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"Had a meet with a woman a while back and its been hard to contact her because she only goes on the site about once a week or less. I emailed her when I got home from the meet saying I enjoyed it and could she verify me when she gets a chance. The reply i got was 'What do you mean by verify?' and ive explained it numerous times but she eventually started ignoring the messages lol what am i supposed to do its so frustrating! Please don't comment if you are going to say 'Oh thats a likely story' or something along those lines thanks "the thing is its somebodies own obligation to verify you ts not a given,, simple as | |||
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"Had a meet with a woman a while back and its been hard to contact her because she only goes on the site about once a week or less. I emailed her when I got home from the meet saying I enjoyed it and could she verify me when she gets a chance. The reply i got was 'What do you mean by verify?' and ive explained it numerous times but she eventually started ignoring the messages lol what am i supposed to do its so frustrating! Please don't comment if you are going to say 'Oh thats a likely story' or something along those lines thanks "What year did u meet the lady ?,,,, | |||
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"Mate people don't have to. Some have their reasons. Best not to pester for verifications also.. it's exactly why people display or don't display their verifications. Each to their own. Personally. I don't mind if I get a verification or not. I'm not here to prove things to people. If the want to get to know me they will see what I'm about. If not, no worries..." | |||
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As said above, she may have valid reasons so dont take it personally and move on.
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"I understand where this guy is coming from though. It's not an obligation but most people here prefer to meet with verified people and if it's something you seek you should be ok with providing it too...." | |||
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"Yea she is think she had one or two meets before. What happens if two unverified people meet each other then? lol " one has to be verified if both not verified neither can. | |||
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"I hope u Veri me after our 'coffee',,," If you bring biccies....maybe | |||
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"I hope u Veri me after our 'coffee',,, If you bring biccies....maybe" Choc chips one?  | |||
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"I hope u Veri me after our 'coffee',,, If you bring biccies....maybe Choc chips one? "Perfect dunkers | |||
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"Everybody keeps tellin me to chill but I'm always chilled. Hence my name "That's why I said chill lol....smart arse I know I am  | |||
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"I had the same problem with about 60 women and when i asked why they said i gave them too many orgasms and they were trying to save other women who may have dodgy tickers.either that or it was all a dream "Hate when that happens man! Hope your coping with it ok | |||
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"Everybody keeps tellin me to chill but I'm always chilled. Hence my name
That's why I said chill lol....smart arse I know I am "Hahaha best way to be man! | |||
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"Everybody keeps tellin me to chill but I'm always chilled. Hence my name
That's why I said chill lol....smart arse I know I am
Hahaha best way to be man! " | |||
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"ah ya im coping but its hard giving out all those orgasms when all i want to do is cuddle" GroupCuddle | |||
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"ah ya im coping but its hard giving out all those orgasms when all i want to do is cuddle" Sometime life can be extremely cruel. I'm here for you bro! | |||
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"It happened to me too but I'm fine with it because I understood why. Some women on Fab say they will only meet couples because they don't want to be inundated with messages from single guys. Verifying a single guy would give the green light to single guys to message them, something they obviously don't want." If they don't want single guys messaging them all they need to do is block single guys  | |||
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"I think its a signal to send her lots of cock pics Lots of different angles too "Hahahahahah don't be mean hahahahahah the chap is asking for advise ....although yours is a valid as the next persons | |||
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"Verifications I take with a pinch of salt too many fake veries around. in saying that I would prefer to meet a verified person.." Yes definitely, I wouldn't believe veris just on face value, but it usually leaves a trail, so it's easy enough to check if the person verifying is also verified , couple that with my powers of deduction and Im able to usually out the fakes from the pile. | |||
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"Verifications I take with a pinch of salt too many fake veries around. in saying that I would prefer to meet a verified person.. Yes definitely, I wouldn't believe veris just on face value, but it usually leaves a trail, so it's easy enough to check if the person verifying is also verified , couple that with my powers of deduction and Im able to usually out the fakes from the pile." I can too now its easy enough to established that's fake or not | |||
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"Verifications I take with a pinch of salt too many fake veries around. in saying that I would prefer to meet a verified person.. Yes definitely, I wouldn't believe veris just on face value, but it usually leaves a trail, so it's easy enough to check if the person verifying is also verified , couple that with my powers of deduction and Im able to usually out the fakes from the pile."
Still one (or two) on here who are willing to give a fake verification.
I don't get what the verifee gets out of it!?...
Attention??... Fan base??
Who knows, but at the end of the day it ruins the whole concept and can be dangerous!  | |||
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"Verifications I take with a pinch of salt too many fake veries around. in saying that I would prefer to meet a verified person.. Yes definitely, I wouldn't believe veris just on face value, but it usually leaves a trail, so it's easy enough to check if the person verifying is also verified , couple that with my powers of deduction and Im able to usually out the fakes from the pile. I can too now its easy enough to established that's fake or not" yeah but fake in what way?? i met a guy on here had 3 veris all saying how lovely he was etc and he gave me fucking hell. from then on the dont mean that much to me.id never verify someone without meeting them but i would never go by veris again | |||
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"Had a meet with a woman a while back and its been hard to contact her because she only goes on the site about once a week or less. I emailed her when I got home from the meet saying I enjoyed it and could she verify me when she gets a chance. The reply i got was 'What do you mean by verify?' and ive explained it numerous times but she eventually started ignoring the messages lol what am i supposed to do its so frustrating! Please don't comment if you are going to say 'Oh thats a likely story' or something along those lines thanks the thing is its somebodies own obligation to verify you ts not a given,, simple as"Only on Fab 3 weeks but can tell you that sometimes the best of meets dont get verified...and same for the worst! | |||
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"I think sometimes people get a bit too hung up on verifications, they are just another tool. Intend to go more by gut feeling, it's usually a lot more accurate as when I have ignored it and gone further than the initial message, the ones that I was either indifferent to or didn't get a good feeling about are the ones that didn't turn up or were tears. I now listen to my gut each time" | |||
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"yes thats all well and good but for my own personal experience i dont go by veris. its a tough call tho" Not met curvy but I can verify she is a fox x | |||
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"Fake in the way that the person has never met the said person. Meeting someone that has been verified by others that state the person was ok is not fake in my eyes ." Its can be that it's only when you meet the person in the flesh that you know for sure if you click with them. You might not hit it off with them personally but that doesnt make their other veris fake or yours either for that matter. No one is everyones cup of tea. | |||
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"That's why I take them with a pinch of salt. But the fake veries and they do exsist why would u do it!! " True Letmebe......  | |||
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"I think sometimes people get a bit too hung up on verifications, they are just another tool. Intend to go more by gut feeling, it's usually a lot more accurate as when I have ignored it and gone further than the initial message, the ones that I was either indifferent to or didn't get a good feeling about are the ones that didn't turn up or were tears. I now listen to my gut each time" Spot on Sofia | |||
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"Fake in the way that the person has never met the said person. ."
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"yes thats all well and good but for my own personal experience i dont go by veris. its a tough call tho Not met curvy but I can verify she is a fox x" xxxx aww thanks magic..xxxx | |||
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"That's why I take them with a pinch of salt. But the fake veries and they do exsist why would u do it!! " i dont know why some do.i would die if i fake verified someone and something happened to the person.i would never do it and never have..!! | |||
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"I think sometimes people get a bit too hung up on verifications, they are just another tool. Intend to go more by gut feeling, it's usually a lot more accurate as when I have ignored it and gone further than the initial message, the ones that I was either indifferent to or didn't get a good feeling about are the ones that didn't turn up or were tears. I now listen to my gut each time"
In the end a verification is just one persons take on a meet and often the most sycophantic ones are totally misleading anyway. Better to make up your own mind.....we are all individuals after all and what suits one person might not the next. If your meet was enjoyable and both parties wish a return visit surely that's the most important thing to focus on.  | |||
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"Verifications I take with a pinch of salt too many fake veries around. in saying that I would prefer to meet a verified person.. Yes definitely, I wouldn't believe veris just on face value, but it usually leaves a trail, so it's easy enough to check if the person verifying is also verified , couple that with my powers of deduction and Im able to usually out the fakes from the pile. I can too now its easy enough to established that's fake or not yeah but fake in what way?? i met a guy on here had 3 veris all saying how lovely he was etc and he gave me fucking hell. from then on the dont mean that much to me.id never verify someone without meeting them but i would never go by veris again" Im not saying I take veris as gospel but Im more likely to meet someone who is verified than someone who isn't is the point i'm making. | |||
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" In the end a verification is just one persons take on a meet and often the most sycophantic ones are totally misleading anyway. Better to make up your own mind.....we are all individuals after all and what suits one person might not the next. If your meet was enjoyable and both parties wish a return visit surely that's the most important thing to focus on. "I would have to disagree somewhat. Verifications should help to give a sense of security when meeting someone. They should verify that the person is who they say they are, and in the case of couples, this is particularly important. They should also verify that the person in question actually shows up, although a lack of verifications doesn't necessarily mean they won't show. Lack of desire to kidnap or abuse people, or boil pet rabbits should probably be covered as well. The rest isn't that important in my book, as one man's "incredible" is another man's "average" , and one woman's "swordmaster" is another woman's fumbler. | |||
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" In the end a verification is just one persons take on a meet and often the most sycophantic ones are totally misleading anyway. Better to make up your own mind.....we are all individuals after all and what suits one person might not the next. If your meet was enjoyable and both parties wish a return visit surely that's the most important thing to focus on.
I would have to disagree somewhat. Verifications should help to give a sense of security when meeting someone. They should verify that the person is who they say they are, and in the case of couples, this is particularly important. They should also verify that the person in question actually shows up, although a lack of verifications doesn't necessarily mean they won't show. Lack of desire to kidnap or abuse people, or boil pet rabbits should probably be covered as well. The rest isn't that important in my book, as one man's "incredible" is another man's "average" , and one woman's "swordmaster" is another woman's fumbler. "This | |||
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"The main thing on here is not to be pushy. You asked, she said no. You explained it "numerous times" and she still didn't do it. Why are you surprised she started ignoring you? Sounds like she made it clear that she didn't want to and you just kept asking!" No this was not the case as I have explained. | |||
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"I get that its all about clicking with someone and going by your gut but my point is many women will immediately delete a message from an unverified user and a lot say in their description that they have no interest in speaking to unverified people. She was saying she didnt know HOW to do it so i tried to explain as for such little effort it would have helped me out a lot for the reasons ive stated above lol Maybe she didnt want to and was just using that as an excuse but she should have just said that then! "I have in my profile that if you are unverified not much point in messaging me , didn't seem to make any difference so I put filters on , easier to put filters on than complain about not getting the exact mail you want all the time. | |||
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"I get that its all about clicking with someone and going by your gut but my point is many women will immediately delete a message from an unverified user and a lot say in their description that they have no interest in speaking to unverified people. She was saying she didnt know HOW to do it so i tried to explain as for such little effort it would have helped me out a lot for the reasons ive stated above lol Maybe she didnt want to and was just using that as an excuse but she should have just said that then!
I have in my profile that if you are unverified not much point in messaging me , didn't seem to make any difference so I put filters on , easier to put filters on than complain about not getting the exact mail you want all the time. "See now im missing out on what im sure would be a fantastic one to one conversation with you Rinky | |||
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"I get that its all about clicking with someone and going by your gut but my point is many women will immediately delete a message from an unverified user and a lot say in their description that they have no interest in speaking to unverified people. She was saying she didnt know HOW to do it so i tried to explain as for such little effort it would have helped me out a lot for the reasons ive stated above lol Maybe she didnt want to and was just using that as an excuse but she should have just said that then!
I have in my profile that if you are unverified not much point in messaging me , didn't seem to make any difference so I put filters on , easier to put filters on than complain about not getting the exact mail you want all the time.
See now im missing out on what im sure would be a fantastic one to one conversation with you Rinky "nah you aren't, im very boring and also very ugly, so you dodged a bullet there | |||
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"I get that its all about clicking with someone and going by your gut but my point is many women will immediately delete a message from an unverified user and a lot say in their description that they have no interest in speaking to unverified people. She was saying she didnt know HOW to do it so i tried to explain as for such little effort it would have helped me out a lot for the reasons ive stated above lol Maybe she didnt want to and was just using that as an excuse but she should have just said that then!
I have in my profile that if you are unverified not much point in messaging me , didn't seem to make any difference so I put filters on , easier to put filters on than complain about not getting the exact mail you want all the time.
See now im missing out on what im sure would be a fantastic one to one conversation with you Rinky
nah you aren't, im very boring and also very ugly, so you dodged a bullet there "I guarantee neither of them are true! lol try me if you like | |||
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" In the end a verification is just one persons take on a meet and often the most sycophantic ones are totally misleading anyway. Better to make up your own mind.....we are all individuals after all and what suits one person might not the next. If your meet was enjoyable and both parties wish a return visit surely that's the most important thing to focus on.
I would have to disagree somewhat. Verifications should help to give a sense of security when meeting someone. They should verify that the person is who they say they are, and in the case of couples, this is particularly important. They should also verify that the person in question actually shows up, although a lack of verifications doesn't necessarily mean they won't show. Lack of desire to kidnap or abuse people, or boil pet rabbits should probably be covered as well. The rest isn't that important in my book, as one man's "incredible" is another man's "average" , and one woman's "swordmaster" is another woman's fumbler. "Point taken....bunnies should be protected at all costs ! Seriously though...in the end we are all taking a risk with any meet and trust is the key issue. That's why I like to take my time getting to know a person and if they don't care to wait...so be it. The longer the contact the more of the real person is often revealed. I trust my intuition more than a few lines of text from a complete stranger. | |||
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" In the end a verification is just one persons take on a meet and often the most sycophantic ones are totally misleading anyway. Better to make up your own mind.....we are all individuals after all and what suits one person might not the next. If your meet was enjoyable and both parties wish a return visit surely that's the most important thing to focus on.
I would have to disagree somewhat. Verifications should help to give a sense of security when meeting someone. They should verify that the person is who they say they are, and in the case of couples, this is particularly important. They should also verify that the person in question actually shows up, although a lack of verifications doesn't necessarily mean they won't show. Lack of desire to kidnap or abuse people, or boil pet rabbits should probably be covered as well. The rest isn't that important in my book, as one man's "incredible" is another man's "average" , and one woman's "swordmaster" is another woman's fumbler.
Point taken....bunnies should be protected at all costs ! Seriously though...in the end we are all taking a risk with any meet and trust is the key issue. That's why I like to take my time getting to know a person and if they don't care to wait...so be it. The longer the contact the more of the real person is often revealed. I trust my intuition more than a few lines of text from a complete stranger. "well said sister from another mister lol | |||
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"Chill fella. I met a couple on Bangor and had a cracker of a night. They told me while I was there they were not verifying me and they did not want verified back. As long as you had fun whats the problem? Veri's ain't gunna get ya another meet here any quicker.. Hello, your a single male. We are scum nothing's after all "vers aint goina get ya more meets  :-are u jokin | |||
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"Chill fella. I met a couple on Bangor and had a cracker of a night. They told me while I was there they were not verifying me and they did not want verified back. As long as you had fun whats the problem? Veri's ain't gunna get ya another meet here any quicker.. Hello, your a single male. We are scum nothing's after all "vers aint goina get ya more meets :-are u jokin | |||
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"ah ya im coping but its hard giving out all those orgasms when all i want to do is cuddle GroupCuddle " it may seem sweet in text...... But i bet ita feckin weird round u.. With all the nonstop huggin..... Handsy.... | |||
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"ah ya im coping but its hard giving out all those orgasms when all i want to do is cuddle GroupCuddle " it may seem sweet in text...... But i bet ita feckin weird round u.. With all the nonstop huggin..... Handsy.... | |||
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"Chill fella. I met a couple on Bangor and had a cracker of a night. They told me while I was there they were not verifying me and they did not want verified back. As long as you had fun whats the problem? Veri's ain't gunna get ya another meet here any quicker.. Hello, your a single male. We are scum nothing's after all vers aint goina get ya more meets :-are u jokin"Yes | |||
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"I think its a signal to send her lots of cock pics Lots of different angles too "now ur makin sence | |||
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" well said sister from another mister lol
Yo wee bro! The McGinty clan stand firm! " we stand firm and fight the good fight against some of the goons and fakes that do be on here lol | |||
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" well said sister from another mister lol
Yo wee bro! The McGinty clan stand firm! "firm and pert.....and stunning | |||
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"Chill fella. I met a couple on Bangor and had a cracker of a night. They told me while I was there they were not verifying me and they did not want verified back. As long as you had fun whats the problem? Veri's ain't gunna get ya another meet here any quicker.. Hello, your a single male. We are scum nothing's after all vers aint goina get ya more meets :-are u jokin
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"I don't see what the problem is honestly with no verifications. Everyone started here with none. I laugh at the ones who won't bother with unverified people. Then don't ever look at there profile again. Put some pics up. Maybe get a fuck phone? Put your number out there, speak to people. Go to a meet and greet? Or just hang in there, do what I do, have a real life, go down the pub, have a laugh, and pull the old fashion way, it's not that hard, unless your a one eyed gimp! And use this as and when. Or like me most of the time, when your bored and getting paid to ..WORK! Lol don't ever forget one thing though, this place ain't that great.. Plenty of weirdos and dreamers here. Failing that.. And you really need to get verified, lower your standards and mail one of the pin cushions here!! Lmfao" Now now lets not assume because im on here that I dnt have a real life. Have no problem going out to clubs and bars and chatting to girls I do that regularly enough and im more than happy with it. Im on here to find something different. | |||
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"Chill fella. I met a couple on Bangor and had a cracker of a night. They told me while I was there they were not verifying me and they did not want verified back. As long as you had fun whats the problem? Veri's ain't gunna get ya another meet here any quicker.. Hello, your a single male. We are scum nothing's after all vers aint goina get ya more meets :-are u jokin
Yes well us smiley face so "sorry | |||
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"I don't see what the problem is honestly with no verifications. Everyone started here with none. I laugh at the ones who won't bother with unverified people. Then don't ever look at there profile again. Put some pics up. Maybe get a fuck phone? Put your number out there, speak to people. Go to a meet and greet? Or just hang in there, do what I do, have a real life, go down the pub, have a laugh, and pull the old fashion way, it's not that hard, unless your a one eyed gimp! And use this as and when. Or like me most of the time, when your bored and getting paid to ..WORK! Lol don't ever forget one thing though, this place ain't that great.. Plenty of weirdos and dreamers here. Failing that.. And you really need to get verified, lower your standards and mail one of the pin cushions here!! Lmfao Now now lets not assume because im on here that I dnt have a real life. Have no problem going out to clubs and bars and chatting to girls I do that regularly enough and im more than happy with it. Im on here to find something different." Fair play. Was just chucking it out there in a lighthearted way, and not really directed at you in general. | |||
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"I don't see what the problem is honestly with no verifications. Everyone started here with none. I laugh at the ones who won't bother with unverified people. Then don't ever look at there profile again. Put some pics up. Maybe get a fuck phone? Put your number out there, speak to people. Go to a meet and greet? Or just hang in there, do what I do, have a real life, go down the pub, have a laugh, and pull the old fashion way, it's not that hard, unless your a one eyed gimp! And use this as and when. Or like me most of the time, when your bored and getting paid to ..WORK! Lol don't ever forget one thing though, this place ain't that great.. Plenty of weirdos and dreamers here. Failing that.. And you really need to get verified, lower your standards and mail one of the pin cushions here!! Lmfao Now now lets not assume because im on here that I dnt have a real life. Have no problem going out to clubs and bars and chatting to girls I do that regularly enough and im more than happy with it. Im on here to find something different." | |||
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"Why laugh at people, my safety is paramount to me, I'm not going to chance it on some random person , I'm not here to meet every single profile that mails me, instead of laughing at people why not respect their decisions, such aggressive attitudes on here make people worried about voicing their opinions." really....... I have not seen anyone that intimadating??????? | |||
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"Had a meet with a woman a while back and its been hard to contact her because she only goes on the site about once a week or less. I emailed her when I got home from the meet saying I enjoyed it and could she verify me when she gets a chance. The reply i got was 'What do you mean by verify?' and ive explained it numerous times but she eventually started ignoring the messages lol what am i supposed to do its so frustrating! Please don't comment if you are going to say 'Oh thats a likely story' or something along those lines thanks "maybe u wont like what she would say could be a blessing  | |||
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"Why laugh at people, my safety is paramount to me, I'm not going to chance it on some random person , I'm not here to meet every single profile that mails me, instead of laughing at people why not respect their decisions, such aggressive attitudes on here make people worried about voicing their opinions. As is bullying and trying to make fools outta posters here, which you have been doing for a long time on here. And been called out on it before. Back in your click, and try not to make out your scared of posting here. Typical bully response. I'm being bullies. Not getting into an argument with you. After all you'll just complain and try and get me blocked. Don't like what I said? Fine. A bully pulling the bully/scared card.. Typical. Still wont stop me posting here women. This page ain't all yours, even though you would like to be queen forum. " LMAO! wow, you really are a piece of work. | |||
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"Me neither. Think it's personal. Bully crys bully? Forums are for all, not just the chosen!! Don't like me..? Good!" what??????????? Bully crys bully what?????? | |||
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"Why laugh at people, my safety is paramount to me, I'm not going to chance it on some random person , I'm not here to meet every single profile that mails me, instead of laughing at people why not respect their decisions, such aggressive attitudes on here make people worried about voicing their opinions. As is bullying and trying to make fools outta posters here, which you have been doing for a long time on here. And been called out on it before. Back in your click, and try not to make out your scared of posting here. Typical bully response. I'm being bullies. Not getting into an argument with you. After all you'll just complain and try and get me blocked. Don't like what I said? Fine. A bully pulling the bully/scared card.. Typical. Still wont stop me posting here women. This page ain't all yours, even though you would like to be queen forum. LMAO! wow, you really are a piece of work." Says the bitter one... | |||
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"Why laugh at people, my safety is paramount to me, I'm not going to chance it on some random person , I'm not here to meet every single profile that mails me, instead of laughing at people why not respect their decisions, such aggressive attitudes on here make people worried about voicing their opinions. As is bullying and trying to make fools outta posters here, which you have been doing for a long time on here. And been called out on it before. Back in your click, and try not to make out your scared of posting here. Typical bully response. I'm being bullies. Not getting into an argument with you. After all you'll just complain and try and get me blocked. Don't like what I said? Fine. A bully pulling the bully/scared card.. Typical. Still wont stop me posting here women. This page ain't all yours, even though you would like to be queen forum. LMAO! wow, you really are a piece of work." Can't wait for me ban! Again! Lmao leave me alone women, find yourself another victim FFS. I kill your car or summit? Get over it. Move on. | |||
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"I barely post on here anymore , but if I do want to post, your nonsense won't stop me, back to the playground with you son." Cuz you got called out on your bullying? Ok you win, shall I stop posting? Make you happy? Lmao | |||
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"Why laugh at people, my safety is paramount to me, I'm not going to chance it on some random person , I'm not here to meet every single profile that mails me, instead of laughing at people why not respect their decisions, such aggressive attitudes on here make people worried about voicing their opinions. As is bullying and trying to make fools outta posters here, which you have been doing for a long time on here. And been called out on it before. Back in your click, and try not to make out your scared of posting here. Typical bully response. I'm being bullies. Not getting into an argument with you. After all you'll just complain and try and get me blocked. Don't like what I said? Fine. A bully pulling the bully/scared card.. Typical. Still wont stop me posting here women. This page ain't all yours, even though you would like to be queen forum. LMAO! wow, you really are a piece of work. Can't wait for me ban! Again! Lmao leave me alone women, find yourself another victim FFS. I kill your car or summit? Get over it. Move on." If you get banned from here it's because you have done something to be banned for, I have no power over who gets banned, reality check needed for you methinks. | |||
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"I think sometimes people get a bit too hung up on verifications, they are just another tool. Intend to go more by gut feeling, it's usually a lot more accurate as when I have ignored it and gone further than the initial message, the ones that I was either indifferent to or didn't get a good feeling about are the ones that didn't turn up or were tears. I now listen to my gut each time
In the end a verification is just one persons take on a meet and often the most sycophantic ones are totally misleading anyway. Better to make up your own mind.....we are all individuals after all and what suits one person might not the next. If your meet was enjoyable and both parties wish a return visit surely that's the most important thing to focus on. "yea i agree!i wud never meet sumone just cos he had gud verifications!there usually always way ott anyway!everyones likes and dislikes can be different!verifications to me are just an indication tht the person is real and has met others so more than likely he will show up! | |||
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"I barely post on here anymore , but if I do want to post, your nonsense won't stop me, back to the playground with you son. Cuz you got called out on your bullying? Ok you win, shall I stop posting? Make you happy? Lmao " stop making up silly shit to justify you r vitriol please. | |||
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"Why laugh at people, my safety is paramount to me, I'm not going to chance it on some random person , I'm not here to meet every single profile that mails me, instead of laughing at people why not respect their decisions, such aggressive attitudes on here make people worried about voicing their opinions. As is bullying and trying to make fools outta posters here, which you have been doing for a long time on here. And been called out on it before. Back in your click, and try not to make out your scared of posting here. Typical bully response. I'm being bullies. Not getting into an argument with you. After all you'll just complain and try and get me blocked. Don't like what I said? Fine. A bully pulling the bully/scared card.. Typical. Still wont stop me posting here women. This page ain't all yours, even though you would like to be queen forum. LMAO! wow, you really are a piece of work. Can't wait for me ban! Again! Lmao leave me alone women, find yourself another victim FFS. I kill your car or summit? Get over it. Move on. If you get banned from here it's because you have done something to be banned for, I have no power over who gets banned, reality check needed for you methinks." everyone dose.....u just report them.....if noone did...noone would get ered cards | |||
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"Why laugh at people, my safety is paramount to me, I'm not going to chance it on some random person , I'm not here to meet every single profile that mails me, instead of laughing at people why not respect their decisions, such aggressive attitudes on here make people worried about voicing their opinions. As is bullying and trying to make fools outta posters here, which you have been doing for a long time on here. And been called out on it before. Back in your click, and try not to make out your scared of posting here. Typical bully response. I'm being bullies. Not getting into an argument with you. After all you'll just complain and try and get me blocked. Don't like what I said? Fine. A bully pulling the bully/scared card.. Typical. Still wont stop me posting here women. This page ain't all yours, even though you would like to be queen forum. LMAO! wow, you really are a piece of work. Can't wait for me ban! Again! Lmao leave me alone women, find yourself another victim FFS. I kill your car or summit? Get over it. Move on. If you get banned from here it's because you have done something to be banned for, I have no power over who gets banned, reality check needed for you methinks. everyone dose.....u just report them.....if noone did...noone would get ered cards "admin dont ban people just because they are reported, they look at the chat logs/ forum posts and make a decision based on that wether the person needs to be banned. Sure if every report ended in a ban there would be no users on the site ffs. | |||
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"Just to clarify, people only get bans for something THEY have posted and not because someone reports them. If the person being reported has not broken rules they won't be banned. Maybe the both of you should ignore each other "Couldn't ignore those legs | |||
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"Just to clarify, people only get bans for something THEY have posted and not because someone reports them. If the person being reported has not broken rules they won't be banned. Maybe the both of you should ignore each other
Couldn't ignore those legs "They are quite lovely | |||
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"lol @ you two" Bono's a gag but I reckon the Edge is wile serious looking | |||
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"Verifications I take with a pinch of salt too many fake veries around. in saying that I would prefer to meet a verified person.. Yes definitely, I wouldn't believe veris just on face value, but it usually leaves a trail, so it's easy enough to check if the person verifying is also verified , couple that with my powers of deduction and Im able to usually out the fakes from the pile.
Still one (or two) on here who are willing to give a fake verification.
I don't get what the verifee gets out of it!?...
Attention??... Fan base??
Who knows, but at the end of the day it ruins the whole concept and can be dangerous! "anyone tht verifies another person they have never met b4 should be banned!thts just not on!why sumone wud do it in the first place il never know!maybe their just gullible or naive but it ruins it for the genuine ppl! | |||
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"My input would be she was meant to be somewhere else that night/possibly told others that she's not active so she was covering herself I've met women here and they're hiding from certain folk and asked could we do the verify thing at a later stage" Have decided not to meet cos didnt want to offend others but have just learned a new trick now lol | |||
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"Totally agree with Classy on this , ban them !!! It ruins the fabric of the idea of verification ffs...good call girl. Damn it that's my 1st serious post....I must be tired , I'm away fir a lay down "apparently theres ppl on here tht do tht!why i dont know!is it to make the other person like them more?i dont get it! | |||
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"Totally agree with Classy on this , ban them !!! It ruins the fabric of the idea of verification ffs...good call girl. Damn it that's my 1st serious post....I must be tired , I'm away fir a lay down
apparently theres ppl on here tht do tht!why i dont know!is it to make the other person like them more?i dont get it!"Classy...I've had a "lady" on here asking me several times to verify her , I said no chance ....guess what....slagged off n blocked lol !! Think she's still looking for a favour , plumber , sparkie , mechanic | |||
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"Totally agree with Classy on this , ban them !!! It ruins the fabric of the idea of verification ffs...good call girl. Damn it that's my 1st serious post....I must be tired , I'm away fir a lay down
apparently theres ppl on here tht do tht!why i dont know!is it to make the other person like them more?i dont get it!
Classy...I've had a "lady" on here asking me several times to verify her , I said no chance ....guess what....slagged off n blocked lol !!
Think she's still looking for a favour , plumber , sparkie , mechanic "she sounds like a he | |||
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"Totally agree with Classy on this , ban them !!! It ruins the fabric of the idea of verification ffs...good call girl. Damn it that's my 1st serious post....I must be tired , I'm away fir a lay down
apparently theres ppl on here tht do tht!why i dont know!is it to make the other person like them more?i dont get it!
Classy...I've had a "lady" on here asking me several times to verify her , I said no chance ....guess what....slagged off n blocked lol !!
Think she's still looking for a favour , plumber , sparkie , mechanic she sounds like a he "No Deffo not.... | |||
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"Totally agree with Classy on this , ban them !!! It ruins the fabric of the idea of verification ffs...good call girl. Damn it that's my 1st serious post....I must be tired , I'm away fir a lay down
apparently theres ppl on here tht do tht!why i dont know!is it to make the other person like them more?i dont get it!" | |||
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"i think a far simplier way to verify would be a list of options such as coffee/drink meet, fun meet,or party meet and just tick the relavent box i think most swingers just want to know if someone is going to show up after that its just a matter of taste and if you click or not"
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"Had a meet with a woman a while back and its been hard to contact her because she only goes on the site about once a week or less. I emailed her when I got home from the meet saying I enjoyed it and could she verify me when she gets a chance. The reply i got was 'What do you mean by verify?' and ive explained it numerous times but she eventually started ignoring the messages lol what am i supposed to do its so frustrating! Please don't comment if you are going to say 'Oh thats a likely story' or something along those lines thanks maybe u wont like what she would say could be a blessing "Not likely mate! | |||
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" Please don't comment if you are going to say 'Oh thats a likely story' or something along those lines thanks maybe u wont like what she would say could be a blessing
Not likely mate!"why? how can u be certain she hasn't verified otherwise | |||
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" Please don't comment if you are going to say 'Oh thats a likely story' or something along those lines thanks maybe u wont like what she would say could be a blessing
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