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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omg i need some advice any u girls ever texts a guy phone and his girlfriend reply am in bits for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, delete his number and move on, nothing whatsoever to do with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg i need some advice any u girls ever texts a guy phone and his girlfriend reply am in bits for him"

Well it all depends on what you text him, and i am sure he is big enough and bold enough to look out for himself, we have an old saying, "if you keep your hand out long enough sooner or later it will get slapped"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens, delete his number and move on, nothing whatsoever to do with you...

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exactly. move on. he's dead to you now.....maybe literally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg i need some advice any u girls ever texts a guy phone and his girlfriend reply am in bits for him"

his own fault really,if hes gonna be with other women he shud have been more careful!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont no if u guys r attached r not but imagine it was u and i really like him

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Not your problem I tend never to txt people on there phone; he may get away with it but depends what the nature of the text was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont no if u guys r attached r not but imagine it was u and i really like him "

if i was attached i wudnt be with anyone else in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately that is one of the perils of playing with married people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But hey most of us r married on here cause we have an unhappy married life r am i alone guys

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would be concerned for myself if I was you she could take down your number and u getting txts or phone calls......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But hey most of us r married on here cause we have an unhappy married life r am i alone guys"

You are not alone but i can say that some ppl have to stay in unhappy relationships because of circumstances but others can just leave, if he felt something for her he would of told her to fuck off as quickly as he could if he was going to stay in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But hey most of us r married on here cause we have an unhappy married life r am i alone guys"

i know a lot on here are but what do u want do us to say like?yur friend was caught out,i assume u were just friends with benefits and not a serious realionship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was life was that simple but its not esp for me hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's smart he'll play dumb or blame a work colleague

Worked for me (once)

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I only ever text in reply to married men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he's smart he'll play dumb or blame a work colleague

Worked for me (once) "

he was caught so i dont think he can be tht smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was life was that simple but its not esp for me hun "
you kinda have no choice in the matter.she could make big problems for you. step back a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx "

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know... Not all the attached guys are on here because they are unhappy in their marriage... In our case we have played together in the past but Mrs is taking a break, but I still tell her what goes on.. She is involved in that context

That fella is just playing away from home, so it sounds... Different if you have your partners consent... Sorry for you though, it probably doesn't make it easier for you...Mr 22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burned"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burned "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burned"
its not her fault tjat the gf picked up the phone.sure how was she to know that would happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys but am so upset for him he is a lovely guy and very genuine were just both unhappy but happy together

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Who knows this could end up happy ever after and both end up driving into the sunset Together.

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over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burnedits not her fault tjat the gf picked up the phone.sure how was she to know that would happen."

Because she knew he was attached, didn't have to be a text message, anything could have got them caught. She knew the score, she has to best responsibility, not all the blame but part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows this could end up happy ever after and both end up driving into the sunset Together. "

Yes this is very true now if only rashers had wings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burnedits not her fault tjat the gf picked up the phone.sure how was she to know that would happen."

She's playing around with a cheating married man and didn't know the consequences ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burnedits not her fault tjat the gf picked up the phone.sure how was she to know that would happen."

But that is one of the chances you take, anyone who doesn't think it is a possibility is bit naive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows this could end up happy ever after and both end up driving into the sunset Together. "

I found the leprechaun at the end if the rainbow as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys but am so upset for him he is a lovely guy and very genuine were just both unhappy but happy together "

im sure his wife or gf is devastated too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows this could end up happy ever after and both end up driving into the sunset Together.

Yes this is very true now if only rashers had wings"

It can happen I know of several people that it has happened to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys but am so upset for him he is a lovely guy and very genuine were just both unhappy but happy together

im sure his wife or gf is devastated too!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys but am so upset for him he is a lovely guy and very genuine were just both unhappy but happy together "

So both be honest to your real partners and ditch em and make for happy ever after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burnedits not her fault tjat the gf picked up the phone.sure how was she to know that would happen.

Because she knew he was attached, didn't have to be a text message, anything could have got them caught. She knew the score, she has to best responsibility, not all the blame but part of it"
obviously that was their form of communication.why should today be any different.as far as sue was concerned it was perfectly safe to do so as thats what they done everyday.today being no different EXCEPT that the gf picked it up.yes play with fire and all that jazz but she was only doing what she always done and thats text him..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows this could end up happy ever after and both end up driving into the sunset Together.

Yes this is very true now if only rashers had wings

It can happen I know of several people that it has happened to"

there rashers had wings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows this could end up happy ever after and both end up driving into the sunset Together.

Yes this is very true now if only rashers had wings

It can happen I know of several people that it has happened to

there rashers had wings? "

Yeah its the latest thing up north

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmmmmm just hope he is ok thanks for all and curvy cat hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions. "

My thoughts exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burnedits not her fault tjat the gf picked up the phone.sure how was she to know that would happen.

Because she knew he was attached, didn't have to be a text message, anything could have got them caught. She knew the score, she has to best responsibility, not all the blame but part of itobviously that was their form of communication.why should today be any different.as far as sue was concerned it was perfectly safe to do so as thats what they done everyday.today being no different EXCEPT that the gf picked it up.yes play with fire and all that jazz but she was only doing what she always done and thats text him..!! "

Ah shit, i got it all wrong, fuckin hell i wish i seen it sooner, i feel such a fool now, its the girlfriends fault for reading the text message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions. "

thts exactley what i was thinking cheeky,she must be devastated!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burnedits not her fault tjat the gf picked up the phone.sure how was she to know that would happen.

Because she knew he was attached, didn't have to be a text message, anything could have got them caught. She knew the score, she has to best responsibility, not all the blame but part of itobviously that was their form of communication.why should today be any different.as far as sue was concerned it was perfectly safe to do so as thats what they done everyday.today being no different EXCEPT that the gf picked it up.yes play with fire and all that jazz but she was only doing what she always done and thats text him..!! "
hold on you texting him too to know so much

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burnedits not her fault tjat the gf picked up the phone.sure how was she to know that would happen.

Because she knew he was attached, didn't have to be a text message, anything could have got them caught. She knew the score, she has to best responsibility, not all the blame but part of itobviously that was their form of communication.why should today be any different.as far as sue was concerned it was perfectly safe to do so as thats what they done everyday.today being no different EXCEPT that the gf picked it up.yes play with fire and all that jazz but she was only doing what she always done and thats text him..!!

Ah shit, i got it all wrong, fuckin hell i wish i seen it sooner, i feel such a fool now, its the girlfriends fault for reading the text message."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions. "

Agree

Seems morals as well as knickers are away out the door

And before anyone points out,yes I married and playing away. I know the risks and if I get caught this will be the last place ill be posting whinging about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not your fault at all.how were u to know that would happen.say nothing and dont text him again.xxx

I beg to differ on parts of this, yes i agree that the op should not text again and say nothing, while some of the blame has to be attributed to her as she knew he was attached and knew there would be consequences if caught, when you play with fire be prepared to get burnedits not her fault tjat the gf picked up the phone.sure how was she to know that would happen.

Because she knew he was attached, didn't have to be a text message, anything could have got them caught. She knew the score, she has to best responsibility, not all the blame but part of itobviously that was their form of communication.why should today be any different.as far as sue was concerned it was perfectly safe to do so as thats what they done everyday.today being no different EXCEPT that the gf picked it up.yes play with fire and all that jazz but she was only doing what she always done and thats text him..!!

Ah shit, i got it all wrong, fuckin hell i wish i seen it sooner, i feel such a fool now, its the girlfriends fault for reading the text message."
i honestly dont know what ur getting on my tits for.i answered like everyone else.if u didnt like my answer then u should have just ignored it....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions.

Agree

Seems morals as well as knickers are away out the door

And before anyone points out,yes I married and playing away. I know the risks and if I get caught this will be the last place ill be posting whinging about it

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions.

Agree

Seems morals as well as knickers are away out the door

And before anyone points out,yes I married and playing away. I know the risks and if I get caught this will be the last place ill be posting whinging about it"
b

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"But hey most of us r married on here cause we have an unhappy married life r am i alone guys"

There introducing divorce to Ireland shortly I do believe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh i am sorry i forgot u r all single here on fabs and fucking saints with perfect lifes and relationships but i have not so if u dont like dont comment

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I dont feel sorry for him or for the op BOTH know what they was doing.

The innocent party here is the gf unaware so my sympathy goes to her.

Im no Saint before anyone says anything.

But sometimes a closed mouth catches no flies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i am sorry i forgot u r all single here on fabs and fucking saints with perfect lifes and relationships but i have not so if u dont like dont comment"

well what do u expect?if yur not prepered to hear other ppls opininions,what did u start the thread for??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens, delete his number and move on, nothing whatsoever to do with you...

exactly. move on. he's dead to you now.....maybe literally!"
ahaha pmsl.....

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"It happens, delete his number and move on, nothing whatsoever to do with you...

exactly. move on. he's dead to you now.....maybe literally!ahaha pmsl..... "

well said jack, helpfull as ever,,,lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i am sorry i forgot u r all single here on fabs and fucking saints with perfect lifes and relationships but i have not so if u dont like dont comment"
we really are..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But hey most of us r married on here cause we have an unhappy married life r am i alone guys"

Not what swinging is about......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens, delete his number and move on, nothing whatsoever to do with you...

exactly. move on. he's dead to you now.....maybe literally!ahaha pmsl.....

well said jack, helpfull as ever,,,lol,"
ever the rock me....

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

men can talk their way out of anything don't worry just deny it all

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"It happens, delete his number and move on, nothing whatsoever to do with you...

exactly. move on. he's dead to you now.....maybe literally!ahaha pmsl.....

well said jack, helpfull as ever,,,lol, ever the rock me.... "

any way gota txt somebody's wife catch u all soon and be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But hey most of us r married on here cause we have an unhappy married life r am i alone guys

There introducing divorce to Ireland shortly I do believe "

Ah no!!! sure it's better to stay in an unhappy relationship and cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens, delete his number and move on, nothing whatsoever to do with you...

exactly. move on. he's dead to you now.....maybe literally!ahaha pmsl.....

well said jack, helpfull as ever,,,lol, ever the rock me....

any way gota txt somebody's wife catch u all soon and be good "

laters bigballs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am so glad u r all saints on here

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago

XWhat did she saw in her reply to you?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am so glad u r all saints on here"

I don't think any of us are claiming that, but has been said several times you take this risk when you play with attached people. And it takes two to accept those risks. There may be feelings involved but the fact is you where both cheating and unfortunately this is one of the bad outcomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he still alive ??? No word of a murder on news...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am so glad u r all saints on here

I don't think any of us are claiming that, but has been said several times you take this risk when you play with attached people. And it takes two to accept those risks. There may be feelings involved but the fact is you where both cheating and unfortunately this is one of the bad outcomes "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Hmm.. Would the girlfriend reply to the text and let you off the hook that easily? If I was her I'd have rang you just to hear your voice trying to explain what was going on. Isn't there a possibility that it was just him possibly trying to let you down gently, or some such, or am I alone in thinking that ?

Then again, if I was the girlfriend I'd have an awfully big clitoris, so don't mind me and my ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm.. Would the girlfriend reply to the text and let you off the hook that easily? If I was her I'd have rang you just to hear your voice trying to explain what was going on. Isn't there a possibility that it was just him possibly trying to let you down gently, or some such, or am I alone in thinking that ?

Then again, if I was the girlfriend I'd have an awfully big clitoris, so don't mind me and my ideas. "

yea i was thinking tht too,i mean surely the gf wud have rang the number too and wanted to know who it was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm.. Would the girlfriend reply to the text and let you off the hook that easily? If I was her I'd have rang you just to hear your voice trying to explain what was going on. Isn't there a possibility that it was just him possibly trying to let you down gently, or some such, or am I alone in thinking that ?

Then again, if I was the girlfriend I'd have an awfully big clitoris, so don't mind me and my ideas.

yea i was thinking tht too,i mean surely the gf wud have rang the number too and wanted to know who it was!"

Unless she was sending our feelers

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont think so but am on here since march thanks for goodfriends lol

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would of rang the number if I was the gf.

another user be gone now say he delete his account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe gf just wanted her proof he's cheating so she can tell him to swing it...

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

Em, some innocent girls world has, in all probability, just been turned upside down..

Absolutely no sympathy for anyone who cheats but lots of sympathy for the people who have been cheated on..

You live by the sword, you die by the sword.....but dont stab other people as you do it.

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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Busty sorry to hear of your troubles. In a similar position here as you, luckily so far not been caught. Might happen but that's life I know the dangers of what I'm doing as I'm sure he did as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busty just wait for him to get in contact.. Nothing else you can do really, you may stir it up some more.. So best off to step back..

Personally I wouldn't put blame 50/50 on you and him as you don't know about her or care about her.. If he thought anything of her he wouldn't have been here simple as.. If it wasn't you it was gonna be someone else

Chin up girl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Busty sorry to hear of your troubles. In a similar position here as you, luckily so far not been caught. Might happen but that's life I know the dangers of what I'm doing as I'm sure he did as well."

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway


"But hey most of us r married on here cause we have an unhappy married life r am i alone guys

Not what swinging is about......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe some of the married ladies should try pick an unmarried guy or a single guy!! , then they wouldnt have the problem of his partner reading there texts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm.. Would the girlfriend reply to the text and let you off the hook that easily? If I was her I'd have rang you just to hear your voice trying to explain what was going on. Isn't there a possibility that it was just him possibly trying to let you down gently, or some such, or am I alone in thinking that ?

Then again, if I was the girlfriend I'd have an awfully big clitoris, so don't mind me and my ideas.

yea i was thinking tht too,i mean surely the gf wud have rang the number too and wanted to know who it was!"
many art confrontational.....its easy to be online......and its pretty stupid to assume all gf would act the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens, delete his number and move on, nothing whatsoever to do with you...

exactly. move on. he's dead to you now.....maybe literally!"

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Em, some innocent girls world has, in all probability, just been turned upside down..

Absolutely no sympathy for anyone who cheats but lots of sympathy for the people who have been cheated on..

You live by the sword, you die by the sword.....but dont stab other people as you do it.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some of the judgmental fookers(mainly ladies) in this tread should stop trying to project there believes onto others.......its one think to say what you think....another to fuckin push it over others......mighty lot of fuckin high horses round here!!!!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'm not sure you could be described as "living by the sword" if you never actually stabbed anyone else with it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring and show at the fuckin old fooks home again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone like cheating porn, love it myself , all the fun with none of the feelings attached

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"anyone like cheating porn, love it myself , all the fun with none of the feelings attached"

I watched some of that once. This really hot chick whipped off her kit to reveal a 9 inch dong! I certainly felt cheated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone like cheating porn, love it myself , all the fun with none of the feelings attached

I watched some of that once. This really hot chick whipped off her kit to reveal a 9 inch dong! I certainly felt cheated! "

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"anyone like cheating porn, love it myself , all the fun with none of the feelings attached

I watched some of that once. This really hot chick whipped off her kit to reveal a 9 inch dong! I certainly felt cheated! "

pmsi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i am sorry i forgot u r all single here on fabs and fucking saints with perfect lifes and relationships but i have not so if u dont like dont comment"

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"men can talk their way out of anything don't worry just deny it all"

I wouldn't mind talking my way into you ....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

No point in being judgemental on this one for those who haven't sinned step forward and throw the first stone

to the op u knew at the outset what the situation was and there was always a chance of this happening chin up and wait till he contacts u

yes i am married and playing away for my own reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bring and show at the fuckin old fooks home again "

should that not be show and tell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

long runs the fox tll they are caught in the headlights lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

[Removed by poster at 17/01/14 11:58:56]

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By *arveygirthycockMan
over a year ago

town


"I dont no if u guys r attached r not but imagine it was u and i really like him

if i was attached i wudnt be with anyone else in the first place"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bring and show at the fuckin old fooks home again

should that not be show and tell lol "
couldn't think of it lol

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I know everyone has there own reasons for being on here. I don't judge married single what ever; I have single friends and married friends.

I have been the gf; I have seen txts on my partners phone (exl). I do feel for her.

Posting bout it going to get mixed reactions.

and most will say what u may not want to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a lot till tell you your wrong and there right......but im sure u can tell their full of shit ...

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wronged GF thinks ...."sure there is no point in going on that site of his for a look ...theres bound to be thousands of girls on there ....ah fuck it i'll chance it... wait a second ... Girlfriend Replies..whats this ..no it couldnt be.. OMG....HELLO BITCH....now where the fuck is Kells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wronged GF thinks ...."sure there is no point in going on that site of his for a look ...theres bound to be thousands of girls on there ....ah fuck it i'll chance it... wait a second ... Girlfriend Replies..whats this ..no it couldnt be.. OMG....HELLO BITCH....now where the fuck is Kells

"
hahaha stirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some of the judgmental fookers(mainly ladies) in this tread should stop trying to project there believes onto others.......its one think to say what you think....another to fuckin push it over others......mighty lot of fuckin high horses round here!!!!!!"

I don't have a problem with people playing with attached people, everyone here is old enough to make their own decisions and I know attached people play away from home for their own reasons. But the fact remains if you are going to do that you should be aware that their is a chance you will get caught and if you don't like the consequences you shouldn't play. Expecting a forum to come out in sympathy for you is like looking for unicorn farts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wronged GF thinks ...."sure there is no point in going on that site of his for a look ...theres bound to be thousands of girls on there ....ah fuck it i'll chance it... wait a second ... Girlfriend Replies..whats this ..no it couldnt be.. OMG....HELLO BITCH....now where the fuck is Kells

hahaha stirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

Not stirring at all.... just pointing out in my own way that posting about it in an open forum is risky to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some of the judgmental fookers(mainly ladies) in this tread should stop trying to project there believes onto others.......its one think to say what you think....another to fuckin push it over others......mighty lot of fuckin high horses round here!!!!!!

I don't have a problem with people playing with attached people, everyone here is old enough to make their own decisions and I know attached people play away from home for their own reasons. But the fact remains if you are going to do that you should be aware that their is a chance you will get caught and if you don't like the consequences you shouldn't play. Expecting a forum to come out in sympathy for you is like looking for unicorn farts"

well buck me a unicorn farts they must be as rare as hens teeth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some of the judgmental fookers(mainly ladies) in this tread should stop trying to project there believes onto others.......its one think to say what you think....another to fuckin push it over others......mighty lot of fuckin high horses round here!!!!!!

I don't have a problem with people playing with attached people, everyone here is old enough to make their own decisions and I know attached people play away from home for their own reasons. But the fact remains if you are going to do that you should be aware that their is a chance you will get caught and if you don't like the consequences you shouldn't play. Expecting a forum to come out in sympathy for you is like looking for unicorn farts

well buck me a unicorn farts they must be as rare as hens teeth lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm.. Would the girlfriend reply to the text and let you off the hook that easily? If I was her I'd have rang you just to hear your voice trying to explain what was going on. Isn't there a possibility that it was just him possibly trying to let you down gently, or some such, or am I alone in thinking that ?

Then again, if I was the girlfriend I'd have an awfully big clitoris, so don't mind me and my ideas.

yea i was thinking tht too,i mean surely the gf wud have rang the number too and wanted to know who it was! many art confrontational.....its easy to be online......and its pretty stupid to assume all gf would act the same "

yea tht makes a lot of sense

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Hmm.. Would the girlfriend reply to the text and let you off the hook that easily? If I was her I'd have rang you just to hear your voice trying to explain what was going on. Isn't there a possibility that it was just him possibly trying to let you down gently, or some such, or am I alone in thinking that ?

Then again, if I was the girlfriend I'd have an awfully big clitoris, so don't mind me and my ideas.

yea i was thinking tht too,i mean surely the gf wud have rang the number too and wanted to know who it was! many art confrontational.....its easy to be online......and its pretty stupid to assume all gf would act the same

yea tht makes a lot of sense "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not your fault. His problem in that he created it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone's partner is cecking out their texts etc, then that relationship is already dead....

.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

You actually have a point happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone's partner is cecking out their texts etc, then that relationship is already dead....

."

yea,shows the trust is gone!once tht goes dont think the realationship will ever get bak to the way it was!

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"If someone's partner is cecking out their texts etc, then that relationship is already dead....

.

yea,shows the trust is gone!once tht goes dont think the realationship will ever get bak to the way it was!"

I agree,,glass of wine nights in by the fire remote control in hand [sky] ahhh memories,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone's partner is cecking out their texts etc, then that relationship is already dead....

.

yea,shows the trust is gone!once tht goes dont think the realationship will ever get bak to the way it was!

I agree,,glass of wine nights in by the fire remote control in hand [sky] ahhh memories,,, "

we cud try again

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Wait classy u and Tom going to start a relationship marriage woooo this is fab

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"Wait classy u and Tom going to start a relationship marriage woooo this is fab "

We go back a long way,,,before sky even,,

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'm so jealous.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I've fancied Tom for ages

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"I'm so jealous. "

Really ?,,her nick name for me was tiddler which i never quiet got,,

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Wait is classy and Tom starting a fab relationship wow good luck I find this emotional I'm welling up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions. "

Totally agree the poor girl .. Swinging without your partners knowledge isn't swinging it's cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait classy u and Tom going to start a relationship marriage woooo this is fab

We go back a long way,,,before sky even,, "

tom and I are soul mates!when i got my cards read she said i wud settle with an older man!not much in the luks department she said but very handy around the house ,maybe its u tom

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Wait classy u and Tom going to start a relationship marriage woooo this is fab

We go back a long way,,,before sky even,,

tom and I are soul mates!when i got my cards read she said i wud settle with an older man!not much in the luks department she said but very handy around the house ,maybe its u tom "

I can cook and sew! I'm good around the house, but possibly too good looking to suit that prediction. Ah well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait classy u and Tom going to start a relationship marriage woooo this is fab

We go back a long way,,,before sky even,,

tom and I are soul mates!when i got my cards read she said i wud settle with an older man!not much in the luks department she said but very handy around the house ,maybe its u tom

I can cook and sew! I'm good around the house, but possibly too good looking to suit that prediction. Ah well... "

yea michael,thts u ruled out so

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"Wait classy u and Tom going to start a relationship marriage woooo this is fab

We go back a long way,,,before sky even,,

tom and I are soul mates!when i got my cards read she said i wud settle with an older man!not much in the luks department she said but very handy around the house ,maybe its u tom "

Does sound like me, hope she mentioned some of my other talents too,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem to be much thought for the poor girl who's life may just have been ripped apart by finding out her partner has been cheating on her. My sympathies lie with her. Both of the others knew what they were doing and the possible consequences of their actions.

Totally agree the poor girl .. Swinging without your partners knowledge isn't swinging it's cheating "

You are so not allowed to say that

This is the Irish forum, less you can take the piss your views are ignored

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