FabSwingers.com forum: No Shows

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

How long he on site that is bloody wrong and good job u reporting him

His loss I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How long he on site that is bloody wrong and good job u reporting him

His loss I'm sure "

over a year and meet verified

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

One word twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens to him for not showing up?? i mean off the mods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

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maybe he is married and got caught or maybe something very important came up!7

I ask if it was a woman that didn't show would you not be saying it was her choice and maybe she had things to do our all sorts of excuses like she taught of her safety and this and that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What happens to him for not showing up?? i mean off the mods"

I've no idea but the option is there under report

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

maybe he is married and got caught or maybe something very important came up!7

I ask if it was a woman that didn't show would you not be saying it was her choice and maybe she had things to do our all sorts of excuses like she taught of her safety and this and that"

if a woman pulled a no show on me i would be calling her a time waster too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a total twat .. His loss babe

Before I meet now I mail the people on the verifications list just to make sure I'm not meeting a nutter.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

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should if contacted and said whatever the reason was.

Manners at the end of the day it costs nothing to give a reason as to why he could not met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

so he didnt show up,then left the site and then you reported him?was that in case he ever tried to join the site again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

When I was meeting yes I did report then for not showing, though on reflection not sure what exactly if any benefitsthere was to this

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By *oulbotMan
over a year ago

I have had 3 no shows in one month from ladies of the site. No, they did not come in saw me and left as I knew what they looked like before arranging the meet. It seems to happen often. More and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

Yes, I would. Everyone is entitled to change their minds/have an emergency arise etc. But to not contact you either prior or post meet time just shows how mannerless this guy was. His loss anyway.

Candy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the guy could rejoin as someone else and if u suss out that he is back then i would report him again to admin for what he did.

male or female or a couple,,,they should be reported unless there is absolute proof that they had a genuine excuse for no show.

it is not on to wind people up and as u went to the trouble of meeting him he should have had the manners to contact you.

You could have had a lucky escape there.

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By *agiceyesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

Happend 3 times to me one was verified and a regular. What's the point in telling on them?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

I would if I had it happen

Happend 3 times to me one was verified and a regular. What's the point in telling on them?"

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By *rank69redMan
over a year ago

Galway

No excuse for a no show. Sorry I changed my mind by phone is enough. At least u didn't miss much if he's like that he clearly has no balls so you would not have much of a time. Same for women never been stood up but wouldn't like it. You should at least show and if no spark good and well but no answer for rudeness

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

He must be mad....or sad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

did u go to meet him and he didnt show?asshole!!il be fuming!!

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By *oulbotMan
over a year ago

Ladies. Girls are doing no shows as well.!!! I did not report anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really sorry this has happened to you....there is no excuse for not getting in touch to at least apologise for putting you out!!!

As someone said earlier it's bad form and so rude wherher it be man, woman or couple who would treat another Fab member in this manner.

You did right to report x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you need someone more local ruby!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies. Girls are doing no shows as well.!!! I did not report anyone. "

my op wasn't a rant at MEN doing no shows. it just happened to be a man that didn't show up. it was about no shows in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get loads..but think I've honed the skills a bit..but when it happened me I'm fairly certain the people in question were serial timewasters and just let them drift..never crossed my mind to report them...just moved on. Think its an old debate that has no answer I'm afraid

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By *heButterflyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wicklow

You poor thing! His loss!

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By *ansa87Couple
over a year ago

louthish

Wow what a twat. There is no excuse for not having good manners and ccontacting you if there was a genuine reason .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a no show from a woman who agreed to meet only a few hours previous and after I agreed to foot the hotel bill as she said she couldn't afford 20 euros (halves)!!!!!She texted at 9pm to cancel-the time she should have been arriving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so what happens when you report him for missing a meet?? or did anything happen? is his profile still on the site??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them.......it's quicker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just block them.......it's quicker

That doesn't help other site users from being stung though does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just block them.......it's quicker

That doesn't help other site users from being stung though does it."

sorry, private joke.......

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Sadly no shows are just part of this big mixed up world we call swinging.

I have been no showed by girls and couples on a number of occasions, but you make a note of it and move on. Some have the manners to contact you and say sorry, most dont bother or vanish for a while.

It's a pain in the ass but sadly its life.

Some people are just not what they say they are.

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"What a total twat .. His loss babe

Before I meet now I mail the people on the verifications list just to make sure I'm not meeting a nutter. "

Good thinking sexy eyes

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Don't worry this isn't a ranting thread...

So I had a no show yesterday morning and now he's disappeared off the site.

From reading the forums and talking to people this seems to be quite common.

I reported him for arranging a meet and not showing up.

Do others do this or not?

His sad loss missing out of some quality time with who i know to be a very beautiful lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jaz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shows will always be a part of life however if you can arrange a meet then you should also cancel if you cant make it...

in theory there should be no no shows just reschedules or cancellations - that's fair for everyone me thinks.

Anyway i drove through ice and snow this morning to meet a feisty lady from here and i have to say it was so worth it.

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