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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are swingers i know but dont want to share the wife with another man. Am i just greedy?? Or just protective off her??. What to do?? Is soft swing the best way to go??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are swingers i know but dont want to share the wife with another man. Am i just greedy?? Or just protective off her??. What to do?? Is soft swing the best way to go??"

well it seems soft swing is the only way you can go, if you're not willing to share her with another man.....or you only meet bi fems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she mind u and a girl ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's good for the goose is good for the gander or vis versa in this case...

What does your wife want ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All to there own but that sounds like have your cake and eat it talk,

If you can fuck a girl why can't she fuck a guy or do you not want to have sex with another women!

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By *exywexMan
over a year ago

Gorey

best stick to soft swing.that seems to be ur thing lol.but its so much more fun for everyone if you go the the extra mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well its between you two its not being greedy some pefare not to share or swap or wat ever way u put it id never call it greedy as for is where a happy loving couple it turns me on while shes getting fun by another man or men in some cases it also turns her on aswell so no greed with us same if im with a lady it turns her on its about choice and what u 2 are happy with thats all what counts as we dont want any rows in the end of the day your a happy married couple who will be in your own bed alone with just u an her what happens outside of that is just fun so no deffo not greed hope thats a little help to ya happy swinging guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thx for the reply guys. The way it is is the few 3somes we have had yes i did fuck the other woman and no lies here i liked it. And the totall joy i got from watching her with another woman was great. But i know she wants to experince the mmf and i am willing to try it because im not just having my cake and eating it. But im finding it very hard to share her. Just very worried how it will go!!! Think im just looking for respect for the guy i let fuck my wife cause tere anit much respect on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's understandable, it can make you very insecure about who enjoys what more etc. but she will get a lot of pleasure from knowing she can keep two guys to herself and you love her so be secure in that and find a nice guy who will not over step the mark!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would disagree there are some males that do show respect, it's just finding them and it usually shows through in messages and at a social meet

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By *ittalatingWoman
over a year ago

kildare

The thing is though that primarily it's ur relationship that should take priority and if there is any doubts on either side then it isn't time to push those boundaries. Both of u need to be happy and certain that this is what both of u want otherwise ultimately u jeopardise what u have together. Communication as always is the key alongside honesty

Best of luck to you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not about respect it is about trust, your wife trusts you, shame you don't trust her.The amount if men who claim to trust their wives and fuck around and would be devastated if there wife even look at another man is hypocritical. I personally don't see the problem it is not that she is asking for two different guys to be the mmf you will be involved.

If it is just an ego thing that the guy should respect you for letting him fuck your wife you need to get over it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your words ring true.just think ill have to hold interviews for the right kinda guy.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Your words ring true.just think ill have to hold interviews for the right kinda guy. "

there in lies a problem do u think herself might want to have a say in the selection process

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

You'll find that alot of guys on here are very respectful. Maybe we've been lucky but we've not yet met a disrespectful guy on here.

You're happy enough to be with other women yet you dont want your lady to be with another man. Does she want to be with other men? If so, you should be comfortable enough to let her. We find with swinging that we either do all or do nothing, so to speak

You never know, you might actually enjoying seeing your wife being pleasured by another man.

Which ever way it turns out we wish ye both the best of luck on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thx for the reply guys. The way it is is the few 3somes we have had yes i did fuck the other woman and no lies here i liked it. And the totall joy i got from watching her with another woman was great. But i know she wants to experince the mmf and i am willing to try it because im not just having my cake and eating it. But im finding it very hard to share her. Just very worried how it will go!!! Think im just looking for respect for the guy i let fuck my wife cause tere anit much respect on fab"

its the phrase ....."..i let fuck my wife" thats getting to me.Should the decision not be hers and hers alone who it is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absoloutely then nobody gets hurt

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Time to take stock ur afraid how u will react to ur wife enjoying another man take ur time maybe a social meet first with a guy and see how ye get on its only coffee or a drink need be no more

most guys meeting cpls know its a must to engage with both otherwise its a no go talk to him and explain ur fears if hes anygood he will take it on board u can set out the rules before u meet so there is no grey areas

say u set up a meet with some thing like he can kiss, touch lick finger but no penetration she will do the same in return and if u both feel happy to move on then the world is ur oyster

just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes mrs hotnsteamy does have a say in what men she would like to met and drules alot over some off the male pics on fab as do i over the female body. I am not and never will stop her trying the touch off another man and prob would get off takeing part in a mmf. But every1 missed the point!! Do you all remember your first mmf tere is a build up to it an nerves play a big part in it. Im just want her to have fun with some1 whoes not going to look at her as a pice off meat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think that would be a good thing to do. Makes alot off sence never thought off.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Yes mrs hotnsteamy does have a say in what men she would like to met and drules alot over some off the male pics on fab as do i over the female body. I am not and never will stop her trying the touch off another man and prob would get off takeing part in a mmf. But every1 missed the point!! Do you all remember your first mmf tere is a build up to it an nerves play a big part in it. Im just want her to have fun with some1 whoes not going to look at her as a pice off meat. "

right got u ur not worried that she might enjoy her self to much or that u will end up jealous but that the guy makes love to her not just a shag he picked up down the club after a d*unken night out

think ull find most genuine guys treat women really well after all the chances of a single guy getting a meet is so low hes hoping for a repeat

for most guys i think its all about the woman pleasure

but i may be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think i,ll just need to down a bottle off vodka first lol then things mite go to plan

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Naw ull just pass out then ull feel guilty a little Dutch courage is fine but remember u didn't get this far by not communicating ull be just fine and possibly alot closer for it

take ur time have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cj47 thx for that!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cj47 thx for that!!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Thanks for nothing mate i just wish i had ur problem

love to see my wife in the life style

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cant help haveing a super fit wife youve seen the pics lol. Just hard to share is all

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Sharing is caring

and yep she is mighty fine loved the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for nothing mate i just wish i had ur problem

love to see my wife in the life style "

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