FabSwingers.com forum: My seven rules for swinging....

By *longshott OP Man
over a year ago

Limerick

Have used these rules for my swinging career and so far have served me well if you have any please add.....

The rules are

1 Guard your relationship.

2 Guard your discretion.

3 Guard your reputation.

4 Guard your sanity.

5 Guard your integrity

6 Guard your self respect while being respectful.

7 Guard your expectations.

They are the 7 rules I use. If any don't fit or think may be threatened I walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have used these rules for my swinging career and so far have served me well if you have any please add.....

The rules are

1 Guard your relationship.

2 Guard your discretion.

3 Guard your reputation.

4 Guard your sanity.

5 Guard your integrity

6 Guard your self respect while being respectful.

7 Guard your expectations.

They are the 7 rules I use. If any don't fit or think may be threatened I walk away."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 guard your safety from the crazies

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

9..never give out numbers mobile kik is available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have used these rules for my swinging career and so far have served me well if you have any please add.....

The rules are

1 Guard your relationship.

2 Guard your discretion.

3 Guard your reputation.

4 Guard your sanity.

5 Guard your integrity

6 Guard your self respect while being respectful.

7 Guard your expectations.

They are the 7 rules I use. If any don't fit or think may be threatened I walk away."

8.proof in writing tht the are not insane!

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By *longshott OP Man
over a year ago

Limerick

"9..never give out numbers mobile kik is available "

Kik my arse let me lol

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"9..never give out numbers mobile kik is available

Kik my arse let me lol"
I kick it alright making me stand out in this rain waiting on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so if we all don't exchange numbers anymore, don't tell each other our names etc... what do you do when one of your meets turns crazy?

Go to the Garda to report them but tell them you have no idea who you fucked many times and thought he was normal? But never exchanged details just be to be sure?

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By *longshott OP Man
over a year ago

Limerick

"9..never give out numbers mobile kik is available

Kik my arse let me lol I kick it alright making me stand out in this rain waiting on you. "

So sorry

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"so if we all don't exchange numbers anymore, don't tell each other our names etc... what do you do when one of your meets turns crazy?

Go to the Garda to report them but tell them you have no idea who you fucked many times and thought he was normal? But never exchanged details just be to be sure?"
I would want to meet for a coffee meet first

I would take my time before I hand out my number again. But even meeting someone for coffee first how can you be sure. ?

But if you have been through a bad experience you are so nervous bout meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if we all don't exchange numbers anymore, don't tell each other our names etc... what do you do when one of your meets turns crazy?

Go to the Garda to report them but tell them you have no idea who you fucked many times and thought he was normal? But never exchanged details just be to be sure? I would want to meet for a coffee meet first

I would take my time before I hand out my number again. But even meeting someone for coffee first how can you be sure. ?

But if you have been through a bad experience you are so nervous bout meeting anyone.

I always do that too but I think some of us girls here have had worse experiences with guys we thought we knew better and trusted and met many times, but suddenly turn gaga

So I think at the end of the day you just never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with you there sweetie....my nerves are gone meeting new people again now.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"so if we all don't exchange numbers anymore, don't tell each other our names etc... what do you do when one of your meets turns crazy?

I would take my time before I hand out my number again. But even meeting someone for coffee first how can you be sure. ?

But if you have been through a bad experience you are so nervous bout meeting anyone.

I always do that too but I think some of us girls here have had worse experiences with guys we thought we knew better and trusted and met many times, but suddenly turn gaga

So I think at the end of the day you just never know. "
I know its a catch 22 scenario

especially if you have met them more than once; thankfully the good outdo the bad. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a play phone and number. Find its easiest and if life gets in the way I can always turn it off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have used these rules for my swinging career and so far have served me well if you have any please add.....

The rules are

1 Guard your relationship.

2 Guard your discretion.

3 Guard your reputation.

4 Guard your sanity.

5 Guard your integrity

6 Guard your self respect while being respectful.

7 Guard your expectations.

They are the 7 rules I use. If any don't fit or think may be threatened I walk away."

What's this? The recruitment for the guards!!!!

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim, N. Ireland

"I use a play phone and number. Find its easiest and if life gets in the way I can always turn it off!"

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have used these rules for my swinging career and so far have served me well if you have any please add.....

The rules are

1 Guard your relationship.

2 Guard your discretion.

3 Guard your reputation.

4 Guard your sanity.

5 Guard your integrity

6 Guard your self respect while being respectful.

7 Guard your expectations.

They are the 7 rules I use. If any don't fit or think may be threatened I walk away."

Oh I just love this. I like number 6, if someone is not giving the respect you deserve then have a bit of self respect and walk the fook away. All good pointers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if we all don't exchange numbers anymore, don't tell each other our names etc... what do you do when one of your meets turns crazy?

Go to the Garda to report them but tell them you have no idea who you fucked many times and thought he was normal? But never exchanged details just be to be sure?"
pmsl

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"I use a play phone and number. Find its easiest and if life gets in the way I can always turn it off!"

Yip play phone here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if we all don't exchange numbers anymore, don't tell each other our names etc... what do you do when one of your meets turns crazy?

Go to the Garda to report them but tell them you have no idea who you fucked many times and thought he was normal? But never exchanged details just be to be sure?pmsl

seriously, that happened to me!! It was one awkward conversation!

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Have used these rules for my swinging career and so far have served me well if you have any please add.....

The rules are

1 Guard your relationship.

2 Guard your discretion.

3 Guard your reputation.

4 Guard your sanity.

5 Guard your integrity

6 Guard your self respect while being respectful.

7 Guard your expectations.

They are the 7 rules I use. If any don't fit or think may be threatened I walk away.

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south

"I use a play phone and number. Find its easiest and if life gets in the way I can always turn it off!"

We do the same keeps it all very separate from normal life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True, and some of the ladies can get a little too involve

Rule 9, it's fantasy not love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True, and some of the ladies can get a little too involve

Rule 9, it's fantasy not love"

....as can some of the guys.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10. Always turn up

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim, N. Ireland

"10. Always turn up"

travelled 45 mile for a no show few weeks ago

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