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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Morning.

My Coffee Distance Limit = 1 Hour Drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.. and my I add that you're a good addition to the forums (even though you're as inquisitive as FUCK)

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all "

My coffee meets never end at coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

My coffee meets never end at coffee "
so for you it's not just a coffee? Lol

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over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

My coffee meets never end at coffee so for you it's not just a coffee? Lol"

It takes the pressure off! but realistically I'm not gonna meet someone I'm not attracted to

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over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

My coffee meets never end at coffee "

Carrot Cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few guys who travel with work so they can meet for coffee and then decide, sometimes for me is easy to know if the chemistry is there , in those cases i don't meet for coffee, i meet for sex as i hate wasting time drinking coffee but if i am not sure i am not travelling and i don't expect the guy to, i might chat on the phone or skype and see how it goes, distance is a pain allright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If somebody is very very well verified then I don't mind not doing a coffee meet but if they are not well verified I will always insist on a coffee meet its mainly for my own safety then anything else and it hasn't let me down yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

My coffee meets never end at coffee

Carrot Cake? "

Mm I do love carrot cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If somebody is very very well verified then I don't mind not doing a coffee meet but if they are not well verified I will always insist on a coffee meet its mainly for my own safety then anything else and it hasn't let me down yet. "
that remains me of a old blow up doll I had I never let her down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

My coffee meets never end at coffee "

do ya fancy a coffee lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree verifications are good in regards of safety, but that does not mean i am going to have sexual chemistry with a guy just cos a bunch of people have, i have met well verified guys for coffee and there was no spark whatsoever so i am not going to have sex with them obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree verifications are good in regards of safety, but that does not mean i am going to have sexual chemistry with a guy just cos a bunch of people have, i have met well verified guys for coffee and there was no spark whatsoever so i am not going to have sex with them obviously "

makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks, in some cases verifications are overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, in some cases verifications are overrated "

FACT! MINE are overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know for a fact all of them are true, see what i mean when i said distance is a pain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know for a fact all of them are true, see what i mean when i said distance is a pain? "

No you don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know when you get that vibe about someone? I could be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

My coffee meets never end at coffee

do ya fancy a coffee lol"

Ha! I always fancy coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know for a fact all of them are true, see what i mean when i said distance is a pain? "

Distance a pain?

You're in my one hour radius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all "

thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but you don't plan ahead, remember? Saying that i will be in Galway on the 22nd of February, i have an hour to spare, coffee? Pint?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

My coffee meets never end at coffee

do ya fancy a coffee lol

Ha! I always fancy coffee"

mine will have to be a chai latte ... I can drink those faster lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alas, it is a free world and if someone wants to possibly waste half a day travelling for a cup of coffee, then they are the worse fool. Or maybe thing there maybe more down the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but you don't plan ahead, remember? Saying that i will be in Galway on the 22nd of February, i have an hour to spare, coffee? Pint? "

Oh good on you, you remember how I roll

Ok, , the 22nd is a Saturday? I'll be back in Galway roughly 4-5pm but you're best to ask me on the 21st (too far ahead to be planning)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lol"
yes that's it in a nutshell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah of course, will send you a message on the 21st and i hope we can meet face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah of course, will send you a message on the 21st and i hope we can meet face to face "

Sound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lolyes that's it in a nutshell "

dnt think it will ever change man but what can ya do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lolyes that's it in a nutshell

dnt think it will ever change man but what can ya do lol"

Just put in the time. If you REALLY want that veri get your hole on a bus and put it the time and do the coffee meet.

Sacrifices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. and my I add that you're a good addition to the forums (even though you're as inquisitive as FUCK)

LOL

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i totally agree with u on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" x"

Less of that smiling craic, you'll be paying for my coffee (I don't even drink coffee)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a guy that travelled from wexford to cavan just on the understanding that it was coffee ONLY. it didnt end at coffee only tho...mmmm lovely coffee that was....sorry yes but my point is that he travelled that distance with NO expectations.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dontdo coffee meets,its fabswingers,not fabjava,when we meet,we meet to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint "

Im extremely Anti-Alcohol

So there'll be a zero tolerance on pints

Coffee it is!

What brings you to the Big G anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lolyes that's it in a nutshell

dnt think it will ever change man but what can ya do lol

Just put in the time. If you REALLY want that veri get your hole on a bus and put it the time and do the coffee meet.

Sacrifices"

nah im goim to dunlin soon to meet someone but I have to go down anyway ... what im sayin is that a 4 hour bus journey can b a bit of a nightmare for just a coffee .. especially If its midweek .. dnt get me wrong I know it has to be done im only conplain because I dnt have a car atm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok tea then? Lol

Sending you a message , bit of privacy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lolyes that's it in a nutshell

dnt think it will ever change man but what can ya do lol

Just put in the time. If you REALLY want that veri get your hole on a bus and put it the time and do the coffee meet.

Sacrifices

nah im goim to dunlin soon to meet someone but I have to go down anyway ... what im sayin is that a 4 hour bus journey can b a bit of a nightmare for just a coffee .. especially If its midweek .. dnt get me wrong I know it has to be done im only conplain because I dnt have a car atm lol"
i always openly speak my mind! IMO that is a complete nightmare! Lol lovely if u get additions but travelling 4 hours 4 a chat and a coffee! Tough going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have one either, i only travel on Saturdays , but for parties and well verified guys, all you need is an ipad and music, watch a movie, read a book or listen to music, time flies, i have travelled a good bit over the past few weeks and let me tell you it was soooooo worth it

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We had a guy travel from Port Laois just for a drink and if we had more time that evening we prob would have had sum fun but time wasnt something we had and he knew that and still wanted to meet just for a drink, we kinda felt a bit bad and said we could meet half way but he said it was ok for him to come to Cork , but i do think that traveling for over an hour just for a coffee is a waste unless there is a mutual attraction and a connection too . We dont mind meeting local lads or cpls fir coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok tea then? Lol

Sending you a message , bit of privacy "

I dont do private messages

Unless you put "Pizza" in the subject lol

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over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lolyes that's it in a nutshell

dnt think it will ever change man but what can ya do lol

Just put in the time. If you REALLY want that veri get your hole on a bus and put it the time and do the coffee meet.

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nah im goim to dunlin soon to meet someone but I have to go down anyway ... what im sayin is that a 4 hour bus journey can b a bit of a nightmare for just a coffee .. especially If its midweek .. dnt get me wrong I know it has to be done im only conplain because I dnt have a car atm loli always openly speak my mind! IMO that is a complete nightmare! Lol lovely if u get additions but travelling 4 hours 4 a chat and a coffee! Tough going "

You don't need to travel 4 hours for a coffee have standards/cut off points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is a nightnare like lol ... because if its just a coffee u travel the whoke way down for 4 hours theb bk up that 8 hour round trip ... im goin down this wkend and im booking a hotel not because im yptimistic lol just because im gonna make a weekend of it !! u have to speak ur mind thats what majes us individuals otherwise we would just be sayin baaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lolyes that's it in a nutshell

dnt think it will ever change man but what can ya do lol

Just put in the time. If you REALLY want that veri get your hole on a bus and put it the time and do the coffee meet.

Sacrifices

nah im goim to dunlin soon to meet someone but I have to go down anyway ... what im sayin is that a 4 hour bus journey can b a bit of a nightmare for just a coffee .. especially If its midweek .. dnt get me wrong I know it has to be done im only conplain because I dnt have a car atm loli always openly speak my mind! IMO that is a complete nightmare! Lol lovely if u get additions but travelling 4 hours 4 a chat and a coffee! Tough going

You don't need to travel 4 hours for a coffee have standards/cut off points"
i initially said 1 n a half to 2 hours! I don't think I'd travel over an hour for a coffee meet! The pool of women is small here but then when other things come into account it becomes much smaller

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over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all

thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lolyes that's it in a nutshell

dnt think it will ever change man but what can ya do lol

Just put in the time. If you REALLY want that veri get your hole on a bus and put it the time and do the coffee meet.

Sacrifices

nah im goim to dunlin soon to meet someone but I have to go down anyway ... what im sayin is that a 4 hour bus journey can b a bit of a nightmare for just a coffee .. especially If its midweek .. dnt get me wrong I know it has to be done im only conplain because I dnt have a car atm loli always openly speak my mind! IMO that is a complete nightmare! Lol lovely if u get additions but travelling 4 hours 4 a chat and a coffee! Tough going

You don't need to travel 4 hours for a coffee have standards/cut off points"

I think u know what I mean ... I have standards if I just wanted the ride id head out in derry lol theres plenty of women here its the swingin experience im after ... and did u not just say get ur hole on the bus if ye really want that veri lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah get your hole on the bus and travel within an hour and a half.

The swinging exp? Sure meeting a single woman here is the same as meeting a woman-- on a night out in Derry like you said.

Real swinging exp'- get a woman on night out in Derry and get her on board and meet swinging couples. Thats swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a guy travel up from cork for lunch. He knew that was all it was going to be but he still wanted to meet me

Myself I travel one hour. One and a half if meeting guys from the south But then coffee meets are arranged around other activities, they may be on business or I have to be somewhere for another reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all "
yes......ps this question could have been lot shorter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats why im on here .. dunno about u but I dnt just meet a girl take her home and ask her oh yea do u fancy being my swinging partner maybe im shy I dunno ...but most girls I meet out are very vanilla and I want to try new things and I aint settling down just yet ... u are right though I woukdnt go any further than an hour and a half away for a coffee or social

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over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all yes......ps this question could have been lot shorter "

Lol Jack think he wanted us to know he gets break at 8.30am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't drink coffee so that rules out a coffee meet for me

But I couldn't turn down a nice cup of tea mmmm it's worth it to meet someone for a coffee or tea even if it means traveling for 4 hours book a hotel you never know you might kill to birds with the one stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats why im on here .. dunno about u but I dnt just meet a girl take her home and ask her oh yea do u fancy being my swinging partner maybe im shy I dunno ...but most girls I meet out are very vanilla and I want to try new things and I aint settling down just yet ... u are right though I woukdnt go any further than an hour and a half away for a coffee or social"

Don't thino just because these women are here that they're as adventurous as hell.

Alot of extremely shy women here who aren't as sex crazed as you think.

Derry may be you're best option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dontdo coffee meets,its fabswingers,not fabjava,when we meet,we meet to play"
thats were couples are at an advantage...theres safety in numbers. i feel better meeting for coffee first to get an idea of someone.but i have been known to play on a coffee date too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't drink coffee so that rules out a coffee meet for me

But I couldn't turn down a nice cup of tea mmmm it's worth it to meet someone for a coffee or tea even if it means traveling for 4 hours book a hotel you never know you might kill to birds with the one stone "
or just head out that night in the locality and bring a bird home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats why im on here .. dunno about u but I dnt just meet a girl take her home and ask her oh yea do u fancy being my swinging partner maybe im shy I dunno ...but most girls I meet out are very vanilla and I want to try new things and I aint settling down just yet ... u are right though I woukdnt go any further than an hour and a half away for a coffee or social

Don't thino just because these women are here that they're as adventurous as hell.

Alot of extremely shy women here who aren't as sex crazed as you think.

Derry may be you're best option"

of course not all woman on here are adventurous that why you chat and find out ..

where did I say any woman was sex crazed ?? ... well if a woman is shy and and we het chatting theb we know we are not for eachother simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah get your hole on the bus and travel within an hour and a half.

The swinging exp? Sure meeting a single woman here is the same as meeting a woman-- on a night out in Derry like you said.

Real swinging exp'- get a woman on night out in Derry and get her on board and meet swinging couples. Thats swinging"
spoken like a fooker who has forgotten what its like to have no wheels..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to meet for coffee first to see if there is a spark and what the person is like face to face its very easy to lie on the internet and i was always willing to travel half way for coffee although i had a few travel to me from cork r make a stop when they was traveling from dublin to galway. Meeting for coffee has never let me down and sometimes it didnt always stick to just coffee but that is decided after a good chat. I know this is fabswingers and not fabcoffee r fabchat but you have to be safe and a gut feeling during a coffee meet can save u might be harder to say no or leave if ur in a hotel room already and have exchanged megs sayin u will meet for fun alot of freaks and fakes on this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always like to meet for coffee first to see if there is a spark and what the person is like face to face its very easy to lie on the internet and i was always willing to travel half way for coffee although i had a few travel to me from cork r make a stop when they was traveling from dublin to galway. Meeting for coffee has never let me down and sometimes it didnt always stick to just coffee but that is decided after a good chat. I know this is fabswingers and not fabcoffee r fabchat but you have to be safe and a gut feeling during a coffee meet can save u might be harder to say no or leave if ur in a hotel room already and have exchanged megs sayin u will meet for fun alot of freaks and fakes on this! "

How's that certain thing doing?

Im a great god father *cough cough*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could not have said it better, you are totally right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always like to meet for coffee first to see if there is a spark and what the person is like face to face its very easy to lie on the internet and i was always willing to travel half way for coffee although i had a few travel to me from cork r make a stop when they was traveling from dublin to galway. Meeting for coffee has never let me down and sometimes it didnt always stick to just coffee but that is decided after a good chat. I know this is fabswingers and not fabcoffee r fabchat but you have to be safe and a gut feeling during a coffee meet can save u might be harder to say no or leave if ur in a hotel room already and have exchanged megs sayin u will meet for fun alot of freaks and fakes on this! "

I totally agree with this as when I first joined I did meet a guy in a hotel room (without a coffee meet first) and I just couldn't do it as he was soo different that his pic as it was at least 10 years old!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me it's pretty simple! I wouldn't meet anyone on just a picture! I would have to skype/cam with them and chat on phone! Again for me personality is not a huge thing! Aslong as she's not a pure and utter cow! as the say goes "you can't wank over a personality"! if a girl is somewhat physically attractive to me, I'm game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dontdo coffee meets,its fabswingers,not fabjava,when we meet,we meet to playthats were couples are at an advantage...theres safety in numbers. i feel better meeting for coffee first to get an idea of someone.but i have been known to play on a coffee date too "

So have I

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all "

On my previous profile I had stated preferably within a certain distance as I would expect a coffee meet first however if all going well you'd never know where that coffee could lead to be prepared for the unexpected

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint

Im extremely Anti-Alcohol

So there'll be a zero tolerance on pints

Coffee it is!

What brings you to the Big G anyway? "

can a meet not have a drink with you dtg

and to think you were on my to do list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now there is an image

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint

Im extremely Anti-Alcohol

So there'll be a zero tolerance on pints

Coffee it is!

What brings you to the Big G anyway?

can a meet not have a drink with you dtg

and to think you were on my to do list "

Hal behave ya big Fuck yeah

No I wouldn't do the pub thing. Not my scene.

Much classier than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all "

I traveled from artane in dub to portloaise (about 2 hours as i don't drive) just for coffee i have no problem with it. Now i don't think id get train to cork for coffee but within reason id travel no problem. I think its best then there is no pressure on anyone you can be more relaxed. Tbh all my meets end up been sex but i think its just best to go with no intent. That's just me Im an interest

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"We dontdo coffee meets,its fabswingers,not fabjava,when we meet,we meet to playthats were couples are at an advantage...theres safety in numbers. i feel better meeting for coffee first to get an idea of someone.but i have been known to play on a coffee date too "

yes couples are at a advantage safety wise but the disadvantage is 4 ppl have to get along.....so it has to be a social meet for us first to much pressure...but our location makes it possible for us to meet and shag most of the country if the other party is willing to meet us half way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love your honesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is a must for me, i don't go for looks, i chat to the guy, here , phone, cam and if i can have a laugh and he is open minded and kinky i am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? "

Alot

Obv there has to be an attraction also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dontdo coffee meets,its fabswingers,not fabjava,when we meet,we meet to playthats were couples are at an advantage...theres safety in numbers. i feel better meeting for coffee first to get an idea of someone.but i have been known to play on a coffee date too

yes couples are at a advantage safety wise but the disadvantage is 4 ppl have to get along.....so it has to be a social meet for us first to much pressure...but our location makes it possible for us to meet and shag most of the country if the other party is willing to meet us half way"
well i have the same prob being in cavan... thank god for my crackin boobs coz they make men travel

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint

Im extremely Anti-Alcohol

So there'll be a zero tolerance on pints

Coffee it is!

What brings you to the Big G anyway?

can a meet not have a drink with you dtg

and to think you were on my to do list

Hal behave ya big Fuck yeah

No I wouldn't do the pub thing. Not my scene.

Much classier than that"

do u think class can be taught dtg????

I can teach you how to make a longbow from native materials.could save your life someday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? "

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint

Im extremely Anti-Alcohol

So there'll be a zero tolerance on pints

Coffee it is!

What brings you to the Big G anyway?

can a meet not have a drink with you dtg

and to think you were on my to do list

Hal behave ya big Fuck yeah

No I wouldn't do the pub thing. Not my scene.

Much classier than that

do u think class can be taught dtg????

I can teach you how to make a longbow from native materials.could save your life someday"

Not sure if class can be taught. Just watch aloada Don Johnson movies

I have a longbow. Something else perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. "
a jolly personality for me is needed but it's not the be all and end all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint

Im extremely Anti-Alcohol

So there'll be a zero tolerance on pints hal behave ya big Fuck yeah

No I wouldn't do the pub thing. Not my scene.

Much classier than that

do u think class can be taught dtg????

I can teach you how to make a longbow from native materials.could save your life someday"
will u teach me....im a good student

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you meet a woman who you are really attracted to but she has no personality whatsover you'd still have sex with her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. a jolly personality for me is needed but it's not the be all and end all"

I understand that but if no personality then no attraction and if no attraction id be thinking of fixing the broken something or what ill do after work or something so the fun would not really be fun. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. "

Totally agree

I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you meet a woman who you are really attracted to but she has no personality whatsover you'd still have sex with her?"
of course he would....all men would..!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint

Im extremely Anti-Alcohol

So there'll be a zero tolerance on pints

Coffee it is!

What brings you to the Big G anyway?

can a meet not have a drink with you dtg

and to think you were on my to do list

Hal behave ya big Fuck yeah

No I wouldn't do the pub thing. Not my scene.

Much classier than that"
ya big excluding bollox .......

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? "

personality is most important......but there has to be attraction too cause if not its just friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lol"
maybe i am..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you meet a woman who you are really attracted to but she has no personality whatsover you'd still have sex with her?of course he would....all men would..!!!"

Not all men cat. Some still are not all about getting off. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off.

Totally agree

I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality

"
hhhmmmmm

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off.

Totally agree

I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality

"

cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lol"

No no not at all there is a lot that wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. "
a here...feckin bet most would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off.

Totally agree

I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality

cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most women that are here a while can see who is here for a hole and who isn't , and i amsure you do too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would "

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off.

Totally agree

I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality

cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol"
pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off.

Totally agree

I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality

cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol"

Note I said lookalike, the man himself would be tied to the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Haha"
split personality syndrome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off.

Totally agree

I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality

cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol

Note I said lookalike, the man himself would be tied to the bed "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Hahasplit personality syndrome "

What one of us are you talking to. . Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Hahasplit personality syndrome

What one of us are you talking to. . Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Haha"
id safely say everyone gets it......you wouldntt.....ok offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Haha id safely say everyone gets it......you wouldntt.....ok offs "

???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Hahasplit personality syndrome

What one of us are you talking to. . Lol "

Don't mind them two Im back now. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i did get caught out but i met him for coffee too before hand and taught he was lovely and honest but he wasnt sometimes fakes and liers and good at it but at least wit a coffee meet first u have more of a chance to figure it out id still recommend a coffee meet first for people b4 goin to a hotel to meet a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Haha id safely say everyone gets it......you wouldntt.....ok offs "

That actually made me lol literally Selina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Haha id safely say everyone gets it......you wouldntt.....ok offs

That actually made me lol literally Selina "
good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So if you meet a woman who you are really attracted to but she has no personality whatsover you'd still have sex with her?"
if she's stunning? Of course I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Haha id safely say everyone gets it......you wouldntt.....ok offs

That actually made me lol literally Selina good "
that a dig jack?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. a here...feckin bet most would

I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Haha id safely say everyone gets it......you wouldntt.....ok offs

That actually made me lol literally Selina good that a dig jack?"
is what a dig......o and fyi....my digs usually ain't hard to read....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So i assume you'd travel 4 hours back and forth too if she is stunning? Lol

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over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 04/02/14 13:16:12]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. and my I add that you're a good addition to the forums (even though you're as inquisitive as FUCK)

LOL

i totally agree with u on this "
I do agree on the inquisitive remark not sure about the good addition to the forums. You seem to over analyse everything too much is my humble opinion.... Very tirying I must say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you soaked some knickers yet? Just wondering knickersoaker....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. and my I add that you're a good addition to the forums (even though you're as inquisitive as FUCK)

LOL

i totally agree with u on this I do agree on the inquisitive remark not sure about the good addition to the forums. You seem to over analyse everything too much is my humble opinion.... Very tirying I must say"
pmsl....actually laughing out loud .....that was harsh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah give him a break

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".. and my I add that you're a good addition to the forums (even though you're as inquisitive as FUCK)

LOL

i totally agree with u on this I do agree on the inquisitive remark not sure about the good addition to the forums. You seem to over analyse everything too much is my humble opinion.... Very tirying I must say"
its just opinions on different topics! If you don't like it, you don't have to comment! as I said I speak my mind! I'm on a site to have sexual fun not coffee fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you soaked some knickers yet? Just wondering knickersoaker...."
lost count how many

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The main reason why I want to do coffee meet first is because it takes less long to get ready for a coffee meet. I don't know about other women but shaving/waxing/buffing/nails/hair/make-up/lingerie... it's the extra time and effort.

So having done that a few times and then been cancelled so many times last minute I can't be arsed anymore to make that extra effort before someone proofs that they're genuine and actually show up. Don't get me wrong I do look after myself and don't look like a slob on a normal day lol But the difference in time and effort is substantial enough.

Now I have played after a coffee/drink meet before but I don't like the pressure and somewhat expectations. I rather get to know the person a bit, chillax and arrange something more intimate next time if we fancy what we see.

I can understand if someone doesn't want to travel long for this only, but then that's fine, I move on to the next person.

My question to the OP: If your meet says e.g. if we get along at our coffee meet we can go to a hotel etc.. you travelled 4 hrs for this. You arrive but she doesn't fancy you or vice versa. What then?

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over a year ago

sorry for the long post... I'm not the most concise writer... tough to do this when it's not your native language (great excuse, I know!)

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over a year ago

I totally agree with it sweet!! And i am waiting for tge answer

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun?

If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off.

Totally agree

I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality

cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol

Note I said lookalike, the man himself would be tied to the bed "

for me he is the essence of the word attractive........just have a mental pic now of him tied to the bed......mine not yours.....mind if i use this pic kinda running out of my own

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over a year ago


"The main reason why I want to do coffee meet first is because it takes less long to get ready for a coffee meet. I don't know about other women but shaving/waxing/buffing/nails/hair/make-up/lingerie... it's the extra time and effort.

So having done that a few times and then been cancelled so many times last minute I can't be arsed anymore to make that extra effort before someone proofs that they're genuine and actually show up. Don't get me wrong I do look after myself and don't look like a slob on a normal day lol But the difference in time and effort is substantial enough.

Now I have played after a coffee/drink meet before but I don't like the pressure and somewhat expectations. I rather get to know the person a bit, chillax and arrange something more intimate next time if we fancy what we see.

I can understand if someone doesn't want to travel long for this only, but then that's fine, I move on to the next person.

My question to the OP: If your meet says e.g. if we get along at our coffee meet we can go to a hotel etc.. you travelled 4 hrs for this. You arrive but she doesn't fancy you or vice versa. What then? "
see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help?

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" see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help?"

always a great idea to phone/skype before anyway! But I've done that and actually didn't fancy them in person. So what if you show up and she says no. Would you be pissed off?

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over a year ago


"sorry for the long post... I'm not the most concise writer... tough to do this when it's not your native language (great excuse, I know!) "
you speak better than some on here where english IS their first language

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over a year ago


" see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help?

always a great idea to phone/skype before anyway! But I've done that and actually didn't fancy them in person. So what if you show up and she says no. Would you be pissed off? "
id probably tell her to get her cameras lens fixed on her camera or go to specsavers lol. I have seen people look very diff in person to a picture but I have never seen a person look different on skype then in person! Just my experience!

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over a year ago


"sorry for the long post... I'm not the most concise writer... tough to do this when it's not your native language (great excuse, I know!) you speak better than some on here where english IS their first language "

aaaawww mwah!!!

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over a year ago

Much better than me anyway and i have been in Ireland 14 years , fairplay

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over a year ago


"So i assume you'd travel 4 hours back and forth too if she is stunning? Lol"

Id have no problem traveling that to meet someone i was getting along with. But the looks this never really plays that BIG a part for me.

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over a year ago


" see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help?

always a great idea to phone/skype before anyway! But I've done that and actually didn't fancy them in person. So what if you show up and she says no. Would you be pissed off? id probably tell her to get her cameras lens fixed on her camera or go to specsavers lol. I have seen people look very diff in person to a picture but I have never seen a person look different on skype then in person! Just my experience!"

that's because you don't really mind what personality the woman has and if there's chemistry (based on your previous posts). Most women do care about it and you only really know if it's there when you meet them in person.

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over a year ago

I agree, was asking the guy who soaks all knickers lol

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over a year ago


"sorry for the long post... I'm not the most concise writer... tough to do this when it's not your native language (great excuse, I know!) you speak better than some on here where english IS their first language "

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over a year ago

Round of applause please!!

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over a year ago


" see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help?

always a great idea to phone/skype before anyway! But I've done that and actually didn't fancy them in person. So what if you show up and she says no. Would you be pissed off? id probably tell her to get her cameras lens fixed on her camera or go to specsavers lol. I have seen people look very diff in person to a picture but I have never seen a person look different on skype then in person! Just my experience!

that's because you don't really mind what personality the woman has and if there's chemistry (based on your previous posts). Most women do care about it and you only really know if it's there when you meet them in person. "
hey hey we agree lol that is the sole difference between most women and younger men! Want me to be honest? I never understand this chemistry thing women go on with for fun and that's me been deadly serious!

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over a year ago


"Round of applause please!! "

Ah stop it you all!

(but I love it!)

no worries my young friend knickersoaker. Each to their own. Unfortunately for you though I think the majority of women do need that chemistry to feel comfortable and to be able to let go and hence have fabulous sex. But good news! The ladies' whose knickers you have helped soaking must have felt that chemistry, otherwise they quite likely would have stayed dry -- see Dutchie's post LMAO

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over a year ago


"Round of applause please!!

Ah stop it you all!

(but I love it!)

no worries my young friend knickersoaker. Each to their own. Unfortunately for you though I think the majority of women do need that chemistry to feel comfortable and to be able to let go and hence have fabulous sex. But good news! The ladies' whose knickers you have helped soaking must have felt that chemistry, otherwise they quite likely would have stayed dry -- see Dutchie's post LMAO"
i see you didn't try explain what chemistry is through fun! I totally understand it in a loving serious relationship! IMO wanting chemistry and connection opens a dirty can of worms and leads to complications with feelings etc! Maybe I'm wrong tho

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over a year ago


" Maybe I'm wrong tho "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Maybe I'm wrong tho

"
so explain to me what's chemistry through fun? I know what connection is that's a personality and or a physical attraction

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over a year ago


" Maybe I'm wrong tho

so explain to me what's chemistry through fun? I know what connection is that's a personality and or a physical attraction "

I'm tired my dear. Go and ask Daddy. Or Google.

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over a year ago


" Maybe I'm wrong tho

so explain to me what's chemistry through fun? I know what connection is that's a personality and or a physical attraction

I'm tired my dear. Go and ask Daddy. Or Google. "
ill take that as you can't explain it! No problem

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over a year ago


"Round of applause please!!

Ah stop it you all!

(but I love it!)

no worries my young friend knickersoaker. Each to their own. Unfortunately for you though I think the majority of women do need that chemistry to feel comfortable and to be able to let go and hence have fabulous sex. But good news! The ladies' whose knickers you have helped soaking must have felt that chemistry, otherwise they quite likely would have stayed dry -- see Dutchie's post LMAOi see you didn't try explain what chemistry is through fun! I totally understand it in a loving serious relationship! IMO wanting chemistry and connection opens a dirty can of worms and leads to complications with feelings etc! Maybe I'm wrong tho "

Chemistry doesn't be the sole domain of a loving serious relationship.

I ha e great chemistry with a couple of regular meets on here. It was like omg, this person understands me and the sex it totally inhabititive and amazing, time and time again

We are not loving couples. We are people who have met someone who we click with sexually and we enjoy each other because of that.

That, when looking for NSA is what it's all about. You can be meeting the best looking person in the world but without that chemistry and personality, you may as well stay home and wank

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over a year ago


"Round of applause please!!

Ah stop it you all!

(but I love it!)

no worries my young friend knickersoaker. Each to their own. Unfortunately for you though I think the majority of women do need that chemistry to feel comfortable and to be able to let go and hence have fabulous sex. But good news! The ladies' whose knickers you have helped soaking must have felt that chemistry, otherwise they quite likely would have stayed dry -- see Dutchie's post LMAOi see you didn't try explain what chemistry is through fun! I totally understand it in a loving serious relationship! IMO wanting chemistry and connection opens a dirty can of worms and leads to complications with feelings etc! Maybe I'm wrong tho

Chemistry doesn't be the sole domain of a loving serious relationship.

I ha e great chemistry with a couple of regular meets on here. It was like omg, this person understands me and the sex it totally inhabititive and amazing, time and time again

We are not loving couples. We are people who have met someone who we click with sexually and we enjoy each other because of that.

That, when looking for NSA is what it's all about. You can be meeting the best looking person in the world but without that chemistry and personality, you may as well stay home and wank

"
I have just googled it and the first thing came up is,, " most men can have great sex and don't need sexual chemistry" the next line said "most women can't have sex without chemistry" "a man can shag his female friend just for sexual release but it's more to her! She feels a desire and connection between them"! I guess it's just a difference between a lot of men and women

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Round of applause please!!

Ah stop it you all!

(but I love it!)

no worries my young friend knickersoaker. Each to their own. Unfortunately for you though I think the majority of women do need that chemistry to feel comfortable and to be able to let go and hence have fabulous sex. But good news! The ladies' whose knickers you have helped soaking must have felt that chemistry, otherwise they quite likely would have stayed dry -- see Dutchie's post LMAOi see you didn't try explain what chemistry is through fun! I totally understand it in a loving serious relationship! IMO wanting chemistry and connection opens a dirty can of worms and leads to complications with feelings etc! Maybe I'm wrong tho

Chemistry doesn't be the sole domain of a loving serious relationship.

I ha e great chemistry with a couple of regular meets on here. It was like omg, this person understands me and the sex it totally inhabititive and amazing, time and time again

We are not loving couples. We are people who have met someone who we click with sexually and we enjoy each other because of that.

That, when looking for NSA is what it's all about. You can be meeting the best looking person in the world but without that chemistry and personality, you may as well stay home and wank

"

agree totaly iam in a serious loveing relationship for over 20 years...but have found sexual chemistry with 3 men who are also in serious loving relationships and the sex is great

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over a year ago


" Maybe I'm wrong tho

so explain to me what's chemistry through fun? I know what connection is that's a personality and or a physical attraction

I'm tired my dear. Go and ask Daddy. Or Google. ill take that as you can't explain it! No problem "

Thing is it's very hard to explain the chemistry bit, it's either there or its not. It's usually that naughty twinkle in the eye, the one that matches your own. And I do think you can have a connection without it going too far

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over a year ago


" Maybe I'm wrong tho

so explain to me what's chemistry through fun? I know what connection is that's a personality and or a physical attraction

I'm tired my dear. Go and ask Daddy. Or Google. ill take that as you can't explain it! No problem

Thing is it's very hard to explain the chemistry bit, it's either there or its not. It's usually that naughty twinkle in the eye, the one that matches your own. And I do think you can have a connection without it going too far "
also when I looked up sexual chemistry! It said "it's often the basis in which women look for in a man in the hope of it developing to more"! That's the point I was making! I want it purely at fun! I have had brilliant sex in and out of a relationship

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" Maybe I'm wrong tho

so explain to me what's chemistry through fun? I know what connection is that's a personality and or a physical attraction

I'm tired my dear. Go and ask Daddy. Or Google. ill take that as you can't explain it! No problem "
dude seriously .....chemistry is the creation of connections......the same connections u keep banging on about....there pretty much the same....as for your physical connections ...... there chemical attractions.....

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over a year ago


"Round of applause please!!

Ah stop it you all!

(but I love it!)

no worries my young friend knickersoaker. Each to their own. Unfortunately for you though I think the majority of women do need that chemistry to feel comfortable and to be able to let go and hence have fabulous sex. But good news! The ladies' whose knickers you have helped soaking must have felt that chemistry, otherwise they quite likely would have stayed dry -- see Dutchie's post LMAOi see you didn't try explain what chemistry is through fun! I totally understand it in a loving serious relationship! IMO wanting chemistry and connection opens a dirty can of worms and leads to complications with feelings etc! Maybe I'm wrong tho

Chemistry doesn't be the sole domain of a loving serious relationship.

I ha e great chemistry with a couple of regular meets on here. It was like omg, this person understands me and the sex it totally inhabititive and amazing, time and time again

We are not loving couples. We are people who have met someone who we click with sexually and we enjoy each other because of that.

That, when looking for NSA is what it's all about. You can be meeting the best looking person in the world but without that chemistry and personality, you may as well stay home and wank

I have just googled it and the first thing came up is,, " most men can have great sex and don't need sexual chemistry" the next line said "most women can't have sex without chemistry" "a man can shag his female friend just for sexual release but it's more to her! She feels a desire and connection between them"! I guess it's just a difference between a lot of men and women "

And that's bollocks.

I certainly don't need to feel chemistry to have sexual release, can shag anyone for that

But great sex?????

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over a year ago


"Round of applause please!!

Ah stop it you all!

(but I love it!)

no worries my young friend knickersoaker. Each to their own. Unfortunately for you though I think the majority of women do need that chemistry to feel comfortable and to be able to let go and hence have fabulous sex. But good news! The ladies' whose knickers you have helped soaking must have felt that chemistry, otherwise they quite likely would have stayed dry -- see Dutchie's post LMAOi see you didn't try explain what chemistry is through fun! I totally understand it in a loving serious relationship! IMO wanting chemistry and connection opens a dirty can of worms and leads to complications with feelings etc! Maybe I'm wrong tho

Chemistry doesn't be the sole domain of a loving serious relationship.

I ha e great chemistry with a couple of regular meets on here. It was like omg, this person understands me and the sex it totally inhabititive and amazing, time and time again

We are not loving couples. We are people who have met someone who we click with sexually and we enjoy each other because of that.

That, when looking for NSA is what it's all about. You can be meeting the best looking person in the world but without that chemistry and personality, you may as well stay home and wank

I have just googled it and the first thing came up is,, " most men can have great sex and don't need sexual chemistry" the next line said "most women can't have sex without chemistry" "a man can shag his female friend just for sexual release but it's more to her! She feels a desire and connection between them"! I guess it's just a difference between a lot of men and women

And that's bollocks.

I certainly don't need to feel chemistry to have sexual release, can shag anyone for that

But great sex?????"
I have had great sex with women! Maybe it's just a lot of men havnt a clue what chemistry is! The stuff I quoted there was on a page when I typed in "what is sexual chemistry"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly nippy, you can't have tricky great sex unless there is some sort of connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops should have been truly good sex

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Oops should have been truly good sex "

Sometimes they're the same thing!

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over a year ago


"Oops should have been truly good sex

Sometimes they're the same thing! "

I wonder what kind of tricky positions sofia has been trying!??

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirely

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over a year ago


"Round of applause please!!

Ah stop it you all!

(but I love it!)

no worries my young friend knickersoaker. Each to their own. Unfortunately for you though I think the majority of women do need that chemistry to feel comfortable and to be able to let go and hence have fabulous sex. But good news! The ladies' whose knickers you have helped soaking must have felt that chemistry, otherwise they quite likely would have stayed dry -- see Dutchie's post LMAOi see you didn't try explain what chemistry is through fun! I totally understand it in a loving serious relationship! IMO wanting chemistry and connection opens a dirty can of worms and leads to complications with feelings etc! Maybe I'm wrong tho

Chemistry doesn't be the sole domain of a loving serious relationship.

I ha e great chemistry with a couple of regular meets on here. It was like omg, this person understands me and the sex it totally inhabititive and amazing, time and time again

We are not loving couples. We are people who have met someone who we click with sexually and we enjoy each other because of that.

That, when looking for NSA is what it's all about. You can be meeting the best looking person in the world but without that chemistry and personality, you may as well stay home and wank

I have just googled it and the first thing came up is,, " most men can have great sex and don't need sexual chemistry" the next line said "most women can't have sex without chemistry" "a man can shag his female friend just for sexual release but it's more to her! She feels a desire and connection between them"! I guess it's just a difference between a lot of men and women

And that's bollocks.

I certainly don't need to feel chemistry to have sexual release, can shag anyone for that

But great sex?????I have had great sex with women! Maybe it's just a lot of men havnt a clue what chemistry is! The stuff I quoted there was on a page when I typed in "what is sexual chemistry""
your using Google to get ur info ....... that's not going to work out well......

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirely"

I hate women with standards! It's so unfair!

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over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirely"
doesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?

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over a year ago


"Round of applause please!!

Ah stop it you all!

(but I love it!)

no worries my young friend knickersoaker. Each to their own. Unfortunately for you though I think the majority of women do need that chemistry to feel comfortable and to be able to let go and hence have fabulous sex. But good news! The ladies' whose knickers you have helped soaking must have felt that chemistry, otherwise they quite likely would have stayed dry -- see Dutchie's post LMAOi see you didn't try explain what chemistry is through fun! I totally understand it in a loving serious relationship! IMO wanting chemistry and connection opens a dirty can of worms and leads to complications with feelings etc! Maybe I'm wrong tho

Chemistry doesn't be the sole domain of a loving serious relationship.

I ha e great chemistry with a couple of regular meets on here. It was like omg, this person understands me and the sex it totally inhabititive and amazing, time and time again

We are not loving couples. We are people who have met someone who we click with sexually and we enjoy each other because of that.

That, when looking for NSA is what it's all about. You can be meeting the best looking person in the world but without that chemistry and personality, you may as well stay home and wank

I have just googled it and the first thing came up is,, " most men can have great sex and don't need sexual chemistry" the next line said "most women can't have sex without chemistry" "a man can shag his female friend just for sexual release but it's more to her! She feels a desire and connection between them"! I guess it's just a difference between a lot of men and women

And that's bollocks.

I certainly don't need to feel chemistry to have sexual release, can shag anyone for that

But great sex?????I have had great sex with women! Maybe it's just a lot of men havnt a clue what chemistry is! The stuff I quoted there was on a page when I typed in "what is sexual chemistry" your using Google to get ur info ....... that's not going to work out well...... "
i was told to!

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over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?"
oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers......

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

For me it's to see if we get along and have an attraction. Keeps me safe too .

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over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers...... "
great sex for a woman does come from a man who knows what he's doing

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over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers...... great sex for a woman does come from a man who knows what he's doing "

No a man knowing what he us doing helps, but sometimes exploring what works makes for great sex

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over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers...... great sex for a woman does come from a man who knows what he's doing

No a man knowing what he us doing helps, but sometimes exploring what works makes for great sex"
exactly all women have different little areas on her body which make her tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, in some cases verifications are overrated

FACT! MINE are overrated "

Yours are defo not overrated DTG I never lie

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over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?"

You do have a lot to learn me thinks

You know that expression, it not size it's how you use it?

Well that means that you know the woman. You read her. You read what's working and what's not, you know what questions need to be asked, and what ones don't

That's where the chemistry comes into it. That what makes great sex. If you have that, you can even get girls deep throating and cum swallowing

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over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers...... great sex for a woman does come from a man who knows what he's doing

No a man knowing what he us doing helps, but sometimes exploring what works makes for great sexexactly all women have different little areas on her body which make her tick "

Yeah but unless I fancy something about them hes still not going to find those out. Why I do coffee meets or if far away a Skype or hangout on Google

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?"

not sure if any other women would agree with me....yes of course it helps if he knows what he doing but knowing the karma sutra back to front or even front to back is not gonna make it happen if the right connection isent there.....not something that can be explained too easily

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?

You do have a lot to learn me thinks

You know that expression, it not size it's how you use it?

Well that means that you know the woman. You read her. You read what's working and what's not, you know what questions need to be asked, and what ones don't

That's where the chemistry comes into it. That what makes great sex. If you have that, you can even get girls deep throating and cum swallowing "
lol I never once mentioned size! it's like I said! Exploring her body and finding what works for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?

not sure if any other women would agree with me....yes of course it helps if he knows what he doing but knowing the karma sutra back to front or even front to back is not gonna make it happen if the right connection isent there.....not something that can be explained too easily "

Lol you said it better than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?

not sure if any other women would agree with me....yes of course it helps if he knows what he doing but knowing the karma sutra back to front or even front to back is not gonna make it happen if the right connection isent there.....not something that can be explained too easily "
this applies to more then just you! Ye women are as complicated as be dammed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always like to meet for coffee first to see if there is a spark and what the person is like face to face its very easy to lie on the internet and i was always willing to travel half way for coffee although i had a few travel to me from cork r make a stop when they was traveling from dublin to galway. Meeting for coffee has never let me down and sometimes it didnt always stick to just coffee but that is decided after a good chat. I know this is fabswingers and not fabcoffee r fabchat but you have to be safe and a gut feeling during a coffee meet can save u might be harder to say no or leave if ur in a hotel room already and have exchanged megs sayin u will meet for fun alot of freaks and fakes on this! "

You are so right that's it in a nutshell for me.

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