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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So question is wat do u do if u get someone is so not wat ur into?? Do u or dont u???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though what if no one wants to swap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just meet for a coffee? And take the pressure off...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swap"

But wat if u cant ..if everybody else is happy with theres???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite coffee....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look sorry new to this ..so if its all names in a jar wat do u do if ur stuck with a total minger male or female not been bad just sayin!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Though what if no one wants to swap? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow.. Chance you take.. Might not be for you guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you just meet for a coffee? And take the pressure off..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nah just curious not judgein just intrested..seen some post about party swaps!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee. "

Yes but u dont wanna hurt ppls feelings...but do u go ahead for the sake of it??? #hardgraft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your not even up for a coffee don't enter however there will be a swap shop after but I don't think. That my draw looks like sloth from the goonies will be a good reason to swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your not even up for a coffee don't enter however there will be a swap shop after but I don't think. That my draw looks like sloth from the goonies will be a good reason to swap. "
lmao.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However I'm in drogheda and they are in cobh is valid however all 4 people must agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee.

Yes but u dont wanna hurt ppls feelings...but do u go ahead for the sake of it??? #hardgraft"

I think yeah go ahead don't think people's feelings can be hurt if you just agree to coffee not everyone is going to click but I do think it's a good opportunity to meet with someone as you never know. Maybe they don't write a good profile or whatever but in person may be someone you might like. Equally yes someone who's profile is amazing might actually not be someone you want when you meet. It's a raffle you might win or might lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well...if that is sole reason why you'd want to meet someone - based on their looks - and you think that *everyone else* on here is of the opinion that 'any hole's a goal', then maybe - and I make no judgement in saying this - just maybe you should sit this one out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look sorry new to this ..so if its all names in a jar wat do u do if ur stuck with a total minger male or female not been bad just sayin!!"

At the end of the day, you don't have to put your name into the hat if you're not happy with the consequences!...

No harm in just a coffee meet, you don't have to actually Shag who you're drawn with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I in no way think that every hole is a goal and don't think that is the opinion of most on here. I don't believe I've said that if that's how it come across I am sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't directed at you at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't directed at you at all. "

Ok just thought it was next post my mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my ss didn't wanna meet me I'd rather them say than waste time on doing coffee... You have to be able to take rejection on this site.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If my ss didn't wanna meet me I'd rather them say than waste time on doing coffee... You have to be able to take rejection on this site.!"

Well I'm sure you don't get too many reject you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If my ss didn't wanna meet me I'd rather them say than waste time on doing coffee... You have to be able to take rejection on this site.!"

Of course you do. And then there's the inevitable incompatibility of my last go at it. I was drawn for (a) a bloke (b) at the other end of the island. I always say don't knock it til you try it - but neither blokes nor big travel is currently on my Fab agenda.

But let's say he was in Belfast - an hour away and somewhere I am all the time. Can I at least offer a pint on Friday? Of course. What's the cost? Some time and a tenner for a round.

I just think that there's a lot of VERY cut throat behaviour on here; and I'm not judging anyone in particular. But would it really hurt anyone within a ten mile radius to do coffee after setting out the do's and don'ts?

Not really. But like I say - my thoughts aren't aimed at anyone in particular. It's just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If my ss didn't wanna meet me I'd rather them say than waste time on doing coffee... You have to be able to take rejection on this site.!

Of course you do. And then there's the inevitable incompatibility of my last go at it. I was drawn for (a) a bloke (b) at the other end of the island. I always say don't knock it til you try it - but neither blokes nor big travel is currently on my Fab agenda.

But let's say he was in Belfast - an hour away and somewhere I am all the time. Can I at least offer a pint on Friday? Of course. What's the cost? Some time and a tenner for a round.

I just think that there's a lot of VERY cut throat behaviour on here; and I'm not judging anyone in particular. But would it really hurt anyone within a ten mile radius to do coffee after setting out the do's and don'ts?

Not really. But like I say - my thoughts aren't aimed at anyone in particular. It's just an observation. "

I like your attitude.. It's probably the correct one to have. But for me personally, I don't have much time for meets and would rather it with someone I am interested in.. Obviously I wouldn't judge my ss on looks, but after a few mails back and forth I'd know if I was interested in meeting them or not. That's the way I work anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But then why enter the secret shagger if you are not going to take the chance, as that is the main aspect of it. If you only want to meet people you like, which is fine, why not just keep an eye on the list of males and of one or more catches your eye message him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The purpose of the secret swagger is that people get talking to a random person selected for them it helps people get verified. If you don't like them big deal it's a coffee at the end of the day. I personally think it's better thank kiss fuck avoid and it's the anticipation of not knowing who your getting let's not make it regimented I'm open to suggestions pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But then why enter the secret shagger if you are not going to take the chance, as that is the main aspect of it. If you only want to meet people you like, which is fine, why not just keep an eye on the list of males and of one or more catches your eye message him"

+1

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Relax its a coffee not a kidney donation and it could be a bit of fun our first one was a very nice guy but too far away so the north south idea is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you enter this guys and ladies it looks like fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact hughheff.....hes the organiser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks cheeky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't enter ss., as I can't always commit to a coffee or whatever... But the op asked what to do it you didn't like them, my reply was to be honest..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well...if that is sole reason why you'd want to meet someone - based on their looks - and you think that *everyone else* on here is of the opinion that 'any hole's a goal', then maybe - and I make no judgement in saying this - just maybe you should sit this one out..."

Thats totaly not the issue i was simply curious to the takin part..never wanted to come across as shallow !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't enter ss., as I can't always commit to a coffee or whatever... But the op asked what to do it you didn't like them, my reply was to be honest.. "

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