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How long would u wait for your meet to turn up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering how long would u wait for your meet to turn up if u had it set for let's say 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

half an hour tops . Did you have any contact in the run up to meeting today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 mins max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"half an hour tops . Did you have any contact in the run up to meeting today? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No just said a time and place that was it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And I gave her my number too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say forget it she not turning up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half an hour..no call or text..no reason to hang around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I gave her my number too "
we'll politeness would be they text you if running late .i wouldn't wait anymore than 30 mins .poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like youve been punked ! thats unfortunate , but you will learn after a while to spot the signs that a meet has no intention of turning up , ie ... all talk and then silence on the day of the meet , reluctance to make contact on the day etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like why be on the site then like do they no it not funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And come to think of it she was not on site all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope u didnt travel to far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sounds like youve been punked ! thats unfortunate , but you will learn after a while to spot the signs that a meet has no intention of turning up , ie ... all talk and then silence on the day of the meet , reluctance to make contact on the day etc "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a pint and pull some lady at the bar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

About 40 miles I think I'll be naming the person too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sounds like youve been punked ! thats unfortunate , but you will learn after a while to spot the signs that a meet has no intention of turning up , ie ... all talk and then silence on the day of the meet , reluctance to make contact on the day etc "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

10 more min and I'll be gone poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww thats terrible..xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I no I heading now I'll let ye no in a while who it was ok thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half an hour..no call or text..no reason to hang around "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if no contact before meet then 20 mins then i go to plan B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck that I text a min before the meet if no answer I simply vanish into the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck that I text a min before the meet if no answer I simply vanish into the crowd "
and if they were driving or didnt hear their phone or smt???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would want to hear from them at least once on the day of the meet to confirm it was still happening, no way I would just arrange then not follow up to check it was still on, making a journey on the assumption they will be there.

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By *lwaysforfunMan
over a year ago

Swingerstown

They're should be contact on the day of the meet and even as the time gets closer.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

30 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting anyone at all, i text as im getting out of the shower and about to get ready to say:

"Leaving now". If they aint replied by the time im about to go out the door i just dont bother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck that I text a min before the meet if no answer I simply vanish into the crowd and if they were driving or didnt hear their phone or smt??? "

If there still driving a min before the meet then that haven't done the 6 ps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck that I text a min before the meet if no answer I simply vanish into the crowd and if they were driving or didnt hear their phone or smt???

If there still driving a min before the meet then that haven't done the 6 ps "

oh god do i want to know the 6 p's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck that I text a min before the meet if no answer I simply vanish into the crowd and if they were driving or didnt hear their phone or smt???

If there still driving a min before the meet then that haven't done the 6 ps "

it has often happened me that a minute before im stuck in a hotel underground carpark with feck all signal on my phone , im generally a good timekeeper , but occasionally some doddery old dear with all the time in the world has been in front of me for 10 mins or etc etc , I would be fairly peeved if a meet wouldnt hang on a couple of mins for me in honesty !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck that I text a min before the meet if no answer I simply vanish into the crowd and if they were driving or didnt hear their phone or smt???

If there still driving a min before the meet then that haven't done the 6 ps

oh god do i want to know the 6 p's "

Yep you do.

Planning preperation prevent piss poor performance.

Now planning and preperation helps prevent a piss poor performance.

The 6 ps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck that I text a min before the meet if no answer I simply vanish into the crowd and if they were driving or didnt hear their phone or smt???

If there still driving a min before the meet then that haven't done the 6 ps

it has often happened me that a minute before im

stuck in a hotel underground carpark with feck all signal on my phone , im generally a good timekeeper , but occasionally some doddery old dear with all the time in the world has been in front of me for 10 mins or etc etc , I would be fairly peeved if a meet wouldnt hang on a couple of mins for me in honesty ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck that I text a min before the meet if no answer I simply vanish into the crowd and if they were driving or didnt hear their phone or smt???

If there still driving a min before the meet then that haven't done the 6 ps

it has often happened me that a minute before im stuck in a hotel underground carpark with feck all signal on my phone , im generally a good timekeeper , but occasionally some doddery old dear with all the time in the world has been in front of me for 10 mins or etc etc , I would be fairly peeved if a meet wouldnt hang on a couple of mins for me in honesty ! "

The 6 ps for you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck that I text a min before the meet if no answer I simply vanish into the crowd and if they were driving or didnt hear their phone or smt???

If there still driving a min before the meet then that haven't done the 6 ps

oh god do i want to know the 6 p's

Yep you do.

Planning preperation prevent piss poor performance.

Now planning and preperation helps prevent a piss poor performance.

The 6 ps "

lol good to know..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if no contact before meet then 20 mins then i go to plan B "

what is plan B?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planning preperation prevent piss poor performance.

Now planning and preperation helps prevent a piss poor performance.

The 6 ps "

Forums are very educational

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if no contact before meet then 20 mins then i go to plan B

what is plan B?"
find another meet .lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their loss is always someone else's gain. Move on ... Plenty more fish in sea !!!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Always text before a meet and if i have to travel a few texts on the journey to build up a little excitement works wonders and if there's no reply i just slide on by

as said earlier if they are not going to show there's usually no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if no contact before meet then 20 mins then i go to plan B "

Always have a plan B

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

All very good advice but not always as straight forward . I've have many different versions of all this advice , some show and some don't . You just have to be grateful to the people who do show . Once you get know know a few genuine people , it's best to have repeat meets rather than continually looking for new ones .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 mins if they havent got in contact as everyone runs late sometimes but with exp u can spot the wannabes a mile off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 days lol if your luck is as bad as mine when it comes to meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 mins tops!!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"20 mins tops!!!!"

Aww.. I'd wait longer for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 mins tops!!!!

Aww.. I'd wait longer for some people "

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"20 mins tops!!!!"

Im still waitin on classy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 mins tops!!!!

Im still waitin on classy lady"

how long wud u be prepared to wait?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"20 mins tops!!!!

Im still waitin on classy lady

how long wud u be prepared to wait? "

Ull see

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Have waited years to meet some people ...lol.

I always make contact with the person the morning before we meet just to make sure all is still ok for later on.

I have waited for up to an hour for someone as they text they where running late, but i have usually had a good line of communication with someone for a little while before we get to the face to face meeting and even then i only have a coffee meet with someone first.

You have to get a feel for the person and what they are looking for and can usually see who the genuine ones are and the ones that will mess you around in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sounds like youve been punked ! thats unfortunate , but you will learn after a while to spot the signs that a meet has no intention of turning up , ie ... all talk and then silence on the day of the meet , reluctance to make contact on the day etc "

this

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By *oulbotMan
over a year ago

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30 min

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By *agiceyesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

15/20 min but if the text to say I'm delayed I would hang on. It's all about being courteous. Would you leave your best mate waiting and not contact ?

If you can't meet at least let person know day before or ASAP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15mins and I always text asap if I cant make it or if I am running late just pure rude leaving a person waiting

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Waiting around , wasting precious time is annoying People should leave extra time for their journey to a pre-planned meet , get directions before hand , phone fully charged , keep in touch on the day , builds up the sexual tension , let meet know they are on their way . Speak briefly on the phone to confirm details of the type of meet. Be courteous if there's any delays , traffic or parking problems a text is suffice to let meetee know you are not going to stand them up .

It's a pet hate of mine . Must be because of my job .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

longest id wait wud be half an hour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"longest id wait wud be half an hour!"
same here...half hour max

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

A couple of days perhaps, once you've come prepared... Night sight binoculars, camouflage gear,listening equipment, soup, sandwiches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the size of the trap really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30min max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how long would u wait for your meet to turn up if u had it set for let's say 10 "
a sure if it was in my own house id prob wait for the nite......

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By *arveygirthycockMan
over a year ago

town

Been there got the t shirt... Twice!! No shows, boils your blood. Just say you can't make it, just say you bottled it, just say you changed your mind..

Still as previously touched on, learn from it. I for one never ever ever do late night meets anymore.

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