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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a paid member im sure you this wouldn't be a bad idea to ileviate all the men with women's profiles wasting everyones time

Nero777

Has a great status up atm:

This is his status:

Hey people,please suggest to admin,that new users be photo verified within 48hrs or deleted.it would greatly reduce the rising amount of FAKES!

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By *ero777Man
over a year ago

Cork city

Let's see what happens

I'm quite sure all the genuine ppl wouldn't have a problem with this idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meh, I've never been photo verified and never will... thinking back when I joined originally, this would have put me off and I would have probably left my profile to expire after 48hrs as suggested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You'd be surprised mate

Even though we're all entitled to our opinions as of late folk just jump on things to start agro.

Hope not in this case as it a topic we all get pee'd about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They're are alot of genuine folk ive met that aren't photo verified.

But it would be great if the new ones from now on would have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a paid member im sure you this wouldn't be a bad idea to ileviate all the men with women's profiles wasting everyones time

Nero777

Has a great status up atm:

This is his status:

Hey people,please suggest to admin,that new users be photo verified within 48hrs or deleted.it would greatly reduce the rising amount of FAKES! "

Great idea but why wait for the Admins, why not just selected to block those not verified. With regular meet & greets etc people have the option to get verified

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By *rBrownnSexyMan
over a year ago

Destination Unknown Munster


"They're are alot of genuine folk ive met that aren't photo verified.

But it would be great if the new ones from now on would have to"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meh, I've never been photo verified and never will... "

Can I ask why?

I don't understand why people wouldn't do something to make things easier for them on the site, unless it undermines a fake persona they're trying to propogate. I know you're not doing that but with almost everyone owning smart phones or laptops with cameras there's no excuse not to in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"meh, I've never been photo verified and never will...

Can I ask why?

I don't understand why people wouldn't do something to make things easier for them on the site, unless it undermines a fake persona they're trying to propogate. I know you're not doing that but with almost everyone owning smart phones or laptops with cameras there's no excuse not to in my opinion."

Very Well Put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could still be faked though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meh, I've never been photo verified and never will...

Can I ask why?

I don't understand why people wouldn't do something to make things easier for them on the site, unless it undermines a fake persona they're trying to propogate. I know you're not doing that but with almost everyone owning smart phones or laptops with cameras there's no excuse not to in my opinion."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could still be faked though"

Up to mods to judge

Fake as in photo editing a woman's face on etc??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys we are very genuine.. Not photo verified... Just never got around to it... Kesha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could still be faked though

Up to mods to judge

Fake as in photo editing a woman's face on etc??"

Yes exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if we all block unverified people be them photo or picture. It forces peoples hand to be either and as fast as possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys we are very genuine.. Not photo verified... Just never got around to it... Kesha "

It takes 12 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not photo variefied and never will be.

Once you upload a picture to the net, you have lost all control of it

People have the tools at hand to block the fakes. Block non variefied from contacting you and block newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See the people here who have said they wouldn't photo verify are verified by people.

The block unverified/newbies is the best option we just need to do it on bulk.

On a side note, I feel the amount of fakes in newbies is lower than we think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only here a wet week but already I have been chatting to two couples who told me they don't show face pics before a meet! Maybe this is not unusual but I found it very strange!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not photo variefied and never will be.

Once you upload a picture to the net, you have lost all control of it

People have the tools at hand to block the fakes. Block non variefied from contacting you and block newbies"

Very true. I see both sides of the spectrum

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

I'm here over 2 years and not photo verified . I know there's fake profiles but you can spot them a mile off .

We just have to be vigilant of the fakes . Use your filters and block button more if you suspect fake profiles .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here a wet week but already I have been chatting to two couples who told me they don't show face pics before a meet! Maybe this is not unusual but I found it very strange!"

I wouldn't meet anyone now without a face pic and even then it would just be for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on the site over 4 years,this is our 2nd profile after a short break.neither profiles were photo verified,nor will we ever put face pics on a swingers or adult lifestyle site.if people think we are fakes or refuse to meet because of this,we wish them well in their search,and hope the wish us the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here a wet week but already I have been chatting to two couples who told me they don't show face pics before a meet! Maybe this is not unusual but I found it very strange!"

I refuse point blank to send face pictures

Im happy to Kik, chat in the rooms till I feel comfortable enough to chat on the phone. If we get along enough to meet for a coffee then we meet for coffee - and then decide if theres any point in taking it further

If guys dont like that, they have the right to move on, no skin of my nose

Like I said, any photos you upload, you lose all control off

I found a pile of mine uploaded to another site - without my permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here a wet week but already I have been chatting to two couples who told me they don't show face pics before a meet! Maybe this is not unusual but I found it very strange!

I wouldn't meet anyone now without a face pic and even then it would just be for a social"
i understand the discretion think but a pic has to be given IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys we are very genuine.. Not photo verified... Just never got around to it... Kesha

It takes 12 seconds "

Lol just have not done it... But we go to parties and m&g's...so we are verified that way .some people are photo

Verified and never meet ..you can still fake a verified photo... Just saying.. Kesha

Aw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here a wet week but already I have been chatting to two couples who told me they don't show face pics before a meet! Maybe this is not unusual but I found it very strange!

I refuse point blank to send face pictures

Im happy to Kik, chat in the rooms till I feel comfortable enough to chat on the phone. If we get along enough to meet for a coffee then we meet for coffee - and then decide if theres any point in taking it further

If guys dont like that, they have the right to move on, no skin of my nose

Like I said, any photos you upload, you lose all control off

I found a pile of mine uploaded to another site - without my permission"
that can happen your right! I got a photo of mine taken off Facebook before but I still would never meet someone off a sex site without a face picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great points folks.

Just saying its an easy way for newbies to get some sort of verification.

Non photo verified people that have "meet" verifications are cool.

Not saying everyone should. Agree with someone there that they can get stolen.

But id rather when chatting to women here that they'd have some sort of veri

Maybe it is time to filter and be more stand offish with unverifieds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here a wet week but already I have been chatting to two couples who told me they don't show face pics before a meet! Maybe this is not unusual but I found it very strange!

I refuse point blank to send face pictures

Im happy to Kik, chat in the rooms till I feel comfortable enough to chat on the phone. If we get along enough to meet for a coffee then we meet for coffee - and then decide if theres any point in taking it further

If guys dont like that, they have the right to move on, no skin of my nose

Like I said, any photos you upload, you lose all control off

I found a pile of mine uploaded to another site - without my permissionthat can happen your right! I got a photo of mine taken off Facebook before but I still would never meet someone off a sex site without a face picture "

But you might meet them from another site without seeing a face pic???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great points folks.

Just saying its an easy way for newbies to get some sort of verification.

Non photo verified people that have "meet" verifications are cool.

Not saying everyone should. Agree with someone there that they can get stolen.

But id rather when chatting to women here that they'd have some sort of veri

Maybe it is time to filter and be more stand offish with unverifieds

"

The point is, even those who get photo veriefied can still be fakes

All a photo veri means is a picture was posted pertaining to the sex of the profile

Theres nothing to say that person isnt a time wasting piss taker, with no intention of meeting anyone and is only here for the thrill of the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here a wet week but already I have been chatting to two couples who told me they don't show face pics before a meet! Maybe this is not unusual but I found it very strange!

I refuse point blank to send face pictures

Im happy to Kik, chat in the rooms till I feel comfortable enough to chat on the phone. If we get along enough to meet for a coffee then we meet for coffee - and then decide if theres any point in taking it further

If guys dont like that, they have the right to move on, no skin of my nose

Like I said, any photos you upload, you lose all control off

I found a pile of mine uploaded to another site - without my permissionthat can happen your right! I got a photo of mine taken off Facebook before but I still would never meet someone off a sex site without a face picture

But you might meet them from another site without seeing a face pic???"
no! I just said sex site because this is one! I wouldn't meet a female from any site without seen a face pic! Jesus, I could be in line to meet Susan Boyle for all I know

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

I personally think that only paid members should only be able to send mails and be able to use chat and forums , but free member could still browse the site to see if its for them and the serious ones will join im sure it defo would cut alot of timewasters ,and its cheap enough to be a site supporter! €30 for 250 days silver site supporter , small fee to pay for a great swing service , a nite in a hotel costs more or a nite out too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think that only paid members should only be able to send mails and be able to use chat and forums , but free member could still browse the site to see if its for them and the serious ones will join im sure it defo would cut alot of timewasters ,and its cheap enough to be a site supporter! €30 for 250 days silver site supporter , small fee to pay for a great swing service , a nite in a hotel costs more or a nite out too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think that only paid members should only be able to send mails and be able to use chat and forums , but free member could still browse the site to see if its for them and the serious ones will join im sure it defo would cut alot of timewasters ,and its cheap enough to be a site supporter! €30 for 250 days silver site supporter , small fee to pay for a great swing service , a nite in a hotel costs more or a nite out too "
no offence intended, I was told about this site and I was told it's good from a female but the biggest attraction was it's free! I don't think I could pay to use any sex site!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"I personally think that only paid members should only be able to send mails and be able to use chat and forums , but free member could still browse the site to see if its for them and the serious ones will join im sure it defo would cut alot of timewasters ,and its cheap enough to be a site supporter! €30 for 250 days silver site supporter , small fee to pay for a great swing service , a nite in a hotel costs more or a nite out too no offence intended, I was told about this site and I was told it's good from a female but the biggest attraction was it's free! I don't think I could pay to use any sex site! "

its a swing site not a sex site , people dont meet just u cause mail them and next thing yer in bed , sorry that really doesnt work like that , most people prefer to make a connection with a person before thet jump into bed with them as they are sharing their most intimate part of themselves with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think that only paid members should only be able to send mails and be able to use chat and forums , but free member could still browse the site to see if its for them and the serious ones will join im sure it defo would cut alot of timewasters ,and its cheap enough to be a site supporter! €30 for 250 days silver site supporter , small fee to pay for a great swing service , a nite in a hotel costs more or a nite out too no offence intended, I was told about this site and I was told it's good from a female but the biggest attraction was it's free! I don't think I could pay to use any sex site!

its a swing site not a sex site , people dont meet just u cause mail them and next thing yer in bed , sorry that really doesnt work like that , most people prefer to make a connection with a person before thet jump into bed with them as they are sharing their most intimate part of themselves with them "
lol it's a site where you have sex with people of your choosing, mutual like for one another your right but it's still a sex site! If it was just a pure swing site it would only be for couples! I was asked the other day on here "why are you a single male on a swingers site"? I answers accordingly, because I was allowed sign up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Grouphug

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"I personally think that only paid members should only be able to send mails and be able to use chat and forums , but free member could still browse the site to see if its for them and the serious ones will join im sure it defo would cut alot of timewasters ,and its cheap enough to be a site supporter! €30 for 250 days silver site supporter , small fee to pay for a great swing service , a nite in a hotel costs more or a nite out too no offence intended, I was told about this site and I was told it's good from a female but the biggest attraction was it's free! I don't think I could pay to use any sex site!

its a swing site not a sex site , people dont meet just u cause mail them and next thing yer in bed , sorry that really doesnt work like that , most people prefer to make a connection with a person before thet jump into bed with them as they are sharing their most intimate part of themselves with them lol it's a site where you have sex with people of your choosing, mutual like for one another your right but it's still a sex site! If it was just a pure swing site it would only be for couples! I was asked the other day on here "why are you a single male on a swingers site"? I answers accordingly, because I was allowed sign up "

well with that attitude im sure u will do very well here mainly with other single guys im sure , happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're are alot of genuine folk ive met that aren't photo verified.

But it would be great if the new ones from now on would have to"
thats kinda a dubble standerd no?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think that only paid members should only be able to send mails and be able to use chat and forums , but free member could still browse the site to see if its for them and the serious ones will join im sure it defo would cut alot of timewasters ,and its cheap enough to be a site supporter! €30 for 250 days silver site supporter , small fee to pay for a great swing service , a nite in a hotel costs more or a nite out too no offence intended, I was told about this site and I was told it's good from a female but the biggest attraction was it's free! I don't think I could pay to use any sex site!

its a swing site not a sex site , people dont meet just u cause mail them and next thing yer in bed , sorry that really doesnt work like that , most people prefer to make a connection with a person before thet jump into bed with them as they are sharing their most intimate part of themselves with them lol it's a site where you have sex with people of your choosing, mutual like for one another your right but it's still a sex site! If it was just a pure swing site it would only be for couples! I was asked the other day on here "why are you a single male on a swingers site"? I answers accordingly, because I was allowed sign up

well with that attitude im sure u will do very well here mainly with other single guys im sure , happy swinging "
i don't there was anything wrong with what I just said! My Initial point was I wouldn't pay to use a site for NSA sex! That's all

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"As a paid member im sure you this wouldn't be a bad idea to ileviate all the men with women's profiles wasting everyones time

Nero777

Has a great status up atm:

This is his status:

Hey people,please suggest to admin,that new users be photo verified within 48hrs or deleted.it would greatly reduce the rising amount of FAKES! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys we are very genuine.. Not photo verified... Just never got around to it... Kesha "
how can u upload over 14 pics and not write ur user name on one???????....never got round seems a bit bullshitty maybe!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're are alot of genuine folk ive met that aren't photo verified.

But it would be great if the new ones from now on would have tothats kinda a dubble standerd no?????"

Dubble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not photo variefied and never will be.

Once you upload a picture to the net, you have lost all control of it

People have the tools at hand to block the fakes. Block non variefied from contacting you and block newbies"
but it dosnt include face......so how is that different from the pics uve put online?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys we are very genuine.. Not photo verified... Just never got around to it... Kesha "

Same here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys we are very genuine.. Not photo verified... Just never got around to it... Kesha

It takes 12 seconds

Lol just have not done it... But we go to parties and m&g's...so we are verified that way .some people are photo

Verified and never meet ..you can still fake a verified photo... Just saying.. Kesha

Aw "
no u cant...how would u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think that only paid members should only be able to send mails and be able to use chat and forums , but free member could still browse the site to see if its for them and the serious ones will join im sure it defo would cut alot of timewasters ,and its cheap enough to be a site supporter! €30 for 250 days silver site supporter , small fee to pay for a great swing service , a nite in a hotel costs more or a nite out too no offence intended, I was told about this site and I was told it's good from a female but the biggest attraction was it's free! I don't think I could pay to use any sex site!

its a swing site not a sex site , people dont meet just u cause mail them and next thing yer in bed , sorry that really doesnt work like that , most people prefer to make a connection with a person before thet jump into bed with them as they are sharing their most intimate part of themselves with them "
some do...some on here just for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're are alot of genuine folk ive met that aren't photo verified.

But it would be great if the new ones from now on would have tothats kinda a dubble standerd no?????

Dubble?"
pmsl double

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See the people here who have said they wouldn't photo verify are verified by people.

The block unverified/newbies is the best option we just need to do it on bulk.

On a side note, I feel the amount of fakes in newbies is lower than we think."
poor newbies.....how will they ever get a chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See the people here who have said they wouldn't photo verify are verified by people.

The block unverified/newbies is the best option we just need to do it on bulk.

On a side note, I feel the amount of fakes in newbies is lower than we think. poor newbies.....how will they ever get a chance?"

See your only a newbie for 3 days and they may seek verifications through coffee, m & g's etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with me"
you just persuming everyone who uses the site should be the same as you....or at least go by ur standards...thats just not right lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never looked at the pictured verified bit on a profile, who is to say that you didn't get a neighbour to hold up a sign for you.

As for blocking Un verified people you were all unverified at some stage and someone gave you's a chance. There are genuine people out there also and not able to get meets because of this attitude.

Yes there are time wasters and it is some thing we have to put up with. Block and move on is the best way.

On other sites they print your username across your photos so they can not be used by anyone else so maybe this is something admin could look into.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with meyou just persuming everyone who uses the site should be the same as you....or at least go by ur standards...thats just not right lad"

No No! "Is fine with me" should have put me in capitals for you

ME

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have never looked at the pictured verified bit on a profile, who is to say that you didn't get a neighbour to hold up a sign for you.

As for blocking Un verified people you were all unverified at some stage and someone gave you's a chance. There are genuine people out there also and not able to get meets because of this attitude.

Yes there are time wasters and it is some thing we have to put up with. Block and move on is the best way.

On other sites they print your username across your photos so they can not be used by anyone else so maybe this is something admin could look into.

"

Good point the name across photo.

Moral of story is we'd all like admin to make it more secure.

But bigger the fool me who keeps getting stung here by fakes

I need to have a good long look in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with meyou just persuming everyone who uses the site should be the same as you....or at least go by ur standards...thats just not right lad

No No! "Is fine with me" should have put me in capitals for you

ME

"
you cant say they shouldnt be taken serious .... And its fine with you.....make ur ur mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with meyou just persuming everyone who uses the site should be the same as you....or at least go by ur standards...thats just not right lad

No No! "Is fine with me" should have put me in capitals for you

ME

you cant say they shouldnt be taken serious .... And its fine with you.....make ur ur mind "

Of course I can say its fine with me from now on.

Here you need a hug. Ive yet to see you smile here. Chillax will ya. Put your cleavers away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with me"

So you don't taken them seriously. You move on to a profile that suits your needs. And you leave everyone else to work out their needs

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with meyou just persuming everyone who uses the site should be the same as you....or at least go by ur standards...thats just not right lad

No No! "Is fine with me" should have put me in capitals for you

ME

you cant say they shouldnt be taken serious .... And its fine with you.....make ur ur mind

Of course I can say its fine with me from now on.

Here you need a hug. Ive yet to see you smile here. Chillax will ya. Put your cleavers away "
your right....you can say it......but it dosnt make any sence.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with meyou just persuming everyone who uses the site should be the same as you....or at least go by ur standards...thats just not right lad

No No! "Is fine with me" should have put me in capitals for you

ME

you cant say they shouldnt be taken serious .... And its fine with you.....make ur ur mind

Of course I can say its fine with me from now on.

Here you need a hug. Ive yet to see you smile here. Chillax will ya. Put your cleavers away your right....you can say it......but it dosnt make any sence..... "

Rich coming from you who makes zero SENSE

Anyway its why we have forums to agree/disagree on things

Im certainty being cautious anymore (have to)

Stung too many times by fakes

Grouphug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with meyou just persuming everyone who uses the site should be the same as you....or at least go by ur standards...thats just not right lad"

Well if a profile had none of the above I wouldn't take it seriously either....and if I was chatting a profile with none of the above I'd be looking for one or more of the above and if they were unwilling to provide they'd be told very politely where to go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meh, I've never been photo verified and never will...

Can I ask why?

I don't understand why people wouldn't do something to make things easier for them on the site, unless it undermines a fake persona they're trying to propogate. I know you're not doing that but with almost everyone owning smart phones or laptops with cameras there's no excuse not to in my opinion."

I don't want a face picture of mine in cyber space with my username on it.

The other option is fully nude picture without face with username. Again, I don't send around fully naked pictures. That's my own choice and I don't see why I should send it to someone I don't know even if they call themselves admins on this site.

So if someone gets photo verified by sending nude pic without face, what stops them from sending a 20 year old face pict to people who think they're 'genuine'?

It probably only verifies the gender of the person and I guess that's what the male users on here are most worried about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meh, I've never been photo verified and never will...

Can I ask why?

I don't understand why people wouldn't do something to make things easier for them on the site, unless it undermines a fake persona they're trying to propogate. I know you're not doing that but with almost everyone owning smart phones or laptops with cameras there's no excuse not to in my opinion.

I don't want a face picture of mine in cyber space with my username on it.

The other option is fully nude picture without face with username. Again, I don't send around fully naked pictures. That's my own choice and I don't see why I should send it to someone I don't know even if they call themselves admins on this site.

So if someone gets photo verified by sending nude pic without face, what stops them from sending a 20 year old face pict to people who think they're 'genuine'?

It probably only verifies the gender of the person and I guess that's what the male users on here are most worried about? "
to get photo verified I had to right my username and fabswingers on a piece of paper and make sure my face was in the picture to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meh, I've never been photo verified and never will...

Can I ask why?

I don't understand why people wouldn't do something to make things easier for them on the site, unless it undermines a fake persona they're trying to propogate. I know you're not doing that but with almost everyone owning smart phones or laptops with cameras there's no excuse not to in my opinion.

I don't want a face picture of mine in cyber space with my username on it.

The other option is fully nude picture without face with username. Again, I don't send around fully naked pictures. That's my own choice and I don't see why I should send it to someone I don't know even if they call themselves admins on this site.

So if someone gets photo verified by sending nude pic without face, what stops them from sending a 20 year old face pict to people who think they're 'genuine'?

It probably only verifies the gender of the person and I guess that's what the male users on here are most worried about? to get photo verified I had to right my username and fabswingers on a piece of paper and make sure my face was in the picture to "
write

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

no way will we ever put a face pic on the internet...we have no face pics on our profile and dont intend sending any and were not site suporters either not interested in paying and guess what we are genuine.....so what iam saying is at the end of the day use your instincs to judge if someone is fake or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no way will we ever put a face pic on the internet...we have no face pics on our profile and dont intend sending any and were not site suporters either not interested in paying and guess what we are genuine.....so what iam saying is at the end of the day use your instincs to judge if someone is fake or not"
i have face pics on private but I'm like you in regard to not paying! Can I ask, have ye met people without showing your face?

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By *ero777Man
over a year ago

Cork city

There's a guy in cork has two fake female profiles on the go

He's verified them so it was hard to tell they were fake!

What are you supposed to do about that??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a guy in cork has two fake female profiles on the go

He's verified them so it was hard to tell they were fake!

What are you supposed to do about that??"
some are very good at been fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a guy in cork has two fake female profiles on the go

He's verified them so it was hard to tell they were fake!

What are you supposed to do about that??"

phone call, go on cam...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok BUT

The pages that dont do ALL of these:

Dont have veris

Dont give out number

Dont send face pix

Shouldn't be taking serious from now on.

One of them is fine with meyou just persuming everyone who uses the site should be the same as you....or at least go by ur standards...thats just not right lad

No No! "Is fine with me" should have put me in capitals for you

ME

you cant say they shouldnt be taken serious .... And its fine with you.....make ur ur mind

Of course I can say its fine with me from now on.

Here you need a hug. Ive yet to see you smile here. Chillax will ya. Put your cleavers away your right....you can say it......but it dosnt make any sence.....

Rich coming from you who makes zero SENSE

Anyway its why we have forums to agree/disagree on things

Im certainty being cautious anymore (have to)

Stung too many times by fakes

Grouphug"
rich.....lol you may get stung .... Still dosnt give u reason to susgest that everyone should discount members by your standards..... I make pwrfect sence..... You just backtrack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a guy in cork has two fake female profiles on the go

He's verified them so it was hard to tell they were fake!

What are you supposed to do about that??"

Very simple, if you suspect the profile is fake...ask would they go on cam in the chatroom or on skype, they'll counter with "oh I dont have a webcam on my laptop lol" then hit them with "what phone have you got?" And if they answer with any smartphone say "oh you can use Skype on that" they'll counter with "oh I dont know how to do that *giggle*" then you reply "oh well I'll have to call you so" and then they'll say they dont give out their number.

Then you move on. It's like a game of chess played with bullshit detectors.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"no way will we ever put a face pic on the internet...we have no face pics on our profile and dont intend sending any and were not site suporters either not interested in paying and guess what we are genuine.....so what iam saying is at the end of the day use your instincs to judge if someone is fake or noti have face pics on private but I'm like you in regard to not paying! Can I ask, have ye met people without showing your face?"

we have never sent a face pic before a meet but our first meet is always a drink meet we would judge ppl on how we connect rather then what they look like and luckly for us the other ppl felt the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw Jack.... Your looking for an argument.... Guess we must be fakes lol. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no way will we ever put a face pic on the internet...we have no face pics on our profile and dont intend sending any and were not site suporters either not interested in paying and guess what we are genuine.....so what iam saying is at the end of the day use your instincs to judge if someone is fake or noti have face pics on private but I'm like you in regard to not paying! Can I ask, have ye met people without showing your face?

we have never sent a face pic before a meet but our first meet is always a drink meet we would judge ppl on how we connect rather then what they look like and luckly for us the other ppl felt the same"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no way will we ever put a face pic on the internet...we have no face pics on our profile and dont intend sending any and were not site suporters either not interested in paying and guess what we are genuine.....so what iam saying is at the end of the day use your instincs to judge if someone is fake or noti have face pics on private but I'm like you in regard to not paying! Can I ask, have ye met people without showing your face?

we have never sent a face pic before a meet but our first meet is always a drink meet we would judge ppl on how we connect rather then what they look like and luckly for us the other ppl felt the same"
fair point but I couldn't meet anybody without a face picture!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw Jack.... Your looking for an argument.... Guess we must be fakes lol. ."
no im not....and tbh....i would belive yeer real....but im not great at ing fakes.....but honestly....why are yee not????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there many who wont post face pics but will skype.......cause its no bother take screen shot of soneone skyping u !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many who wont post face pics but will skype.......cause its no bother take screen shot of soneone skyping u !!!!"

yes but a random screen shot of me on cam ... I don't care. It would be unrelated to this site and I don't go nude on it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there many who wont post face pics but will skype.......cause its no bother take screen shot of soneone skyping u !!!!

yes but a random screen shot of me on cam ... I don't care. It would be unrelated to this site and I don't go nude on it either. "
very very true

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Are there many who wont post face pics but will skype.......cause its no bother take screen shot of soneone skyping u !!!!"

we have a few face pics in private and show them if requested but would also ask for face pics in return , we dont skype as we just prefer to keep swing contact to here but we do have a one or two that we use kik with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw Jack.... Your looking for an argument.... Guess we must be fakes lol. .no im not....and tbh....i would belive yeer real....but im not great at ing fakes.....but honestly....why are yee not???? "

We are very real Jack!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As is said, if it speaks like a duck, walks like a duck. Its a duck. The same can be said for the majority of fakes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Grouphug

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"As is said, if it speaks like a duck, walks like a duck. Its a duck. The same can be said for the majority of fakes"

...that they're ducks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u dont have to upload a face pic to be photo verified,u can upload a nude one hiding yur face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As is said, if it speaks like a duck, walks like a duck. Its a duck. The same can be said for the majority of fakes

...that they're ducks? "

No, they're on quack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As is said, if it speaks like a duck, walks like a duck. Its a duck. The same can be said for the majority of fakes

...that they're ducks? "

stupid duckers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our wee routine and its hasn't let us down...yet!

1. Chat a bit first over mail, but only to verified people

2. Swap face pics

3. Quick phone call (or slow and sexy depending on the mood )

4. Coffee/Drinks

5. Fun

If at any of these stages something seems amiss or someone isn't happy run a mile.

Oh, and always politely advise unverified people to get verified via coffee meet or whatever and then we would be happy to chat more.

Fakes never get past step 1 or 2 well so far anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As is said, if it speaks like a duck, walks like a duck. Its a duck. The same can be said for the majority of fakes

...that they're ducks?

No, they're on quack."

And they're Quackers!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Apologies... Minor hijack warning!

How do you turn a duck into a soul singer?

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You put him in the microwave until his (he's) Bill Withers

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Kids, don't try this at home

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Apologies again. Hijack over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies... Minor hijack warning!

How do you turn a duck into a soul singer?

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You put him in the microwave until his (he's) Bill Withers

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Kids, don't try this at home

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Apologies again. Hijack over "

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a paid member im sure you this wouldn't be a bad idea to ileviate all the men with women's profiles wasting everyones time

Nero777

Has a great status up atm:

This is his status:

Hey people,please suggest to admin,that new users be photo verified within 48hrs or deleted.it would greatly reduce the rising amount of FAKES! "

great idea! !

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Bit extreme idea in my humble opinion.

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