FabSwingers.com forum: What's a man got to do!?

By *S74 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm new to the scene, thus with no meet verifications!

Most women here are looking for an "experienced" man and this makes it much harder (not in the sense you're thinking about) for a newbie.

Question for men: how did you first start?

Question for women: would you meet a man with no verifications? (mind, I'll add you in my hotlist!

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gatsby74

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Well nice profile no cock pics

Well mannered I'm sure you will have the little green tick soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Via chattin on forums, i've got chattin to some of fab's lovely ladies, then you just have to go from tgere

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

And us ladies are lovely we are not dragons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And us ladies are lovely we are not dragons "

agreed

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

get chatting and from there try and get invited to party or meet and greet

good luck you seem like a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe stop looking at the profiles and message them might be a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe stop looking at the profiles and message them might be a start

and as a whole lotta love said, use the forums/chat room as well, messages can tend to be lost/ignored on here sometimes with the volume of messages the ladies have to deal with on a daily basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were all new on here as well at some stage and we wont bite you!

i am sure you will do fine on here!

best of luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....... and we wont bite you!

Unless you ask politely of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....... and we wont bite you!

Unless you ask politely of course

Sometimes not even then lol.

OP very nicely written profile. Maybe a few more body pics, men in a nice set of boxers always go down nicely

Otherwise join in chat and forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....... and we wont bite you!

Unless you ask politely of course

Sometimes not even then lol.

OP very nicely written profile. Maybe a few more body pics, men in a nice set of boxers always go down nicely

Otherwise join in chat and forums

note to self, upload new boxer pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....... and we wont bite you!

Unless you ask politely of course

Sometimes not even then lol.

OP very nicely written profile. Maybe a few more body pics, men in a nice set of boxers always go down nicely

Otherwise join in chat and forums

note to self, upload new boxer pics

you're not a proper fab man without a boxers shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm new to the scene, thus with no meet verifications!

Most women here are looking for an "experienced" man and this makes it much harder (not in the sense you're thinking about) for a newbie.

Question for men: how did you first start?

Question for women: would you meet a man with no verifications? (mind, I'll add you in my hotlist!

)

Regards,

gatsby74"

The fact that you can string a few words together without txt spk will put you head and shoulders above a few people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might I enquire how was it you managed to already have a couples profile on here if you havent actually met anyone ? (super sleuth at work )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this another chancer too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this another chancer too

I'm a chancer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah we all love u fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks busty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"might I enquire how was it you managed to already have a couples profile on here if you havent actually met anyone ? (super sleuth at work )

Love it!!!!

Detective Electricbluedream to the rescue!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"might I enquire how was it you managed to already have a couples profile on here if you havent actually met anyone ? (super sleuth at work )

Damn.

Rebuttal, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....... and we wont bite you!

Unless you ask politely of course

Sometimes not even then lol.

OP very nicely written profile. Maybe a few more body pics, men in a nice set of boxers always go down nicely

Otherwise join in chat and forums

note to self, upload new boxer pics

you're not a proper fab man without a boxers shot"

I have no boxer shot......you saying I'm not a "proper fab man"?..K

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"....... and we wont bite you!

Unless you ask politely of course

Sometimes not even then lol.

OP very nicely written profile. Maybe a few more body pics, men in a nice set of boxers always go down nicely

Otherwise join in chat and forums

note to self, upload new boxer pics

you're not a proper fab man without a boxers shot

I have no boxer shot......you saying I'm not a "proper fab man"?..K"

rather you without anyway k lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....... and we wont bite you!

Unless you ask politely of course

Sometimes not even then lol.

OP very nicely written profile. Maybe a few more body pics, men in a nice set of boxers always go down nicely

Otherwise join in chat and forums

note to self, upload new boxer pics

you're not a proper fab man without a boxers shot

I have no boxer shot......you saying I'm

not a "proper fab man"?..K"

doesn't that hmmm chafe or are you a budgey smuggler man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone starts at the beginning but it's important to remember that when you're comfortably verified by others. I've been reading some other topics and the amount of shunning done in new folk here is uncalled for.

There'll always be bad people about but there's a lot more good people in the world that's being treated as if they are messers or chancres. Would it hurt to get to know someone first before you close your opinionated door on them?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many people on this site quick to shoot down someone new. I find Dublin and people from down south a lot less arrogant and friendly compared too Belfast. It's like a secret society up here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....... and we wont bite you!

Unless you ask politely of course

Sometimes not even then lol.

OP very nicely written profile. Maybe a few more body pics, men in a nice set of boxers always go down nicely

Otherwise join in chat and forums

note to self, upload new boxer pics

you're not a proper fab man without a boxers shot

I have no boxer shot......you saying I'm not a "proper fab man"?..K

rather you without anyway k lol"

Lol....they never stay on long when you're around!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And us ladies are lovely we are not dragons "

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By *agiceyesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"And us ladies are lovely we are not dragons "

Ya just gotta slay them!!

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By *ateatnight1055Man
over a year ago

Ballybrit

"And us ladies are lovely we are not dragons

Gotta say! You are anyway.

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By *S74 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I wish to thank you all for your contributions, I must say I didn't actually expect that many active users in the forums!

I'll take the two main points you all seem to agree upon: be active in chat/forums and a boxer pic along with other pics.

I'll take it from there and see if there will be any improvements!

Thanks again!

Gatsby74

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"And us ladies are lovely we are not dragons

Gotta say! You are anyway. "
and why is that I have never spoken to you. So you don't know me and after that comment u won't either

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By *S74 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *S74 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"might I enquire how was it you managed to already have a couples profile on here if you havent actually met anyone ? (super sleuth at work )

Well spotted!

But beleive it or not I've nothing to hide!

Is that what we all say?!

We as partners have a couples profile, but for the begining we want to meet singularly. We've been trying to meet for a while using the couples profile, but while it wouldn't be a problem for her, turns out to be a major problem for me: many signle women (rightly so) do not want to meet with attached men and other couples would not meet as singles.

This is a _swingers_ site after all and not a _dating_ site! You may have your own sexual deviations, we have our own. We've been suggested to use seperate singles profiles, so took that suggestion and here we are now...

All three our accounts are photo verified and we can prove ourselves to anyone!

Oh, and I do stay away from profiles that state "no attached men" and if someone contacts me with such profile (as had hapenned), I would simply say that I'm not her type.

I hope I've answered your question in the most exhaustive manner but if you have further concerns, please let me know!

I apologise if the above sounds a bit like a rant, but it's unintentional, I just want to be clear.

Regards,

gatsby74

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a lotto lol, Ive been trying to meet for a while now, i think the attached bit on my profile a big turn off, but better to be honest and straight up, I'm holding out for a few more months then i'll call it a day

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By *S74 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Its a lotto lol, Ive been trying to meet for a while now, i think the attached bit on my profile a big turn off, but better to be honest and straight up, I'm holding out for a few more months then i'll call it a day

I know exactly how you feel! As a matter of fact we used to have an old profile a few months back, but we reached that stage and deleted everything.

Now we are trying again with a different approach... we'll see how it goes!

Regards,

gatsby74

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I don't get it why if ur a Cpl why have separate profiles ur saying u cant get a meet with ur Cpl profile ??

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By *S74 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Sorry I don't get it why if ur a Cpl why have separate profiles ur saying u cant get a meet with ur Cpl profile ??"

Well, let's put it this way: I tried but it has never happend! We are not looking for a ffm. Just plain vanilla one to one NSA. Maybe I never asked you!

The problem is on my side, she obviously has no problems getting a meet.

Furthermore with a couples profile I would read her messages and she would read mine, which is not really what we enjoy.

Regards,

gatsby74

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner and I used to have a cpl profile here a while back but as I'm straight it really wasn't what I wanted so we deleted it and set up single profiles. He gets to meet women and go to parties too which is what he likes while I get to meet guys on a one to one basis which is what I like

Hope it works out for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would start by not writing a letter everytime u post....!!!

regards

cat..!!!!!

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By *ete burnsMan
over a year ago

derry

"To many people on this site quick to shoot down someone new. I find Dublin and people from down south a lot less arrogant and friendly compared too Belfast. It's like a secret society up here lol. "

it is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on 2 weeks. I agree people will shoot you down very fast and its hard to get people to engage with you to see that your not like every other single guy out there. I was lucky enough to have a convo with a nice couple and we got along great and I'm now verified and all

Just send a mail to people if it says no single mails or your not listed as an interest don't bother at all. Have at least 3 lines in your mail ask how they are etc not I wanna fuck your wife

Finally don't be afraid to say no, I had a message jet there from a couple who asked twice where I'm from and then said to stop wasn't their time

. Also not all couples are attractive to everyone so define politely .

Best of luck, hope you find what your looking for

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By *S74 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"i would start by not writing a letter everytime u post....!!!

regards

cat..!!!!!"

You must like one liners!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i would start by not writing a letter everytime u post....!!!

regards

cat..!!!!!

You must like one liners!

lol"

yeah sorry bout that.hated all men yesterday...!!! but ya dont need to write an essay to get ur point across...!!

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By *S74 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"i would start by not writing a letter everytime u post....!!!

regards

cat..!!!!!

You must like one liners!

lol

yeah sorry bout that.hated all men yesterday...!!! but ya dont need to write an essay to get ur point across...!! "

Got your point too, no need to repeat yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i would start by not writing a letter everytime u post....!!!

regards

cat..!!!!!

You must like one liners!

lol

yeah sorry bout that.hated all men yesterday...!!! but ya dont need to write an essay to get ur point across...!!

Got your point too, no need to repeat yourself!

good stuff..!!!

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