FabSwingers.com forum: Wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are so many wasters on here.

Some are fakes and are naturally wasters.

Some are more legitimate but equally wasters.

People just dont want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own but that is a big list guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you. "

Just ing out the wasters.

We only put that list up today because we are fed up of people faking it.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you. "

Exactly.....like a note with a pic lol.....fml !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

avoid !

may or may not be in the wrong thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"avoid !

may or may not be in the wrong thread!

Huh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you. "

That plus what really would a couple or single get from meeting you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe its just me ,now i know you might not be looking for single guys..

heres my 2cents ,1 after going on cam ,2 after being on the phone! 3 after going to the hassle of writing your names on my piece of paper and sending ye guys a snap!, then 4 ye just might consider

seems like an awful lot of work when you havent even got a public photo up...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you.

That plus what really would a couple or single get from meeting you?

Presumably the same thing anyone would get from meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you.

That plus what really would a couple or single get from meeting you?

I like when profiles are direct and no nomenclature but it's unlikely that peeps will make such an effort if ye are only into very little when it comes to activities !

All that to get to watch ye ? Am I missing something ! I go out socially with my vanilla friends for drinks .. I come here for something more ! Any way I hope ye get yet swing desires met !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We will share photos with people we trust.

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

Is appears from your profile that ye only play with each other and enjoy watching and being watched.

That is perfectly fine as we all have our own kinks but most people, we presume, would only want to meet if they were going to be included in the fun too.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you.

That plus what really would a couple or single get from meeting you?

*nonsense !!

I like when profiles are direct and no nomenclature but it's unlikely that peeps will make such an effort if ye are only into very little when it comes to activities !

All that to get to watch ye ? Am I missing something ! I go out socially with my vanilla friends for drinks .. I come here for something more ! Any way I hope ye get yet swing desires met !! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is appears from your profile that ye only play with each other and enjoy watching and being watched.

That is perfectly fine as we all have our own kinks but most people, we presume, would only want to meet if they were going to be included in the fun too.

Happy swinging

Exactly. That is why we have laid out or criteria on our profile. We don't want anyone being misled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you.

That plus what really would a couple or single get from meeting you?

*nonsense !!

I like when profiles are direct and no nomenclature but it's unlikely that peeps will make such an effort if ye are only into very little when it comes to activities !

All that to get to watch ye ? Am I missing something ! I go out socially with my vanilla friends for drinks .. I come here for something more ! Any way I hope ye get yet swing desires met !! "

Getting to watch us is more than enough for a lot of people.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you.

That plus what really would a couple or single get from meeting you?

*nonsense !!

I like when profiles are direct and no nomenclature but it's unlikely that peeps will make such an effort if ye are only into very little when it comes to activities !

All that to get to watch ye ? Am I missing something ! I go out socially with my vanilla friends for drinks .. I come here for something more ! Any way I hope ye get yet swing desires met !!

Getting to watch us is more than enough for a lot of people."

Now we are getting to the crux of your problems getting a meet.....your ego has landed !!!

Have fun and enjoy yourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you.

That plus what really would a couple or single get from meeting you?

*nonsense !!

I like when profiles are direct and no nomenclature but it's unlikely that peeps will make such an effort if ye are only into very little when it comes to activities !

All that to get to watch ye ? Am I missing something ! I go out socially with my vanilla friends for drinks .. I come here for something more ! Any way I hope ye get yet swing desires met !!

Getting to watch us is more than enough for a lot of people.

Now we are getting to the crux of your problems getting a meet.....your ego has landed !!!

Have fun and enjoy yourselves

That's what you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye are dead right to not want to lead people on but what ye have to realise is that first impressions are everything and your first impression on a site like this is your profile and your profile is neither very friendly or inviting.

If ye re-worded your profile and made it look less like a terms and conditions agreement then I reckon ye might have more luck.

Either way best of luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ye are dead right to not want to lead people on but what ye have to realise is that first impressions are everything and your first impression on a site like this is your profile and your profile is neither very friendly or inviting.

If ye re-worded your profile and made it look less like a terms and conditions agreement then I reckon ye might have more luck.

Either way best of luck with it."

Thanks for the tip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry just going through the criteria there a b c holy crap ... Lad come around here me neighbour loves doing it with the curtains open and oh yeah wait we don't need to get verified or hold a piece of paper up with or names on it !! Ill pop over an knock on the window while she's in the throws of it to see if she needs that !!!!!

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

"Is appears from your profile that ye only play with each other and enjoy watching and being watched.

That is perfectly fine as we all have our own kinks but most people, we presume, would only want to meet if they were going to be included in the fun too.

Happy swinging

Exactly. That is why we have laid out or criteria on our profile. We don't want anyone being misled."

Ya we know that and in fairness your profile is clear. Just saying that "swinging" in its truest form primarily involves at least some type of physical contact.

Most people want some form of contact at meets and that may be why ye might find it fairly difficult to meet people.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All very judgemental and harsh on this thread. To the op you should expect a backlash from many. From me feck it takes alsorts to make fab a wonderful wee place. Each to there own and happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is appears from your profile that ye only play with each other and enjoy watching and being watched.

That is perfectly fine as we all have our own kinks but most people, we presume, would only want to meet if they were going to be included in the fun too.

Happy swinging

Exactly. That is why we have laid out or criteria on our profile. We don't want anyone being misled.

Ya we know that and in fairness your profile is clear. Just saying that "swinging" in its truest form primarily involves at least some type of physical contact.

Most people want some form of contact at meets and that may be why ye might find it fairly difficult to meet people.

Happy swinging

We disagree completely. Swinging in it's purest form is whatever you want it to be. So for some it may involve swapping. For some it may involve bisexual interaction between male and females. You cannot say what swinging is for everyone.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

judging from yer profile guys , its very hard to see what another couple is going to get from meeting ye . if they want to have fun between themselves they might as well have fun in there own bed watching a bit of porn as in there not going to get anymore from meeting ye. just our tuppence worth !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clarity in a profile is good, but I think your main problem is that there are not many people who will be happy with the very softest of play. You best bet for this is possibly going to the likes of the venue or any of the meet and greets or if you can get to any of the clubs in England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the op's defence, the profile reads like a couple that dont suffer fools or bullshit, and i can respect that. Soft wing couples are a minority. And while saying their ego has come by stating watching them fuck can be enough....well for certain people it could be.

You've laid it out pretty clearly what you're looking for, even if it could be worded a wee bit better.

Best of luck in your search, i hope you find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Clarity in a profile is good, but I think your main problem is that there are not many people who will be happy with the very softest of play. You best bet for this is possibly going to the likes of the venue or any of the meet and greets or if you can get to any of the clubs in England"

Yeah - we are thinking of giving the scene here a miss altogether now. It's a waste of time. We intend just to attend clubs in the UK or Mainland.

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By *umpsuitCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Your profile is more like a contract for my credit card than a swingers profile lighten up a little. The site is full of wasters. But try work them out. Yourself. We get a great laugh out of some of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take offence to the assuption that all on here are wasters , the irony here is that the original poster might be seen by many on the swing scene as the epitome of timewaster themselves !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingings a funny ole game! Lol

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By *LGERNONSENCEMan
over a year ago

YATE BRISTOL

my experience of using this site is like slowly cutting ones wrists, mostly...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take offence to the assuption that all on here are wasters , the irony here is that the original poster might be seen by many on the swing scene as the epitome of timewaster themselves !

Take what you like from it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"my experience of using this site is like slowly cutting ones wrists, mostly..."

The latter might be a better option !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just impressed that someone used 'nomenclature' on a swinging website.

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By *oxysCouple
over a year ago

"judging from yer profile guys , its very hard to see what another couple is going to get from meeting ye . if they want to have fun between themselves they might as well have fun in there own bed watching a bit of porn as in there not going to get anymore from meeting ye. just our tuppence worth !!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take offence to the assuption that all on here are wasters , the irony here is that the original poster might be seen by many on the swing scene as the epitome of timewaster themselves !

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totally agree with you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just impressed that someone used 'nomenclature' on a swinging website. "

Any student of onomastics would feel compelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile is an advert to show what you have got to offer, if I saw an advert for something that was very negative and told me what to do, I would not read it to the end,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah - we are thinking of giving the scene here a miss altogether now. It's a waste of time. We intend just to attend clubs in the UK or Mainland.

Hmmmm.... Sad news indeed .... On the bright side our gain will be the UK and Mainlands loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just impressed that someone used 'nomenclature' on a swinging website.

Any student of onomastics would feel compelled

...to use it? Or to be impressed...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly playing on cam would be your best bet then there would be no contact and you could choose who watches you without the fear of being touched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does a profile need to attract cpls or where are we going wrong, needless to say we are beginners and would love any advice on starting out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possibly playing on cam would be your best bet then there would be no contact and you could choose who watches you without the fear of being touched."

well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah - we are thinking of giving the scene here a miss altogether now. It's a waste of time. We intend just to attend clubs in the UK or Mainland.

Hmmmm.... Sad news indeed .... On the bright side our gain will be the UK and Mainlands loss

Now you are just being insulting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Possibly playing on cam would be your best bet then there would be no contact and you could choose who watches you without the fear of being touched."

We are willing to cam. Many others it seems are not. In fact we are also ready to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 05/01/14 04:45:54]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah - we are thinking of giving the scene here a miss altogether now. It's a waste of time. We intend just to attend clubs in the UK or Mainland.

Hmmmm.... Sad news indeed .... On the bright side our gain will be the UK and Mainlands loss

Now you are just being insulting."

No ... I was being flippant .... No more than you were in some of your replies to one or two posters above ....

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"I take offence to the assuption that all on here are wasters , the irony here is that the original poster might be seen by many on the swing scene as the epitome of timewaster themselves !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just impressed that someone used 'nomenclature' on a swinging website.

Any student of onomastics would feel compelled

...to use it? Or to be impressed...?

Funny .. It was a predictive text takeover .. It was meant to read nonsense not nomenclature !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No offense but your request list alone would put me off straight away.

I can only speak for myself but maybe that's why 'people' don't want to meet you.

That plus what really would a couple or single get from meeting you?

Exactly what I was thinking what's the point in meeting you...you really arnt swingers!!! I think for what you are looking for you should join a tennis club!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah - we are thinking of giving the scene here a miss altogether now. It's a waste of time. We intend just to attend clubs in the UK or Mainland.

Hmmmm.... Sad news indeed .... On the bright side our gain will be the UK and Mainlands loss

Now you are just being insulting.

No ... I was being flippant .... No more than you were in some of your replies to one or two posters above .... "

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Its a swingers site to which people are attracted to to find other likeminded people to involve in in their sex lives it takes all kinds to make it work while the profile is a little harsh but its clear unfortunately for this Cpl likeminded people looking for what they want are few hence the lack of meets but as suggested caming or a trip to the venue in dub or i-kandy in limerick to one of their swingers night may be their best bet

but as often said to single guys posted here don't despair it takes time but the rewards are worth it u will find what ur looking for happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very close to naming and shaming

A couple here last year contacted me to meet in galway alls good I head into town to meet (no show) I just block them here/no text to apologise etc

Last month I unblock/get a mail here. They're in Galway again tonight so I put it to them about last year "it deffo wasn't us" (IT WAS)

Im gonna meet them tonight again and see and if there a no show im naming and shaming and ill take whatever punishment is giving by administration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you go again?

if you know for sure it is them i wouldnt waste my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

goodbye pump and spray

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Im very close to naming and shaming

A couple here last year contacted me to meet in galway alls good I head into town to meet (no show) I just block them here/no text to apologise etc

Last month I unblock/get a mail here. They're in Galway again tonight so I put it to them about last year "it deffo wasn't us" (IT WAS)

Im gonna meet them tonight again and see and if there a no show im naming and shaming and ill take whatever punishment is giving by administration

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I certainly would not agree to meet them again once bitten twice shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very close to naming and shaming

A couple here last year contacted me to meet in galway alls good I head into town to meet (no show) I just block them here/no text to apologise etc

Last month I unblock/get a mail here. They're in Galway again tonight so I put it to them about last year "it deffo wasn't us" (IT WAS)

Im gonna meet them tonight again and see and if there a no show im naming and shaming and ill take whatever punishment is giving by administration

I certainly would not agree to meet them again once bitten twice shy. "

I'm not sure what you're trying to achieve there DTG? To proof a point? You rather use your precious free time to meet someone genuine?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I certainly would not agree to meet them again once bitten twice shy. "

If it means finally finding out if they're genuine or not I'll do it

Im pretty smart here but these folks have verifications from what looks like other genuine folk so ill see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not gonna be much skin off my back, its near my home they're staying in a hotel.

Worst case ill show up and they're not there (that'll take all of 10 mins)

Id NEVER usually do it again but for very little effort to catch a fake/spoof/time waster its worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not gonna be much skin off my back, its near my home they're staying in a hotel.

Worst case ill show up and they're not there (that'll take all of 10 mins)

Id NEVER usually do it again but for very little effort to catch a fake/spoof/time waster its worth it!

and when you caught them what then? report them to the fab police?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill publicly name and shame here and let all you folk know so you can watch out for them (a bit extreme I know)

But ill take my 3 day ban etc

Its sad but that's how it is

Lets wean them out

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I get where he coming from but u name sbd shame if no show u get the slap in the wrist

they just maybe delete and start new profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grouphug

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Grouphug

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awww go on then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im nice like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a swingers site to which people are attracted to to find other likeminded people to involve in in their sex lives it takes all kinds to make it work while the profile is a little harsh but its clear unfortunately for this Cpl likeminded people looking for what they want are few hence the lack of meets but as suggested caming or a trip to the venue in dub or i-kandy in limerick to one of their swingers night may be their best bet

but as often said to single guys posted here don't despair it takes time but the rewards are worth it u will find what ur looking for happy swinging"

CJ....I couldn't have said it better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very close to naming and shaming

A couple here last year contacted me to meet in galway alls good I head into town to meet (no show) I just block them here/no text to apologise etc

Last month I unblock/get a mail here. They're in Galway again tonight so I put it to them about last year "it deffo wasn't us" (IT WAS)

Im gonna meet them tonight again and see and if there a no show im naming and shaming and ill take whatever punishment is giving by administration

I certainly would not agree to meet them again once bitten twice shy.

I'm not sure what you're trying to achieve there DTG? To proof a point? You rather use your precious free time to meet someone genuine?! "

I agree with you, what's the point really?...

Having said that I would be the same, give someone the benefit of doubt and hopefully (fingers crossed) it works out!...

Maybe later tonight you won't be screaming at yourself "See, I fckn knew it!!!"....

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

"Is appears from your profile that ye only play with each other and enjoy watching and being watched.

That is perfectly fine as we all have our own kinks but most people, we presume, would only want to meet if they were going to be included in the fun too.

Happy swinging

Exactly how I see it.

It's like being asked to meet by a couple, he's just going to watch and fuck her and you can play with the fem eah... No thanks...

There's ladies you can pay for that service!

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By *arveygirthycockMan
over a year ago

town

"Ill publicly name and shame here and let all you folk know so you can watch out for them (a bit extreme I know)

But ill take my 3 day ban etc

Its sad but that's how it is

Lets wean them out"

Do they read the forums?? Reverse pyscology?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ill publicly name and shame here and let all you folk know so you can watch out for them (a bit extreme I know)

But ill take my 3 day ban etc

Its sad but that's how it is

Lets wean them out

Do they read the forums?? Reverse pyscology?

I hope they do

It'll all become clear tonight

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Ill publicly name and shame here and let all you folk know so you can watch out for them (a bit extreme I know)

But ill take my 3 day ban etc

Its sad but that's how it is

Lets wean them out

Do they read the forums?? Reverse pyscology?

I hope they do

It'll all become clear tonight"

understand what you are saying but even if they do show how good will the meet be when they have already stood you up without a message to say sorry and why they could not make it just not worth the bother i think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand that naming&shaming is a no go here. Presumably that is so if someone doesn't agree with another persons preference, they can't go bitching about them.

However, we think a three-strikes system should be introduced. If someone is reported three times for the same offence, then they are named or their profile otherwise publicly highlighted.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"I understand that naming&shaming is a no go here. Presumably that is so if someone doesn't agree with another persons preference, they can't go bitching about them.

However, we think a three-strikes system should be introduced. If someone is reported three times for the same offence, then they are named or their profile otherwise publicly highlighted."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that naming&shaming is a no go here. Presumably that is so if someone doesn't agree with another persons preference, they can't go bitching about them.

However, we think a three-strikes system should be introduced. If someone is reported three times for the same offence, then they are named or their profile otherwise publicly highlighted."

Won't work as it's wide open for abuse. What's to stop someone reporting you 3 times for the same "offence"....just develop a better filtering system and or a thicker skin ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Set it so you you can only report the same person once for the same offence. Then if they offend again with others, they can report them too.

A rating system like ebay would work. Allow negative rates so long as they are respective. Plus, you can only rate a person once under a given category.

Categories might include:

Attending a meet YES NO

As described / pictured YES NO

Clean and presentable YES NO

Respectful and friendly YES NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As everything , that is open for abuse. Say I don't like you, what's to stop me giving you a (false) bad rating and getting my friends to do the same ?

There's no way of proving we never met and the bad reports are false. Could be a disaster for genuine people.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Its a small community word spreads fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that naming&shaming is a no go here. Presumably that is so if someone doesn't agree with another persons preference, they can't go bitching about them.

However, we think a three-strikes system should be introduced. If someone is reported three times for the same offence, then they are named or their profile otherwise publicly highlighted."

this system would rely on assuming the person reporting them is telling the truth, unfortunately there is no way really of knowing for certain who is a waster and who isn't, it is a risk everyone takes on here, it comes down to your own intuition and possibly verifications, even then they cant be taken as gospel. Several veris by different users who are also well verified would suggest to me that the person is more than likely reliable and trustworthy.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"I understand that naming&shaming is a no go here. Presumably that is so if someone doesn't agree with another persons preference, they can't go bitching about them.

However, we think a three-strikes system should be introduced. If someone is reported three times for the same offence, then they are named or their profile otherwise publicly highlighted.

Totally , trust is such a big thing , both in verification and discretion , fingers crossed we never blur the line's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very close to naming and shaming

A couple here last year contacted me to meet in galway alls good I head into town to meet (no show) I just block them here/no text to apologise etc

Last month I unblock/get a mail here. They're in Galway again tonight so I put it to them about last year "it deffo wasn't us" (IT WAS)

Im gonna meet them tonight again and see and if there a no show im naming and shaming and ill take whatever punishment is giving by administration

why wud u meet them again???thts asking for trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont talk to me bout wasters ....got stood up tday....not happy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont talk to me bout wasters ....got stood up tday....not happy lol

oh no!id be fuming if tht was me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the amount of waste on here...

panda bins would clean up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not likely to happen to u nicole llol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not likely to happen to u nicole llol"

oh i dunno,there are a lot of messers tho,i wudnt meet anyone unless they were verified by more than one person,i got to know them a bit on here first and spoke to them on the phone and even then yur not 100 % sure if they will show up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep done all that ,even said id bring her a packet of toffee pops!!! ....and those bickies aint cheap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep done all that ,even said id bring her a packet of toffee pops!!! ....and those bickies aint cheap!"

and she stood u up?maybe she wud have prefered jaffa cakes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep done all that ,even said id bring her a packet of toffee pops!!! ....and those bickies aint cheap!"

I hear ya!

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over a year ago

maybe ....in fact i coulda got her 2 packets in the poundshop lol....ahh well just gotta keep plouging away ....far more ladies down south to become friendly with though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe ....in fact i coulda got her 2 packets in the poundshop lol....ahh well just gotta keep plouging away ....far more ladies down south to become friendly with though"

exactley and we aint fussy with our biccies!but we are with our men ,tho sum of us arent fussy at all!

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over a year ago

"Ill publicly name and shame here and let all you folk know so you can watch out for them (a bit extreme I know)

But ill take my 3 day ban etc

Its sad but that's how it is

Lets wean them out

Do they read the forums?? Reverse pyscology?

I hope they do

It'll all become clear tonight"

DTG: what's the verdict???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh we can name a few sorry alot tbh but u just gotta keep.moving plenty of genuine nice people here to have fun with

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over a year ago

"Ill publicly name and shame here and let all you folk know so you can watch out for them (a bit extreme I know)

But ill take my 3 day ban etc

Its sad but that's how it is

Lets wean them out

Do they read the forums?? Reverse pyscology?

I hope they do

It'll all become clear tonight

DTG: what's the verdict???"

Turns out.........

they were real with EXTREMELY POOR COMMUNICATION SKILLS

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

jaysus talk about jumping through hoops....you could perhaps add at the bottom to fill in a form including drivers licence,pps no, tax clearance cert, bank statement and tesco club card number...all looks like hard work

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over a year ago

"jaysus talk about jumping through hoops....you could perhaps add at the bottom to fill in a form including drivers licence,pps no, tax clearance cert, bank statement and tesco club card number...all looks like hard work

And

Hand Job Hand (which one you use)

*lefties have better technique*

Grouphug

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over a year ago

When I eventually got to the end of your.profile you mention personality. Not sure you give any cause for folk to think you have any. Certainly very little humility .

I am afraid your profile gives the impression that you are a pair of control freaks. Swinging no matter how shallow or deep should involve some sort of respect and you assume.everyone is the enemy before you start.

Lets say I am a hot enticing couple shall we. Me and my partner have gone thru stage 1-4 of interview. Confirmed by cam and our passports and irises have been scanned. Weve dodged the machine gun nests, swum the moat and scaled the walls of Castle Conceit all to the theme of "Mission Impossible" on entering the holy grail that is your bedchamber I need stitches and the mrs has ripped her best bodice on the razor wire.

All in pursuit of some great chat and soft swap.....!!!

Tell us all how you get on. My next mission is to find Osamas skud mags.....

Not a personal.attack but I cannot for the life of me believe you have asked " why so many wasters "

Good luck mind S.R.o.P

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

And

Hand Job Hand (which one you use)

*lefties have better technique*

Grouphug

have u ever been a member of the communist party

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over a year ago

"When I eventually got to the end of your.profile you mention personality. Not sure you give any cause for folk to think you have any. Certainly very little humility .

All in pursuit of some great chat and soft swap.....!!!

Tell us all how you get on. My next mission is to find Osamas skud mags.....

Not a personal.attack but I cannot for the life of me believe you have asked " why so many wasters "

Good luck mind S.R.o.P

Sir Dicky....you slay me!!!!

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yeah - we are thinking of giving the scene here a miss altogether now. It's a waste of time. We intend just to attend clubs in the UK or Mainland."

Once again in this thread your ego drops you in it. Fab is not a waste of time for me and many others; It is only a waste of your time!!!!

Good luck in your hunt for Lord Lucan to watch you the god and goddess of sex enjoy yourselves!

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yeah - we are thinking of giving the scene here a miss altogether now. It's a waste of time. We intend just to attend clubs in the UK or Mainland."

Once again in this thread your ego drops you in it. Fab is not a waste of time for me and many others; It is only a waste of your time!!!!

Good luck in your hunt for Lord Lucan to watch you the god and goddess of sex enjoy yourselves!

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

Summed it up beautifully. Some people want one thing, others want something different. Equally some websites will suit some people and not others.

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

"Set it so you you can only report the same person once for the same offence. Then if they offend again with others, they can report them too.

A rating system like ebay would work. Allow negative rates so long as they are respective. Plus, you can only rate a person once under a given category.

Categories might include:

Attending a meet YES NO

As described / pictured YES NO

Clean and presentable YES NO

Respectful and friendly YES NO"

I got ripped off on ebay,,,by ppl with good feedback,,,

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Set it so you you can only report the same person once for the same offence. Then if they offend again with others, they can report them too.

A rating system like ebay would work. Allow negative rates so long as they are respective. Plus, you can only rate a person once under a given category.

Categories might include:

Attending a meet YES NO

As described / pictured YES NO

Clean and presentable YES NO

Respectful and friendly YES NO

I got ripped off on ebay,,,by ppl with good feedback,,,

Im guessing the blouse had a cumstain on it when it arrived?

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Set it so you you can only report the same person once for the same offence. Then if they offend again with others, they can report them too.

A rating system like ebay would work. Allow negative rates so long as they are respective. Plus, you can only rate a person once under a given category.

Categories might include:

Attending a meet YES NO

As described / pictured YES NO

Clean and presentable YES NO

Respectful and friendly YES NO

I got ripped off on ebay,,,by ppl with good feedback,,,

Im guessing the blouse had a cumstain on it when it arrived?

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

"Set it so you you can only report the same person once for the same offence. Then if they offend again with others, they can report them too.

A rating system like ebay would work. Allow negative rates so long as they are respective. Plus, you can only rate a person once under a given category.

Categories might include:

Attending a meet YES NO

As described / pictured YES NO

Clean and presentable YES NO

Respectful and friendly YES NO

I got ripped off on ebay,,,by ppl with good feedback,,,

Im guessing the blouse had a cumstain on it when it arrived?

no ordered a Ferrari engine but they sent a fiat punto one, I still used it tho

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Im guessing the blouse had a cumstain on it when it arrived?

no ordered a Ferrari engine but they sent a fiat punto one, I still used it tho

Bastards!

Still, apparently Enzo Ferrari used to piss on a Punto every day, so if it was good enough for him...

Did you give them positive feedback?

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over a year ago

Im guessing the blouse had a cumstain on it when it arrived?

no ordered a Ferrari engine but they sent a fiat punto one, I still used it tho

Bastards!

Still, apparently Enzo Ferrari used to piss on a Punto every day, so if it was good enough for him...

Did you give them positive feedback? "
someone should have told enzo he owns fiat too.....

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

Im guessing the blouse had a cumstain on it when it arrived?

no ordered a Ferrari engine but they sent a fiat punto one, I still used it tho

Bastards!

Still, apparently Enzo Ferrari used to piss on a Punto every day, so if it was good enough for him...

Did you give them positive feedback? someone should have told enzo he owns fiat too.....

"
imagine u went to your fiat dealer and set out the same terms and conditions as pimp and spay....id guess ud be getting the bus home

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over a year ago

Im guessing the blouse had a cumstain on it when it arrived?

no ordered a Ferrari engine but they sent a fiat punto one, I still used it tho

Bastards!

Still, apparently Enzo Ferrari used to piss on a Punto every day, so if it was good enough for him...

Did you give them positive feedback? someone should have told enzo he owns fiat too.....

imagine u went to your fiat dealer and set out the same terms and conditions as pimp and spay....id guess ud be getting the bus home

To our utter desolation we have just realised the op has blocked us ...... It's because of our post here ... We never engaged with them any other way ..... We may need councelling to overcome this tragic loss

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Would the market for soft swing not be very small on a site like this, or am I mistaken? It certainly seems like a lot of rigmarole to go through to not have sex with someone, although if it works for you, fair enough. It doesn't appear to be working though, so maybe you need to tweak something slightly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would the market for soft swing not be very small on a site like this, or am I mistaken? It certainly seems like a lot of rigmarole to go through to not have sex with someone, although if it works for you, fair enough. It doesn't appear to be working though, so maybe you need to tweak something slightly? "

I'm sure they could tweak a nipple or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure they could tweak a nipple or two

No no Sofia ..... You are not allowed contact with these gods of the boudoir

control yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pure swinging "hari kiri ".......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure they could tweak a nipple or two

No no Sofia ..... You are not allowed contact with these gods of the boudoir

control yourself

PMSL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pure swinging "hari kiri "......."

At least with hari kiri you get to touch yourself !!! .... However briefly

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Pure swinging "hari kiri ".......

At least with hari kiri you get to touch yourself !!! .... However briefly

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure they could tweak a nipple or two

No no Sofia ..... You are not allowed contact with these gods of the boudoir

control yourself

I find that very hard to do sometimes

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By *OUPLE.LVCouple
over a year ago

NI- Dublin

We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

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over a year ago

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down "
i havent a clue what you just said

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over a year ago

"When I eventually got to the end of your.profile you mention personality. Not sure you give any cause for folk to think you have any. Certainly very little humility .

All in pursuit of some great chat and soft swap.....!!!

Tell us all how you get on. My next mission is to find Osamas skud mags.....

Not a personal.attack but I cannot for the life of me believe you have asked " why so many wasters "

Good luck mind S.R.o.P

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy crap that's some list , is there a winning lottery ticket awaiting for couples if u qualify ,

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By *OUPLE.LVCouple
over a year ago

NI- Dublin

We want to says we here is 2 months

Tray to meet with cpls 5 times

But all cpls in meet day let us down

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over a year ago

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down "

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

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By *OUPLE.LVCouple
over a year ago

NI- Dublin

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting "

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

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over a year ago

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting"

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

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over a year ago

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

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over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

Errrrrrrrrr , beep beep , hiiiyaaaaaa

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Im guessing the blouse had a cumstain on it when it arrived?

no ordered a Ferrari engine but they sent a fiat punto one, I still used it tho

Bastards!

Still, apparently Enzo Ferrari used to piss on a Punto every day, so if it was good enough for him...

Did you give them positive feedback? someone should have told enzo he owns fiat too.....

imagine u went to your fiat dealer and set out the same terms and conditions as pimp and spay....id guess ud be getting the bus home

You must be so devastated can I offer you some counselling?

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

Cant stop laughing!! but something in brain tells me this is either

A a prankster

B someone suffering from dyslexia

not sure which but still laughing with some guilt attached

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By *ete burnsMan
over a year ago

derry

TAXI for pump and spray!!! slan !!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

Cant stop laughing!! but something in brain tells me this is either

A a prankster

B someone suffering from dyslexia

not sure which but still laughing with some guilt attached"

I would imagine it's someone for whom English is not their first language

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Take your time . You can't rush these things . Once you are established things will improve .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

Cant stop laughing!! but something in brain tells me this is either

A a prankster

B someone suffering from dyslexia

not sure which but still laughing with some guilt attached

I would imagine it's someone for whom English is not their first language

I thought this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im guessing the blouse had a cumstain on it when it arrived?

no ordered a Ferrari engine but they sent a fiat punto one, I still used it tho

Bastards!

Still, apparently Enzo Ferrari used to piss on a Punto every day, so if it was good enough for him...

Did you give them positive feedback? someone should have told enzo he owns fiat too.....

imagine u went to your fiat dealer and set out the same terms and conditions as pimp and spay....id guess ud be getting the bus home

You must be so devastated can I offer you some counselling?"

And me too as I'm also blocked too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine it's someone for whom English is not their first language

I thought this too

I'm 99% sure this is the case. Be nice to us foreigners!

Btw, I've been blocked too ... whoops. One is not allowed to give constructive feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

Cant stop laughing!! but something in brain tells me this is either

A a prankster

B someone suffering from dyslexia

not sure which but still laughing with some guilt attached

I would imagine it's someone for whom English is not their first language

It's someone pulling the piss ffs. Look at the inconsistency of the dialect. The texttalk gives it away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People people! Did noone make resolutions to be nicer to each other in 2014.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"People people! Did noone make resolutions to be nicer to each other in 2014."

Oh piss off! (I'm joking of course.)

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By *OUPLE.LVCouple
over a year ago

NI- Dublin

[Removed by poster at 10/01/14 17:18:37]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People people! Did noone make resolutions to be nicer to each other in 2014.

Oh piss off! (I'm joking of course.)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We offered to meet, seen himself on cam but she lives elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dark, wet and miserable stuck in traffic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We offered to meet, seen himself on cam but she lives elsewhere."

Offered to meet the op ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed, chatted and cam briefly, seems a nice guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People people! Did noone make resolutions to be nicer to each other in 2014.

Oh piss off! (I'm joking of course.)"

I shall piss right off, only if you fuck off first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are so many wasters on here.

Some are fakes and are naturally wasters.

Some are more legitimate but equally wasters.

People just dont want to meet."

Meet for what exactly lol think ye may need to look up the definition for swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Indeed, chatted and cam briefly, seems a nice guy."

Guy ???? No girl ...?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

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Reading the profile hurts my brain.

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By *mwantsWoman
over a year ago

City

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

Cant stop laughing!! but something in brain tells me this is either

A a prankster

B someone suffering from dyslexia

not sure which but still laughing with some guilt attached

I would imagine it's someone for whom English is not their first language

It's someone pulling the piss ffs. Look at the inconsistency of the dialect. The texttalk gives it away... "

Not necessarily, looks like Spanish sentence structure. It's a bit lousy to be judging English without knowing.

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over a year ago

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

Cant stop laughing!! but something in brain tells me this is either

A a prankster

B someone suffering from dyslexia

not sure which but still laughing with some guilt attached

I would imagine it's someone for whom English is not their first language

It's someone pulling the piss ffs. Look at the inconsistency of the dialect. The texttalk gives it away...

Not necessarily, looks like Spanish sentence structure. It's a bit lousy to be judging English without knowing. "

Making an educated observation. Most foreign people with poor English actually have better written English vocabulary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People people! Did noone make resolutions to be nicer to each other in 2014.

Oh piss off! (I'm joking of course.)

I shall piss right off, only if you fuck off first

And how shall we fuck off oh Lord!??...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

Cant stop laughing!! but something in brain tells me this is either

A a prankster

B someone suffering from dyslexia

not sure which but still laughing with some guilt attached

I would imagine it's someone for whom English is not their first language

It's someone pulling the piss ffs. Look at the inconsistency of the dialect. The texttalk gives it away...

Not necessarily, looks like Spanish sentence structure. It's a bit lousy to be judging English without knowing. "

Also why don't you have a look at their profile text......

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By *heButterflyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wicklow

Okay, I'm gonna try to be nice & diplomatic here. This is a swinging site & definitely, 'each to their own' would apply. However, you are in the minority here, most swingers do want full swap. Of course, there are a lot who are only interested in soft swap and that's fine too but you can't call people time wasters because they're not into what you're into. My partner & I are into full swap but we would not rule out a meet with a soft swap couple, HOWEVER, we would be put off by your profile because we don't use cam (it is VERY easy for people to screen shot cam pics by the way whereas with swapping face pics you get to control what pic you send) because we share a house with others & it's so awkward to try & co-ordinate it without being seen/heard. Also, your list is a lot of hoops to jump through just to get to watch you two playing together. Also, all these hoops before you'd even send body pics?! That's asking way too much for too little in return. Swinging is about give and take (heh heh!)! You should at LEAST have a profile picture! Many people here would just delete a message from a shadow avatar.

I suggest attending a party. At the parties in The Venue there are private rooms upstairs so you could invite someone up there with you to watch & be watched. You wouldn't need to cam with them as you'd see they're genuine right there & then.

Best of luck on your swinging journey. Be patient and understand that this site is not full of time wasters. Granted, there are A LOT of time wasters but don't generalise, just realise that everyone is different & they have their own preferences that might not necessarily match yours. Don't worry, you'll find someone.

Lily

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By *mwantsWoman
over a year ago

City

"We meak here 2 months ago profile

Tray to meak 5 times meet all times us have let down

Go on try again ? If you are saying what I think you are .... This could get very interesting

lets go i want to hear what you can saying you all here whit some experians i have very interesting

Have you talked on phone before hand, that can cut down on time wasting

Is love to hear that conversation if the texts are anything to go by

Pmsl! I've a mental image of mr bean, dougal from craggy island , mr moto and the roadrunner on a conference call

Cant stop laughing!! but something in brain tells me this is either

A a prankster

B someone suffering from dyslexia

not sure which but still laughing with some guilt attached

I would imagine it's someone for whom English is not their first language

It's someone pulling the piss ffs. Look at the inconsistency of the dialect. The texttalk gives it away...

Not necessarily, looks like Spanish sentence structure. It's a bit lousy to be judging English without knowing.

Also why don't you have a look at their profile text......"

Which means? Surely a backlash on saying it's not nice to judge someone isn't a bad thing. It happens on every forum. All I'm saying is that it's not nice. Even if they were taking the piss, it's easy to understand what it said.

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