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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After alot of messages frm single guys yesterday I feel that most of them havent a clue what goes on at a meet and greet they think it's a mass orgy which I have tried to explain its not quiet the opposite drinks chat and a laugh is there no where in the fourms to explain these??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After alot of messages frm single guys yesterday I feel that most of them havent a clue what goes on at a meet and greet they think it's a mass orgy which I have tried to explain its not quiet the opposite drinks chat and a laugh is there no where in the fourms to explain these?? "

they actually really do think that dont they...lol

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

thought it was made clear in the 'getting started' forums

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Its really self explanatory meet and greet simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah not to most men I spoke to yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its the fact that the guys are on a swinging site and its going to their heads. They think everything is an orgy lol but with m&g's there mainly a social gathering.

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By *ippcoupe2Couple
over a year ago

cahir/cashel

thats why so many single guys turn up at meet and greets. they think its a cock fest.we would be very reluctant to go to another as it can be very intimidating.we went to one in cork and there was one single female and one other couple and 20 single guys. NOT PLEASANT

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

meet&greets are a social occasion , some people like to get to know peeps before going any further some don't.any

m&g I've attended have been very well organised with a good mix of people with single guys in the minority generally i suppose some guys just think its an orgy poor sods they've alot to learn!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meet&greets are a social occasion , some people like to get to know peeps before going any further some don't.any

m&g I've attended have been very well organised with a good mix of people with single guys in the minority generally i suppose some guys just think its an orgy poor sods they've alot to learn!!!!!"

As was said above _ippcoupe2 I've had the same experiences before but also have been to well organised m&g's. By contacting people for me it makes a world of a difference. As turning up then the ice has already been broken with some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meet&greets are a social occasion , some people like to get to know peeps before going any further some don't.any

m&g I've attended have been very well organised with a good mix of people with single guys in the minority generally i suppose some guys just think its an orgy poor sods they've alot to learn!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meet&greets are a social occasion , some people like to get to know peeps before going any further some don't.any

m&g I've attended have been very well organised with a good mix of people with single guys in the minority generally i suppose some guys just think its an orgy poor sods they've alot to learn!!!!!

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

Its' quiet easy for single lads who have been to meets & greets to comment etc but surely we can understand what its like for single guys (or single women and couples) just entering the world of swinging for the first time.

The only experience they have is what they read in the media or see in porn films. The expectation is that m&g's are a precursor to an evening of wanton abandon

Once they've been to one they quickly get with the programme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its' quiet easy for single lads who have been to meets & greets to comment etc but surely we can understand what its like for single guys (or single women and couples) just entering the world of swinging for the first time.

The only experience they have is what they read in the media or see in porn films. The expectation is that m&g's are a precursor to an evening of wanton abandon

Once they've been to one they quickly get with the programme "

Its very very easy for them to think that, sure I was the same myself and it can be a steep learning curve in ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all down to the guys expectations and their respect towards females / couples, regardless of whether it's a M&G, or a Party. Bottom line, at both, no means no......simple as that, there should never be an issue at either.

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

My first m&g was in Cork that was about 2 years ago.. Great night..as a newbie that time.. I just wanted to get to know a few people... It was great to meet people you chat with online and actually chat to them in person..

Meeting at meet and greets gives you the chance to show your personality.. And giving a person or couple a chance to enjoy your or both of your company without the expectation of each other to take it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive yet to attend one

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I have been to three m@g now and have enjoyed all of them but your right people tend to think sex on the dance floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been to three m@g now and have enjoyed all of them but your right people tend to think sex on the dance floor "

I think I remember hearing a story about that happening at a m&g held by that other well known Irish swingers site

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"After alot of messages frm single guys yesterday I feel that most of them havent a clue what goes on at a meet and greet they think it's a mass orgy which I have tried to explain its not quiet the opposite drinks chat and a laugh is there no where in the fourms to explain these?? "

Aw come on blonde tell truth. Nothing but huge orgy Lmao.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it would make sense when people put up a M&G they explain what it is about so people have a a clear idea about what they can expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say go to these M&G's and treat them as a normal night out and just to get known and trusted by other fab members. if you do get a little kiss for your self look at it as an added bonous

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