's fault is it then? i wouldn't blame anybody working known facts! The lad could been trying his hardest get a meet! without maybe, maybe not! exactly! One thing on this site tho is it's much harder for a lad to get a meet then a woman, remember that
Yeah but its not impossible for a guy to get a meet. If you(the general you not you specifically) haven't in six months or a year got one, realistically the only common denominator in all of it is you. If it's a problem, maybe the person needs to look at what t het are doing and/or the profile and take steps to change it"common de-who  | |||
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"Jack I'm presuming maths wasn't your strong point "you + me......=sexy.....
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"I'd never expect a woman to meet with "fancy a shag" but some women (not all) drag out the stages to a meet! Like say I chat to a woman today and we get on, if I'm still chatting to her in 6-8 weeks without the next step it's hard to see anything happening When I first joined I chatted to guys for weeks before I met them and the one that stuck with it got to know me and my body so much better that 7 months later we are still having the best sex ever!!! Time well spent I think " | |||
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"Just been reading through the thread and have to agree with points being made from both sides. I wouldn't bother mailing a girl with "hey, you free later?" etc as I wouldn't expect a reply but I know how hard it can be to firstly get chatting to and then sustain a 'mail conversation' for long enough to 'get to know someone' for a meet to happen - even a coffee meet. I take the time to put a bit of effort into a mail and try and use it to engage in some conversation but I'd say 90% of the time I get no reply at all. Fair enough if the recipient isn't interested/attracted or whatever but to ask and expect some thought and effort to be put into an introductory mail and then to not respond at all with even a "thanks but no thanks" is pretty rude in itself. Obviously I'm not a single female and so can only sympathise but not empathise with the torment of a 100 mails a day, some of which, I appreciate, are one line wastes of time but if you do get a mail that clearly has a bit more to it than "wanna fuck" then at least acknowledge the effort even if there's no desire to take it any further. " | |||
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"Just been reading through the thread and have to agree with points being made from both sides. I wouldn't bother mailing a girl with "hey, you free later?" etc as I wouldn't expect a reply but I know how hard it can be to firstly get chatting to and then sustain a 'mail conversation' for long enough to 'get to know someone' for a meet to happen - even a coffee meet. I take the time to put a bit of effort into a mail and try and use it to engage in some conversation but I'd say 90% of the time I get no reply at all. Fair enough if the recipient isn't interested/attracted or whatever but to ask and expect some thought and effort to be put into an introductory mail and then to not respond at all with even a "thanks but no thanks" is pretty rude in itself. Obviously I'm not a single female and so can only sympathise but not empathise with the torment of a 100 mails a day, some of which, I appreciate, are one line wastes of time but if you do get a mail that clearly has a bit more to it than "wanna fuck" then at least acknowledge the effort even if there's no desire to take it any further. "I agree totally with what you have said. It is harder for the guys as there are so many of them and the wasters do make it harder still for the genuine guys. How do the women know which is which though without verifs? It s a question that will never be solved but I do agree that it is only manner to respond to the messages that guys have taken time to compose. I always respond even it just to say 'Thanks for the nice message but I'm not meeting atm' or at least something to acknowledge the message. If I was a guy I would probably have given up long ago if I got several ignored messages so ladies.......put your filters on and reduce the numbers of messages from guys that don't fit your profile and reply to the ones that have made the effort with their messages. You can still ignore the wankers! | |||
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"Just been reading through the thread and have to agree with points being made from both sides. I wouldn't bother mailing a girl with "hey, you free later?" etc as I wouldn't expect a reply but I know how hard it can be to firstly get chatting to and then sustain a 'mail conversation' for long enough to 'get to know someone' for a meet to happen - even a coffee meet. I take the time to put a bit of effort into a mail and try and use it to engage in some conversation but I'd say 90% of the time I get no reply at all. Fair enough if the recipient isn't interested/attracted or whatever but to ask and expect some thought and effort to be put into an introductory mail and then to not respond at all with even a "thanks but no thanks" is pretty rude in itself. Obviously I'm not a single female and so can only sympathise but not empathise with the torment of a 100 mails a day, some of which, I appreciate, are one line wastes of time but if you do get a mail that clearly has a bit more to it than "wanna fuck" then at least acknowledge the effort even if there's no desire to take it any further.
I agree totally with what you have said. It is harder for the guys as there are so many of them and the wasters do make it harder still for the genuine guys. How do the women know which is which though without verifs? It s a question that will never be solved but I do agree that it is only manner to respond to the messages that guys have taken time to compose. I always respond even it just to say 'Thanks for the nice message but I'm not meeting atm' or at least something to acknowledge the message. If I was a guy I would probably have given up long ago if I got several ignored messages so ladies.......put your filters on and reduce the numbers of messages from guys that don't fit your profile and reply to the ones that have made the effort with their messages. You can still ignore the wankers! "bit of common sense there | |||
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