FabSwingers.com forum: All Inclusive Party

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi swingers!

Would people go to a hosted swinger event that was all inclusive?

If you would not, why not?

If you would, what you pay per couple

100e

150e

200e

What would you expect for your money?

What kind of numbers would you expect at such a party to make it worth while?

Party planning in progress!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's 'all inclusive'?

Food and lodgings?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thinking entry to party, finger food, wine and beer, would you expect something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi swingers!

Would people go to a hosted swinger event that was all inclusive?

If you would not, why not?

If you would, what you pay per couple

100e

150e

200e

What would you expect for your money?

What kind of numbers would you expect at such a party to make it worth while?

Party planning in progress!"
hardly all inclusive if u exclude all but couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very fair point. It would be open to hottie singles too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never expect anything!

Food doesn't work at swing parties. Never touched for various reasons!

Drink...best to stick to buying your own. Lots don't actually drink alcohol there either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very fair point. It would be open to hottie singles too!

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my mam says im handsome ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having people pay a deposit is good as in ways quarantees numbers. A DJ is the only necessity in ways as the ladies love to dance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sticky fingers! Ok!! Finger food on a cocktail stick!

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

maybe naive but the prices you quote are 10 to 20 times what I have encountered in England for couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh. Would that be parties that include drink and nibbles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will want to pay for there own drink and bars usually through on some nibbles if the crowd is large enough for free. No real money needs to be exchanged bar a deposit for DJ etc

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"Oh. Would that be parties that include drink and nibbles?"

Yes. Not a DJ though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a meet n greet or a private party ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So where did these numbers come from.

Parties at the venue are charged at 40-50 € per couple

So I factored in that plus drinks and food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it a meet n greet or a private party ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh. Would that be parties that include drink and nibbles?

Yes. Not a DJ though."
why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't pay that sort of money for a party. Hotel, drinks, food on the way and travel will already cost about 100 to 150. Must be some fingerfood you're thinking of serving? To have drinks included will only set the wrong tone as some people will end up very d*unk... DJ is a good idea Dave!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Closer to a private party.

Beautiful surroundings. Good drink. Nice good. Nice music.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't pay that sort of money for a party. Hotel, drinks, food on the way and travel will already cost about 100 to 150. Must be some fingerfood you're thinking of serving? To have drinks included will only set the wrong tone as some people will end up very d*unk... DJ is a good idea Dave!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We did wonder if people would get trollied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do the basics right and you have a great night. People would love a nice location and surroundings but if it costs or not a lot of accommodation then forget about it. There's no point reinventing the wheel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just do the basics right and you have a great night. People would love a nice location and surroundings but if it costs or not a lot of accommodation then forget about it. There's no point reinventing the wheel"
I agree! Btw nice new profile pic Dave. You must have been following my thread lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thinking closer to a private party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

€200 is excessive for a party, even factoring in drink & food

Not everyone is going to drink/eat loads

As others have said, best stick to trued & tested party structures.

Seems like a lot of ppl organising parties, must be a good bit of money to be made on them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could give everyone drinks vouchers when they arrive to cover a certain amount if drinks, then no one would be trollied. Food is a good idea but basics Chrisps, nuts, maybe buffalo wings and chips and dips.

A dj is not really necessary you can get editing apps for phones or iPods that are just as good and you just need a good docking station for it.

If there was cheaper accommodation in or near by would be an advantage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feckers here complain of having to stump up a tenner , what in gods earth makes you think any one would pay that kind of money . sure they will all say they will but you will end up with an empty room and a large bill for your efforts . My advice ..... dont bother , youll only annoy yerself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"€200 is excessive for a party, even factoring in drink & food

Not everyone is going to drink/eat loads

As others have said, best stick to trued & tested party structures.

Seems like a lot of ppl organising parties, must be a good bit of money to be made on them!!!"

There must be!

Though our motivation is just to have the kind of party we would like.

I have a dream, a sexy dream!

A beautiful penthouse, hot people, good wine, a few nibbles and lots of hot sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds to me like the original poster has in mind an A-list classy party, to the best of our knowledge that has only been pulled off once in Ireland and that was by Little Liaison. It was fairly successful. Very hot, fit, well dressed crowd, hot tub, play areas, dungeon etc.. Finger food was incredible, not touched though by most people in case it ruined their exquisite figures. My slim wife and a hot escort from Dublin had a field day munching away and then promptly burned off the calories

smart girls.

Nobody got tanked on the champagne which was included in the price.

There was a four poster bed with silk sheets and flaming torches specially made for the event and it looked great with some girl on girl on girl on girl on girl action to get the party going.

Things got a bit bizarre after that but I think the original poster should check out Little Liaison's London parties to see what you get for that kind of money. I would expect a burlesque floor show and hot tubs and good champagne for the price they're thinking.

And yes it was just carefully screened couples two guys helping the host (sort of) and maybe two girls.

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By *rchippyMan
over a year ago

omagh

If you need a dj pm me. I would be very happy to play at such an event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At those prices I would be expecting accommodation included

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It sounds to me like the original poster has in mind an A-list classy party, to the best of our knowledge that has only been pulled off once in Ireland and that was by Little Liaison. It was fairly successful. Very hot, fit, well dressed crowd, hot tub, play areas, dungeon etc.. Finger food was incredible, not touched though by most people in case it ruined their exquisite figures. My slim wife and a hot escort from Dublin had a field day munching away and then promptly burned off the calories

smart girls.

Nobody got tanked on the champagne which was included in the price.

There was a four poster bed with silk sheets and flaming torches specially made for the event and it looked great with some girl on girl on girl on girl on girl action to get the party going.

And yes it was just carefully screened couples two guys helping the host (sort of) and maybe two girls. "

This is exactly what we are thinking

Thanks for the heads up

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Very fair point. It would be open to hottie singles too!

my mam says im handsome ...

U can bring her jack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do party's in exclusive locations for about €50 per couple & 30 for a single . We cover venue, music , finger food and we supply mixers etc and accommodation for anyone who is lucky enough to command a bed and floor space for those you want to crash and a breakfast !

That's value for money I think . I wouldn't pay more than 70 for a party personally. I don't drink alcohol so I wouldn't like paying for it in an all inclusive package . We usually end up bearing a cost of a few hundred ... we aim to break even but that is unlikely to happen.

Meet and greets can generate income because hotels usually give the party room for free as they are selling drink and rooms on the back of it so it's just a cost for a dj and sometimes spot prizes so there can be A few grand to be made in that type of event.

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By *inkiepairCouple
over a year ago

dublin

while i do think nibbles an drinks should be on access i don't think its anywer near important as location, parking, protection, range of toys,fetish an sexy clothing,sex shop, scene rooms etc etc.. give ppl plenty to chose from coz for that money you lookin at a very classy run club not just a room some hotel or even a house party.. just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think a lot of people in my opinion would stick to going to the venue as its known , I haven't been yet but will hopefully make it there this year all going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly wiukd love a party like that as I like style and dressing up and all that but the price would put me off if you room isnt included. I'd love to have some food as fun makes me very hungry lol but most people probably wouldn't eat that much. Nicky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are planning a party in ikandi,limerick and its 30e a couple there are condoms lube showers towels and even a sauna there,its bring your own drinks and rooms for 43e...think that's a pretty good recession buster!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but the sauna is cobbled together from formaldehyde rich OSB boards (unless they rebuilt it). I think the OP is more a Western Red Cedar type of person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are planning a party in ikandi,limerick and its 30e a couple there are condoms lube showers towels and even a sauna there,its bring your own drinks and rooms for 43e...think that's a pretty good recession buster!!!"
that sounds good. Can I cum? Book me in please!! Have to have shower and sauna sounds devine Nicky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having people pay a deposit is good as in ways quarantees numbers. A DJ is the only necessity in ways as the ladies love to dance"

DJ isn't necessary. A sound system and a laptop will do the same job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am personally amazed and indeed delighted that the venue has become a success. For years I have seen events and clubs planned and burn.

Seems to me that if it works don't fix it.

and the beautiful people sharing a beautiful venue with beautiful food and beautiful conversation. Ya sounds totally beautiful that. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are planning a party in ikandi,limerick and its 30e a couple there are condoms lube showers towels and even a sauna there,its bring your own drinks and rooms for 43e...think that's a pretty good recession buster!!! that sounds good. Can I cum? Book me in please!! Have to have shower and sauna sounds devine Nicky x"

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"We are planning a party in ikandi,limerick and its 30e a couple there are condoms lube showers towels and even a sauna there,its bring your own drinks and rooms for 43e...think that's a pretty good recession buster!!! that sounds good. Can I cum? Book me in please!! Have to have shower and sauna sounds devine Nicky x

we are already booked in and plan on bringing a few friends with us........because a place to shower is a must now get the hot tub orginised and we may never leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And is there an age restriction in place?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And is there an age restriction in place?"

No, just be hot and free spirited

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

"And is there an age restriction in place?

No, just be hot and free spirited

Im free spirited but can u describe what hottness level i need to be at please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And is there an age restriction in place?

No, just be hot and free spirited

that rules me out. I have cold feet and my spirit is ruled by an alien force.

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"feckers here complain of having to stump up a tenner , what in gods earth makes you think any one would pay that kind of money . sure they will all say they will but you will end up with an empty room and a large bill for your efforts . My advice ..... dont bother , youll only annoy yerself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And is there an age restriction in place?

No, just be hot and free spirited

That's me out!!... I'm too cool

WAIT!!... What about Leprechauns!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very pricey i have to say considering 1 of us is a non drinker its a good idea but by time u add in travel an hotel 100 to 150 then paying another wha 150 into the party cant see people forking out that money for a party but best of luck with it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of cheap-skates!

Go on everyone, treat yourselves, you're worth it!!

(Imagine walking around in Fun4two and tutt-tutting about the price and how they could've used a laptop instead of a D.J., and how are all these Dutch so slim with all the finger-food they're packing away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What a load of cheap-skates!

Go on everyone, treat yourselves, you're worth it!!

love it!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

If it was like fun4two we would gladly pay 150 euro but I'd say the chances of that are almost as slim as the dutch we seen there

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By *oandWexCouple
over a year ago

arklow

We have been organizing party's for the last years,and before we set up the venue as our party place we went to other places ,one of them was the called Mansion a place with 16 en-suit bedrooms with all the glamour.For that party we charge the couples 80 euros and that was with finger food in the evening,dj and full Irish breakfast.This party was just last summer.We know is not easy to find places for this kind of party's and in the times we are living we know how hard is for people to spend money so i think the prices from 100 to 200 euros for couple will be out of question for most people.But we wish the best of luck for the organizers of such event. xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feck i wont be going im not hot lol hope i will make the grade at the venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never expect anything!

Food doesn't work at swing parties. Never touched for various reasons!

Drink...best to stick to buying your own. Lots don't actually drink alcohol there either."

People take note: never saw so much sage advice packed into 5 sentences! Clever girl our Yolo

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Damn. I thought from the title that this thread was something to do with Lucinda Creighton and the reform alliance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Damn. I thought from the title that this thread was something to do with Lucinda Creighton and the reform alliance

She's a cock blocker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange the Party you want, set your rules and invite people you trust, or at least known by people you trust.

Given that it's a Party(with play)and not a Meet & Greet...a few comments.

Hosting is misunderstood by most.

You have the cost of the venue to cover, the essentials for safety/hygeine and the touches that make 'your' party different, to buy.

Few home truths....

It's hard work on the day, removing breakables, protecting beds etc etc etc

If you don't lay on food, people will complain. If you do lay on food, most of it will go to waste....

People will always complain about the music!!!

People WILL get d*unk, it's part of Swinging life for many. With drink, people will always have issues, that you need to keep under control and prevent from escalating.

Smokers will invariably start to smoke inside the venue, regardless of what's laid on as a designated smoking area

Be prepared for a massive clean up in the morning.......Swingers aren't known for using bins, or clearing up after themselves. Drinks will be spilt...

Hosting rarely leaves time for the hosts to play, it's hard work.....

Few other points, I won't mention in the open forum but if you care to chat, message me...

There is a market for a High End party, it's just making the contacts, so you invite the right guests. For the right party/venue 100 euro per couple, is easily achievable.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I agree with woody. It's a lot harder work than you realise and you'll get the dreamers that say they'll come and disappear.

Clean up can be mega, but if you tidy during the eve, remain sober yourself and on the ball you can keep it under control.

All inclusive bar, in my opinion would be a disaster, there will be d*unken ejits all over the place!

Price wise.. 100 would be my max and that would need to include accommodation, not drinks.

Food.. We always supply nibbles.. Chips n dips, chocolate.. Fruits... That's usually enough.

Best of luck with it though.. There's not as much money to be "made" as you might think. I do it for the fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree with woody. It's a lot harder work than you realise and you'll get the dreamers that say they'll come and disappear.

Clean up can be mega, but if you tidy during the eve, remain sober yourself and on the ball you can keep it under control.

All inclusive bar, in my opinion would be a disaster, there will be d*unken ejits all over the place!

Price wise.. 100 would be my max and that would need to include accommodation, not drinks.

Food.. We always supply nibbles.. Chips n dips, chocolate.. Fruits... That's usually enough.

Best of luck with it though.. There's not as much money to be "made" as you might think. I do it for the fun. "

Thanks for the feedback.

We want to put on good parties with like minded hotties.

The motivation isn't money.

Just having fun with secy people

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"I agree with woody. It's a lot harder work than you realise and you'll get the dreamers that say they'll come and disappear.

Clean up can be mega, but if you tidy during the eve, remain sober yourself and on the ball you can keep it under control.

All inclusive bar, in my opinion would be a disaster, there will be d*unken ejits all over the place!

Price wise.. 100 would be my max and that would need to include accommodation, not drinks.

Food.. We always supply nibbles.. Chips n dips, chocolate.. Fruits... That's usually enough.

Best of luck with it though.. There's not as much money to be "made" as you might think. I do it for the fun.

Thanks for the feedback.

We want to put on good parties with like minded hotties.

The motivation isn't money.

Just having fun with secy people "

we have been to quite a few parties from meet and greet to high end parties in country house with fantastic facilites but i have only ever seen the host work very hard and that left little time for play with hotties or anything else, but if you do go ahead send us a invite lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill work hard at mine....on my back hopefully....lol

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Ill work hard at mine....on my back hopefully....lol

if you cant i will take up the slack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrange the Party you want, set your rules and invite people you trust, or at least known by people you trust.

Given that it's a Party(with play)and not a Meet & Greet...a few comments.

Hosting is misunderstood by most.

You have the cost of the venue to cover, the essentials for safety/hygeine and the touches that make 'your' party different, to buy.

Few home truths....

It's hard work on the day, removing breakables, protecting beds etc etc etc

If you don't lay on food, people will complain. If you do lay on food, most of it will go to waste....

People will always complain about the music!!!

People WILL get d*unk, it's part of Swinging life for many. With drink, people will always have issues, that you need to keep under control and prevent from escalating.

Smokers will invariably start to smoke inside the venue, regardless of what's laid on as a designated smoking area

Be prepared for a massive clean up in the morning.......Swingers aren't known for using bins, or clearing up after themselves. Drinks will be spilt...

Hosting rarely leaves time for the hosts to play, it's hard work.....

Few other points, I won't mention in the open forum but if you care to chat, message me...

There is a market for a High End party, it's just making the contacts, so you invite the right guests. For the right party/venue 100 euro per couple, is easily achievable.

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