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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personally choose to not meet people with tonnes and tonnes of verifications or with people who have received verifications from someone who has millions of them. I especially hate graphic ones where we get a blow by blow account of what happened. But that's just my preference!

It's my choice same way as some people won't meet married people but it seems to be causing somewhat of an annoyance to some people.

When on Fab did we lose respect for eachothers bloody opinions and preferences. Very pissed off Fabber today!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally choose to not meet people with tonnes and tonnes of verifications or with people who have received verifications from someone who has millions of them. I especially hate graphic ones where we get a blow by blow account of what happened. But that's just my preference!

It's my choice same way as some people won't meet married people but it seems to be causing somewhat of an annoyance to some people.

When on Fab did we lose respect for eachothers bloody opinions and preferences. Very pissed off Fabber today!!! "

We are all entitled to do as we wish.. you have your opinion and reason behind that nobody can tell you your wrong.

All you can do is do what you want..

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"I personally choose to not meet people with tonnes and tonnes of verifications or with people who have received verifications from someone who has millions of them. I especially hate graphic ones where we get a blow by blow account of what happened. But that's just my preference!

It's my choice same way as some people won't meet married people but it seems to be causing somewhat of an annoyance to some people.

When on Fab did we lose respect for eachothers bloody opinions and preferences. Very pissed off Fabber today!!! "

Doesn't bother me the amount but what's written. Too graphic is a big nono. So I agree with you to a certain extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications can be important. The only thing I use them for is to show the person is a real person, I tend to go more on gut rather than what someone else says. As for the tonnes of veris it depends on how long they gave been on the site and whether they have been to a party as if they have they can mount up quite quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally choose to not meet people with tonnes and tonnes of verifications or with people who have received verifications from someone who has millions of them. I especially hate graphic ones where we get a blow by blow account of what happened. But that's just my preference!

It's my choice same way as some people won't meet married people but it seems to be causing somewhat of an annoyance to some people.

When on Fab did we lose respect for eachothers bloody opinions and preferences. Very pissed off Fabber today!!! "

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

I hate graphic veris I never give them, and what happens on the meet should be between those people. A veri should be saying the others are real and turned up.

Just my thoughts on it

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I have never given a graphic verify of what he did what I did; I think its personal what goes on in a meet...

its not s paragraph of fifty shades or a porn mag. That's my opinion anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know a lad dats obsessed with verifacations i have met people and they did not verify me but they are not even on the site any more so im not going to loose any sleep over them lol

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"I hate graphic veris I never give them, and what happens on the meet should be between those people. A veri should be saying the others are real and turned up.

Just my thoughts on it "

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Everyone does things in different ways. Some of us don't like the way others do it but its their choice and fairplay to them. Veris are done on different ways and people reading them with different tastes can choose what suits them. Having chosen this scene I'm surprised at how many don't have live and let live philosophy but hey that's their choice too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love varis in fairness there fun to read but just because someone has lots doesn't make them bad etc a guy on here o know blocked me because of mine but sure hey shit happen s build a bridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's me she's annoyed with as some one has got daily verifieds n has been here 9 mths with 21 verifieds. Sorry to means there real n I've met this person months ago n is a lovely lovely girl . 21 verifieds r from real ppl so I much prefer to see verifieds n all the graphics in them is she gives a serious bj come on seen worse in forums n with daily verifieds as I said ppl may not have bbeen on here n 2 came in day after day n if u look 1 was 25th decembrt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally choose to not meet people with tonnes and tonnes of verifications or with people who have received verifications from someone who has millions of them. I especially hate graphic ones where we get a blow by blow account of what happened. But that's just my preference!

It's my choice same way as some people won't meet married people but it seems to be causing somewhat of an annoyance to some people.

When on Fab did we lose respect for eachothers bloody opinions and preferences. Very pissed off Fabber today!!! "

Totally agree with you i have the same preference and have had some men go mad at me for declining because he had been verified as a god basically and i was missing out thanks but no thanks im not another knotch on ur bedpost quality over quantity anyday and if they get that defensive obviously not that nice of person anyway block and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's me she's annoyed with as some one has got daily verifieds n has been here 9 mths with 21 verifieds. Sorry to means there real n I've met this person months ago n is a lovely lovely girl . 21 verifieds r from real ppl so I much prefer to see verifieds n all the graphics in them is she gives a serious bj come on seen worse in forums n with daily verifieds as I said ppl may not have bbeen on here n 2 came in day after day n if u look 1 was 25th decembrt"

Why are you making everything so personal!!! My god!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"It's me she's annoyed with as some one has got daily verifieds n has been here 9 mths with 21 verifieds. Sorry to means there real n I've met this person months ago n is a lovely lovely girl . 21 verifieds r from real ppl so I much prefer to see verifieds n all the graphics in them is she gives a serious bj come on seen worse in forums n with daily verifieds as I said ppl may not have bbeen on here n 2 came in day after day n if u look 1 was 25th decembrt"
im sorry to say b that but what are u going on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally choose to not meet people with tonnes and tonnes of verifications or with people who have received verifications from someone who has millions of them. I especially hate graphic ones where we get a blow by blow account of what happened. But that's just my preference!

It's my choice same way as some people won't meet married people but it seems to be causing somewhat of an annoyance to some people.

When on Fab did we lose respect for eachothers bloody opinions and preferences. Very pissed off Fabber today!!! "

Think it's your choice and well everyone has to respect each other's views and preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's me she's annoyed with as some one has got daily verifieds n has been here 9 mths with 21 verifieds. Sorry to means there real n I've met this person months ago n is a lovely lovely girl . 21 verifieds r from real ppl so I much prefer to see verifieds n all the graphics in them is she gives a serious bj come on seen worse in forums n with daily verifieds as I said ppl may not have bbeen on here n 2 came in day after day n if u look 1 was 25th decembrt im sorry to say b that but what are u going on about "

Please don't encourage him. He seems to think I've launched a personal attack on someone he's met. I've said the same thing hundreds of times to different people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's me she's annoyed with as some one has got daily verifieds n has been here 9 mths with 21 verifieds. Sorry to means there real n I've met this person months ago n is a lovely lovely girl . 21 verifieds r from real ppl so I much prefer to see verifieds n all the graphics in them is she gives a serious bj come on seen worse in forums n with daily verifieds as I said ppl may not have bbeen on here n 2 came in day after day n if u look 1 was 25th decembrt im sorry to say b that but what are u going on about "

Im a bit confused by his rant too

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"It's me she's annoyed with as some one has got daily verifieds n has been here 9 mths with 21 verifieds. Sorry to means there real n I've met this person months ago n is a lovely lovely girl . 21 verifieds r from real ppl so I much prefer to see verifieds n all the graphics in them is she gives a serious bj come on seen worse in forums n with daily verifieds as I said ppl may not have bbeen on here n 2 came in day after day n if u look 1 was 25th decembrt im sorry to say b that but what are u going on about "

I'm a bit baffled. I am probably the last person on forums who would agree with woman for kudos. Anyone who reads my posts would know this but I saw nothing in girls opening post referring to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just getting back to what the OP said.

So you don't want to meet this man because he has met a woman who has had 'millions' of verifications?

that's your choice. But since you have started the thread, can I ask why it is your preference? Is it because he slept with a woman who has had too many meets? So he's not picky enough?

Just wondering what the thought process is.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I think there should be a New system to verify just a few box's to tick cam.coffee.fun.party after all its just ment to prove ppl turned up

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"I think there should be a New system to verify just a few box's to tick cam.coffee.fun.party after all its just ment to prove ppl turned up"

Don't agree myself. People like to choose by what they like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just getting back to what the OP said.

So you don't want to meet this man because he has met a woman who has had 'millions' of verifications?

that's your choice. But since you have started the thread, can I ask why it is your preference? Is it because he slept with a woman who has had too many meets? So he's not picky enough?

Just wondering what the thought process is. "

Today's post stemed from a rant I received because I said I didn't like meeting up with people who had lots and lots of verifications. That's all. I can't say it's because the person with the verifications wasn't fussy enough because that would be judging that person and I'm all about each to their own. I just prefer to meet people who have a few regular meets because that's the way I do it. That's my own opinion. I just don't see why I should have someone else's opinion attempted to be forced down my throat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think verifications are very important , especially as a single lady .... I read them and the ones from the person giving the verification ..... I do agree there's no need to be so graphic but it can give a good picture of what the person is like .... And I have a lot of verifications but some are coffee meets so don't be so hasty to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Today's post stemed from a rant I received because I said I didn't like meeting up with people who had lots and lots of verifications. That's all. I can't say it's because the person with the verifications wasn't fussy enough because that would be judging that person and I'm all about each to their own. I just prefer to meet people who have a few regular meets because that's the way I do it. That's my own opinion. I just don't see why I should have someone else's opinion attempted to be forced down my throat. "

You probably thought honesty is best but maybe you're better off being less direct when turning them down. From my experience they will take it very personal and then the rants and arguments start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Today's post stemed from a rant I received because I said I didn't like meeting up with people who had lots and lots of verifications. That's all. I can't say it's because the person with the verifications wasn't fussy enough because that would be judging that person and I'm all about each to their own. I just prefer to meet people who have a few regular meets because that's the way I do it. That's my own opinion. I just don't see why I should have someone else's opinion attempted to be forced down my throat.

You probably thought honesty is best but maybe you're better off being less direct when turning them down. From my experience they will take it very personal and then the rants and arguments start. "

Yeah a easy no thanks or your not my type no need to explain more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Today's post stemed from a rant I received because I said I didn't like meeting up with people who had lots and lots of verifications. That's all. I can't say it's because the person with the verifications wasn't fussy enough because that would be judging that person and I'm all about each to their own. I just prefer to meet people who have a few regular meets because that's the way I do it. That's my own opinion. I just don't see why I should have someone else's opinion attempted to be forced down my throat.

You probably thought honesty is best but maybe you're better off being less direct when turning them down. From my experience they will take it very personal and then the rants and arguments start.

Yeah a easy no thanks or your not my type no need to explain more than that. "

Some accept that easy response some don't and then the abuse can start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never tell them they're not their type. Because that's personal as well..

All I say is thank you but I'm not interested. All the best and have fun!

It works 99.5% of the time

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

But op how do u know the person ur chatting to has all veries shown some people do prefer to keep them hidden and not show the summery page. .

I know people that don't display and won't show the veries as they feel its personal to them..

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Iv met some girls with just a discrete verie or 2 or none shown just a tick but after meeting them and chatting I find they are way more experienced than me and they often dont look for or give veries.

Showing 1 or 2 veries means nothing more than the person just chooses to show 1 or 2

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Iv met some girls with just a discrete verie or 2 or none shown just a tick but after meeting them and chatting I find they are way more experienced than me and they often dont look for or give veries.

Showing 1 or 2 veries means nothing more than the person just chooses to show 1 or 2"
that's what I meant hal but u worded iy better than me.

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

You are treading on dangerous ground meet a guy with only a few veris. The few veris can be made up from a few fake account verified by himself. When get to the meet n ( even though you may have had a social meet for coffee) the guy can kick 50 shade's of grey out of you just what happened to a friend of mine It's no fun being in hospital for a week eating through a straw Mean while Guy disappears off site.Warning read verification s and not what they say, its what they don't have say. Be very careful please xx

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"You are treading on dangerous ground meet a guy with only a few veris. The few veris can be made up from a few fake account verified by himself. When get to the meet n ( even though you may have had a social meet for coffee) the guy can kick 50 shade's of grey out of you just what happened to a friend of mine It's no fun being in hospital for a week eating through a straw Mean while Guy disappears off site.Warning read verification s and not what they say, its what they don't have say. Be very careful please xx"
omfg am I reading this right! !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are treading on dangerous ground meet a guy with only a few veris. The few veris can be made up from a few fake account verified by himself. When get to the meet n ( even though you may have had a social meet for coffee) the guy can kick 50 shade's of grey out of you just what happened to a friend of mine It's no fun being in hospital for a week eating through a straw Mean while Guy disappears off site.Warning read verification s and not what they say, its what they don't have say. Be very careful please xx"

Scumbag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the difference in meeting someone with 100 verifications or meeting someone with 1 verification ?

Cant understand this reasoning.. so, someone with 100 is different from someone with 1 like... how ?

Surely the longer someones on the site and is active at meeting people.. then surely logic would be.. more verifications

Anyhow, for us verifications are of ultimate importance on here.. lets us know someone is real and actually does meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the difference in meeting someone with 100 verifications or meeting someone with 1 verification ?

Cant understand this reasoning.. so, someone with 100 is different from someone with 1 like... how ?

Surely the longer someones on the site and is active at meeting people.. then surely logic would be.. more verifications

Anyhow, for us verifications are of ultimate importance on here.. lets us know someone is real and actually does meet "

Really that's what a verification should be, that he is real actually does meet and isn't a psycho

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"I think verifications are very important , especially as a single lady .... I read them and the ones from the person giving the verification ..... I do agree there's no need to be so graphic but it can give a good picture of what the person is like .... And I have a lot of verifications but some are coffee meets so don't be so hasty to judge "

I agree

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Fake veries does happen don't be fooled.

If it seems to good to be true it usually is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@girl4girl2014:

You are of course entitled to use the site any way you wish, and please dont take this personally, but i'm curious as to why you wont meet with someone who's had lots of veri's.

Case in point: Say we're at the meet in greet in Cork on the the 22nd, and we mingle and chat to 20 people, but play with none of them, but the next day all 20 of those profiles verify us and we display them....are we suddenly struck off your list for simply chatting to 20 people?

It seems a little short sighted to me, and would limit the amount of people you could potentially have fun with.

Again, I'm not getting at you, I just dont see the reasoning behind it (and you're not giving much detail why)

Just curious....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone on this site is some sort of a psycho.. think everyones a loose screw somewhere at this game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with you the more u c the more the person not faker baker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol loves2swing agree 100pc

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

I cannot stress enough how many psychos is on this site. Which I have not met yet. Lucy for them. I also need to stress there is a whole lot of beautiful genuine people many of them I have met and am delighted to have a met. Just stick to tried and trusted people Don't sail in dangerous waters Leave that to the Coastguard. Be careful please xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"@girl4girl2014:

You are of course entitled to use the site any way you wish, and please dont take this personally, but i'm curious as to why you wont meet with someone who's had lots of veri's.

Case in point: Say we're at the meet in greet in Cork on the the 22nd, and we mingle and chat to 20 people, but play with none of them, but the next day all 20 of those profiles verify us and we display them....are we suddenly struck off your list for simply chatting to 20 people?

It seems a little short sighted to me, and would limit the amount of people you could potentially have fun with.

Again, I'm not getting at you, I just dont see the reasoning behind it (and you're not giving much detail why)

Just curious...."

People choose not to meet people for different reasons . My point is that noone should receive dogs abuse should they explain to the person in question exactly their reasons for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@girl4girl2014:

You are of course entitled to use the site any way you wish, and please dont take this personally, but i'm curious as to why you wont meet with someone who's had lots of veri's.

Case in point: Say we're at the meet in greet in Cork on the the 22nd, and we mingle and chat to 20 people, but play with none of them, but the next day all 20 of those profiles verify us and we display them....are we suddenly struck off your list for simply chatting to 20 people?

It seems a little short sighted to me, and would limit the amount of people you could potentially have fun with.

Again, I'm not getting at you, I just dont see the reasoning behind it (and you're not giving much detail why)

Just curious....

People choose not to meet people for different reasons . My point is that noone should receive dogs abuse should they explain to the person in question exactly their reasons for it. "

That was never in question. No one should receive abuse. I'm still curious though, that if we got verified in the manner I mentioned in my example, would you refuse to meet us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the OP.

Its about personal preference and everyone has the right to say what they want and meet who they want without having opinions forced upon them or even being questioned about their decision.

All I can say to the people in question who have a problem with the OP is grow up!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"@girl4girl2014:

You are of course entitled to use the site any way you wish, and please dont take this personally, but i'm curious as to why you wont meet with someone who's had lots of veri's.

Case in point: Say we're at the meet in greet in Cork on the the 22nd, and we mingle and chat to 20 people, but play with none of them, but the next day all 20 of those profiles verify us and we display them....are we suddenly struck off your list for simply chatting to 20 people?

It seems a little short sighted to me, and would limit the amount of people you could potentially have fun with.

Again, I'm not getting at you, I just dont see the reasoning behind it (and you're not giving much detail why)

Just curious....

People choose not to meet people for different reasons . My point is that noone should receive dogs abuse should they explain to the person in question exactly their reasons for it.

That was never in question. No one should receive abuse. I'm still curious though, that if we got verified in the manner I mentioned in my example, would you refuse to meet us?"

No you wouldn't be. There's a difference between verified as being nice normal genuine people and being verified in a way that focuses only on what was done during the meet. I've received 23 messages from one member telling me I'm stuck up and self obsessed for my post.

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

It's now time to use block option in him pronto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@girl4girl2014:

No you wouldn't be. There's a difference between verified as being nice normal genuine people and being verified in a way that focuses only on what was done during the meet. I've received 23 messages from one member telling me I'm stuck up and self obsessed for my post. "

Grand, I just wanted to understand you better, I'd also be hitting the block button on that idiot.

So, nice verifications ok, graphic verifications bad. While we wouldnt be ones for leaving very graphic verifications anyway, it's good to know that some people dont like them.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I'd agree with OP

Everyone has their own right to use the site as they wish but there is no right for anyone to use the site to abuse people.

Have we list all common sense and respect just because we are faceless?!?

If we wouldn't do it in real life why can we do it when we are anonymous?

I'm feeling for you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose to keep my verfications private then no one can get annoyed by them

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

Busty you are so cute why would you want to see your veris x

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Graphic veries not for us either...but a lot of ppl like them....we never got one but you do have the choice not to display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple and have been here a while and yes we have loads of verifications,but...that doesn't mean we have played with all of them,meeting at parties and greets people do build up a lot,however i personally don't like the graphic veris,nor do i give them,i try to keep verifications as light and yes leave it up to imagination of a person reading, so saying you won't agree to meet just because somebody has lots of verifications is unfair,but then again we all have our rules and your right to stick to yours,but there's a old saying about painting with the same brush....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have also been at parties and have a good few veris from people that i didn't even played with, i don't mind graphic veris as i am quite graphic myself, each to their own, but all i say i don't judge as i hate to be jugded myself

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

ppl who go to partys do get a lot of veries.....but most of them just mean that you met and had a chat it wouldent be possible to play with everyone you meet at a party....but everyone has a right to use this site as they see fit and not be made feel bad about their decisions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ppl who go to partys do get a lot of veries.....but most of them just mean that you met and had a chat it wouldent be possible to play with everyone you meet at a party....but everyone has a right to use this site as they see fit and not be made feel bad about their decisions"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally choose to not meet people with tonnes and tonnes of verifications or with people who have received verifications from someone who has millions of them. I especially hate graphic ones where we get a blow by blow account of what happened. But that's just my preference!

It's my choice same way as some people won't meet married people but it seems to be causing somewhat of an annoyance to some people.

When on Fab did we lose respect for eachothers bloody opinions and preferences. Very pissed off Fabber today!!! "

As you say it's a personal choice to choose who you would like to meet. I've got my own ideas of what I find appealing in making my mind up in meeting. As you say some things are off putting and I agree.

Sometimes it's best not to say it's because of the trazillion veri's or cause they've met someone who's 'not my cup of tea' or because hearing for the 50th time he has a very suckable cock that will leave you wanting more. I want to be satisfied not looking for more. And that apparently there's an imaginary line that us girls have to join to meet him. I get a good chuckle out of them, even my own.

I think we all like to be told that when there's no interest in taking it further and meeting that it's served with a little pinch of sugar. I'd hate to be shot down without a little anaesthetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have alot of verifications on our profile. But we are on here nearly 5 Years. We also attend a few parties and u could gain 10 veris from one party and u might have only played with 2 or 3 ...

I also insist on meeting guys for coffee first before an eventual meet so that could end up in 2 veris for one fun meet. I also know people who choose not to display their veris and I know they are very active but u might not know that. I respect your opinion and ur choices as everyone has their own way of choosing who they want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have mine hidden most of the time for my own reasons but having said that we all make our own choices to do things on here in a certain way.

That is the thing i like about this site.

Diversity and freedom of choice as well.

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By *inky booCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Lots of people getting their backs up here,maybe the op isn't as confident as others and lots of veris are somewhat daunting in that sense or perhaps like some of us has seen those profiles with safe sex only stated, only to see plenty of bareback pics on the same profiles,but whatever their case is for not meeting prolific shaggers no one has the right to question or vilify them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of my meets has pics of bareback on his page but they are of an ex and not of me and i hope people dont jump to conclusions when they see bareback on veries.

They could be in a long term relationship as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe I have every right to ask them why out of curiosity though.


"Lots of people getting their backs up here,maybe the op isn't as confident as others and lots of veris are somewhat daunting in that sense or perhaps like some of us has seen those profiles with safe sex only stated, only to see plenty of bareback pics on the same profiles,but whatever their case is for not meeting prolific shaggers no one has the right to question or vilify them."

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By *inky booCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *inky booCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

you certainly have the right to question their motives for their choice,but they also have the same rights as not to answer your questions ,thats life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" you certainly have the right to question their motives for their choice,but they also have the same rights as not to answer your questions ,thats life"

Agreed.

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