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By *al2001 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare

This didnt happen to me but just wonderin ppls opinions,say u arrange a meet with a girl at a time that suits u both,say a cpl of weeks away.

In the mean time u arrange another meet with someone at another suitable time which happens to be sooner.

So u meet newest person first and click,nothing heavy just really enjoyed meet,

so assuming like most ppl free time is hard to get and the next available time for a much anticipated 2nd meet is ages away,is it ok to cancel the earlier arranged 1st meet to meet the other person a second time? If u follow

i dont mean u have a meet arranged and someone "hotter" comes along lookin for meet at same time,id never cancel for that

personally i dont mind ppl cancelling for any reason,and if it happened to me id say its kinda cute and enjoy your meet

again this isnt a dilemma i face now,while im chatting to a cpl of ppl and want to meet ,i have only 1 meet pencilled in confirmed and i aint cancellin for any reason

just wonderin ppls opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I think it's ok to cancel for whatever reason, as long you give plenty of notice.

If that other person has already booked e.g. a hotel, babysitter etc it may be a bit mean to cancel it because of someone else. But hey such is life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone for any reason should be able to cancel...its not a given just cause you set a date,just give them plenty of time to make different arrangements...

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By *al2001 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare

So u wudnt mind a guy saying he wanted to meet a previous meet again? Or he cancelled and didnt give reason but u saw a verie for same night?

Iv seen ppl complain of this on threads before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it but hey that's just me everyone is entitled to do what they want it is nsa after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye it's ok or meet them both same time

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Depends if your honest.....and then the veri wouldnt bother me but know some would get upset with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if a guy cancelled and i saw a veri for the same night i would be a bit deflated.however its your own choice with who u want to meet.i would give as much notice as you can tho.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

course its ok to cancel if you give plenty of notice.......but if it were us i think if we had been interested enough to arrange a meet in the first place then we would go ahead cause there must have been something about them that we liked enough to arrange a meet.....just sayin you could be missin out on a great nite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So u wudnt mind a guy saying he wanted to meet a previous meet again? Or he cancelled and didnt give reason but u saw a verie for same night?

Iv seen ppl complain of this on threads before"

Maybe I would mind a little - as in bruised ego - but hey, it's nsa and that's the way it is. I don't think I would think of you less but probably wouldn't meet you again as it feels a bit like 'second choice' if you know what I mean.

In all honesty, I've cancelled meets (with a lot of notice) because someone more favourable has come along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if a guy cancelled and i saw a veri for the same night i would be a bit deflated.however its your own choice with who u want to meet.i would give as much notice as you can tho. "

Me too. If we bumped someone for another meet we would have the good manners not to show the verification.

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"This didnt happen to me but just wonderin ppls opinions,say u arrange a meet with a girl at a time that suits u both,say a cpl of weeks away.

In the mean time u arrange another meet with someone at another suitable time which happens to be sooner.

So u meet newest person first and click,nothing heavy just really enjoyed meet,

so assuming like most ppl free time is hard to get and the next available time for a much anticipated 2nd meet is ages away,is it ok to cancel the earlier arranged 1st meet to meet the other person a second time? If u follow

i dont mean u have a meet arranged and someone "hotter" comes along lookin for meet at same time,id never cancel for that

personally i dont mind ppl cancelling for any reason,and if it happened to me id say its kinda cute and enjoy your meet

again this isnt a dilemma i face now,while im chatting to a cpl of ppl and want to meet ,i have only 1 meet pencilled in confirmed and i aint cancellin for any reason

just wonderin ppls opinions"

well if the first meet doesn't know your second meet is arranged and your second meet is ok with postponing your first meet then I don't see a problem,,,,

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"if a guy cancelled and i saw a veri for the same night i would be a bit deflated.however its your own choice with who u want to meet.i would give as much notice as you can tho. "

ive had that happen ages ago and refused to meet again when he got back in touch months later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if a guy cancelled and i saw a veri for the same night i would be a bit deflated.however its your own choice with who u want to meet.i would give as much notice as you can tho.

Me too. If we bumped someone for another meet we would have the good manners not to show the verification."
i know its all "NSA" fun but people have feelings.i would give plenty of notice to be on the safe side..!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I think it you cancelled and said I was unable to meet cause whatever the reason .

The day-night I was supposed to met I would be fairly pissed off yes its nsa but people can pick and choose and dump like that .

and up pops a verify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if a guy cancelled and i saw a veri for the same night i would be a bit deflated.however its your own choice with who u want to meet.i would give as much notice as you can tho.

ive had that happen ages ago and refused to meet again when he got back in touch months later"
yes i too can speak from experience here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe just don't give the honest reason and don't ask for a veri or delay it.

but if this lady reads this thread she knows what you're doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 sum ? Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So u wudnt mind a guy saying he wanted to meet a previous meet again? Or he cancelled and didnt give reason but u saw a verie for same night?

Iv seen ppl complain of this on threads before"

Well it hasn't happened to me yet....but no,everyone can say no,its our given rite,just give them plenty of time to rearrange the night,cancel the hotel or find a replacement...

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By *al2001 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare


"maybe just don't give the honest reason and don't ask for a veri or delay it.

but if this lady reads this thread she knows what you're doing "

this isnt about me.really.i was just on a long taxi ride and got thinkin

i should have said it goes without sayin it wud be with plenty of notice

yea as i thought its great being honest and its all nsa but it would be kinda ego bashing for a girl,i try temper my honesty with some thought for others feelings

like i said this isnt about me,i have only 1 meet confirmed and to say im lookin forward to it is an understatement,esp after some recently uploaded pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well she sure is one lucky lady, hal

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"well she sure is one lucky lady, hal "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well she sure is one lucky lady, hal "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking its very cute he's concerned too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe just don't give the honest reason and don't ask for a veri or delay it.

but if this lady reads this thread she knows what you're doing

this isnt about me.really.i was just on a long taxi ride and got thinkin

i should have said it goes without sayin it wud be with plenty of notice

yea as i thought its great being honest and its all nsa but it would be kinda ego bashing for a girl,i try temper my honesty with some thought for others feelings

like i said this isnt about me,i have only 1 meet confirmed and to say im lookin forward to it is an understatement,esp after some recently uploaded pics "

certainly sweet you are even thinking about it, sometimes amid the whole NSA thing I do think that people forget to be human and that others have feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe just don't give the honest reason and don't ask for a veri or delay it.

but if this lady reads this thread she knows what you're doing

this isnt about me.really.i was just on a long taxi ride and got thinkin

i should have said it goes without sayin it wud be with plenty of notice

yea as i thought its great being honest and its all nsa but it would be kinda ego bashing for a girl,i try temper my honesty with some thought for others feelings

like i said this isnt about me,i have only 1 meet confirmed and to say im lookin forward to it is an understatement,esp after some recently uploaded pics "

Personally I would block them and make sure I never came into contact with them again. How do they know the first meet booked would not be miles better than the one already had it is very unfair and I think people like that ruin it for others. Yes it is no strings attached but if you make an arrangement to meet you should go through with it. I personally think they are sleazes if they do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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certainly sweet you are even thinking about it, sometimes amid the whole NSA thing I do think that people forget to be human and that others have feelings "

I have to say the way I have been treated this weekend some people are really inconsiderate and I certainly would not want anyone to feel the way I have.

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By *al2001 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare

Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost. "

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive"

Lol.....dont think he is planning to do anything of the sorts. Hes talking hyperthetically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive

Lol.....dont think he is planning to do anything of the sorts. Hes talking hyperthetically"

I would hope so if he wants to keep his standing with the ladies. But why would any woman make arrangement with this hypothetical guy if past experience with him proved he would drop them like a hot brick if something better came along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us girls don't like to be played off against each other. It never ends well..... for the guy mostly

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By *al2001 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive"

that was my poor attempt at humour

i was asking the question is all and was wondering what ppl thought

agree with u more or less georgiana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive

Lol.....dont think he is planning to do anything of the sorts. Hes talking hyperthetically

I would hope so if he wants to keep his standing with the ladies. But why would any woman make arrangement with this hypothetical guy if past experience with him proved he would drop them like a hot brick if something better came along"
the guy that done it to me cancelled and had another meet instead.even tho i had not met him before i was pretty gutted.him and his meet had a great time and then i get a message asking to arrange another day...mental case thought i would.i wasnt long on here tho so he prob thought he was doing me a favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive

Lol.....dont think he is planning to do anything of the sorts. Hes

talking hyperthetically"

hypothetically speaking - would he mind if a female he had arranged a meet with rang and told him she couldn't meet that particular night for whatever reason and he saw a verification up from another man on her profile from another man for the night she cancelled you for...and would you want to meet her again when she was free??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and the girl was alot slimmer and popular than i....!!!

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Us girls don't like to be played off against each other. It never ends well..... for the guy mostly "

Works both ways.....women are just as bad at playing men off against each other too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its playing one man or woman off against one another....its no strings casual filthy sex were here for...if a person changes their mind for whatever reason it has to be ok...its no strings after all....we are here to have fun....

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I don't think its playing one man or woman off against one another....its no strings casual filthy sex were here for...if a person changes their mind for whatever reason it has to be ok...its no strings after all....we are here to have fun.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that its no strings but I still wouldn't be happy for a meet to be cancelled so he could meet someone else...but that's just my opinion

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I agree that its no strings but I still wouldn't be happy for a meet to be cancelled so he could meet someone else...but that's just my opinion "

But as someone said in an earlier post you just dont agree to meet him again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that its no strings but I still wouldn't be happy for a meet to be cancelled so he could meet someone else...but that's just my opinion

But as someone said in an earlier post you just dont agree to meet him again.... "

Soo true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 sum ? Problem solved "

Perfect solution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 sum ? Problem solved "

Perfect solution

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"oh and the girl was alot slimmer and popular than i....!!! "

That must have been a while ago

Anyone would be mad to pass you up now CC

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and the girl was alot slimmer and popular than i....!!!

That must have been a while ago

Anyone would be mad to pass you up now CC

;)"
ah thanks lovely.it was at the start but let me assure you i get fair share of rejections..

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"oh and the girl was alot slimmer and popular than i....!!!

That must have been a while ago

Anyone would be mad to pass you up now CC

;)ah thanks lovely.it was at the start but let me assure you i get fair share of rejections.. "

Really?!?

There's no accounting for some people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and the girl was alot slimmer and popular than i....!!!

That must have been a while ago

Anyone would be mad to pass you up now CC

;)ah thanks lovely.it was at the start but let me assure you i get fair share of rejections..

Really?!?

There's no accounting for some people!

"
ah sure one mans trash is another mans treasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive

Lol.....dont think he is planning to do anything of the sorts. Hes talking hyperthetically

I would hope so if he wants to keep his standing with the ladies. But why would any woman make arrangement with this hypothetical guy if past experience with him proved he would drop them like a hot brick if something better came alongthe guy that done it to me cancelled and had another meet instead.even tho i had not met him before i was pretty gutted.him and his meet had a great time and then i get a message asking to arrange another day...mental case thought i would.i wasnt long on here tho so he prob thought he was doing me a favour. "

hope ya told him to go jump off a cliff lol

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"oh and the girl was alot slimmer and popular than i....!!!

That must have been a while ago

Anyone would be mad to pass you up now CC

;)ah thanks lovely.it was at the start but let me assure you i get fair share of rejections..

Really?!?

There's no accounting for some people!

ah sure one mans trash is another mans treasure "

A pot of gold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive

Lol.....dont think he is planning to do anything of the sorts. Hes talking hyperthetically

I would hope so if he wants to keep his standing with the ladies. But why would any woman make arrangement with this hypothetical guy if past experience with him proved he would drop them like a hot brick if something better came alongthe guy that done it to me cancelled and had another meet instead.even tho i had not met him before i was pretty gutted.him and his meet had a great time and then i get a message asking to arrange another day...mental case thought i would.i wasnt long on here tho so he prob thought he was doing me a favour.

hope ya told him to go jump off a cliff lol "
oh i did yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and the girl was alot slimmer and popular than i....!!!

That must have been a while ago

Anyone would be mad to pass you up now CC

;)ah thanks lovely.it was at the start but let me assure you i get fair share of rejections..

Really?!?

There's no accounting for some people!

ah sure one mans trash is another mans treasure

A pot of gold!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a shit thing to do. I agree with most of what C has said. Think how that person is going to feel when they see a veri for that day. Treat others the way you expect to be treated. It's good manners not to cancel. Arrange the newer girl for another time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive

Lol.....dont think he is planning to do anything of the sorts. Hes talking hyperthetically

I would hope so if he wants to keep his standing with the ladies. But why would any woman make arrangement with this hypothetical guy if past experience with him proved he would drop them like a hot brick if something better came alongthe guy that done it to me cancelled and had another meet instead.even tho i had not met him before i was pretty gutted.him and his meet had a great time and then i get a message asking to arrange another day...mental case thought i would.i wasnt long on here tho so he prob thought he was doing me a favour.

hope ya told him to go jump off a cliff lol oh i did yes "

good girl proud of ya lol

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I think if someone cancelled me for another meet I would be angry. The person would get a mouthful from me and be blocked. If you have made firm plans with someone its only good manners to keep them excepting emergencies. I rarely meet on here due to being messed around so much in the past that I strictly have a 1 stike and your out policy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This didnt happen to me but just wonderin ppls opinions,say u arrange a meet with a girl at a time that suits u both,say a cpl of weeks away.

In the mean time u arrange another meet with someone at another suitable time which happens to be sooner.

So u meet newest person first and click,nothing heavy just really enjoyed meet,

so assuming like most ppl free time is hard to get and the next available time for a much anticipated 2nd meet is ages away,is it ok to cancel the earlier arranged 1st meet to meet the other person a second time? If u follow

i dont mean u have a meet arranged and someone "hotter" comes along lookin for meet at same time,id never cancel for that

personally i dont mind ppl cancelling for any reason,and if it happened to me id say its kinda cute and enjoy your meet

again this isnt a dilemma i face now,while im chatting to a cpl of ppl and want to meet ,i have only 1 meet pencilled in confirmed and i aint cancellin for any reason

just wonderin ppls opinions"

id be pissed off if someone cancelled on me to meet sumone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost. "

i know tht already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for comments girls.

Now i almost feel guilty that its all just a clever scheme to make me appear all sensitive like.almost.

How pray tell would this make you sound sensitive. You are talking of crushing one meet for another night with another. It is cowardly not sensitive

Lol.....dont think he is planning to do anything of the sorts. Hes talking hyperthetically

I would hope so if he wants to keep his standing with the ladies. But why would any woman make arrangement with this hypothetical guy if past experience with him proved he would drop them like a hot brick if something better came alongthe guy that done it to me cancelled and had another meet instead.even tho i had not met him before i was pretty gutted.him and his meet had a great time and then i get a message asking to arrange another day...mental case thought i would.i wasnt long on here tho so he prob thought he was doing me a favour. "

what?u mean he actually said he was cancelling the meet with u to meet another girl and told u all about what happened at the meet??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if someone cancelled me for another meet I would be angry. The person would get a mouthful from me and be blocked. If you have made firm plans with someone its only good manners to keep them excepting emergencies. I rarely meet on here due to being messed around so much in the past that I strictly have a 1 stike and your out policy."

I would be annoyed too if I'm perfectly honest. The only times I have cancelled meets have been when something not fab related has come up. Though one or two of the ones I was due to meet have then displayed veris for the day we where to meet so it did make me wonder whether they had any intention of meeting at all. But then a friend pointed out they could just either have has a delayed verification or arranged a last minute meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if someone cancelled me for another meet I would be angry. The person would get a mouthful from me and be blocked. If you have made firm plans with someone its only good manners to keep them excepting emergencies. I rarely meet on here due to being messed around so much in the past that I strictly have a 1 stike and your out policy.

I would be annoyed too if I'm perfectly honest. The only times I have cancelled meets have been when something not fab related has come up. Though one or two of the ones I was due to meet have then displayed veris for the day we where to meet so it did make me wonder whether they had any intention of meeting at all. But then a friend pointed out they could just either have has a delayed verification or arranged a last minute meet "

id be pissed off and tell him to piss off!i mean cancelling a meet cos u cant make it is fine but to meet sumone else?thts taking the piss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if someone cancelled me for another meet I would be angry. The person would get a mouthful from me and be blocked. If you have made firm plans with someone its only good manners to keep them excepting emergencies. I rarely meet on here due to being messed around so much in the past that I strictly have a 1 stike and your out policy.

I would be annoyed too if I'm perfectly honest. The only times I have cancelled meets have been when something not fab related has come up. Though one or two of the ones I was due to meet have then displayed veris for the day we where to meet so it did make me wonder whether they had any intention of meeting at all. But then a friend pointed out they could just either have has a delayed verification or arranged a last minute meet

id be pissed off and tell him to piss off!i mean cancelling a meet cos u cant make it is fine but to meet sumone else?thts taking the piss!"

But how do you know it wasn't a last minute arranged meet after you have cancelled? Don't think you would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if someone cancelled me for another meet I would be angry. The person would get a mouthful from me and be blocked. If you have made firm plans with someone its only good manners to keep them excepting emergencies. I rarely meet on here due to being messed around so much in the past that I strictly have a 1 stike and your out policy.

I would be annoyed too if I'm perfectly honest. The only times I have cancelled meets have been when something not fab related has come up. Though one or two of the ones I was due to meet have then displayed veris for the day we where to meet so it did make me wonder whether they had any intention of meeting at all. But then a friend pointed out they could just either have has a delayed verification or arranged a last minute meet

id be pissed off and tell him to piss off!i mean cancelling a meet cos u cant make it is fine but to meet sumone else?thts taking the piss!

But how do you know it wasn't a last minute arranged meet after you have cancelled? Don't think you would "

i meant if he cancelled a meet to meet sumone else id be pissed off!not if i cancelled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah with you now, and yes that would piss me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally speaking I would never cancell on anyone unless I had no choice and in that case I would give as much notice as possible with heartfelt apolgies and a promise of a very special next meet

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