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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance.

Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I punch at the top with the best lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance.

Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?"

Yup - I know as a single female on here that may seem strange but it's true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never know where you stand sometimes Try chatting you never know they may just be a great person. Confidence is the key

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"You never know where you stand sometimes Try chatting you never know they may just be a great person. Confidence is the key "

...and sending ten or eleven cock pics. That helps. You know, one from the left, the right, the top, the bottom, then each one in different lighting, and double up on the best ones

Punching above my weight? Not a chance!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Then again, I've always wanted to say hello to Mrs Houchy, but I've never drummed up the courage, mostly because I fear what I might say when talking while erect

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By *egularFunMan
over a year ago

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"You never know where you stand sometimes Try chatting you never know they may just be a great person. Confidence is the key

...and sending ten or eleven cock pics. That helps. You know, one from the left, the right, the top, the bottom, then each one in different lighting, and double up on the best ones "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You never know where you stand sometimes Try chatting you never know they may just be a great person. Confidence is the key

...and sending ten or eleven cock pics. That helps. You know, one from the left, the right, the top, the bottom, then each one in different lighting, and double up on the best ones

Punching above my weight? Not a chance! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting busy with the cock pics just now. It was ten you said lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Getting busy with the cock pics just now. It was ten you said lol "

Always err on the side of caution. You can never have too many, and it can look so well when viewed from all sorts of different angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have thought that and moved on

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Getting busy with the cock pics just now. It was ten you said lol

Always err on the side of caution. You can never have too many, and it can look so well when viewed from all sorts of different angle. "

Don't forget the sky remote,beer bottle and aerosol can for effect

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

On a serious note have chatted and arranged meets when I see them in the flesh and we end up playing I think to my self wow must be doing something right cause if I saw them in a pub or club I would have cowered in the corner and admired from afar

Personality has alot to answer for thank fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are above my weight.

As I am a skinny guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are above my weight.

As I am a skinny guy "

Most guys are below my weight as I am a big girl LMAO!!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

nope not yet the only reason i would pass some profiles by is if they gave the impression that they thought they were too beautiful.. not us

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Tall fat skinny short.

We are our own person and if we happy with ourselves fuck the begrudges

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

yes i do that constantly ive no confidence

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By *egularFunMan
over a year ago

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"Tall fat skinny short.

We are our own person and if we happy with ourselves fuck the begrudges "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are above my weight.

As I am a skinny guy

Most guys are below my weight as I am a big girl LMAO!! "

applies to me too!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Tall fat skinny short.

We are our own person and if we happy with ourselves fuck the begrudges "

Where are all these begrudgers? Would they let me fuck them?

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Tall fat skinny short.

We are our own person and if we happy with ourselves fuck the begrudges

Where are all these begrudgers? Would they let me fuck them? "

not sure they would dont sound like a fun lot to me

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Tall fat skinny short.

We are our own person and if we happy with ourselves fuck the begrudges

Where are all these begrudgers? Would they let me fuck them?

not sure they would dont sound like a fun lot to me"

Lol. You're so right! Fuck them! Oh wait..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i do that constantly ive no confidence "

Really you have no confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to confess we both felt a bit like that too,but have met have so many nice people here and have learned attraction is about a lot than looks.beauty is only skin deep, ugly goes all the way to the bone ,no matter how pretty some people are on the outside

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"have to confess we both felt a bit like that too,but have met have so many nice people here and have learned attraction is about a lot than looks.beauty is only skin deep, ugly goes all the way to the bone ,no matter how pretty some people are on the outside"

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By *egularFunMan
over a year ago

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"have to confess we both felt a bit like that too,but have met have so many nice people here and have learned attraction is about a lot than looks.beauty is only skin deep, ugly goes all the way to the bone ,no matter how pretty some people are on the outside"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are above my weight.

As I am a skinny guy

Most guys are below my weight as I am a big girl LMAO!! "

mmmmm to be below you nic that is a wonderful idea

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I pass by for this reason all of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to confess we both felt a bit like that too,but have met have so many nice people here and have learned attraction is about a lot than looks.beauty is only skin deep, ugly goes all the way to the bone ,no matter how pretty some people are on the outside"

amen to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to confess we both felt a bit like that too,but have met have so many nice people here and have learned attraction is about a lot than looks.beauty is only skin deep, ugly goes all the way to the bone ,no matter how pretty some people are on the outside

amen to that "

It never does any harm to say hello. Anyone that bases friendship on looks alone isn't worth knowing in the first place and lets face it...this place is much more fun with friends

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


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Anyone that bases friendship on looks alone isn't worth knowing in the first place... "

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By *endoverbeckyWoman
over a year ago

dublin

ive never actually looked through people profiles or mailed anyone first at all i jst reply to mails i get, never thought bout dis till now, its mad!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more likely to pass by a profile for being arrogant and rude, which there are plenty of on here.

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry


"yes i do that constantly ive no confidence

Really you have no confidence. "

i honestly havnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ya i have some times ,

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By *wilighteyesWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I do pass profiles by,somtimes i look at them and see witty profiles,funny posts or stunning pictures and think,id love to go there but, ok, what if when me meet they dont think im interesting or witty or funny or adventurous enough, or all of the above Or, the burning question what if they just dont fecking fine me sexy. Its a worry no matter what way ya look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never had that problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do pass profiles by,somtimes i look at them and see witty profiles,funny posts or stunning pictures and think,id love to go there but, ok, what if when me meet they dont think im interesting or witty or funny or adventurous enough, or all of the above Or, the burning question what if they just dont fecking fine me sexy. Its a worry no matter what way ya look at it. "

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've met a few cples who we thought "we're not in there league" but took the chance anyway and as it turned out they did'nt have a league at all and were just nice people looking for fun the same as us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I would be mortified if someone looked at me and thought I wasn't in the league. There's no harm in saying hello how's it going. Sure you never know might get a bit of craic and banter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i do that constantly ive no confidence

Really you have no confidence.

i honestly havnt "

Well that's shocked me lol I would of sayingd differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You never know where you stand sometimes Try chatting you never know they may just be a great person. Confidence is the key

...and sending ten or eleven cock pics. That helps. You know, one from the left, the right, the top, the bottom, then each one in different lighting, and double up on the best ones

Punching above my weight? Not a chance! "

Officially the BEST (funniest) response I've ever seen in forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance.

Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?"

I (fem) always think that too .. I'd nearly feel intimidated even sending a message to some folk.. fact

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I'm more likely to pass by a profile for being arrogant and rude, which there are plenty of on here."

yes same here quite a few arrogant ones and there a real turn off paas them by for deff

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"yes i do that constantly ive no confidence

Really you have no confidence.

i honestly havnt "

Up there with the best of them definitely not one to pass yummy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You never know where you stand sometimes Try chatting you never know they may just be a great person. Confidence is the key

...and sending ten or eleven cock pics. That helps. You know, one from the left, the right, the top, the bottom, then each one in different lighting, and double up on the best ones

Punching above my weight? Not a chance!

Officially the BEST (funniest) response I've ever seen in forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

houch, i dont need to look at another profile to know im punching above my weight.

just need to look at our own to know that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a hard topic this as I think the term itself alludes to the fact that some people are better than others based purely on their looks, but I guess that is just life. I am not confident at all either, and being on here really knocks the confidence even further with the amount of profiles that have nasty comments on them about the people they don't want to meet. I mean , everyone has preferences but I still don't understand why a lot on here feel the need to be so nasty about it. Then I get messages from people who I would never think in a million years would find a woman of my size attractive and it makes me wonder why they are contacting me in all honesty. I will never understand Fab! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with those nipples!!!...no way decca...ur gold!!!..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance.

Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?"

i dont contact anyone really but if i arrange to meet sumone its always in the back of my mind tht they mite not like me,especially lately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i dont contact anyone really but if i arrange to meet sumone its always in the back of my mind tht they mite not like me,especially lately!"

Well you have nothing to fear, you are sweet, chatty, funny and drop dead gawgus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i dont contact anyone really but if i arrange to meet sumone its always in the back of my mind tht they mite not like me,especially lately!

Well you have nothing to fear, you are sweet, chatty, funny and drop dead gawgus "

Smooth move I like it lol

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