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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so just curious on what you might include in a message to someone you would like to meet.... I'd like to hear from all over what they like to receive as opposed to what crap they get..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's mainly the profile and the picture(s) which will make me reply to a message.

The message itself should not be crude, not too long (especially if it's just a copy/paste kind of message). Please don't send me a 50-liner with your fantasy. Ugh.

To be honest, if the message says hi, how are you, I'd love to chat, and I like the profile and pic I will reply

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"it's mainly the profile and the picture(s) which will make me reply to a message.

The message itself should not be crude, not too long (especially if it's just a copy/paste kind of message). Please don't send me a 50-liner with your fantasy. Ugh.

To be honest, if the message says hi, how are you, I'd love to chat, and I like the profile and pic I will reply"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough do pics need to be included in 1st message I think that is a tough one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's mainly the profile and the picture(s) which will make me reply to a message.

The message itself should not be crude, not too long (especially if it's just a copy/paste kind of message). Please don't send me a 50-liner with your fantasy. Ugh.

To be honest, if the message says hi, how are you, I'd love to chat, and I like the profile and pic I will reply"

Just to clarify.. if the message says "hi, how are you? I'd love to chat"

... and I like the profile and the pic(s) I will reply.

And no face pics have to be included in the first message but there have to be some appealing pics in the profile to get my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stand out from the crowd, ask something nice, pay them a compliment about why you found their profile so interesting that you decided to message them and hopefully the lady/guy will have the politeness to reply.

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"stand out from the crowd, ask something nice, pay them a compliment about why you found their profile so interesting that you decided to message them and hopefully the lady/guy will have the politeness to reply.

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Have you had a lot of success

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"stand out from the crowd, ask something nice, pay them a compliment about why you found their profile so interesting that you decided to message them and hopefully the lady/guy will have the politeness to reply.

Have you had a lot of success "
I've tried that approach I certainly haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"stand out from the crowd, ask something nice, pay them a compliment about why you found their profile so interesting that you decided to message them and hopefully the lady/guy will have the politeness to reply.

Have you had a lot of success "

do i have a few ladies or couples i chat too yes..

have i meet any... no, but only due to my lack of available time. should change that soon.

i only had one message i have sent so far not replied to in some way, even if it was to say thanks but no thanks.

but i don't send send send,

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"stand out from the crowd, ask something nice, pay them a compliment about why you found their profile so interesting that you decided to message them and hopefully the lady/guy will have the politeness to reply.

Have you had a lot of success I've tried that approach I certainly haven't"

so I've gone back to the traditional method ? 'grab your coat biatch I've pulled'

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

I like a message that doesn't ask questions I've already answered in my profile, does tell me when the sender would like to meet and does at least use my name rather than Hun or Babe

(Rant over!)

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I like a message that doesn't ask questions I've already answered in my profile, does tell me when the sender would like to meet and does at least use my name rather than Hun or Babe

(Rant over!)"

Just adding does not use abbreviations and text speak that render the message unintelligible.

(Rant over again.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so just curious on what you might include in a message to someone you would like to meet.... I'd like to hear from all over what they like to receive as opposed to what crap they get.."

im not bothered whats in the message!i luk at the profile first and if i like the pics and profile i will reply,if not i dont bother reading it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, the best messages are the ones that talk to me as an individual and not just a case of " hey, a female looking my age group.my locality, She'll do "

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