FabSwingers.com forum: marriage

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just a question??

do married people on here who swing, always look for other married people who are in the same situation as themselves,

be it an unhappy marriage or a sexless one.. what % of people on here would you say are married.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not alot if people will admit to it because ya get judged. however i dont give a shit coz why im here is me own business and yes i do tend to go for attached men but more often than not i meet singles....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think trying to get two people who are playing away harder to organise possibly due to schedules.

But curvy is right you will get judged but I think people should be upfront about it as then they can decide for themselves whether to play or not

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By *S74Man
over a year ago

Dublin

do married people on here who swing, always look for other married people who are in the same situation as themselves,

be it an unhappy marriage or a sexless one.. what % of people on here would you say are married....."

Talking about couples or fake "singles"?

If asked, I would have no problem in telling even tough, like the ladies above said, you get judged and it gets tough!

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Some will admit to being married and others keep it a guarded secret as they know no one will meet them knowing they are married . Make your own decisions and always play safe . Gut instincts are usually right . Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think there's a thrill in meeting a married (playing away from home) woman.

Adrenaline Rush

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Personally I think there's a thrill in meeting a married (playing away from home) woman.

Adrenaline Rush"

Not if they set you up !!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Personally I think there's a thrill in meeting a married (playing away from home) woman.

Adrenaline Rush"

I haven't heard of her. Is she married to Ian Rush?

It's always best to be open from the start. If you try hiding stuff like that you're going to get caught out and cause bigger problems. I don't mind if people judge me because of my martial status. Everyone is entitled to judge others for whatever reason they want as long as the response is consistent and proportionate , in my opinion.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Personally I think there's a thrill in meeting a married (playing away from home) woman.

Adrenaline Rush

Not if they set you up !!!!

Set you up in what fashion?

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By *exywexMan
over a year ago

Gorey

we are very happily married we play alone but attend partys togeather.meeting cpls can be a nightmare as we have found out

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Personally I think there's a thrill in meeting a married (playing away from home) woman.

Adrenaline Rush

Not if they set you up !!!!

Set you up in what fashion? "

For the husband to arrive....wasnt best pleased imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think there's a thrill in meeting a married (playing away from home) woman.

Adrenaline Rush

Not if they set you up !!!!

Set you up in what fashion?

For the husband to arrive....wasnt best pleased imo

It would be horrible alright.

But im extra careful/cautious/skeptical

BUT you'd never know. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not playing away from home and I prefer to meet ppl who arent but its actually pretty hard to find them!

I did meet 2 attached guys previously but its not for me.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Really not bothered if ppl are married or not.....it's not as if we will ever want to marry them but it's mostly cpls we meet so it's not a big issue might be different if we were meeting separate not sure

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By *exywexMan
over a year ago

Gorey

dont think meeting sepetatly is the problem.in our experince its cpls with issues .it has happened to us more than once

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Personally I think there's a thrill in meeting a married (playing away from home) woman.

Adrenaline Rush

Not if they set you up !!!!

Set you up in what fashion?

For the husband to arrive....wasnt best pleased imo

So what happened next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met attached people but really prefer not to. I don't judge them, it's not my business. But I just find it difficult to arrange meets with them as they usually have less available time and/or are not that flexible with it. I usually end up being the one having to bend over backwards (not forward!!) to be able to find a time and place to meet up.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Personally I think there's a thrill in meeting a married (playing away from home) woman.

Adrenaline Rush

Not if they set you up !!!!

Set you up in what fashion?

For the husband to arrive....wasnt best pleased imo

So what happened next?

I got offside tout suite

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"dont think meeting sepetatly is the problem.in our experince its cpls with issues .it has happened to us more than once

i hear you it happened to us once and it was horrible we couldent get away fast enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for the replies , so in general attached people like to play with other attached people, probably cause they feel at ease more, thinking its all level playing field , like if he/she is doing the same its all cool....

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By *ethead68Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

Curvy cat ur right ppl on here mind there own buiness never worry both anyone else im attacted also lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I would think trying to get two people who are playing away harder to organise possibly due to schedules.

But curvy is right you will get judged but I think people should be upfront about it as then they can decide for themselves whether to play or not

Agree totally. Being single I like making my own decisions as long as I have honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and would prefer meets with married people or at least with someone who was aware that I am attached before hand-weird sense of being 'honest' I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and prefer to play with married guys....they have as much to loose as me so they are more careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married and prefer to play with married guys....they have as much to loose as me so they are more careful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm married and prefer to play with married guys....they have as much to loose as me so they are more careful.

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more careful than who??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married and prefer to play with married guys....they have as much to loose as me so they are more careful.

more careful than who??"

More careful than single guys and less chance of emotional involvement. Just my preference.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married male here and more active than my much better half..

If we were to play with a guy in a MMF (again) we probably would seek an attached guy..as was the guy in the MMf..Not sure why but that's the way it is..

We haven't had the pleasure of a MFF yet so can't comment on attached on not ladies..

We feel an attached guy, especially one who is playing with his wife's/girlfriend's consent is 'safer' option i.e.More discreet, understanding etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married and prefer to play with married guys....they have as much to loose as me so they are more careful.

more careful than who??

More careful than single guys and less chance of emotional involvement. Just my preference.......

I think that makes real sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were a youngish married cpl and happy at that.. the sex is great the reason we swing is cos im bi hes a massive sexdrive and both love to explore our wild side and do it together so were both happy!!

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