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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im sick of getting abusive mails from blokes.what the fuck do they get by doing it.ive a pain in my hole with the lot it...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing is not to give a bollick CC x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im trying but he keeps coming back as another name.then i get the horrible mail...ggrrrrrr im sure fab are sick of me reporting him....!!!!!

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"im sick of getting abusive mails from blokes.what the fuck do they get by doing it.ive a pain in my hole with the lot it...!!! "

once I say no thankyou and they get abusive I just block........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

they just come back under new names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they just come back under new names"

nothing u can do really except,ignore,block and report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is that the one who even wrote to me about you?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

All theses clever twats that think delete profile come back on another profile.

Sad fecker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is that the one who even wrote to me about you? "

yup....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never any need for abuse, you'd love for it to come back on them 10 fold,

Chin up Hun , x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a twat. But remember, it's one person only. A very sad one too. Just keep on reporting and hopefully they will finally ban his IP address as well.

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i do... hhuhhhhhh anyway...i like ur pics sweet..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i do... hhuhhhhhh anyway...i like ur pics sweet..xx"

he'll get bored at some stage.

Thanks hun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple

Instead of a drama on the forum,block all newbies and unverified makes

Makes life so much more simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple

Instead of a drama on the forum,block all newbies and unverified makes

Makes life so much more simple"

That should have of course read MALES and not makes ( blast predictive text )

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

Even on non swinging forums, I have seen things like people not bring allowed to contact others until x posts or y period of time. Would be useful on here especially for accounts that are not photo verified

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By *lwaysforfunMan
over a year ago

Swingerstown

Your better than that and if he wants to be a prick there's not much you can do about that. You see the message, rise above it and delete. He's not worth your time.

Hope that's not me......lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your better than that and if he wants to be a prick there's not much you can do about that. You see the message, rise above it and delete. He's not worth your time.

Hope that's not me......lol"

no i love your abusive mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man I apologise for the antics of fellow men

*hugs the shit out of everyone*

Now who's gonna represent the girls?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a man I apologise for the antics of fellow men

*hugs the shit out of everyone*

Now who's gonna represent the girls?

"

are you a hugger in person ???

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

I just delete abusive mail. I don't block them. If I see the name I just delete without reading it. Don't give the abuser the satisfaction of feeling they have affected you. Works for me anyway.

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By *lwaysforfunMan
over a year ago

Swingerstown


"Your better than that and if he wants to be a prick there's not much you can do about that. You see the message, rise above it and delete. He's not worth your time.

Hope that's not me......lol

no i love your abusive mails "

Your bring a tear to my glass eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a man I apologise for the antics of fellow men

*hugs the shit out of everyone*

Now who's gonna represent the girls?

are you a hugger in person ???"

Kinda

I hug family/friends/opponent's/randomers (has got me in trouble)

I'll still do it- my crowd get a kick out of it

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville


"they just come back under new names

nothing u can do really except,ignore,block and report them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they just come back under new names"
why dont u just set your profile to only recive messages from friends..or photo verd....or not newbies?????

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Can't say we have had this problem but I understand it's a lot different for single ladies but if you block newbies then you may miss out on someone really nice.....so nothing for it I think only grow

Another layer of skin and think when ur having fun their at home all sweaty and wankin ..but don't let it get ya down this for all the single gals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy...

Just mail them back with..

"I'm lying here naked, stroking my soaking wet pussy, thinking how a fuckwit like you will NEVER get to taste it....Mmmmmmm.. and it is sweet"

then block them..

Will drive them spastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy...

Just mail them back with..

"I'm lying here naked, stroking my soaking wet pussy, thinking how a fuckwit like you will NEVER get to taste it....Mmmmmmm.. and it is sweet"

then block them..

Will drive them spastic "
id agreed......but maybe do poke this dragon.....im not sure....but play it safe ok.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i ment dont poke.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im sick of getting abusive mails from blokes.what the fuck do they get by doing it.ive a pain in my hole with the lot it...!!! "

just block new users from contacting you, by feeding him, you are prolonging it, if he or she knows its pissing you off he will try and continue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Curvy...

Just mail them back with..

"I'm lying here naked, stroking my soaking wet pussy, thinking how a fuckwit like you will NEVER get to taste it....Mmmmmmm.. and it is sweet"

then block them..

Will drive them spastic "

pmsl....thanks dave..

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By *lwaysforfunMan
over a year ago

Swingerstown

Don't mind them......it's driving me nuts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't mind them......it's driving me nuts"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

just block new users from contacting you, by feeding him, you are prolonging it, if he or she knows its pissing you off he will try and continue."

That's a good point....worth bearing in mind

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Block newbies is the best thing to do .

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"It's simple

Instead of a drama on the forum,block all newbies and unverified makes

Makes life so much more simple"

thats what i've done so they can't message me on a sat night full of drink looking for a shag/wank...

keeps my mail box much cleaner.. well maybe not clean.. but more what i'm looking for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block newbies is the best thing to do . "
block newbies how do you judge someone or should I say people you don't know they could be genuine I know the dickheads make it hard for peeps here but just blocking every newbie surely is not the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block newbies is the best thing to do . block newbies how do you judge someone or should I say people you don't know they could be genuine I know the dickheads make it hard for peeps here but just blocking every newbie surely is not the answer "

It only blocks them until they no longer new, thereby cutting o it the ones that join after a few drinks and have cold feet the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeep only advise I'd give is to block em

There's plenty if nice people on here

Trust your own judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeep only advise I'd give is to block em

There's plenty if nice people on here

Trust your own judgement"

FAR more nice ones than gobshites thankfully

Must be the time of year for all the eejits to come out in force

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But then If one does dare take control of who contacts them or who they contact, there would be feck all drama in this forum

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"But then If one does dare take control of who contacts them or who they contact, there would be feck all drama in this forum"

and that would never do lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

pmsl this is the best one yet read this...... "curvy cat yeah right more like FAT PUSSY".....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CC..... This guy you say keeps setting up profiles then messages you abusive comments then deletes his profile after a while only to repeat the whole performance all over again. I've just realised that Mac operates the same way ......very abusive to Letmebeyourfantasy but you have called him your buddy. TBH I dont see the difference between Macs behaviour and the guy who abuses you. Both are cowards hiding behind their computers abusing women.....would you not agree??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheeky the guy that does that to me could be somebody elses buddy too.ya click with some and not others.what happens to letmebe is not nice and i dont condone what has been said to her.me and mac get on perfectly well and thats just the way it is.so yes it is prob the same...whats ur point???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cheeky the guy that does that to me could be somebody elses buddy too.ya click with some and not others.what happens to letmebe is not nice and i dont condone what has been said to her.me and mac get on perfectly well and thats just the way it is.so yes it is prob the same...whats ur point???"

How is Mac any different to this boy who you are complaining about would be my guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its horrible to hear of the abusive messages going around.

Cowardly and so pathetic.

Chin up curvy and others. Just think of all the nice messages that you get for decent people xxxx

Just remember that those cowards have you on their minds so dont offer them the same courtesy by even giving them a second thought. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How is Mac any different to this boy who you are complaining about would be my guess "

Thank you Sofia.....that is my point indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its horrible to hear of the abusive messages going around.

Cowardly and so pathetic.

Chin up curvy and others. Just think of all the nice messages that you get for decent people xxxx

Just remember that those cowards have you on their minds so dont offer them the same courtesy by even giving them a second thought. Xx"

Well said.....plus putting up threads about them feeds their appetite.... I may not be very popular for saying so but its true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"cheeky the guy that does that to me could be somebody elses buddy too.ya click with some and not others.what happens to letmebe is not nice and i dont condone what has been said to her.me and mac get on perfectly well and thats just the way it is.so yes it is prob the same...whats ur point???

How is Mac any different to this boy who you are complaining about would be my guess "

well its not exactly fair to ask me that question when the only answer is to bad mouth my buddy which i will not do.getting abusive mails is not on no matter who its from.i get called nasty names by someone on here whom everyone loves and yes yiz all know who im talking about..!!! and he is awed on the forums but yet says nasty things about me and wherever he can put me down he does.some people just get on better than others....but worry not from now on i will not complain about the nasty mails i get...!!!! happy new year everyone.. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely do not know who you mean but I would certainly like to. If you want you can pm me his name...... No place here for abuse from anyone. Fab is for fun so lets have some. Happy New Year to you too CC xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not afraid to say it, anyone and I mean anyone, be they a favourite or not, who sends abusive messages without any reason is a tosser and other worse things. If I found out my friend had sent them I would be sending I would be asking questions off them and if they have been, they would no longer be a friend cos I can't stand bullying in any format

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

If anyone i was friendly with was sending abusive mail to others they certainly wouldnt be my friend for long.

It is disgraceful that a supposed adult would behave in that manner.

Cat i think the thing with this man who is harrassing you, is that he can see how much it gets to you when you post it on the forum....it feeds him as such.

Leave the mail in your inbox..block the sender and report. Dont let anyone get you down on here. They're really not worth it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone i was friendly with was sending abusive mail to others they certainly wouldnt be my friend for long.

It is disgraceful that a supposed adult would behave in that manner.

Cat i think the thing with this man who is harrassing you, is that he can see how much it gets to you when you post it on the forum....it feeds him as such.

Leave the mail in your inbox..block the sender and report. Dont let anyone get you down on here. They're really not worth it xx"

And block newbies and non-verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell us who he is, we will all send him abusive messages, play him at his own game

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"CC..... This guy you say keeps setting up profiles then messages you abusive comments then deletes his profile after a while only to repeat the whole performance all over again. I've just realised that Mac operates the same way ......very abusive to Letmebeyourfantasy but you have called him your buddy. TBH I dont see the difference between Macs behaviour and the guy who abuses you. Both are cowards hiding behind their computers abusing women.....would you not agree?? "

i am afraid its more than mac there is another at it as well

u deffo know who u are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs thats awful have had a guy do it to me just kept blocking no point in contactin admin to much of it for them to control I told him my husband wanted his address so he could kickhis ass n he backed off but have a feelin he is back feel ur pain xxxxxchin up dont waste ur energy on him want to chat pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CC..... This guy you say keeps setting up profiles then messages you abusive comments then deletes his profile after a while only to repeat the whole performance all over again. I've just realised that Mac operates the same way ......very abusive to Letmebeyourfantasy but you have called him your buddy. TBH I dont see the difference between Macs behaviour and the guy who abuses you. Both are cowards hiding behind their computers abusing women.....would you not agree??

i am afraid its more than mac there is another at it as well

u deffo know who u are "

I have been lucky enough that I don't get abusive mail as a rule. I get the very odd dickhead sending me a random mail that I find a bit insulting but they generally apologise when it is pointed out to them. BUT anyone who is abusive behind a keyboard is actually more to be pitied than anything else as they are obviously saddo's in real life and are lacking in some way...maybe a very small penis, or hit every branch of the ugly tree on way down and were last in line when they were giving out personalities!

Chin up Curvy and Mac is right, they are cowards. They they are the ones that have the problem but I would just ignore them rather than answer them more than once......2 strikes and they are out is my rule!

If you allow a person to get to you are giving them power!

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"CC..... This guy you say keeps setting up profiles then messages you abusive comments then deletes his profile after a while only to repeat the whole performance all over again. I've just realised that Mac operates the same way ......very abusive to Letmebeyourfantasy but you have called him your buddy. TBH I dont see the difference between Macs behaviour and the guy who abuses you. Both are cowards hiding behind their computers abusing women.....would you not agree??

i am afraid its more than mac there is another at it as well

u deffo know who u are

I have been lucky enough that I don't get abusive mail as a rule. I get the very odd dickhead sending me a random mail that I find a bit insulting but they generally apologise when it is pointed out to them. BUT anyone who is abusive behind a keyboard is actually more to be pitied than anything else as they are obviously saddo's in real life and are lacking in some way...maybe a very small penis, or hit every branch of the ugly tree on way down and were last in line when they were giving out personalities!

Chin up Curvy and Mac is right, they are cowards. They they are the ones that have the problem but I would just ignore them rather than answer them more than once......2 strikes and they are out is my rule!

If you allow a person to get to you are giving them power!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Behaviour thats rewarded with attention persists......behaviour that's not rewarded with attention usually desists. The power is actually in your hands.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Behaviour thats rewarded with attention persists......behaviour that's not rewarded with attention usually desists. The power is actually in your hands. "

I know what I'd like in my hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Behaviour thats rewarded with attention persists......behaviour that's not rewarded with attention usually desists. The power is actually in your hands. "

i like that cheeky..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behaviour thats rewarded with attention persists......behaviour that's not rewarded with attention usually desists. The power is actually in your hands. "

Cheeky for Taoiseach!!

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By *agiceyesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"i do... hhuhhhhhh anyway...i like ur pics sweet..xx"

She's hot!! 3some?

Anyway send them a mail and explain it's the AMA e person over n over and ask to block ip as the other person said. X

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

well its not exactly fair to ask me that question when the only answer is to bad mouth my buddy which i will not do.getting abusive mails is not on no matter who its from.i get called nasty names by someone on here whom everyone loves and yes yiz all know who im talking about..!!! and he is awed on the forums but yet says nasty things about me and wherever he can put me down he does.some people just get on better than others....but worry not from now on i will not complain about the nasty mails i get...!!!! happy new year everyone.. xxxx"

Oooo... I've just discovered this thread last night, and something about it made me wonder. Lol. That's me you're talking about, isn't it? I don't mind you repeating that I referred to you as scurvy cat in a private conversation with Mac many months ago, but I do hope you're not trying to imply that I have ever sent you abusive messages, or indeed that I spend my time trying to put you down on the forum. Maybe you consider me disagreeing with you on a thread about 6 weeks ago as putting you down, and if that's the case then fair enough, but that's your problem, not mine. I have no particular problem with people disagreeing with me, so fire away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no mick nowhere did i imply that u were sending me nasty mails.the girls know who u am refaring to and its not you.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Fair enough!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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oh and thanks to publically calling scurvy curvy....thats real big of you..!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

It's always best to have these things out in the open and I'm sure you've been called worse. I certainly have, but nicknames are a part of life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's always best to have these things out in the open and I'm sure you've been called worse. I certainly have, but nicknames are a part of life. "
you are actually pretty nasty arent you..!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What?

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