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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find fab can be cliquey sometimes? Whether it be the party's or chat rooms. Please give me your view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is but I think its a case of people trusting and being friendly with familiar faces .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is a big issue on here , with all the fakers , weirdos and psychos it is more appealing to converse with someone who you feel you can trust. Getting to know people on fab takes time, best advice is use chat and forums, don't be afraid to jump in. I am in chat and I am a pretty friendly person I would say, but if people come in and start acting the wab or whinging about not getting meets I usually just ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust is a big issue on here , with all the fakers , weirdos and psychos it is more appealing to converse with someone who you feel you can trust. Getting to know people on fab takes time, best advice is use chat and forums, don't be afraid to jump in. I am in chat and I am a pretty friendly person I would say, but if people come in and start acting the wab or whinging about not getting meets I usually just ignore. "

here here

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What's a wab?

I take it it's not a good thing?

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

have no issues on the party front once ppl know ur genuine and not a fake profile this can be achived by a chat on the phone,in the chat rooms i think you need to go on cam to prove that it is the female that is chatting cause most women dont want to chat to just the male half of a cpl other then that i think its a very balanced place most ppl on just want to have some fun, but a word of advice to op in chat please dont offer to show ur cock we gals just dont like that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust is a big issue on here , with all the fakers , weirdos and psychos it is more appealing to converse with someone who you feel you can trust. Getting to know people on fab takes time, best advice is use chat and forums, don't be afraid to jump in. I am in chat and I am a pretty friendly person I would say, but if people come in and start acting the wab or whinging about not getting meets I usually just ignore. "

very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the words of Rita and Sue "get stuck in"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is hard tho coz u feel like ur butting in on a conversation but its a public forum so anything goes.....i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust is a big issue on here , with all the fakers , weirdos and psychos it is more appealing to converse with someone who you feel you can trust. Getting to know people on fab takes time, best advice is use chat and forums, don't be afraid to jump in. I am in chat and I am a pretty friendly person I would say, but if people come in and start acting the wab or whinging about not getting meets I usually just ignore. "

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"it is hard tho coz u feel like ur butting in on a conversation but its a public forum so anything goes.....i think "
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Exactly .....but as a single fella I do feel it is rather clique at times , yes I understand the trust issue , but how do you gain trust when certain people don't let you talk to them !!!!!! Lol

It's like a team of bouncers on the doors of certain Belfast venues " sorry lads , not tonight "..........without the sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is hard tho coz u feel like ur butting in on a conversation but its a public forum so anything goes.....i think .

Exactly .....but as a single fella I do feel it is rather clique at times , yes I understand the trust issue , but how do you gain trust when certain people don't let you talk to them !!!!!! Lol

It's like a team of bouncers on the doors of certain Belfast venues " sorry lads , not tonight "..........without the sorry "

We wouldn't think it's like that at all try attend some parties and get chatting its a great way to show your genuine. Face to face chatting makes all the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is hard tho coz u feel like ur butting in on a conversation but its a public forum so anything goes.....i think .

Exactly .....but as a single fella I do feel it is rather clique at times , yes I understand the trust issue , but how do you gain trust when certain people don't let you talk to them !!!!!! Lol

It's like a team of bouncers on the doors of certain Belfast venues " sorry lads , not tonight "..........without the sorry "

Is it really as bad as that? The way I see it is, you need to be able to have banter on here, not just sit and drool over cams saying the same old lines over and over, not saying you do, dont know ya, but if you can have the banter and not take this all so seriously, people will remember that and you will find yourself having more success. This is just my personal experience having been on here for some time. Maybe its completely wrong but I think if you are trying to meet people using this site, a lot of them cant meet on the spot so they have time to build up rapport with people first then can decide when they do have free time who they would like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is hard tho coz u feel like ur butting in on a conversation but its a public forum so anything goes.....i think .

Exactly .....but as a single fella I do feel it is rather clique at times , yes I understand the trust issue , but how do you gain trust when certain people don't let you talk to them !!!!!! Lol

It's like a team of bouncers on the doors of certain Belfast venues " sorry lads , not tonight "..........without the sorry

Is it really as bad as that? The way I see it is, you need to be able to have banter on here, not just sit and drool over cams saying the same old lines over and over, not saying you do, dont know ya, but if you can have the banter and not take this all so seriously, people will remember that and you will find yourself having more success. This is just my personal experience having been on here for some time. Maybe its completely wrong but I think if you are trying to meet people using this site, a lot of them cant meet on the spot so they have time to build up rapport with people first then can decide when they do have free time who they would like to meet. "

Well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is hard tho coz u feel like ur butting in on a conversation but its a public forum so anything goes.....i think .

Exactly .....but as a single fella I do feel it is rather clique at times , yes I understand the trust issue , but how do you gain trust when certain people don't let you talk to them !!!!!! Lol

It's like a team of bouncers on the doors of certain Belfast venues " sorry lads , not tonight "..........without the sorry

We wouldn't think it's like that at all try attend some parties and get chatting its a great way to show your genuine. Face to face chatting makes all the difference "

I can understand where the OP is coming from but you need to get in involved in the forums or in the chatrooms, show your sense of humour and have a laugh on here, people will get to know you and when you message them they will recognise you, just dont go down the 'fancy a shag' route but talk about a post they have started or a comment they have made in a thread and follow up attending a social etc ....most people on the forums enjoy the social site of the site and are looking for the banter

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

At times it can feel as bad as that but ain't life

Iike that at times too lol .

I've not engaged as much in the forums as I'd like purely because my wifi and coverage is shit , I'm sat in Dunsilly hotel carpark ATM ,piggy backing theirs lol . Also I'm not into this confrontation stuff , prefer the loving not the war so we should just park this Pixie and learn a little from each other

Now where did I put thon fishing rod o/'''.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Pixie referring to me? I don't see how answering a question id being confrontational, jeez you men are very sensitive today! lmao

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Is Pixie referring to me? I don't see how answering a question id being confrontational, jeez you men are very sensitive today! lmao"

It's the change of washing powder ...I should've stuck to Daz lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Who the feck is Pixie?

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Who the feck is Pixie? "

Artistic license....roll with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is but I think its a case of people trusting and being friendly with familiar faces ."

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Who the feck is Pixie?

Artistic license....roll with it "

I'm having difficulty keeping up today. It's all happening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who the feck is Pixie?

Artistic license....roll with it

I'm having difficulty keeping up today. It's all happening! "

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry


"it is hard tho coz u feel like ur butting in on a conversation but its a public forum so anything goes.....i think .

Exactly .....but as a single fella I do feel it is rather clique at times , yes I understand the trust issue , but how do you gain trust when certain people don't let you talk to them !!!!!! Lol

It's like a team of bouncers on the doors of certain Belfast venues " sorry lads , not tonight "..........without the sorry

Is it really as bad as that? The way I see it is, you need to be able to have banter on here, not just sit and drool over cams saying the same old lines over and over, not saying you do, dont know ya, but if you can have the banter and not take this all so seriously, people will remember that and you will find yourself having more success. This is just my personal experience having been on here for some time. Maybe its completely wrong but I think if you are trying to meet people using this site, a lot of them cant meet on the spot so they have time to build up rapport with people first then can decide when they do have free time who they would like to meet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a wab?

I take it it's not a good thing? "

I think a wab is a wanker and bastardo all rolled into one.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"What's a wab?

I take it it's not a good thing?

I think a wab is a wanker and bastardo all rolled into one. "

Thank you, my hairy arsed biker friend. I feel enlightened!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a wab?

I take it it's not a good thing?

I think a wab is a wanker and bastardo all rolled into one.

Thank you, my hairy arsed biker friend. I feel enlightened! "

Big admirer of your dancing on strictly biker.. Keep up the training

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a wab?

I take it it's not a good thing?

I think a wab is a wanker and bastardo all rolled into one.

Thank you, my hairy arsed biker friend. I feel enlightened!

Big admirer of your dancing on strictly biker.. Keep up the training "

Speaking of dancing what happened to the white pant dance off. As for strictly I have a hot wee thing to throw around the dance floor. It's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a wab?

I take it it's not a good thing?

I think a wab is a wanker and bastardo all rolled into one.

Thank you, my hairy arsed biker friend. I feel enlightened!

Big admirer of your dancing on strictly biker.. Keep up the training

Speaking of dancing what happened to the white pant dance off. As for strictly I have a hot wee thing to throw around the dance floor. It's great "

Cancelled due to lack of interest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its clique

its just the people have been on here a while and chat and it may seem that way.

its like when you start in a new job takes you a While to find your feet

hang in and chat

rome wasnt built in a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its clique

its just the people have been on here a while and chat and it may seem that way.

its like when you start in a new job takes you a While to find your feet

hang in and chat

rome wasnt built in a day

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone had to start somewhere when new. I have just been in the chat room two or three times. I wasn't quite sure what was going on or what to do as all I could see were dozens of messages flying up one after the other.is this everyone chatting together and can anyone join in? Anyone care to explain? I am quite new.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I have to agree to a newbie or some one that doesn't engage in either chat or fourms it may seem clique like but we all started and had to earn each others trust most would have a fair idea of how others that are regular contributors to either chat or fourms will take a comment after a while if some one abuses or takes a set on one of the regular contributors most will stand up for them due to the link they have built up over a period of time this may seem like a clique to others but its really friend ship and trust which is built up over time and sure U are going to meet people U have built trust up with

Does that make any sence

At the end of the day its about having fun join in the banter and let the fun begin

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Everyone had to start somewhere when new. I have just been in the chat room two or three times. I wasn't quite sure what was going on or what to do as all I could see were dozens of messages flying up one after the other.is this everyone chatting together and can anyone join in? Anyone care to explain? I am quite new."

Take time to sit and watch chat ull see there can be two or more convos going on be polite and say hi see who replys usualy saying hi back and putting ur username at the end of the sentence any time I am in there I will say hi to anyone if I don't miss their msg as sometimes chat moves fast hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone had to start somewhere when new. I have just been in the chat room two or three times. I wasn't quite sure what was going on or what to do as all I could see were dozens of messages flying up one after the other.is this everyone chatting together and can anyone join in? Anyone care to explain? I am quite new.

Thanks chap. I did just that, simply just said hi the few times I was on it to me it just seemed to get swallowed up in the avalanche of messages

Take time to sit and watch chat ull see there can be two or more convos going on be polite and say hi see who replys usualy saying hi back and putting ur username at the end of the sentence any time I am in there I will say hi to anyone if I don't miss their msg as sometimes chat moves fast hope this helps"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own clique there's only me in it!

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By *heButterflyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wicklow

I have to say, going to our first party really helped us on this site. Before that we had only met a small number of people & had come across a few fakes so we were a little disheartened! Meeting some of the people from here gave us (me) the confidence to read & post in forums. But you don't have to attend a party first really. Just get in there, into the forums & let people see your personality through posts

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By *heButterflyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wicklow

It's Lily here. John is more of a reader than a writer

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I have to say, going to our first party really helped us on this site. Before that we had only met a small number of people & had come across a few fakes so we were a little disheartened! Meeting some of the people from here gave us (me) the confidence to read & post in forums. But you don't have to attend a party first really. Just get in there, into the forums & let people see your personality through posts "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many people on here with issues!things that have happened in their personal life before they joined,and wont let them go.not everybody is the same as people whom you are trying to get away from,people need to realize that,gut instinct if a person is a good judge,but you really need to be a good judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had phone chats it all seemed good but got sent to different location while on the phone. Should have know it was a messer when changing locations on the way.

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