FabSwingers.com forum: Should the lads put more effort in..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As the fem half here I always get requests to dress up for meets .. get the sexy lingerie on and high heels from guys ..

however I find same guys roll up in their work clothes or worse still have naff boxers on lol.. or not even had the decency to wash themselves..

personally I think if you put a bit of effort in you will be rewarded ..

what you think good people of fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id be as fresh as a magic tree for my lady,id have little mac polished up for the job and id smell like a hoors handbag,look gd feel gd perform gd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mac I wouldn't doubt ye for a second lol ... that sounds like a good tag line for u ha .. Careful now or the may try to emulate you and steal your thunder

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By *fs its sidMan
over a year ago

belfast

err turning up to meet someone unwashed i would think that would be a no brainer naff boxers can be excused but unwashed no anyway i wear yfronts (joke) lol

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Think you've been very unlucky we have met singles and ccouple's male and female never happened to us not once not sure how we would handle that. Hope we never have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shocks me that anybody would want to turn up at a meet smelling bad but each to their own lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well happened more so when I had a single profile .. but yeah was a regular occurrence .. couldnt really understand it myself its disrespectful and down right dirty in a bad way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the fem half here I always get requests to dress up for meets .. get the sexy lingerie on and high heels from guys ..

however I find same guys roll up in their work clothes or worse still have naff boxers on lol.. or not even had the decency to wash themselves..

personally I think if you put a bit of effort in you will be rewarded ..

what you think good people of fab ? "

Always put a bit of effort in ...and a brand new pair of boxers

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I've heard some stories too!

personally I'd never show up at a meet with out being freshly showered, shaved, trimmed and rested

not quite gone down the male lingerie route yet but I try to dress to impress

On a related note I've been to some swing fancy dress parties that some of the lads make none or feck all effort at. I know I'll be fully kitted out at the fab party this Saturday!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that we all should make an effort and dress wash and if you smoke brush your teeth

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By *arveygirthycockMan
over a year ago

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"As the fem half here I always get requests to dress up for meets .. get the sexy lingerie on and high heels from guys ..

however I find same guys roll up in their work clothes or worse still have naff boxers on lol.. or not even had the decency to wash themselves..

personally I think if you put a bit of effort in you will be rewarded ..

what you think good people of fab ? "

WTF what type of skank turns up unwashed??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ara Wilder u always look dapper :P .. well ur right too if peeps are going to a fancy dress everyone should make an effort .. sad to say it would appear my Lil Red Riding Bonnet costume not going to get out again this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta say its not easy... some girls are looking for a line some are looking for a chat...say the wrong thing and that's it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd a guy turn up at ours once who clearly had used someone else's pics as his profile pics, smelt like a sewer and had a face to match, didn't make it past the front door.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah sure, washing too much is no good either. You could wash all the goodness away

I have a rule that I wash once a year, whether I need to or not. I think it's good to have standards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We'd a guy turn up at ours once who clearly had used someone else's pics as his profile pics, smelt like a sewer and had a face to match, didn't make it past the front door.

Oh that also happens a good bit .. as if we wouldnt notice they werent the same person.. who they kidding

but god nothing worse than aroma of rotten fish .. or lumpy cheesey cock lol .. not that id know of course but I have been told

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Oh that also happens a good bit .. as if we wouldnt notice they werent the same person.. who they kidding

but god nothing worse than aroma of rotten fish .. or lumpy cheesey cock lol .. not that id know of course but I have been told

So that's a no, then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that also happens a good bit .. as if we wouldnt notice they werent the same person.. who they kidding

but god nothing worse than aroma of rotten fish .. or lumpy cheesey cock lol .. not that id know of course but I have been told

So that's a no, then?

think so, you get the cheese and i will get the wine, there was a bottle of blue nun around near last night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh that also happens a good bit .. as if we wouldnt notice they werent the same person.. who they kidding

but god nothing worse than aroma of rotten fish .. or lumpy cheesey cock lol .. not that id know of course but I have been told

So that's a no, then?

I hear its an acquired taste Mick .. Hows ur cheesiness working for u ha

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

So that's a no, then?

I hear its an acquired taste Mick .. Hows ur cheesiness working for u ha

I'm cheesy, but in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there seem to be alot of posts on the forum about hygine.i cant believe it is such a huge problem.who the bloody hell does not wash before a meet.thats crazy and completely disrespectful toward the other person.what the hell is wrong with these people.... rant over

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over a year ago

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I have made an effort and the lads I have met did too.

In a suit one in work clothes another but I love the attire one lad wore soooo I was very happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there seem to be alot of posts on the forum about hygine.i cant believe it is such a huge problem.who the bloody hell does not wash before a meet.thats crazy and completely disrespectful toward the other person.what the hell is wrong with these people.... rant over"
...............in life there's levels,wat i would call trash another would call riches,all sorts of scrubs on here lol......some might make the effort and look like me going to work!.........ya get me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always keep the bottle of lynx and brut ready for off. With all these government charges for water we need to conserve as much as we can I find the barrel at side of the house to do the job fine not great on a frosty morning though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there seem to be alot of posts on the forum about hygine.i cant believe it is such a huge problem.who the bloody hell does not wash before a meet.thats crazy and completely disrespectful toward the other person.what the hell is wrong with these people.... rant over...............in life there's levels,wat i would call trash another would call riches,all sorts of scrubs on here lol......some might make the effort and look like me going to work!.........ya get me!

yeaaahhh not really...lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there seem to be alot of posts on the forum about hygine.i cant believe it is such a huge problem.who the bloody hell does not wash before a meet.thats crazy and completely disrespectful toward the other person.what the hell is wrong with these people.... rant over...............in life there's levels,wat i would call trash another would call riches,all sorts of scrubs on here lol......some might make the effort and look like me going to work!.........ya get me!

yeaaahhh not really...lol. "
................EXACTLY LOL

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Sure the wimmin do be fierce hard to please sometimes, so they do be.

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago

Nothing should surprise us these day.

Good hygiene is the least anyone should expect.

Don't verify them may be the answer or give a true account in the veri!!!!

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

I have met a few guys who were coming straight from work , I always have hot water , much rather they said "I need a quick shower" than try cover it up with lynx , as there's nothing nicer that seeing a hot guy freshly washed wondering out in a towel . I always make an effort do if circumstances mean you can't have a shower before you arrive . Please have the manners to say , it only takes a few minutes and you might even get to share the shower with your hot lady .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have met a few guys who were coming straight from work , I always have hot water , much rather they said "I need a quick shower" than try cover it up with lynx , as there's nothing nicer that seeing a hot guy freshly washed wondering out in a towel . I always make an effort do if circumstances mean you can't have a shower before you arrive . Please have the manners to say , it only takes a few minutes and you might even get to share the shower with your hot lady . "

I do agree .. Ive had a few meets start with us sharing a hot steamy shower .. Oh the memories ..mmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body hair trimmed if needed. Check

Ears cleaned. Check

Teeth cleaned. Check

Toenails cut if needed. Check

Showered. Check

Deodorant check

Clean socks and pants. Check

Clean jeans and top if wearing them check

Leave in plenty of time to be there check

Chewing gum check

Toilet just before meet check. Wouldn't want the meet thinking I had a weak bladder.

Who days men don't make a effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So give us a clue ladies? Obviously clean is a must, showered, shaven, trimmed etc. but clothing wise? Especially underwear wise? What should we wear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Body hair trimmed if needed. Check

Ears cleaned. Check

Teeth cleaned. Check

Toenails cut if needed. Check

Showered. Check

Deodorant check

Clean socks and pants. Check

Clean jeans and top if wearing them check

Leave in plenty of time to be there check

Chewing gum check

Toilet just before meet check. Wouldn't want the meet thinking I had a weak bladder.

Who days men don't make a effort.

You are truely fabtastic

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

"So give us a clue ladies? Obviously clean is a must, showered, shaven, trimmed etc. but clothing wise? Especially underwear wise? What should we wear? "

A guy in a nice shirt . Jeans . Snug fitting boxers . White ( must be newish )

Bright colours . (Eye catching )

Novelty ( breaks the ice )

As long as they are clean

If in doubt wear none .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave the brown and yellow jocks at home lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree. I think some men don't fully understand or appreciate the amount of time and money women spend on themselves to get ready for a meet. Do they think the nice lingerie, heels, perfum etc they fancy so much and even REQUEST are free?

Of course I enjoy getting ready and looking sexy but some men really take things for granted and don't put much effort into it themselves, but feel fully entitled to a fully dressed up woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So give us a clue ladies? Obviously clean is a must, showered, shaven, trimmed etc. but clothing wise? Especially underwear wise? What should we wear?

A guy in a nice shirt . Jeans . Snug fitting boxers . White ( must be newish )

Bright colours . (Eye catching )

Novelty ( breaks the ice )

As long as they are clean

If in doubt wear none . "

2 outa 5 ain't bad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure if they could actually get a meet with a woman they would wash, shave and have nice crisp underwear on. But women won't know that until they meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"id be as fresh as a magic tree for my lady,id have little mac polished up for the job and id smell like a hoors handbag,look gd feel gd perform gd

them magic trees smell awful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"id be as fresh as a magic tree for my lady,id have little mac polished up for the job and id smell like a hoors handbag,look gd feel gd perform gd

them magic trees smell awful!

Not the black ice one it smells goodb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now thats a plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"id be as fresh as a magic tree for my lady,id have little mac polished up for the job and id smell like a hoors handbag,look gd feel gd perform gd

them magic trees smell awful!

Not the black ice one it smells goodb

must be a new one,they all usually smell the same to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Body hair trimmed if needed. Check

Ears cleaned. Check

Teeth cleaned. Check

Toenails cut if needed. Check

Showered. Check

Deodorant check

Clean socks and pants. Check

Clean jeans and top if wearing them check

Leave in plenty of time to be there check

Chewing gum check

Toilet just before meet check. Wouldn't want the meet thinking I had a weak bladder.

Who days men don't make a effort.

the perfect man right there..!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Body hair trimmed if needed. Check

Ears cleaned. Check

Teeth cleaned. Check

Toenails cut if needed. Check

Showered. Check

Deodorant check

Clean socks and pants. Check

Clean jeans and top if wearing them check

Leave in plenty of time to be there check

Chewing gum check

Toilet just before meet check. Wouldn't want the meet thinking I had a weak bladder.

Who days men don't make a effort.

the perfect man right there..!!!

what about your hair (if you have any)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep the hair short lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Body hair trimmed if needed. Check

Ears cleaned. Check

Teeth cleaned. Check

Toenails cut if needed. Check

Showered. Check

Deodorant check

Clean socks and pants. Check

Clean jeans and top if wearing them check

Leave in plenty of time to be there check

Chewing gum check

Toilet just before meet check. Wouldn't want the meet thinking I had a weak bladder.

Who days men don't make a effort.

what about aftershave/cologne?u must smell nice u know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I wash with dove soap and have deodorant. No aftershave till I really know the meet if going back and back. They mighten like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I wash with dove soap and have deodorant. No aftershave till I really know the meet if going back and back. They mighten like it "

are u joking?u dont wear aftershave to a meet??u cheapskate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I wash with dove soap and have deodorant. No aftershave till I really know the meet if going back and back. They mighten like it

are u joking?u dont wear aftershave to a meet??u cheapskate lol "

Nope and not one has complained as yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I wash with dove soap and have deodorant. No aftershave till I really know the meet if going back and back. They mighten like it

are u joking?u dont wear aftershave to a meet??u cheapskate lol

Nope and not one has complained as yet lol "

im really curious as to why u dont wear it??if i met a guy and he wasnt wearing aftershave id be a bit insulted tbh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's your choice lol

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Well I wash with dove soap and have deodorant. No aftershave till I really know the meet if going back and back. They mighten like it

are u joking?u dont wear aftershave to a meet??u cheapskate lol

Nope and not one has complained as yet lol

im really curious as to why u dont wear it??if i met a guy and he wasnt wearing aftershave id be a bit insulted tbh!"

And so u should b classy.I even put on aftershave when postin to u in forums

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but i wud have thought all women like nice aftershave on a man,for them to smell good!thts a turn on i think!do u just not like wearing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I wash with dove soap and have deodorant. No aftershave till I really know the meet if going back and back. They mighten like it

are u joking?u dont wear aftershave to a meet??u cheapskate lol

Nope and not one has complained as yet lol

im really curious as to why u dont wear it??if i met a guy and he wasnt wearing aftershave id be a bit insulted tbh!

And so u should b classy.I even put on aftershave when postin to u in forums"

haha,i knew i cud smell brut

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Sometimes only Penneys boxers and a splash of brut will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes only Penneys boxers and a splash of brut will do."

im not bothered what sort of boxers he wears but the least he can do is wear sum aftershave to smeel nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes only Penneys boxers and a splash of brut will do.

im not bothered what sort of boxers he wears but the least he can do is wear sum aftershave to smeel nice "

I have to admit aftershave would be a must because if I'm off out I'm having a shave! So it's kinda a follow up to shaving...,after.......shave, doh!

Aramis or Kuros or paco rabanne

Come on lads wise up women love a nice perfume so you should at least return the favour. Aftershave is a must.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I wash with dove soap and have deodorant. No aftershave till I really know the meet if going back and back. They mighten like it "

well funny you day that coz i prefare a man with no false scent.if they are freshly showered and clean they smell good.the scent of a man...mmm personal opinion thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I wash with dove soap and have deodorant. No aftershave till I really know the meet if going back and back. They mighten like it

well funny you day that coz i prefare a man with no false scent.if they are freshly showered and clean they smell good.the scent of a man...mmm personal opinion thats all

oops ment "say"

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes only Penneys boxers and a splash of brut will do.

im not bothered what sort of boxers he wears but the least he can do is wear sum aftershave to smeel nice

I have to admit aftershave would be a must because if I'm off out I'm having a shave! So it's kinda a follow up to shaving...,after.......shave, doh!

Aramis or Kuros or paco rabanne

Come on lads wise up women love a nice perfume so you should at least return the favour. Aftershave is a must. "

nothing better than the lovely smell of a nice aftershave on a man ,its a turn on!!mmmm

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I can't sleep now with all this feckin' aftershave on me

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't sleep now with all this feckin' aftershave on me

you sure that it isnt the cheese smell ...or even the blue nun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't sleep now with all this feckin' aftershave on me

you sure that it isnt the cheese smell ...or even the blue nun?

whatever michaels chances were of getting sum u just ruined it!haha

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

yip aftershave a must no doubt about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh michael,don't put any on ur cock, it burns man ,ouch ouch ouch

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

No pain, no gain, lads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't sleep now with all this feckin' aftershave on me

you sure that it isnt the cheese smell ...or even the blue nun?

whatever michaels chances were of getting sum u just ruined it!haha"

opps sorry .....walks away hanging head in shame

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