FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications not displayed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If the verification system obviously does what it says and with so many time wasters on here why do people decide not to show verifications on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number of reasons, they don't like what was written(at least one of mines is what I consider too explicit), the person has left the site, they don't want their meets being stalked(I know of this happening at least twice) or plain and simple they don't think it's anyones business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a good meet with someone... but id rather keep it private! is that good or bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A number of reasons, they don't like what was written(at least one of mines is what I consider too explicit), the person has left the site, they don't want their meets being stalked(I know of this happening at least twice) or plain and simple they don't think it's anyones business"

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By *araMan
over a year ago

Dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

You get slated for having to many even if some are just coffee meets and if you don't show them how do people gauge you.

Difficult one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had a good meet with someone... but id rather keep it private! is that good or bad?"
agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much what Sofia has said. Sometimes i hide them all..some have left...some are repeat veris...some go into wayyy to much detail.

Its been discussed before on the feedback forum the possibility of a different coloured tick if verified by webcam only, which i think is a good idea.

It really shouldnt matter about numbers as it's a swing site..but it seems to be an issue with some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show mine when I'm actively looking for a meet, rest of the time I just have the summary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would show mine but it reads like 50 shades of rainbow and I would have every lady, man, couple and the odd goat on here sending me messages. Some things are best left private lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind people hiding multiple verifications(they can't all be bad!!)

What gets me, is a 3 hour old profile, that's got a single hidden verification.

That happens a lot lately and has the stench of a fake profile about it....so many fake profiles, it's unreal at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree with all that's been said and respect everyone's right to display or not display. Wouldn't judge anyone either way. However it's one of the best ways on the site to demonstrate that you are genuine. Maybe if there was a system for the verifications to be sent to others on request similar to the 'friends' photos would that help. Frustrating when people contact you looking meets and you don't know if they are genuine swingers or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With me Im too tied up in uni to meet plus I dont possess a pc or laptop as of yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..... to be verified genuine on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With me Im too tied up in uni to meet plus I dont possess a pc or laptop as of yet

That's a cracker.....bet your mobile is broken too, so you can't chat on the phone? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the summary ... Had one woman meet every single guy off my verfications list .... I find that hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With me Im too tied up in uni to meet plus I dont possess a pc or laptop as of yet

That's a cracker.....bet your mobile is broken too, so you can't chat on the phone? lol"
Its genuine otherwise y would I bother telling ye otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With me Im too tied up in uni to meet plus I dont possess a pc or laptop as of yet

That's a cracker.....bet your mobile is broken too, so you can't chat on the phone? lol Its genuine otherwise y would I bother telling ye otherwise "

Crack on then.....fill your boots!!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

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Is the verification summary not enough it states how many cam and meets with m,f,Cpl. Verifications are an opinion of someone u have met or cammed with not every ones opinion is going to be the same i thing the veri summary was brought in to try and deal with this by showing at a glance that yes u have met with peeps or u have only cammed u can always ask to see veris if it gets to a stage where u are going to meet and again that's only my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been accused of having "too many " veris, so I must be easy!

I have hosted loads of parties and attended a few too and lots are for that. I found it funny that there can be a "too many" number on a swinger site.

I've more recent veris on show as I've been here a while, no need to show all in my humble opinion.

As for the few hours old hidden veri profiles.. Use your common sense. If it looks too good to be true, it's probably a guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is the verification summary not enough it states how many cam and meets with m,f,Cpl. Verifications are an opinion of someone u have met or cammed with not every ones opinion is going to be the same i thing the veri summary was brought in to try and deal with this by showing at a glance that yes u have met with peeps or u have only cammed u can always ask to see veris if it gets to a stage where u are going to meet and again that's only my opinion"

yep its easy to display veris if asked and then take them down again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer the summary ... Had one woman meet every single guy off my verfications list .... I find that hilarious "

lol stalked much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind people hiding multiple verifications(they can't all be bad!!)

What gets me, is a 3 hour old profile, that's got a single hidden verification.

That happens a lot lately and has the stench of a fake profile about it....so many fake profiles, it's unreal at the moment

A couple of years ago I took a break and deleted my profile. When I came back I was verified within an hr from someone I had met before. I don't show my verifications and now make a point of telling meets I don't want one and unless the person isn't verified I don't give them. For me I don't understand how some people can really on what another person has said about someone before deciding to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure how i feel about verifications tbh.

nice to see a few so you can tell if profile is fake or not.

many of ours were from a meet and greet and we didnt play.

And we have still been accussed of being a 'fake couple' even though our verifications surely prove otherwise but heyho we're not gonna worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not sure how i feel about verifications tbh.

nice to see a few so you can tell if profile is fake or not.

many of ours were from a meet and greet and we didnt play.

And we have still been accussed of being a 'fake couple' even though our verifications surely prove otherwise but heyho we're not gonna worry.

Yes, if people accuse you of being fake even when you are well verified, then they are quite clearly crazy and best avoided at all costs anyway lol

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