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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have been thinking lately about these very very valuable networking events. i know its not the norm but how do people feel about the need to circulate a guest list prior to the event ..to allow people to network or maybe to avoid an embarrassing encounter with people they may not want to see

opinions please ?

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We think it's a good idea ...but maybe there's a few draw backs we haven't thought of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think it's a good idea ...but maybe there's a few draw backs we haven't thought of"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have been thinking lately about these very very valuable networking events. i know its not the norm but how do people feel about the need to circulate a guest list prior to the event ..to allow people to network or maybe to avoid an embarrassing encounter with people they may not want to see

opinions please ? "

they do tht on another swinger site,when they organise parties,they publish the guest list to the ppl tht are going,i think its a great idea!i wudnt mind my name being on the guest list

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over a year ago

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By *ot3trotWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Hi CC, you have to be really careful when deciding to go to either M&G s or parties, as you never know who or what type of people go. Mainly people are fine, but you can get the odd "A-hole" (male and Female - sometime females can be worse) who cause problems, either getting clingy, stalking, or possessive and then there can be trouble, especially if drink is involved, also you could meet someone you actually know for "real life", embarrassing or what!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a good idea i think so u know who is going. that way it easier to remember the names of who you meet at the party.

so how do i get on this guest list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi CC, you have to be really careful when deciding to go to either M&G s or parties, as you never know who or what type of people go. Mainly people are fine, but you can get the odd "A-hole" (male and Female - sometime females can be worse) who cause problems, either getting clingy, stalking, or possessive and then there can be trouble, especially if drink is involved, also you could meet someone you actually know for "real life", embarrassing or what!! "

god what ones were u at? ,glad i didnt go lol ,ive been to a few m & g,s and never had any trouble!its only ppl meeting for a social drink and having a laugh,if u meet sumone u like well thts a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guest lists published (only to those attending) are a good idea, we like to know in advance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have to agree ...i think it is so important

i went to one sometime back and there was a single unverified male there .. i checked his profile the next day !! thats not good !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guest lists published (only to those attending) are a good idea, we like to know in advance

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Guest lists published (only to those attending) are a good idea, we like to know in advance

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Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it should be a standard for party organisers, what happens if you arrange to go to a party and it is full of people on your blocked list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think it is common practice to get the list for a private party but i think this should be extended to the meet n greet type event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh guest list for any party are only guidelines ppl dont show on the night either way especially single guys

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

not sure about it i can see both sides but you will get people pulling out because they don't like someone else whos going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh guest list for any party are only guidelines ppl dont show on the night either way especially single guys"

sounds like a good idea. if people start talking before the meet it may increase the attendance of single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely should be taken as a guideline only but it does give a good indication of the type, age and quantity of people that will be there even allowing for no shows and one or two last minute invites....

it is also true that seeing the guest list may make some whom had planned to attend change their mind but on balance its probably better that they do so in advance if they feel its not for them......

our 0.02c anyhows....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh guest list for any party are only guidelines ppl dont show on the night either way especially single guys"

yea but u can get an idea of whos going!better to get a luk at sum who are going than none at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"absolutely should be taken as a guideline only but it does give a good indication of the type, age and quantity of people that will be there even allowing for no shows and one or two last minute invites....

it is also true that seeing the guest list may make some whom had planned to attend change their mind but on balance its probably better that they do so in advance if they feel its not for them......

our 0.02c anyhows.... "

or if sumone was unsure about going to the party and they seen the guest list,realised they liked the luk of a few guests and decide to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guest lists published (only to those attending) are a good idea, we like to know in advance

Same here"

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Well tbh most ppl will ask for an invite on forums so you can see most that has asked for an invite, i know private mail's are also sent. But as for non verified people its the only way they can get out there and get known, single men and women both plus couples. I agree ppl should be sent a guest list prior to a private party..! But as for a M&G where a couple of hundred ppl after asking to be invited how is one to mail every one, and especially from a few sites. The hotel function rooms are big enough if there is ppl there you dont want to mix with..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well tbh most ppl will ask for an invite on forums so you can see most that has asked for an invite, i know private mail's are also sent. But as for non verified people its the only way they can get out there and get known, single men and women both plus couples. I agree ppl should be sent a guest list prior to a private party..! But as for a M&G where a couple of hundred ppl after asking to be invited how is one to mail every one, and especially from a few sites. The hotel function rooms are big enough if there is ppl there you dont want to mix with..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By publishing a guest list it just leaves the door open for clicks to be formed, you will have the whole site divided into to or three sets of ppl. Anyone attending the m & g that sees someone that they don't agree with or get on with should be adult enough to keep their distance and i am sure that other attendees will help in this situation. Well i would hate to think that anyone would kick off in public at something like this although i have seen one or two incidents, dividing a group up takes away from its values and it becomes an exclusive club and i would like to think that we are all equals

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By publishing a guest list it just leaves the door open for clicks to be formed, you will have the whole site divided into to or three sets of ppl. Anyone attending the m & g that sees someone that they don't agree with or get on with should be adult enough to keep their distance and i am sure that other attendees will help in this situation. Well i would hate to think that anyone would kick off in public at something like this although i have seen one or two incidents, dividing a group up takes away from its values and it becomes an exclusive club and i would like to think that we are all equals"

i dont think guests lists for meet & greets is a gud idea but i think for smaller swinger parties it is!if its a pay before the event one then only publish the guest list then!

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry


"Well tbh most ppl will ask for an invite on forums so you can see most that has asked for an invite, i know private mail's are also sent. But as for non verified people its the only way they can get out there and get known, single men and women both plus couples. I agree ppl should be sent a guest list prior to a private party..! But as for a M&G where a couple of hundred ppl after asking to be invited how is one to mail every one, and especially from a few sites. The hotel function rooms are big enough if there is ppl there you dont want to mix with..!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"not sure about it i can see both sides but you will get people pulling out because they don't like someone else whos going."

defo agree here as you will see a huge rise in no shows then if people know and are trying avoid someone , there are always the forums where people put their names down and also when the event is near , people always put in forums " who going to m&g etc" and lots will respond there to so people do get an idea who is going just from that alone ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure about it i can see both sides but you will get people pulling out because they don't like someone else whos going.

defo agree here as you will see a huge rise in no shows then if people know and are trying avoid someone , there are always the forums where people put their names down and also when the event is near , people always put in forums " who going to m&g etc" and lots will respond there to so people do get an idea who is going just from that alone , "

yea thts true,but if i was going to a party and sumone tht didnt like me or me like them was going it wudnt stop me frm going!id just keep out of their way and ignore them!why let sumone spoil yur fun?no way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure about it i can see both sides but you will get people pulling out because they don't like someone else whos going.

defo agree here as you will see a huge rise in no shows then if people know and are trying avoid someone , there are always the forums where people put their names down and also when the event is near , people always put in forums " who going to m&g etc" and lots will respond there to so people do get an idea who is going just from that alone ,

yea thts true,but if i was going to a party and sumone tht didnt like me or me like them was going it wudnt stop me frm going!id just keep out of their way and ignore them!why let sumone spoil yur fun?no way!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure about it i can see both sides but you will get people pulling out because they don't like someone else whos going.

defo agree here as you will see a huge rise in no shows then if people know and are trying avoid someone , there are always the forums where people put their names down and also when the event is near , people always put in forums " who going to m&g etc" and lots will respond there to so people do get an idea who is going just from that alone ,

yea thts true,but if i was going to a party and sumone tht didnt like me or me like them was going it wudnt stop me frm going!id just keep out of their way and ignore them!why let sumone spoil yur fun?no way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well tbh most ppl will ask for an invite on forums so you can see most that has asked for an invite, i know private mail's are also sent. But as for non verified people its the only way they can get out there and get known, single men and women both plus couples. I agree ppl should be sent a guest list prior to a private party..! But as for a M&G where a couple of hundred ppl after asking to be invited how is one to mail every one, and especially from a few sites. The hotel function rooms are big enough if there is ppl there you dont want to mix with..!

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Thankfully we haven't met anyone awful enough to avoid them...we try to get along with everyone and have a laugh...

Its a bit childish avoiding someone or not going because someone else had a bad experience with them...

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town


"Well tbh most ppl will ask for an invite on forums so you can see most that has asked for an invite, i know private mail's are also sent. But as for non verified people its the only way they can get out there and get known, single men and women both plus couples. I agree ppl should be sent a guest list prior to a private party..! But as for a M&G where a couple of hundred ppl after asking to be invited how is one to mail every one, and especially from a few sites. The hotel function rooms are big enough if there is ppl there you dont want to mix with..!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do unverified members get invites to meet n greets ?

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By *oandWexCouple
over a year ago

arklow

Like most people know's we organize party's every month.Normally we don't have people asking for a guest list but sometimes people asking us about others,if they are or not in the list and we let them know.As someone was saying here before if people wants to click or chat before party's they can see by the post's on here.

Anyway we don't ave any problems to send a guest list to the ones confirm but for that we need everyone to agreed to give the name away to others.

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town

meets and greets are a nite to put names to faces, we all got to start somwhere!

my first social was at a meet and greet, mr naughty was the same, everyone was unverified at one stage. just our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i didnt realise i thought that verification would have to be done over a coffee on a one to one basis etc before they can come to a group event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure meets and greets are a social ngt in a public place just fir drinks and a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have been thinking lately about these very very valuable networking events. i know its not the norm but how do people feel about the need to circulate a guest list prior to the event ..to allow people to network or maybe to avoid an embarrassing encounter with people they may not want to see

opinions please ? "

I'd love to get a little invite to the next one folks. From the verifications it sounded like a cracking night. Fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i didnt realise i thought that verification would have to be done over a coffee on a one to one basis etc before they can come to a group event. "

me too

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town


"Sure meets and greets are a social ngt in a public place just fir drinks and a chat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it should be a standard for party organisers, what happens if you arrange to go to a party and it is full of people on your blocked list"

You may find out that maybe one or two you blocked are sound and some you invited into your page are Assholes.

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork


"Like most people know's we organize party's every month.Normally we don't have people asking for a guest list but sometimes people asking us about others,if they are or not in the list and we let them know.As someone was saying here before if people wants to click or chat before party's they can see by the post's on here.

Anyway we don't ave any problems to send a guest list to the ones confirm but for that we need everyone to agreed to give the name away to others. "

Agree _oandwex m&g's are too hard to list every one

Esp when they are big ones.. I rem the last one we had in cork we did not cut out non verified ppl esp single girls only so many single males can go i dont know what all the uproar is about

Its hard enough to orgonise a M&G not a mind adding more hard work on the orgonisers...!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Have ye's lot ever being to a wedding ffs there is always going to be someone who doesn't like another let em build a bridge and get over it

for M&Gs anyway usually the place is big enough for the biggest of egos private gatherings where the numbers are smaller yea it may be wise to publish a list to those confirmed

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town


"Like most people know's we organize party's every month.Normally we don't have people asking for a guest list but sometimes people asking us about others,if they are or not in the list and we let them know.As someone was saying here before if people wants to click or chat before party's they can see by the post's on here.

Anyway we don't ave any problems to send a guest list to the ones confirm but for that we need everyone to agreed to give the name away to others.

Agree _oandwex m&g's are too hard to list every one

Esp when they are big ones.. I rem the last one we had in cork we did not cut out non verified ppl esp single girls only so many single males can go i dont know what all the uproar is about

Its hard enough to orgonise a M&G not a mind adding more hard work on the orgonisers...! "
well said nora how else would you meet new people.

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't see uproar .. Only a suggestion that a list might allow for pre event networking .

However there seems to be a push to justify allowing unverified members into a swingers event .

I was new at my first event but was verified by a well established member so think that should be the norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been to M&G yet but would rather not know who is coming I like the surprise element! And don't have time to go over people's profiles and veris beforehand anyway... We'll that's my humble opinion for what it's worth...

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Every one is intitled to their opinion..!

But for lots of ppl here and on other sites its meet and greets got them on the swing circle

But to the issue raised about lists for a M&G its not going to happen as too many ppl would need to be mailed not a mind putting 300+ names on a list n mail each n ever one its madness....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every one is intitled to their opinion..!

But for lots of ppl here and on other sites its meet and greets got them on the swing circle

But to the issue raised about lists for a M&G its not going to happen as too many ppl would need to be mailed not a mind putting 300+ names on a list n mail each n ever one its madness....!"
only thing I'd like to know is how many are attending approx.

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

That would only be known a few days b4 the event really or on the night as ppl might pull out for one reason or another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would only be known a few days b4 the event really or on the night as ppl might pull out for one reason or another"
I understand but roughly... 50, 100 or more?

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Ill pm u

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Mrs purefilth101 I do believe i was at your first event as it happens

I was verified by a member before I went to my first event which was a party with about 70 people (second biggest I've been too so far). That blew my mind and 2 weeks later I went to my first M and G. Personally I'd prefer it it most people were verified pre M and G's even with coffee meets or something but I understand why unverified have to be given a chance, it's not ideal but such is life.

It's just leggit verifications helps out the hack journalists (but I've not met any in my 3 years, I hope lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like most people know's we organize party's every month.Normally we don't have people asking for a guest list but sometimes people asking us about others,if they are or not in the list and we let them know.As someone was saying here before if people wants to click or chat before party's they can see by the post's on here.

Anyway we don't ave any problems to send a guest list to the ones confirm but for that we need everyone to agreed to give the name away to others.

Agree _oandwex m&g's are too hard to list every one

Esp when they are big ones.. I rem the last one we had in cork we did not cut out non verified ppl esp single girls only so many single males can go i dont know what all the uproar is about

Its hard enough to orgonise a M&G not a mind adding more hard work on the orgonisers...! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi CC, you have to be really careful when deciding to go to either M&G s or parties, as you never know who or what type of people go. Mainly people are fine, but you can get the odd "A-hole" (male and Female - sometime females can be worse) who cause problems, either getting clingy, stalking, or possessive and then there can be trouble, especially if drink is involved, also you could meet someone you actually know for "real life", embarrassing or what!!

god what ones were u at? ,glad i didnt go lol ,ive been to a few m & g,s and never had any trouble!its only ppl meeting for a social drink and having a laugh,if u meet sumone u like well thts a bonus!"

Lol. Just reading this and hubby said same thing as yourself.. We love m&g...have met great people!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well tbh most ppl will ask for an invite on forums so you can see most that has asked for an invite, i know private mail's are also sent. But as for non verified people its the only way they can get out there and get known, single men and women both plus couples. I agree ppl should be sent a guest list prior to a private party..! But as for a M&G where a couple of hundred ppl after asking to be invited how is one to mail every one, and especially from a few sites. The hotel function rooms are big enough if there is ppl there you dont want to mix with..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont see the need to be posting up whos going tbh i think its a waste of time an effort just turn up an meet them face 2 face or body 2 body lol but guest list writin up here is just pointless but thats just how im looking at it happy swinging folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand the benefits but it only needs one attendee not to want their details up. Maybe it should be kept discreet or you could request email of attendees. The email them the list privately rather than on the forum for all fab to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally. I wouldn't care either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we think it is a good idea,

At least you might know if someone you know is attending.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes we think it is a good idea,

At least you might know if someone you know is attending. "

I can see how mailing 200 people would be an arduous task but when the organisers are preparing their excel list for the door on the night this list could be emailed on request

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town

guest lists can change over night from 5 to 20 people going on or off the list they will even change on the day and evening of a m&g this goes for for parties also and i am sure alot on here know that.so it would be very hard to keep mailing over 200 people each time the list changes.there is already enough time and effort going into running nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then what happens if someone sees another person on the list they don't want to meet. Who stands down?

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town

if you were going to a very good friends wedding with over 200 guests would you go even if there was people there you did not like. m&g are run in big enough places were you can avoid someone if you wanted to we are all adults and know how to behave at this stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"guest lists can change over night from 5 to 20 people going on or off the list they will even change on the day and evening of a m&g this goes for for parties also and i am sure alot on here know that.so it would be very hard to keep mailing over 200 people each time the list changes.there is already enough time and effort going into running nights."

Any m&gs coming up in or around limerick naughtyduo???

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Well i recon its up to the people hosting the m&g really, its very time consuming and takes up a lot of ones time to hold it, so maybe when ye are hosting one cant ye send a list out and see how ye get on doing that.

We have been to most m&g's and never expected a list from any host, and again the venues they are held in are big enough for anyone to avoid ppl the dont see eye to eye with...!!!

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town


"guest lists can change over night from 5 to 20 people going on or off the list they will even change on the day and evening of a m&g this goes for for parties also and i am sure alot on here know that.so it would be very hard to keep mailing over 200 people each time the list changes.there is already enough time and effort going into running nights.

Any m&gs coming up in or around limerick naughtyduo???

"

keep an eye on fourms lol.cork meet and greet has to run first so after that who knows lol

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it's not feasible with the numbers involved

Def agree its easy to avoid people in large function rooms and it would be childish to stay away due to differences

Would be nice for networking purposes

It is only an idea .. Still don't think unverified members should be invited . Let them get verified over coffee first .

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Sure 50-60% of them probably wont show up anyway so why would you put yourself through the hassle of having to make the list.

Totally different for a party where i would want to know who was on the guest list before i attended.

And non verified have to start somewhere so meet and greet would be a good place to start. There are lots of verified members that are messers and i know of at least 2 journalists who are verified members and have attended meet and greets.

Sean

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By *acknnoraCouple
over a year ago

north cork


"Sure 50-60% of them probably wont show up anyway so why would you put yourself through the hassle of having to make the list.

Totally different for a party where i would want to know who was on the guest list before i attended.

And non verified have to start somewhere so meet and greet would be a good place to start. There are lots of verified members that are messers and i know of at least 2 journalists who are verified members and have attended meet and greets.

Sean

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yes Sean well said we all had to start somethere and give ppl a chance

M&G's you wont know until the night in Q who's gonna show

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Sean were those journalists attending in a personal capacity as it were?

Care to expand on that? How did you find out? Were they outed?

Wilder

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town


"Sure 50-60% of them probably wont show up anyway so why would you put yourself through the hassle of having to make the list.

Totally different for a party where i would want to know who was on the guest list before i attended.

And non verified have to start somewhere so meet and greet would be a good place to start. There are lots of verified members that are messers and i know of at least 2 journalists who are verified members and have attended meet and greets.

Sean

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town


"Sean were those journalists attending in a personal capacity as it were?

Care to expand on that? How did you find out? Were they outed?

Wilder"

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West


"Sean were those journalists attending in a personal capacity as it were?

Care to expand on that? How did you find out? Were they outed?

Wilder"

I found out after the event when doing a bit of research who they where. The big meet and greets are hard to keep quiet as people know so there will always be a risk of people finding out.

I believe at the time that they where there in a personal capacity as nothing came out after the event in question. However having had one of my own pictures printed in a Sunday newspaper a few years back after they ran an expose on another website you just never know whats going to happen.

With my role on another website it pays me to keep an ear to the ground and to have a dig around some people sometimes, especially those couple that spring out of the blue and attend the events but dont do anything.

Personally i dont think that most people would be getting too excited about meet and greets in the press as it's the parties they will try and get an invite too. But we know from some of the tv programmes and the newspaper articles that have "exposed" the lifestyle in the last few years that it's not been difficult for the journalists to find their way in to these events.

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town

yes it does seem to be the bigger parties they want to get into or clubs as meet and greets are only a soicial gathering. but we do need to be carefull in anything we do. all they have ever done is boost the sites more people join up after each paper or tv programe lol

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Sean were those journalists attending in a personal capacity as it were?

Care to expand on that? How did you find out? Were they outed?

Wilder

I found out after the event when doing a bit of research who they where. The big meet and greets are hard to keep quiet as people know so there will always be a risk of people finding out.

I believe at the time that they where there in a personal capacity as nothing came out after the event in question. However having had one of my own pictures printed in a Sunday newspaper a few years back after they ran an expose on another website you just never know whats going to happen.

With my role on another website it pays me to keep an ear to the ground and to have a dig around some people sometimes, especially those couple that spring out of the blue and attend the events but dont do anything.

Personally i dont think that most people would be getting too excited about meet and greets in the press as it's the parties they will try and get an invite too. But we know from some of the tv programmes and the newspaper articles that have "exposed" the lifestyle in the last few years that it's not been difficult for the journalists to find their way in to these events."

Wow! Yeah you're right, particularily if it was a female 'journalist' doing the 'exposing' (if you pardon the pun...). Glad soneone's looking out for us Sean!!

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