FabSwingers.com forum: toughest question ever

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which is most important looks of a meet or personality and discretion. I want choice and rationale behind your decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think all are important - there has to be a physical attraction but mental stimulation is an extreme turn on and trust in this situation is paramount... no real answer there, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think all are important - there has to be a physical attraction but mental stimulation is an extreme turn on and trust in this situation is paramount... no real answer there, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think all are important - there has to be a physical attraction but mental stimulation is an extreme turn on and trust in this situation is paramount... no real answer there, sorry

Sums it up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So the ladies are chasing that ever evasive mr perfect..... hes a myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

toughest question ever? really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the ladies are chasing that ever evasive mr perfect..... hes a myth"

no such thing as perfect thinks its more we know wat we want...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which is more important looks or personality and discretion a mixture isnt an answer its sitting on the fence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id rather have a average looking fella wit a cracking personailty. than a drop dead gorgeous one wit feck all personailty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"id rather have a average looking fella wit a cracking personailty. than a drop dead gorgeous one wit feck all personailty"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok your half of the fence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the ladies are chasing that ever evasive mr perfect..... hes a myth

no such thing as perfect thinks its more we know wat we want..."

My mother says I'm perfect lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine too "

how does your mum know biker is perfect?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine too

how does your mum know biker is perfect?!?

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which is more important looks or personality and discretion a mixture isnt an answer its sitting on the fence"

Simple for me --- personality and discretion! Only fuck the ugly feckers on here haha

So take it as a compliment of your good looks, guys, when no chemistry is found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine too

how does your mum know biker is perfect?!?

Ohh Feck I would like to know that to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which is most important looks of a meet or personality and discretion. I want choice and rationale behind your decision.

It would have to be personality and discretion....I'm usually blindfolded you know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine too

how does your mum know biker is perfect?!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shes had him lol v good jokes on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shes had him lol v good jokes on me"

Don't be upset. Strange but you can call me dad lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shes had him lol v good jokes on me

Don't be upset. Strange but you can call me dad lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shes had him lol v good jokes on me

Don't be upset. Strange but you can call me dad lmao

OMG!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Keep it in the family lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh that's my boy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like father like son

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By *exydesMan
over a year ago

city centre

Surely attitude to sex comes in to it too i.e. a good healthy sexual appetite and openness. No point in being hot if you just aren't sexually appealing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh that's my boy lol "

lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must admit we r shallow looking for a hot guy for our fantasies but we are not after long term friendships just meet play and go not into a social scene with anyone (ie nights out drinks etc)but others are so everyones different

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Surely attitude to sex comes in to it too i.e. a good healthy sexual appetite and openness. No point in being hot if you just aren't sexually appealing? "

thought that was a given

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Which is most important looks of a meet or personality and discretion. I want choice and rationale behind your decision.

just not possible to make that choice for us its deff both

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Personally, I don't believe that attraction can be defined that easily. If it could, we'd have no need for phrases like "je ne sais quoi". That may be putting myself on the fence, but such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chat and flirting start the ball rolling so to speak. Personality is very important and a sense of humour is vital. tbh looks do matter as well to a degree because if I don't be physically attracted to a guy I cudnt fek him. I always meet for a coffee first and no matter how well the chats etc went, if there is no attraction, it will go no further.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"The chat and flirting start the ball rolling so to speak. Personality is very important and a sense of humour is vital. tbh looks do matter as well to a degree because if I don't be physically attracted to a guy I cudnt fek him. I always meet for a coffee first and no matter how well the chats etc went, if there is no attraction, it will go no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah balls!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is attractive to one person is not necessarily attractive to another. We don't all like pretty boy types...lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"What is attractive to one person is not necessarily attractive to another. We don't all like pretty boy types...lol

Yay! I'm back in the game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right there with you on that one and also not into pretty boys

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Personally it's the looks and personality has to be a spark there or nothing can happen. And that would go for both party's as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which is more important looks or personality and discretion a mixture isnt an answer its sitting on the fence"

And where do you get that fence from. We look upon anyone we meet as a package, looks and personality all come into that. If that's a fence, howdy partner ! !

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

I think a lot of this is about variety and new thrills and experience. So to me you weigh up the merits of each person differently. Good question though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What i was planning to achieve by posting this thread is that its just sex. Yes looks may help but personality does also.unfortunately ladies tom cruise brad pitt or whoever floats your boat dont have profiles on here.its just sex not coffee lunch dinner night out dating or marriage.i have met girls who im not attracted too but its just sex i basically just wanna fuck your brains out and leave it at that. Where there is attraction their comes emotion. Obviously we need some sort of emotion to fuck but it shouldnt always be based on looks but each person their own .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should you have to choose one or the other? I've got a cracking little hottie with a great personality and descretion. He's the business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Which is more important looks or personality and discretion a mixture isnt an answer its sitting on the fence

And where do you get that fence from. We look upon anyone we meet as a package, looks and personality all come into that. If that's a fence, howdy partner ! !"

agree 100% might meet ye on that fence someday lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The question was which is more important nothing about choice

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"What i was planning to achieve by posting this thread is that its just sex. Yes looks may help but personality does also.unfortunately ladies tom cruise brad pitt or whoever floats your boat dont have profiles on here.its just sex not coffee lunch dinner night out dating or marriage.i have met girls who im not attracted too but its just sex i basically just wanna fuck your brains out and leave it at that. Where there is attraction their comes emotion. Obviously we need some sort of emotion to fuck but it shouldnt always be based on looks but each person their own ....."
so what your saying is your preference is to fuck anyone looks personality dont matter.

I have to be sexually attracted to them I don't want to date them or blooming Marry them I am well aware this is a swinging site dont mean I have to screw anything that breaths with a personality of a wet fish

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By *egularFunMan
over a year ago

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"What i was planning to achieve by posting this thread is that its just sex. Yes looks may help but personality does also.unfortunately ladies tom cruise brad pitt or whoever floats your boat dont have profiles on here.its just sex not coffee lunch dinner night out dating or marriage.i have met girls who im not attracted too but its just sex i basically just wanna fuck your brains out and leave it at that. Where there is attraction their comes emotion. Obviously we need some sort of emotion to fuck but it shouldnt always be based on looks but each person their own ..... so what your saying is your preference is to fuck anyone looks personality dont matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should you have to choose one or the other? I've got a cracking little hottie with a great personality and descretion. He's the business!"

explains your name

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im not saying id fuck a barbers floor or someone with the personality of a dead seagull. What im saying is people are quick to ask for face pics which i have no prob in sending for the record.but i think that personality and trust are more important than looks.i could be shit hot but have no personality and vice versa.i just think that personality is important that is all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why should you have to choose one or the other? I've got a cracking little hottie with a great personality and descretion. He's the business!

explains your name

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lol fantastic

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Im not saying id fuck a barbers floor or someone with the personality of a dead seagull. What im saying is people are quick to ask for face pics which i have no prob in sending for the record.but i think that personality and trust are more important than looks.i could be shit hot but have no personality and vice versa.i just think that personality is important that is all"
I think it's equal fur me That my opinion.. So if after chatting in here and u met someone and the personality is not what u imagined and was not attracted what would you do than ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Be honest tell them your attracted to them but you dont get their personality instead of basing it on how they look without giving personality a try. Its like judging a book by its cover......like susan boyle in x factor.... awful i know

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Be honest tell them your attracted to them but you dont get their personality instead of basing it on how they look without giving personality a try. Its like judging a book by its cover......like susan boyle in x factor.... awful i know"
if I like the cover if the book I want to read the first chapter before I go any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The question was which is more important nothing about choice"

Think you should re-read your op...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wrong context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is paramount given the nature of the site.

Attraction if all you want is a meet/sexual contact and leave.

Personality if you want to engage with the other person(s)

In that order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we not just have you chat you like. You meet you like. Then you get naked and have the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I was after a relationship personality is more important than looks but for swinging not very as its hi how are u get that cock out shag then thanks bye!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are people on here members for ages no meets they are either waiting for the ever evasive mr right or just think they wanna swing but will never go through with it aka timewasters or deluded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but u said u just wanna fuck them and thts it so why care about their personality then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Read the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read the op"

u mean read the thread u posted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u just said u think personality is important didnt u

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I asked which is more important for me its discretion and personality

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

I'm a greedy bitch, I want it all

and our most recent meets have been "sexy", "up for" a good laugh and definitely our cup of "T". Anyone that knows me (Mrs S) knows that I enjoy a bit of banter and so does Mr when we meet. We also need to be attracted to those we play with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do i apply mrs s

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

"How do i apply mrs s"

you need to wait a year first lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol its 3 months Actually is this a deal

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

"Lol its 3 months Actually is this a deal"

be careful what you wish for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So are we making an agreement here lolor ya scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are people on here members for ages no meets they are either waiting for the ever evasive mr right or just think they wanna swing but will never go through with it aka timewasters or deluded"

Some people just use the site for chats and forum....nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree but some dont always have it on their profile not meeting just browsing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree but some dont always have it on their profile not meeting just browsing"

Regardless.....doesn't make them time wasters

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"Which is most important looks of a meet or personality and discretion. I want choice and rationale behind your decision.

This is certainly not the toughest question I was ever asked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sarky git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meow handbag for heff

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over a year ago

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

"So are we making an agreement here lolor ya scared"

Lol definitely not scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So are we making an agreement here lolor ya scared

Lol definitely not scared

I think you are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So are we making an agreement here lolor ya scared

Lol definitely not scared

I think you are lol

wat would there the be scared off lol

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"Sarky git"

Relaxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive got a reefer in ma gub totally relaxed

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

"So are we making an agreement here lolor ya scared

Lol definitely not scared

I think you are lol

wat would there the be scared off lol"

Lol little red Riding Hood scared of the big bad wolf

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