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By *rchippy OP   Man
over a year ago

omagh

I have seen fab described as a sex site quite a few times recently. Is it a sex site or a swingers site or is both the same thing in your view?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys think it's a sex site that US ladies just drop everything when they message US and most si glee guys havent had a 3 sum let alone anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen fab described as a sex site quite a few times recently. Is it a sex site or a swingers site or is both the same thing in your view? "

Swinging is a non-monogamous behavior, in which singles or partners in a relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. That's a definition of swinging so take from that as you will.

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By *rchippy OP   Man
over a year ago

omagh

I agree, I don't just see it as a sex site, but what is the difference between a sex site and swinging, in your view?

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Its defo a swibg site , that what we think anyway , but we have noticed alot of single guys especially new guys think its a sex site , they think they can send a mail and when we reply , the next mail us usually when can meet up lol , swinging is more than that for us, as we are going to be sharing our most intamate part of us with others , we prefer to get to know people a bit more , we dont want their life story , but just enough for us to make that connection in order to have some fun times with them , for us to pleasure them and them pleasure us , and if we make a friend along the way , thats a bonus .

Thats just our tupence worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i actually think the sex part is a bonus coz i just love chatting etc. on the forums.theres lots on here not meeting anymore and just chatting. so it has different meanings for everyone

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Its defo a swibg site , that what we think anyway , but we have noticed alot of single guys especially new guys think its a sex site , they think they can send a mail and when we reply , the next mail us usually when can meet up lol , swinging is more than that for us, as we are going to be sharing our most intamate part of us with others , we prefer to get to know people a bit more , we dont want their life story , but just enough for us to make that connection in order to have some fun times with them , for us to pleasure them and them pleasure us , and if we make a friend along the way , thats a bonus .

Thats just our tupence worth "

and a great tupence worth it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All us males arent the same.

For me I like to make a connection first and enjoy some banter too

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By *oulbotMan
over a year ago

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Good definition of it but some peeps here are confused between swing site and e-darling.....

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Its defo a swibg site , that what we think anyway , but we have noticed alot of single guys especially new guys think its a sex site , they think they can send a mail and when we reply , the next mail us usually when can meet up lol , swinging is more than that for us, as we are going to be sharing our most intamate part of us with others , we prefer to get to know people a bit more , we dont want their life story , but just enough for us to make that connection in order to have some fun times with them , for us to pleasure them and them pleasure us , and if we make a friend along the way , thats a bonus .

Thats just our tupence worth "

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Good definition of it but some peeps here are confused between swing site and e-darling..... "

Whats e-darling

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By *rchippy OP   Man
over a year ago

omagh


"Good definition of it but some peeps here are confused between swing site and e-darling.....

Whats e-darling "

I presume he meant e-dating lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys think it's a sex site that US ladies just drop everything when they message US and most si glee guys havent had a 3 sum let alone anything else "
have u a licence to use that word......US.. Lol

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

Swingers ultimately swing to have sex. Yes the social side and the banter is god but its purpose is, for the most part, sexual activity.

So if one was to take it to its logical conclusion, its a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen fab described as a sex site quite a few times recently. Is it a sex site or a swingers site or is both the same thing in your view? "

its both really ,i wudnt class myself as a swinger,im mainly on here to meet guys for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its defo a swibg site , that what we think anyway , but we have noticed alot of single guys especially new guys think its a sex site , they think they can send a mail and when we reply , the next mail us usually when can meet up lol , swinging is more than that for us, as we are going to be sharing our most intamate part of us with others , we prefer to get to know people a bit more , we dont want their life story , but just enough for us to make that connection in order to have some fun times with them , for us to pleasure them and them pleasure us , and if we make a friend along the way , thats a bonus .

Thats just our tupence worth "

to sum it up ,a swinger site for cpls,and a sex site for singles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its defo a swibg site , that what we think anyway , but we have noticed alot of single guys especially new guys think its a sex site , they think they can send a mail and when we reply , the next mail us usually when can meet up lol , swinging is more than that for us, as we are going to be sharing our most intamate part of us with others , we prefer to get to know people a bit more , we dont want their life story , but just enough for us to make that connection in order to have some fun times with them , for us to pleasure them and them pleasure us , and if we make a friend along the way , thats a bonus .

Thats just our tupence worth

to sum it up ,a swinger site for cpls,and a sex site for singles?"

and a playground for fakers/wannabees

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Guys think it's a sex site that US ladies just drop everything when they message US and most si glee guys havent had a 3 sum let alone anything else "

I love this....Lmao....brilliant !!

Why do people allways want to put a label on something and place it in a box.....this site is what it is on so many different levels.....just flirt , enjoy , hug kiss n finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its defo a swibg site , that what we think anyway , but we have noticed alot of single guys especially new guys think its a sex site , they think they can send a mail and when we reply , the next mail us usually when can meet up lol , swinging is more than that for us, as we are going to be sharing our most intamate part of us with others , we prefer to get to know people a bit more , we dont want their life story , but just enough for us to make that connection in order to have some fun times with them , for us to pleasure them and them pleasure us , and if we make a friend along the way , thats a bonus .

Thats just our tupence worth

to sum it up ,a swinger site for cpls,and a sex site for singles?

and a playground for fakers/wannabees "

dont forget the nutters too

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Its defo a swibg site , that what we think anyway , but we have noticed alot of single guys especially new guys think its a sex site , they think they can send a mail and when we reply , the next mail us usually when can meet up lol , swinging is more than that for us, as we are going to be sharing our most intamate part of us with others , we prefer to get to know people a bit more , we dont want their life story , but just enough for us to make that connection in order to have some fun times with them , for us to pleasure them and them pleasure us , and if we make a friend along the way , thats a bonus .

Thats just our tupence worth

to sum it up ,a swinger site for cpls,and a sex site for singles?

and a playground for fakers/wannabees

dont forget the nutters too "
more looneys on here half the time the sex goes out the window.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


" more looneys on here half the time the sex goes out the window."

Mmm.. Kinky!

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

Having been on the site for 4 years now there are more single profiles than ever and some are not looking for 3somes or moresomes which I would define as swinging... I think the hint is in the name but if people want to use it for nsa sex that's their perogative.

We personally enjoy all elements of the site:- messaging, chatting, camming, meets and greets, parties, couple meets and single meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been on the site for 4 years now there are more single profiles than ever and some are not looking for 3somes or moresomes which I would define as swinging... I think the hint is in the name but if people want to use it for nsa sex that's their perogative.

We personally enjoy all elements of the site:- messaging, chatting, camming, meets and greets, parties, couple meets and single meets "

Swinging is not about threesomes or moresomes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been on the site for 4 years now there are more single profiles than ever and some are not looking for 3somes or moresomes which I would define as swinging... I think the hint is in the name but if people want to use it for nsa sex that's their perogative.

We personally enjoy all elements of the site:- messaging, chatting, camming, meets and greets, parties, couple meets and single meets

Swinging is not about threesomes or moresomes..."

isnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Threesomes moresomes with your partner is only one aspect of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Threesomes moresomes with your partner is only one aspect of swinging. "

buts it still swinging tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Threesomes moresomes with your partner is only one aspect of swinging. "

So it IS part of swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll rephrase. Swinging is not only about threesomes or moresomes....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Are twosomes in or out, I wonder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll rephrase. Swinging is not only about threesomes or moresomes...."

So a couple who decide to swing ie introduce one or more to their sex lives have got it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll rephrase. Swinging is not only about threesomes or moresomes...."

but it is to tht cpl tht made the comment and others im sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us its a swing site an not a sex site we enjoy chatting to people on here in chat rooms on the fourms partys m/g etc its not all about the sex for us where on here to make some new friends around ireland like where heading to the venue with no sex in our heads whats so ever it could change when get there but for now its a no where going to meet people have a chat that kind of thing but some people on here including couples think its just for sex and we get mails every single day want a fuck are u horny 2nite etc like we dont shag every tom dick and harry an mary in some cases so for us its a swinging site for others maybe not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll rephrase. Swinging is not only about threesomes or moresomes....

So a couple who decide to swing ie introduce one or more to their sex lives have got it wrong?

"

Swinging is not only JUST about threesomes or moresomes....

Never said they were wrong. Read...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll rephrase. Swinging is not only about threesomes or moresomes....

but it is to tht cpl tht made the comment and others im sure "

Again read. I never said they were wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

I would have thought that swinging involves:

a)a committed couple

playing with

B)any other combination of people

If four strangers got together is that swinging? As opposed to say, two couples?

I'd have said the latter. Granted, everyone would have great fun anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my humble opinion there's much more to swinging than just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll rephrase. Swinging is not only about threesomes or moresomes....

but it is to tht cpl tht made the comment and others im sure

Again read. I never said they were wrong..."

i dont need to read it again,i think u do!i never said u said they were wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll rephrase. Swinging is not only about threesomes or moresomes....

but it is to tht cpl tht made the comment and others im sure

Again read. I never said they were wrong...

i dont need to read it again,i think u do!i never said u said they were wrong!

"

You implied I was telling them they were wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll rephrase. Swinging is not only about threesomes or moresomes....

but it is to tht cpl tht made the comment and others im sure

Again read. I never said they were wrong...

i dont need to read it again,i think u do!i never said u said they were wrong!

You implied I was telling them they were wrong."

were did i imply tht??i said to them the cpl tht made the comment swinging is about 3sums and moresums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I was only saying swinging in general is not just about threesomes or moresomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I was only saying swinging in general is not just about threesomes or moresomes. "

it can be to sum ppl tho!sum ppl class this as a swinger site but i dont class myself as a swinger so i see it as a sex site cos im just on here to meet guys,so different ppl have different views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's swinging....

Non-monogamy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your on here meeting people of any sex weather its single guys single girls or couples u are a swinger ur having sexual contact with a stranger and even if u meet for a coffee to see if theres a conection ur still meeting a stranger it says it all in the sites name FABSWINGERS!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's swinging....

Non-monogamy"

just meeting guys for fun is not swinging!

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim


"Having been on the site for 4 years now there are more single profiles than ever and some are not looking for 3somes or moresomes which I would define as swinging... I think the hint is in the name but if people want to use it for nsa sex that's their perogative.

We personally enjoy all elements of the site:- messaging, chatting, camming, meets and greets, parties, couple meets and single meets

Swinging is not about threesomes or moresomes...

isnt it?"

that's what I thought...surely having sex with more than one partner unless you're swapping of course

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

Swinging is different things to different people and yes I believe it doesn't always involve sex...For some its voyeurism, swapping or having sex with more than one partner and I'm sure some of you could add some more

Two single people meeting to have nsa sex I don't believe to be swinging...and that's were fabswingers is used by some as a sex site which is fair enough if everyone's happy and gets from the site what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is different things to different people and yes I believe it doesn't always involve sex...For some its voyeurism, swapping or having sex with more than one partner and I'm sure some of you could add some more

Two single people meeting to have nsa sex I don't believe to be swinging...and that's were fabswingers is used by some as a sex site which is fair enough if everyone's happy and gets from the site what they want"

there my thoughts too

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim


"Swinging is different things to different people and yes I believe it doesn't always involve sex...For some its voyeurism, swapping or having sex with more than one partner and I'm sure some of you could add some more

Two single people meeting to have nsa sex I don't believe to be swinging...and that's were fabswingers is used by some as a sex site which is fair enough if everyone's happy and gets from the site what they want

there my thoughts too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is different things to different people and yes I believe it doesn't always involve sex...For some its voyeurism, swapping or having sex with more than one partner and I'm sure some of you could add some more

Two single people meeting to have nsa sex I don't believe to be swinging...and that's were fabswingers is used by some as a sex site which is fair enough if everyone's happy and gets from the site what they want"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the problem then becomes apparent when true swinger get abuse for wanting to get to know someone to see if there is a connection and are told this is a sex site and that we shod try a dating site as has been said to me a number of times. Surely people like that should be removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the problem then becomes apparent when true swinger get abuse for wanting to get to know someone to see if there is a connection and are told this is a sex site and that we shod try a dating site as has been said to me a number of times. Surely people like that should be removed "

I take your point on board but you have to remember that everyone can say membership and not just true swingers so its always going to be open to everyone as money is what makes the world go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True but why should we be open for abuse because some guy gets knocked back because they want se. There and them. All we get to do I block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True but why should we be open for abuse because some guy gets knocked back because they want se. There and them. All we get to do I block them."

seems unfair but the otherside of the coin means no site at all so i suppose we take the good with the bad

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By *oodieMan
over a year ago

NewCastlewest

i think ye girls dont know what ye want yourselves ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made it very clear on my profile what I want, guys just don't read it they just see tits and think I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the problem then becomes apparent when true swinger get abuse for wanting to get to know someone to see if there is a connection and are told this is a sex site and that we shod try a dating site as has been said to me a number of times. Surely people like that should be removed

I take your point on board but you have to remember that everyone can say membership and not just true swingers so its always going to be open to everyone as money is what makes the world go round"

Everyone, no matter why they are here gets "abuse " in some shape or form

You as a user have to be sure what your are here for and what standards you will accept, and don't deviate

The tools the site has help. Use them. And don't be afraid to say NO and walk away from a conversation or meet

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By *oodieMan
over a year ago

NewCastlewest

guys just dont bother to read your profiles,cos you dont tell the truth,,ye dont mean it ,its just the way ye are,, and yes we do like nice tits,, mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me I am genuine and have never lied on my profile what's the point. I have caught more guys out lying on profile that girls and that is why I have laid it out in plain English what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the problem then becomes apparent when true swinger get abuse for wanting to get to know someone to see if there is a connection and are told this is a sex site and that we shod try a dating site as has been said to me a number of times. Surely people like that should be removed

I take your point on board but you have to remember that everyone can say membership and not just true swingers so its always going to be open to everyone as money is what makes the world go round

Everyone, no matter why they are here gets "abuse " in some shape or form

You as a user have to be sure what your are here for and what standards you will accept, and don't deviate

The tools the site has help. Use them. And don't be afraid to say NO and walk away from a conversation or meet "

I had to delete my last profile because of the level of abuse I was getting daily. I started this one with a list of guys to avoid and when they messages me I blocked them straight away.

I have a harder attitude now because of my previous experiences.

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