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By *oveToLick23 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wicklow

Hi everyone it annoys me I know it's a sex site but I find personality and being genuine more attractive than looks I know I'm not a six pack ripped model but I find people very harsh to judge and would rather a block with muscles than a nice normal person! Anyone else find this?! Ps wouldn't class myself as bad looking before anyone says haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction will always be a large part of sex! It's human nature.

Some can be harsh for no reason but why put pass on em, they only degrade themselves by putting others down. some will be harsh if your rude or lie about what you look like and who you are.

Pics help you get a good feel fir the person to see if you want to chat more or if your wasting your time.

Take your profile for example. (Not having a go)No public pics, very little about you. Why would anyone start a conversation with you when so many others are more open?

It all swingers and roundabouts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own preferences, I'm sure you have to. You are being judgemental of people who have rejected you as well. Maybe you can see in their verifications that they have met muscly men but who says that these men don't have a nice personality as well?

But as said above, attraction is extremely important. Especially on here - this is not dating where you can get to know a person, get to like them so attraction grows.

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By *oulbotMan
over a year ago

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If I had to stop to any judgements I would have hanged myself by the balls right now.

Too fat, some years ago. Too muscular, now. Oh now you look too good to be through.... All this crap.

Stop worrying and I am certain you have realised now that you may have to contact 50 people before you get a nice reply. What I mean by contacting is: making all the necessary efforts of course.

No need to judge them either, there are so many pricks on the side that it is difficult for them too.

Regards,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction will always be a large part of sex! It's human nature.

Some can be harsh for no reason but why put pass on em, they only degrade themselves by putting others down. some will be harsh if your rude or lie about what you look like and who you are.

Pics help you get a good feel fir the person to see if you want to chat more or if your wasting your time.

Take your profile for example. (Not having a go)No public pics, very little about you. Why would anyone start a conversation with you when so many others are more open?

It all swingers and roundabouts.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Different folks for different strokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to play devils advocate here, but are you not judging too much people that have preferences, thereby being judgemental yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses, beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc... You've been too fat now you're too muscly. Maybe you should be try in between and you'll be just right like in the fairy tale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all judge, simple as that

We all have our own built in morals and judge along those lines

Is it wrong?

I don't think so. Keeps us safe and comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me its physical attraction as all im after is the completion of a fantasy not any sort of relationship or meeting of minds,we might be the exception but not after any sort of friendship just meet and fuck and go as have plenty of friends in real life which we keep seperate .

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"for me its physical attraction as all im after is the completion of a fantasy not any sort of relationship or meeting of minds,we might be the exception but not after any sort of friendship just meet and fuck and go as have plenty of friends in real life which we keep seperate ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I totally agree it has to be a physical thing on here. And well everyone has there own preferences. As a single guy on here you have to take rejection doesn't mean anything apart from that person wants something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to play devils advocate here, but are you not judging too much people that have preferences, thereby being judgemental yourself "

here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there's a blast from the past! I agree with what I write a year ago

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