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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Hi guys

just wondering when in a group suitation where there is lots of guys and women playing,and guys moving from woman to woman do guys actually change condoms when moving from woman to woman as mr crazy does. And if not is it rude for mrs crazy to ask a guy to change condom as we feel there is no protection on the womans part if a guy is going from woman to woman with the same condom, as he is only protecting himself.just like to know yer views on this and also whats the norm

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster


"Hi guys

just wondering when in a group suitation where there is lots of guys and women playing,and guys moving from woman to woman do guys actually change condoms when moving from woman to woman as mr crazy does. And if not is it rude for mrs crazy to ask a guy to change condom as we feel there is no protection on the womans part if a guy is going from woman to woman with the same condom, as he is only protecting himself.just like to know yer views on this and also whats the norm "

That's a good question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

just wondering when in a group suitation where there is lots of guys and women playing,and guys moving from woman to woman do guys actually change condoms when moving from woman to woman as mr crazy does. And if not is it rude for mrs crazy to ask a guy to change condom as we feel there is no protection on the womans part if a guy is going from woman to woman with the same condom, as he is only protecting himself.just like to know yer views on this and also whats the norm "

I think you've answered it in your post already!

If you're getting into 'group sessions' the understanding and etiquette is that a guy should change before moving on, regardless if he's cum or not....

As you've said, he's only protecting himself but not anyone else he's having sex with, and is being totally irresponsible/ignorant/thoughtless as to the well being of others....

I don't want to make myself out as a preacher on this, but you have to be on the ball when it comes to group sessions, mainly because some people will inevitably take liberties when it comes to protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

just wondering when in a group suitation where there is lots of guys and women playing,and guys moving from woman to woman do guys actually change condoms when moving from woman to woman as mr crazy does. And if not is it rude for mrs crazy to ask a guy to change condom as we feel there is no protection on the womans part if a guy is going from woman to woman with the same condom, as he is only protecting himself.just like to know yer views on this and also whats the norm

I think you've answered it in your post already!

If you're getting into 'group sessions' the understanding and etiquette is that a guy should change before moving on, regardless if he's cum or not....

As you've said, he's only protecting himself but not anyone else he's having sex with, and is being totally irresponsible/ignorant/thoughtless as to the well being of others....

I don't want to make myself out as a preacher on this, but you have to be on the ball when it comes to group sessions, mainly because some people will inevitably take liberties when it comes to protection. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id imagine thats spot on

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Jayus the thoughts of it condoms are a one use throw away item either with one woman or multiple women

No question about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep absolutely what fooey said

Also HELL NO it is most definitely NOT rude for mrs to ask any male to use a new condom when he has moved on to her!!!

It's up to each and everyone of us to protects OURSELVES and not rely on anyone to do it for us

xx

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Yep absolutely what fooey said

Also HELL NO it is most definitely NOT rude for mrs to ask any male to use a new condom when he has moved on to her!!!

It's up to each and everyone of us to protects OURSELVES and not rely on anyone to do it for us

xx"

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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Yep absolutely what fooey said

Also HELL NO it is most definitely NOT rude for mrs to ask any male to use a new condom when he has moved on to her!!!

It's up to each and everyone of us to protects OURSELVES and not rely on anyone to do it for us

Glad lots feel the same

xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

just wondering when in a group suitation where there is lots of guys and women playing,and guys moving from woman to woman do guys actually change condoms when moving from woman to woman as mr crazy does. And if not is it rude for mrs crazy to ask a guy to change condom as we feel there is no protection on the womans part if a guy is going from woman to woman with the same condom, as he is only protecting himself.just like to know yer views on this and also whats the norm

I think you've answered it in your post already!

If you're getting into 'group sessions' the understanding and etiquette is that a guy should change before moving on, regardless if he's cum or not....

As you've said, he's only protecting himself but not anyone else he's having sex with, and is being totally irresponsible/ignorant/thoughtless as to the well being of others....

I don't want to make myself out as a preacher on this, but you have to be on the ball when it comes to group sessions, mainly because some people will inevitably take liberties when it comes to protection. "

100% agree with this. Fun is one thing but personal safety is objective number one.

Also, it demonstrates a complete lack of respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is Mr Macmully talking and the way I feel about is that the condom needs to change for two reasons

1 To protect the new Female

2 To ensure it does not burst because of over use and this is to protect me

I also don't care if anyone disagrees with me on them I change condoms when changing partner for me.

Also Mrs Crazy if the guy doesn't change just say no to them till they change for you. I think it is them that is rude to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awk sure whats a few diseases between friends lol runs for cover lol :P

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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"This is Mr Macmully talking and the way I feel about is that the condom needs to change for two reasons

1 To protect the new Female

2 To ensure it does not burst because of over use and this is to protect me

I also don't care if anyone disagrees with me on them I change condoms when changing partner for me.

Also Mrs Crazy if the guy doesn't change just say no to them till they change for you. I think it is them that is rude to you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So turning them inside out isn't a option lol

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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"So turning them inside out isn't a option lol "

Ahhhh , No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck sake and we are supposed to save the planet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feck sake and we are supposed to save the planet lol"

I was in a group situation a while back and I knew one of the guy had been playing earlier with other guests .. It kicked off and I was kissing him and I asked him had he showered ?? He hadn't so I left !! Yuck ! Personal hygiene is so important and a quick shower takes five minutes !!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

we have been in a lot of group situations and it was a given between the cpls that it was changed from person to person after all if not the only woman protected is lucky lady number one, but have to say it was never a issue if it was I think a simple reminder would work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought of another time ... Two sessions of group fun was on in the room and ..Well a foursome .. But one couple didn't use Condoms with themselves .. Only when they swapped ..and there was do much alternating and swapping and unprotected oral that it couldn't have possibly been safe ...

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

maby a bit fool hardy but just cant bring myself to give oral if there is a condom used the taste and smell is horrible I know iam not alone what ya say ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just thought of another time ... Two sessions of group fun was on in the room and ..Well a foursome .. But one couple didn't use Condoms with themselves .. Only when they swapped ..and there was do much alternating and swapping and unprotected oral that it couldn't have possibly been safe ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms have the whole of fab stumped lol.what happens of I wear one with one lady change it and go to a 2nd one then go back to the first one. Should I out the old one on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

just wondering when in a group suitation where there is lots of guys and women playing,and guys moving from woman to woman do guys actually change condoms when moving from woman to woman as mr crazy does. And if not is it rude for mrs crazy to ask a guy to change condom as we feel there is no protection on the womans part if a guy is going from woman to woman with the same condom, as he is only protecting himself.just like to know yer views on this and also whats the norm "

ive seen situations like this happen at parties ive been to and i can assure u the guys have not changed condoms,they just go frm one woman to the other!if i was gonna take part in group sex id have no problem asking the guys to change the condoms,othrewise its just like having unprotected sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ill be honest i was in a group situation and although we were wearing condoms and adhereing to safe sex,,because of the the climax at different times it became very stop start the ladies present kept on tutting but i thought we were doin the right thing,,to uch an extent when we ran out of condoms one of the guys just stopped,,,,surely isnt that right

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"ill be honest i was in a group situation and although we were wearing condoms and adhereing to safe sex,,because of the the climax at different times it became very stop start the ladies present kept on tutting but i thought we were doin the right thing,,to uch an extent when we ran out of condoms one of the guys just stopped,,,,surely isnt that right"

yes it is and group is no different to any other kind ....if you play safe the situation should not matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ill be honest i was in a group situation and although we were wearing condoms and adhereing to safe sex,,because of the the climax at different times it became very stop start the ladies present kept on tutting but i thought we were doin the right thing,,to uch an extent when we ran out of condoms one of the guys just stopped,,,,surely isnt that right

yes it is and group is no different to any other kind ....if you play safe the situation should not matter"

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