FabSwingers.com forum: meeting.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to get a meet on this site.Im a exp swinger and never seen as many messers on a site. Dont tell me its my profile,im ver,and have pics,so tell me why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah wheres the pics I dont see any?? You need to have a few public ones on show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As busty said. Also would maybe use some capitals and spaces between your sentences. Also you contradict yourself as you say you can accommodate at top and in the text you say you can't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why are these small issues so important. We are here to meet and shag are we not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are experienced,im sure you will work it out for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur profile dont appel us at all for the following reason

1- no public pics so no eye catching stuff

2- ur sayin u can acc then u can't

3- ur profile text is quite bare

4- u say ur pic gets mine that was a turn off for us

5- ur username really turned us off studmaster but hey thats just us maybe jig around those little things as u say there little but to some its a major thing jyst trying to give tips and our honestly is all best of luck dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah wheres the pics I dont see any?? You need to have a few public ones on show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are these small issues so important. We are here to meet and shag are we not."

Oh God! AWKWARD!

CLASSY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a stage before meet and shag. First is profile!! You want to get a sense of someone. Then its chat. Then phone and or cam. Then maybe meet. Id say for most of us male and female there has to be some connection and trust. Let me speak for myself. For me its essential. I put up a thread before about: is it just sex? The posts implied that for a lot of ppl male and female it isnt. Happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are these small issues so important. We are here to meet and shag are we not."

Because the little things matter to some people? You could be as eloquent as Stephen Fry in real life but if you can't string a sentence together online (and I'm not saying you can't) people may pass on you.

Out of all profiles, a single guys profile is the most important...its your advertisement. It must make you stand out more than all the other single guys....and after all that you must be prepared for it not to work.

You must ask the question..if I saw my profile would I meet me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real question here is:

Studmaster, do you like Dags?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd also like to add that we dont meet guys, but we will be soon. And rather than open up our filters we've been active on the forums and watching the way guys behave and the banter they have. It helps us choose who we want to meet and we have a couple of guys already in mind.

I'm pretty sure that we're not the only couple who does this, so how you behave on the forum is also important.

I bet all the guys who've interacted with us on the forum are feeling paranoid now. Heeheeheh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest with you pal! I'd judge nobody on their profile! I'd have to chat to them! some people do bare profiles some people do novels! This is not me criticising it's just a fact! Women judge and look for more on fun then men do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The real question here is:

Studmaster, do you like Dags?"

I like DOGS. I like caravans more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are these small issues so important. We are here to meet and shag are we not.

Oh God! AWKWARD!

CLASSY"

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GROUPHUG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd also like to add that we dont meet guys, but we will be soon. And rather than open up our filters we've been active on the forums and watching the way guys behave and the banter they have. It helps us choose who we want to meet and we have a couple of guys already in mind.

I'm pretty sure that we're not the only couple who does this, so how you behave on the forum is also important.

I bet all the guys who've interacted with us on the forum are feeling paranoid now. Heeheeheh

ive been dlin this myself too its alot bwtter because u can get a read on ppl and them on u ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is mr slut here, I judge a person regardless of their gender on their profile here.

Lack of effort on their profile is a major put off...hurts their credibility in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry about the spelling this phone is a pain !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we all quit our jobs and reply to everyone who contacts us then maybe we would do less filtering before replying.

But since most can't reply to everyone we have to make a judgement call based on the email they send us and their profiles. Some of us even only look at the profile and don't even read the email if it doesn't contain anything interesting or appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is mr slut here, I judge a person regardless of their gender on their profile here.

Lack of effort on their profile is a major put off...hurts their credibility in my opinion."
some people women included on here have very short profiles! I'd never judge them on it

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is mr slut here, I judge a person regardless of their gender on their profile here.

Lack of effort on their profile is a major put off...hurts their credibility in my opinion.some people women included on here have very short profiles! I'd never judge them on it

Then if that's true they're the last people to be telling a guy to fill out his profile more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people women included on here have very short profiles! I'd never judge them on it

and we all know why lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll be honest with you pal! I'd judge nobody on their profile! I'd have to chat to them! some people do bare profiles some people do novels! This is not me criticising it's just a fact! Women judge and look for more on fun then men do! isnt it only logical to judge someone's profile? Its your first impression as its a website, verifications are another, posts on the forums, chats, pics. Too long a profile text can be bad too btw. But no profile pic is not nice ever..."
im glad you said one thing! To long a profile can be bad aswell! Totally agree! I very seldom read veris! I prefer to make my own mind up on a person! Also and this is huge! Us men can afford to be overly fussy on here as the pool of women we have to choose from is very very small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll be honest with you pal! I'd judge nobody on their profile! I'd have to chat to them! some people do bare profiles some people do novels! This is not me criticising it's just a fact! Women judge and look for more on fun then men do! isnt it only logical to judge someone's profile? Its your first impression as its a website, verifications are another, posts on the forums, chats, pics. Too long a profile text can be bad too btw. But no profile pic is not nice ever...im glad you said one thing! To long a profile can be bad aswell! Totally agree! I very seldom read veris! I prefer to make my own mind up on a person! Also and this is huge! Us men can afford to be overly fussy on here as the pool of women we have to choose from is very very small

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I'm pretty sure that we're not the only couple who does this, so how you behave on the forum is also important.

I bet all the guys who've interacted with us on the forum are feeling paranoid now. Heeheeheh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure that we're not the only couple who does this, so how you behave on the forum is also important.

I bet all the guys who've interacted with us on the forum are feeling paranoid now. Heeheeheh

Well if people behave one way on the forum and are rude or just not appealing in a message I.would steer clear personally.

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure that we're not the only couple who does this, so how you behave on the forum is also important.

I bet all the guys who've interacted with us on the forum are feeling paranoid now. Heeheeheh

Well if people behave one way on the forum and are rude or just not appealing in a message I.would steer clear personally.

Just my opinion "

I think your misunderstanding us. We're not just meeting on forum behavior alone, it just gives us an idea on who we may message. If that goes well then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure that we're not the only couple who does this, so how you behave on the forum is also important.

I bet all the guys who've interacted with us on the forum are feeling paranoid now. Heeheeheh

Well if people behave one way on the forum and are rude or just not appealing in a message I.would steer clear personally.

Just my opinion

I think your misunderstanding us. We're not just meeting on forum behavior alone, it just gives us an idea on who we may message. If that goes well then...."

good plan

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Something wrong?

No like ur method...on phone so hard to control fingers it was ment to be a thumbs up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well guys i think ye gave me plenty to think about now. Dont know what to do now .Why cant people just chat by phone.

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By *heButterflyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wicklow

My suggestions:

* Get yourself a profile pic/avatar

* Maybe get photo verified (but not that necessary when you're already verified in person)

* Upload some public photos

* Maybe reword your profile text a little.

Yes, this is a swinging site but just because it is that doesn't mean people will just have sex with anyone. Your profile is the first impression you give a person, make it count.

All the best,

Miss L

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