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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seen this being discussed on another thread and it got me thinking...

Would you be put off contacting/meeting someone who has lots of verifications?

Me personally, yes. If I look at a guys profile and he has lots of veris in a short space of time i wouldn't contact him.

What about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hold on a sec,isnt this meant to be a sex site ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hold on a sec,isnt this meant to be a sex site ???"

A swingers site, yes!

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Why wouldn't you contact him or her ?

He'/ she is one of the genuine experienced guys / women / couples who doesn't let people down and also the verifications might not have been on the day/date they were posted . Do be too hasty to judge them for being popular . If it's safe/ safer sex you are worried about , this type is more likely to be aware of the importance of looking after their own sexual health .

Re-think profiles with plenty of verifications are more likely to be genuine than fake or time wasters .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all might be ppl having sex sum could be coffee meets

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

I know what you mean...like a guy to be verified but don't want to feel like you're any port in a storm either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hold on a sec,isnt this meant to be a sex site ???

A swingers site, yes! "

More is definately a positive thing but I have to say I make a call on the quality of the verification. Ie who they met !!

I would never meet singles who has bare back pics ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what you mean...like a guy to be verified but don't want to feel like you're any port in a storm either "

How verified does the guy have to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess I'd just be totally put off by a guy who seems to have fucked half the site. Just my opinion though!

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim


"I know what you mean...like a guy to be verified but don't want to feel like you're any port in a storm either

How verified does the guy have to be "

Lol I'd like to know more than he drinks coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about people with none!!!!

Would you want to be the first to meet someone if that's the case or is it no verification no way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim


"What about people with none!!!!

Would you want to be the first to meet someone if that's the case or is it no verification no way?

"

Prefer verification that way I can at least be sure he's gonna turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what you mean...like a guy to be verified but don't want to feel like you're any port in a storm either

How verified does the guy have to be

Lol I'd like to know more than he drinks coffee "

I dont like coffee, I only drink tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about people with none!!!!

Would you want to be the first to meet someone if that's the case or is it no verification no way?

Prefer verification that way I can at least be sure he's gonna turn up "

You can only be sure he turned up somewhere else! He might or might not turn up to the next one,

(Though I'm sure he would be stupid or dead to not turn up if you did arrange a meet with fictional him)

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim


"What about people with none!!!!

Would you want to be the first to meet someone if that's the case or is it no verification no way?

Prefer verification that way I can at least be sure he's gonna turn up

You can only be sure he turned up somewhere else! He might or might not turn up to the next one,

(Though I'm sure he would be stupid or dead to not turn up if you did arrange a meet with fictional him) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure people can pick and choose to show some and hide others , they may only be showing a few but have hundreds hidden the filthy feckers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i actually get very nervous when i see lots of veris coz i feel like i wouldnt be as "experienced" as their previous meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i actually get very nervous when i see lots of veris coz i feel like i wouldnt be as "experienced" as their previous meets... "

I would definitely agree with you there, it can be a bit intimidating!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

So how many is too many ladies? I have to kno when to stop showing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant u still see now but u just dont know who the person is

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By *oxysCouple
over a year ago

c


"i actually get very nervous when i see lots of veris coz i feel like i wouldnt be as "experienced" as their previous meets...

I would definitely agree with you there, it can be a bit intimidating!"
yip I'm the same as, it would definitely put me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i actually get very nervous when i see lots of veris coz i feel like i wouldnt be as "experienced" as their previous meets...

I would definitely agree with you there, it can be a bit intimidating!"

Most definitely agree with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many is too many ladies? I have to kno when to stop showing them"

its hard to put a number on it hal but its just that i find it a bit off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its fair to judge someone on the amount of people they have met on a swingers site.

Someone could show 2 yet have met 50 and you wouldnt know.

To me it just shows that they are having the fun they joined up for.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I have veries from people I have meet through meet and greets etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have veries from people I have meet through meet and greets etc .

"

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

Not all veries mean you've had sex a lot of ours are from party meets where we have met but not played with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not judging the person themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know it's not the guy's second or third profile on here or they are not on other swinging sites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well how would ya know....ya wouldnt unless they said it..!!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"i actually get very nervous when i see lots of veris coz i feel like i wouldnt be as "experienced" as their previous meets...

I would definitely agree with you there, it can be a bit intimidating!"

I think we all remember what it was like when we first started so even the most 'experienced' of us can surely remember that. I know i can anyway and always consider that when with a so called newbie, I don't think about it too long though as I prefer to focus on the fun! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like to get verified. But so far have been only asked out by a man and I'm not gay. Thanks D but no .

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Are people getting confused to why we verify others ??

To verify as "genuine " anything else is between the meetees.

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what you mean...like a guy to be verified but don't want to feel like you're any port in a storm either

How verified does the guy have to be

Lol I'd like to know more than he drinks coffee

I dont like coffee, I only drink tea "

and scones with cream..mmmmm

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like to get verified. But so far have been only asked out by a man and I'm not gay. Thanks D but no ."

ah seriously look at ur pics...lol i can see why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"I dont think its fair to judge someone on the amount of people they have met on a swingers site.

Someone could show 2 yet have met 50 and you wouldnt know.

To me it just shows that they are having the fun they joined up for."

Exactly....it's why we are all here.....fcuking fun lol !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!"

im too locked to understand that level of conversation

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!"

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

"

Veris with some detail are important.esp when its cpls lookin for a single guy.u need to kno hes done it before and is able for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

Veris with some detail are important.esp when its cpls lookin for a single guy.u need to kno hes done it before and is able for it"

Though you don't need the explicit details, or rather I don't

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

Veris with some detail are important.esp when its cpls lookin for a single guy.u need to kno hes done it before and is able for it

Though you don't need the explicit details, or rather I don't"

Some r bit much alrite but better than a vague veri like he showed up n smelled nice.u need some detail

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

Veris with some detail are important.esp when its cpls lookin for a single guy.u need to kno hes done it before and is able for it

Though you don't need the explicit details, or rather I don't

Some r bit much alrite but better than a vague veri like he showed up n smelled nice.u need some detail"

yes but the explicit details are best left to the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

Veris with some detail are important.esp when its cpls lookin for a single guy.u need to kno hes done it before and is able for it

Though you don't need the explicit details, or rather I don't

Some r bit much alrite but better than a vague veri like he showed up n smelled nice.u need some detail"

actually that is all I need to know, that he does turn up and is clean. Mainly cos everyone likes different things

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

Veris with some detail are important.esp when its cpls lookin for a single guy.u need to kno hes done it before and is able for it

Though you don't need the explicit details, or rather I don't

Some r bit much alrite but better than a vague veri like he showed up n smelled nice.u need some detail

actually that is all I need to know, that he does turn up and is clean. Mainly cos everyone likes different things

"

I said its more important for cpls lookin for guys to get some detail.not every guy can walk in n perform on que

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

Totally agree that its worth opening some books to see what is said...we always look at who they have met..the dates..& most importantly what is said about the person/people!!! If u r a genuine person the amount of veris does not matter..we all had to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't please you feekers!!!!!... Won't meet because of no verifications and won't meet because of too many verifications.

It's a swing site your supposed to meet!!!!!....some of the verifications are from social events and you can receive 2/3 in the one night.

I read more into the quality of the meets rather than the quantity !!!!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Can't please you feekers!!!!!... Won't meet because of no verifications and won't meet because of too many verifications.

It's a swing site your supposed to meet!!!!!....some of the verifications are from social events and you can receive 2/3 in the one night.

I read more into the quality of the meets rather than the quantity !!!!"

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down


"Can't please you feekers!!!!!... Won't meet because of no verifications and won't meet because of too many verifications.

It's a swing site your supposed to meet!!!!!....some of the verifications are from social events and you can receive 2/3 in the one night.

I read more into the quality of the meets rather than the quantity !!!!

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Can't please you feekers!!!!!... Won't meet because of no verifications and won't meet because of too many verifications.

It's a swing site your supposed to meet!!!!!....some of the verifications are from social events and you can receive 2/3 in the one night.

I read more into the quality of the meets rather than the quantity !!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't please you feekers!!!!!... Won't meet because of no verifications and won't meet because of too many verifications.

It's a swing site your supposed to meet!!!!!....some of the verifications are from social events and you can receive 2/3 in the one night.

I read more into the quality of the meets rather than the quantity !!!!

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

Veris with some detail are important.esp when its cpls lookin for a single guy.u need to kno hes done it before and is able for it

Though you don't need the explicit details, or rather I don't

Some r bit much alrite but better than a vague veri like he showed up n smelled nice.u need some detail

yes but the explicit details are best left to the imagination "

I agree I don't display verifications if they are too explicit no matter how good the meet is...recently had a guy openly discuss my naughtiness at a party and chat and it put ne right off him

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"This is stupid..I worry about people sometimes, too much and u wont meet, not enough and you're worried...the silly thing us any of us can choose not to show our veri summary and cherry pick which ones we put up...why don't u just chat the people and see if u get on rather than judging the book by the preverbial cover....how many times have I read that everyone feels a good personality is the most important thing....yeah right!!!!

Veris with some detail are important.esp when its cpls lookin for a single guy.u need to kno hes done it before and is able for it

Though you don't need the explicit details, or rather I don't

Some r bit much alrite but better than a vague veri like he showed up n smelled nice.u need some detail

actually that is all I need to know, that he does turn up and is clean. Mainly cos everyone likes different things

I said its more important for cpls lookin for guys to get some detail.not every guy can walk in n perform on que"

Well said! An important detail for couples to know alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess I'd just be totally put off by a guy who seems to have fucked half the site. Just my opinion though!"

i wudnt be put off by how many ppl he met,but i wud be put off if sum of them were mingers! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But we would hope there was quality mixed in with quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many notches on a post not a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many notches on a post not a good thing "

True, true, too many notches could make the post weak.

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