FabSwingers.com forum: Coffee meet

By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Now ladies would you be offended if you've arranged a coffee meet with someone and then told it might be a double date. When asked why he replys have arranged to meet another lady at the same time from here......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda yea hes totaly kept his options open in case one of u pulled out and now meetin u both ..the dude is seriously chancin his arm....lol

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Kinda yea hes totaly kept his options open in case one of u pulled out and now meetin u both ..the dude is seriously chancin his arm....lol"

Couldnt agree more......told him to meet the other one. Not heard back yet

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

That's what u call using initiative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kinda yea hes totaly kept his options open in case one of u pulled out and now meetin u both ..the dude is seriously chancin his arm....lol

Couldnt agree more......told him to meet the other one. Not heard back yet "

for lack of a better wors hes just fuckin rude lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be pissed off if it was for at the same time. If at slightly different times not so much as long as the meet didn't feel rushed

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I wonder if he told the other lady it was going to be a double date.......lol

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Now ladies would you be offended if you've arranged a coffee meet with someone and then told it might be a double date. When asked why he replys have arranged to meet another lady at the same time from here......

He's a fcekin prick in my eyes....that's lower than a snakes belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope she cancelled at the last minute lol

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I would be pissed off if it was for at the same time. If at slightly different times not so much as long as the meet didn't feel rushed"

He only has an hour for lunch so I am presuming its for the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id tell him to get lost!he had arranged to meet u on yur own didnt he,surely he cud meet the other girl another time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he must be a tight fecker from cavan lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the cheek of him, I'd cancel the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all fairness ye ladies talk often about your rules and what not. Why judge? He was honest. It's a swingers site. If it wasn't for you,well that's completely your perogitive,but the lad had balls to be up front. It's not something I would do,but surely this is the last place to judge someone? Maybe he was optimistic!!!!!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

He only has an hr for lunch be some craic if the ladies hit it off and waved bye to him going back to work as they headed to a local hotel

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"I would be pissed off if it was for at the same time. If at slightly different times not so much as long as the meet didn't feel rushed

He only has an hour for lunch so I am presuming its for the same time"

Probably ask you to drink the top half if the coffee too before passing it onto the other one ffs

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Pmsl..........yes agree brave for being honest but still not the right thing to do

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I would be pissed off if it was for at the same time. If at slightly different times not so much as long as the meet didn't feel rushed

He only has an hour for lunch so I am presuming its for the same time

Probably ask you to drink the top half if the coffee too before passing it onto the other one ffs

feck never thought of that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah here...i would tell him exactly where to go and what to do when he gets there....gobshite...!!!!

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Is it in the Abbey centre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I can see why he did it....swinging, like dating for single men is a numbers game....you ask 10 to expect 1. He got lucky however and got 2. Not to seem like a timewaster or to fuck either woman around he chanced a double date...as in his head he wasnt going on a romantic or vanilla date, and thought it was ok.

Personally i would have spaced out both dates and not done them on my lunch break, but i cant really blame the guy for trying.

~Mr. Slut.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"ah here...i would tell him exactly where to go and what to do when he gets there....gobshite...!!!!"

I love the word gobshite !!!!!

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Is it in the Abbey centre

Nope

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Whilst there are some ladies on here i wouldnt mind meeting for a cuppa/chat i certainly wouldnt meet a fella who had invited someone else along unless it was pre arranged with all parties.

Cant see too many men who would like it if a fem arranged to meet them and then announced there may be another guy joining them either...especially as its coffee and not play.

Yes he was honest and told toxic but i would have thought re arranging the other would have been best

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"To be honest I can see why he did it....swinging, like dating for single men is a numbers game....you ask 10 to expect 1. He got lucky however and got 2. Not to seem like a timewaster or to fuck either woman around he chanced a double date...as in his head he wasnt going on a romantic or vanilla date, and thought it was ok.

Personally i would have spaced out both dates and not done them on my lunch break, but i cant really blame the guy for trying.

~Mr. Slut."

No where near the truth....sorry but have been trying for ages for a coffee meet.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

For a single guy its hard enough to get one coffee he was presented with the holy grail two hot sexy women fair play to him he hid nothing he gave advance warning after all there was a greedy girl thread here yesterday looking to tag team guys and i hope i am not wrong but a lot of ladies here were gagging for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did the right thing .....he doesn't deserve you

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Whilst there are some ladies on here i wouldnt mind meeting for a cuppa/chat i certainly wouldnt meet a fella who had invited someone else along unless it was pre arranged with all parties.

Cant see too many men who would like it if a fem arranged to meet them and then announced there may be another guy joining them either...especially as its coffee and not play.

Yes he was honest and told toxic but i would have thought re arranging the other would have been best"

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"For a single guy its hard enough to get one coffee he was presented with the holy grail two hot sexy women fair play to him he hid nothing he gave advance warning after all there was a greedy girl thread here yesterday looking to tag team guys and i hope i am not wrong but a lot of ladies here were gagging for it

Hope this is a wind up post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmmm! could be interesting for ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooooooh!!!

No no no no!...

I can understand thinking ahead and taking into account both parties won't say yes,

but whatever happened to etiquette??...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No where near the truth....sorry but have been trying for ages for a coffee meet. "

Sorry, could you clarify that, he's been trying for a coffee meet for ages, or you have? So there's more to the story if i'm incorrect in my original assumption?

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

No where near the truth....sorry but have been trying for ages for a coffee meet.

Sorry, could you clarify that, he's been trying for a coffee meet for ages, or you have? So there's more to the story if i'm incorrect in my original assumption?"

Both have tried but his work has been an issue. Thats why I agreed to meet him during his lunch break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it in the Abbey centre

Nope"
hilarious randy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He must of thought it was like a BOGOF deal lol

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By *oxic1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"He must of thought it was like a BOGOF deal lol

pmsl.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He must of thought it was like a BOGOF deal lol

now THATS funny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but whatever happened to etiquette??...

what does French bread have to do with this???

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

His own little m&g!!!

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

but whatever happened to etiquette??...

what does French bread have to do with this???

Garlic bread......it's the future !!!

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Is it in the Abbey centre

Nope hilarious randy "

Awh thanks sweetcheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he is just been greedy lol... Hard enough to arrange 1 but 2...... Come on share the wealth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it in the Abbey centre

Nope hilarious randy

Awh thanks sweetcheeks

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thanks randy you sound just like your mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but whatever happened to etiquette??...

what does French bread have to do with this???

Garlic bread......it's the future !!!

Only as long as both parties have it

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Is it in the Abbey centre

Nope hilarious randy

Awh thanks sweetcheeks

thanks randy you sound just like your mother"

She's dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it in the Abbey centre

Nope hilarious randy

Awh thanks sweetcheeks

thanks randy you sound just like your mother

She's dead"
not falling for that

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

but whatever happened to etiquette??...

what does French bread have to do with this???

Garlic bread......it's the future !!!

Only as long as both parties have it

God how true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

randy and hugh... you two are pathetic. Take it somewhere else. It's getting really boring

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Is it in the Abbey centre

Nope hilarious randy

Awh thanks sweetcheeks

thanks randy you sound just like your mother

She's dead not falling for that"

I'm not asking....I'm telling !!

But you work away sur , insult a dead mother ....21 year's and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"randy and hugh... you two are pathetic. Take it somewhere else. It's getting really boring"
it is pathetic I agree but he looks for trouble I'd prefer he ignored me

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"randy and hugh... you two are pathetic. Take it somewhere else. It's getting really boring"

Read back , I've tried to humour the lad and get abit of rapport going.....not my fault

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Anyways...back to topic....what way was it left Toxic ??

You for going ahead with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him to go fuck himself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally unacceptable behaviour in my book.....I hope Mr X is left to enjoy his latte solo!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

toxic 1998

don't play second fiddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play him at his own game. Whisper in her ear n the 2 of u get up n walk away making a scene as u do

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

just plain rude....is it really just a numbers game for men?...tell him its not the kind of 3sum you enjoy...he will hate himself when he thinks of what he might have missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt do it myself, but id say he felt like a dog with 2 dicks at getting to ladies for a coffee, chancing his arm, toxics a lovly lady tho we didnt get a coffee when we met

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By *avy8931Man
over a year ago

ballymena

ive a jar of nescafe gold blend and a packet of mc vities dark chocolate homewheat if a lady is interested in a cuppa n chat

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By *rSlaptickleMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I think that's disrespectful, he's taking the P!

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