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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does there always have to be a physical attraction? I'm finding as I get older a mental connection seems to be more of a turn on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there needs to be some sort of attraction. Maybe thats just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does there always have to be a physical attraction? I'm finding as I get older a mental connection seems to be more of a turn on.."
I agree I find the mental connection really stimulating as you know

supported with good looks is such a turn on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does there always have to be a physical attraction? I'm finding as I get older a mental connection seems to be more of a turn on.."

For me a connection with personality is far greater than that of physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

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same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

Mentally attracted gets me to the coffee meet but there does need to be a physical attraction as well....maybe I am too fussy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be some physical attraction, but it could just be that naughty twinkle in the eyes that accompanies a mental attraction

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it."

Well we all a bit mental on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it."
anyday

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it.anyday

Might hold ya to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

Mentally attracted gets me to the coffee meet but there does need to be a physical attraction as well....maybe I am too fussy!

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yes there does when u get there. very true

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it."
face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees. "

I have broadcast quality voice lets

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets"
I will have to tune into u then.

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then. "

Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees. "

Well hello

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.

Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol"
mmmm decisions decisions

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.

Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions "

U could put it to audience vote

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.

Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions

U could put it to audience vote"
right all in favour please comment below.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I dont think alot of guys care who they meet if I'm been honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us its a physical thing

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.

Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions

U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below.

In favour of what lets

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.

Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions

U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below.

In favour of what lets"
in whatever takes your fancy llong ,?????

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.

Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions

U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below.

In favour of what lets in whatever takes your fancy llong ,????? "

Us having good old fashioned shag lets. Would they vote on that. Or would you.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.

Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions

U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below.

In favour of what lets in whatever takes your fancy llong ,?????

Us having good old fashioned shag lets. Would they vote on that. Or would you.

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well let's put it to the vote then all favour for me 'shagging" llong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!

One compliments the other.

A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.

But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!

One compliments the other.

A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.

But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go. "
its not all about the kss either...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!

One compliments the other.

A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.

But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go. its not all about the kss either...lol

Oh I disagree, a guy that I font enjoy kissing I usually don't enjoy in bed, it's what gets the juices flowing, but there has to be something attractive to get to the kissing

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

Mentally attracted gets me to the coffee meet but there does need to be a physical attraction as well....maybe I am too fussy!

I'm the exact same.....there's times where I've done the coffee meets but haven't had the physical attraction to move it on to a play meet

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Kissing is the major attraction I have sat with someone thinking mmmm id love to kiss them; but I would never make the first move. Then waiting if attraction there is torture thinking bloody hell just kiss me

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"Kissing is the major attraction I have sat with someone thinking mmmm id love to kiss them; but I would never make the first move. Then waiting if attraction there is torture thinking bloody hell just kiss me "

When we meet lets code word Eiffel tower and I'll know u want kiss. Hope your Eiffel tower pops up first though.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

When we meet lets code word Eiffel tower and I'll know u want kiss. Hope your Eiffel tower pops up first though."
hey Llong maybe your eiffel tower will pop up first then I will know

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

When we meet lets code word Eiffel tower and I'll know u want kiss. Hope your Eiffel tower pops up first though. hey Llong maybe your eiffel tower will pop up first then I will know

That's what worries me

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

When we meet lets code word Eiffel tower and I'll know u want kiss. Hope your Eiffel tower pops up first though. hey Llong maybe your eiffel tower will pop up first then I will know

That's what worries me"
ohhh don't worry bout that I love seeing the bulge major turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I dont think alot of guys care who they meet if I'm been honest

I care

there has to be a personality click for me..

I Find I Can Be More Physically AAttracted To Someone Who I Get On With. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tbh I dont think alot of guys care who they meet if I'm been honest

In full agreement !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not all bad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are not all bad..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

Mentally attracted gets me to the coffee meet but there does need to be a physical attraction as well....maybe I am too fussy!

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!

One compliments the other.

A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.

But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go. its not all about the kuss either...lol

Oh I disagree, a guy that I font enjoy kissing I usually don't enjoy in bed, it's what gets the juices flowing, but there has to be something attractive to get to the kissing "
oh dont get me wrong i love to kiss.i absolutely love it but i was with a guy recently and because of a fkn coldsore i hadwe couldnt kiss and i couldnt perform oral.it was all my pleasure

but tgere was no kissing and the fun we had was fab.i did miss the kiss tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical and mental attraction has always been a must for me plus a great kisser to get the engine kick started helps lol

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

"You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!

One compliments the other.

A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.

But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go. "

Agree there.. And as was said earlier., the mental connection/sense of humour gets me to coffee and then it's the interaction that creates the physical connection... And bingo!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a mental attraction has to come first and then a physical but it's why a coffee meet is a great way to determine as can only tell so much without meeting. But when it clicks all together

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.

I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.

For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.

If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.

It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.

I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.

For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.

If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.

It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus."

Well said Sean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.

I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.

For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.

If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.

It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus.

Well said Sean

I tried to say that but yours is a fat better way of explaining it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.

I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.

For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.

If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.

It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus."
couldnt agree more! And well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.

I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.

For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.

If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.

It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus."

..well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.

I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.

For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.

If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.

It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus.

..well said"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does there always have to be a physical attraction? I'm finding as I get older a mental connection seems to be more of a turn on.."

always with me anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction is a must for me!!...

Whereas a pulse.... That's negotiable!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Physical attraction is a must for me!!...

Whereas a pulse.... That's negotiable!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both are needed but equally. When this is achieved you're onto a real winner.

Like with everything in life - Balance is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical attraction is a must for me!!...

Whereas a pulse.... That's negotiable!!

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a pulse is kinda essential for us gals tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think both are needed but equally. When this is achieved you're onto a real winner.

Like with everything in life - Balance is the key

Have you found n e one perfectly balanced yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much for me.

Mental stimulation isn't going to make me wet. However, someone who can have a giggle....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There needs to be some physical attraction for me and I dont mean has to be good looking. To me theres a huge difference between good looks and attractiveness. I think attraciveness is very subjective. Id rather attractiveness over goodlooks any day. Looks fade with time but whats attractive about a person never does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some attraction yes but I'd be a lot fussier towords physical attraction in a serious relationship then I would through fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There needs to be some physical attraction for me and I dont mean has to be good looking. To me theres a huge difference between good looks and attractiveness. I think attraciveness is very subjective. Id rather attractiveness over goodlooks any day. Looks fade with time but whats attractive about a person never does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees. "

Me granny had knees like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees. "

Me granny had knees like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days

same here

go for it..sounds like your both on for it so why not

I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.

I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.

Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions

U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below.

In favour of what lets in whatever takes your fancy llong ,?????

Us having good old fashioned shag lets. Would they vote on that. Or would you.

well let's put it to the vote then all favour for me 'shagging" llong "

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

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You've put that perfectly. Afterall beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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absolutely....100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think both are needed but equally. When this is achieved you're onto a real winner.

Like with everything in life - Balance is the key

Have you found n e one perfectly balanced yet

I have indeed

Only very recently I may add

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