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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks,

Newbie here and I've a request for the ladies. I've never been with a woman but I've always had men and no prob getting a man but I'm almost 40 and I'm starting to think "what's it like". I know this probably sounds like a pretence but it's true. I'm at an age now where I want to say yes I've tried it and what better place than here where I hope there's a nice person willing to play????

Please respond in a positive manner or politely go to next thread if you've nothing nice to say.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure a site for sexually confident people is the right place to look for a woman to take your virginity , if you havent managed to pull a woman in the real world by now , the chances of pulling one here wont be much , best of luck with it tho .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not sure a site for sexually confident people is the right place to look for a woman to take your virginity , if you havent managed to pull a woman in the real world by now , the chances of pulling one here wont be much , best of luck with it tho . "

It's by choice not being with a woman prior to this post. Since this is a swing site and not a convent why not here. BTW I'm not a virgin regarding sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Perhaps my original post gives impression I'm a virgin and no confidence. Believe me I've been in 3somes and twosomes but with men and I am confident under the sheets but I was throwing it out there about trying it with a woman because in the real world a woman would think I "like" her but here it'd be agreed the purpose of what I want. Hope that makes sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so essentially your gay looking for a woman to pop your curiosity cherry . Is that more accurate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so essentially your gay looking for a woman to pop your curiosity cherry . Is that more accurate? "

It's what it sounds Like to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that's it, I've had many a question about "how do you know you don't want or like it?" And that's a valid point but if I try it I have hands on info if it's enjoyable bisexual wise or completely not for me. I'm not camp so I usually do have to declare in the past women aren't my thing but for the bucket list why not eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in all honesty now , women who swing usually do so with others who find them desireable , sexually attractive and tend to look for other pleaureseekers . I think you will find it extremely difficicult to engage a willing woman who knows shes a guinea pig , with the utmost respect to you , it sounds like a job for the golden pages and your nearest escort agency where you will find someone willing to engage .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This site to me is about coming out of your boundaries and exploring. This is my exploration here. I've seen many weird requests on forums and are way out. I'm a tall, dark haired handsome guy who has no bad habits straight men have with women so it's a clean slate and the woman is in control what she wants considering I'm the student. Where's mrs Robinson? ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"in all honesty now , women who swing usually do so with others who find them desireable , sexually attractive and tend to look for other pleaureseekers . I think you will find it extremely difficicult to engage a willing woman who knows shes a guinea pig , with the utmost respect to you , it sounds like a job for the golden pages and your nearest escort agency where you will find someone willing to engage . "

But isn't the 3rd person a guinea pig for a couple?????

They're being used to fulfill the couples fantasy?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't pay for sex or go to an escort either, I read posts here about stuff people have done and even I'd be a tad disgusted reading it. I don't think it'll be difficult to seek some woman here who knows the score. My request is no different to a couple looking for a 3rd person to fulfil their wants and needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you will find that any couple wanting to "use" someone to fulfill a fantasy will have cobwebs growing on them and tumbles in their mailbox .A quick look at the forums will yield threads for all sorts of people who are in persuit of the fabled 3 some , and whilst im not saying it doesnt happen , because it does .. anyone with a me me me attitude , its all about what they want will end up still wanting and wondering where theyve gone wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be sure to post back and let us know of your success . Best of luck with it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah true,

Well my little wish is out there and I believe there's someone out there yet to respond. All in good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another issue on here is woman ate looking for men with experience in making them weak kneed etc. I think you nay have to search long and hard to find someone willing to take you on the way you gave phrased it in your original and to a certain extent in later posts. If you approach it more as a quest for mutual fun you may find it easier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another issue on here is woman ate looking for men with experience in making them weak kneed etc. I think you nay have to search long and hard to find someone willing to take you on the way you gave phrased it in your original and to a certain extent in later posts. If you approach it more as a quest for mutual fun you may find it easier."

I thought being open and honest and not be a typical straight bloke looking for his end would appeal to some woman. Imagine getting a man to do exactly what you want and how in bed without him thinking he already knows how to please a woman. Something most men think they do and conversations I've had with women, guys you're not as good as you think. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in all honesty now , women who swing usually do so with others who find them desireable , sexually attractive and tend to look for other pleaureseekers . I think you will find it extremely difficicult to engage a willing woman who knows shes a guinea pig , with the utmost respect to you , it sounds like a job for the golden pages and your nearest escort agency where you will find someone willing to engage .

But isn't the 3rd person a guinea pig for a couple?????

They're being used to fulfill the couples fantasy?????"
the 3rd person is being used to fulfil the couples fantasy but the couple is being used ro fulfil the 3rd persons fantasy also so it is differant to what you are seeking. You also haven't said if you have a particular kind of woman you like (if any) so if you do meet a woman and have a bad experience you could of just been with the wrong type of woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You have a point, judging a bad experience will not hinder my request. One woman doesn't represent all women. She doesn't have to be in her 20's either. 30's or 40's is fine. I'm not looking to fall in love with a woman. So she does not need to be a model. A normal everyday real woman with curves need be is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another issue on here is woman ate looking for men with experience in making them weak kneed etc. I think you nay have to search long and hard to find someone willing to take you on the way you gave phrased it in your original and to a certain extent in later posts. If you approach it more as a quest for mutual fun you may find it easier.

I thought being open and honest and not be a typical straight bloke looking for his end would appeal to some woman. Imagine getting a man to do exactly what you want and how in bed without him thinking he already knows how to please a woman. Something most men think they do and conversations I've had with women, guys you're not as good as you think. lol"

Open and honest is appealing, it would be the curiosity factor that would put me off, as in the only reason you are meeting me is to pop your cherry is not very appealing. But I'm just one woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another issue on here is woman ate looking for men with experience in making them weak kneed etc. I think you nay have to search long and hard to find someone willing to take you on the way you gave phrased it in your original and to a certain extent in later posts. If you approach it more as a quest for mutual fun you may find it easier.

I thought being open and honest and not be a typical straight bloke looking for his end would appeal to some woman. Imagine getting a man to do exactly what you want and how in bed without him thinking he already knows how to please a woman. Something most men think they do and conversations I've had with women, guys you're not as good as you think. lol

Open and honest is appealing, it would be the curiosity factor that would put me off, as in the only reason you are meeting me is to pop your cherry is not very appealing. But I'm just one woman "

Honey my cherry was popped years ha ha

This is a fun request, I'm a quick learning and I don't stop til the other person is over satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another issue on here is woman ate looking for men with experience in making them weak kneed etc. I think you nay have to search long and hard to find someone willing to take you on the way you gave phrased it in your original and to a certain extent in later posts. If you approach it more as a quest for mutual fun you may find it easier.

I thought being open and honest and not be a typical straight bloke looking for his end would appeal to some woman. Imagine getting a man to do exactly what you want and how in bed without him thinking he already knows how to please a woman. Something most men think they do and conversations I've had with women, guys you're not as good as you think. lol

Open and honest is appealing, it would be the curiosity factor that would put me off, as in the only reason you are meeting me is to pop your cherry is not very appealing. But I'm just one woman

Honey my cherry was popped years ha ha

This is a fun request, I'm a quick learning and I don't stop til the other person is over satisfied. "

Lol that's a very bold claim

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

ok correct me if iam wrong all you are looking for is a women to have some sexual fun with........that is just what I was in search of when we started swinging over 2 years ago so I see nothing wrong with that....the only thing is and this is not ment to be rude if you find you are not attracted to women the equipment is just not going to work are you not a little concerned about that? mrs _avie t here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ok correct me if iam wrong all you are looking for is a women to have some sexual fun with........that is just what I was in search of when we started swinging over 2 years ago so I see nothing wrong with that....the only thing is and this is not ment to be rude if you find you are not attracted to women the equipment is just not going to work are you not a little concerned about that? mrs _avie t here"

This year I've been have been having dreams of a woman in bed with me and to me my sub conscious is telling me something. I've fallen asleep before with a guy recently and that moment of waking up my hand was down there on him and I knew I was expecting to feel less furniture and was ready to penetrate and then I fully woke up to find it's a cock and balls in the way lol

Seriously so I've decided it's time to do something about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's nothing wrong in exploring and trying out new things.

The only thing I think would be an issue is does a woman turn you on sexually?

Have you ever seen/talked to a lady and got hard?

If so then go for it and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will give it a lash, there's no harm being done either way. I've heard of a saying "a standing prick has no conscience" mine always works when aroused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will give it a lash, there's no harm being done either way. I've heard of a saying "a standing prick has no conscience" mine always works when aroused"

Ah but will a woman arouse you?

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I will give it a lash, there's no harm being done either way. I've heard of a saying "a standing prick has no conscience" mine always works when aroused

Ah but will a woman arouse you?"

that's just what I was getting at unlike us men cant really wing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will give it a lash, there's no harm being done either way. I've heard of a saying "a standing prick has no conscience" mine always works when aroused

Ah but will a woman arouse you?

that's just what I was getting at unlike us men cant really wing it"

Lmao no they can't

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"ok correct me if iam wrong all you are looking for is a women to have some sexual fun with........that is just what I was in search of when we started swinging over 2 years ago so I see nothing wrong with that....the only thing is and this is not ment to be rude if you find you are not attracted to women the equipment is just not going to work are you not a little concerned about that? mrs _avie t here

This year I've been have been having dreams of a woman in bed with me and to me my sub conscious is telling me something. I've fallen asleep before with a guy recently and that moment of waking up my hand was down there on him and I knew I was expecting to feel less furniture and was ready to penetrate and then I fully woke up to find it's a cock and balls in the way lol

Seriously so I've decided it's time to do something about it. "

Could you not just ask him to strap it up next time?

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