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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering why people don't answer msgs? Even if its just to day no thanks or not interested!! I only msg people whose description I match for what they are looking for but hear nothing back! I always answer msgs just to be polite!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

It's life man, it's just the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have a look at the male to female ratios.....usually 10 lads online for every girl...(including the fake female profiles lol)

the girls are inundated with mails....i'd say its impossible to answer them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to answer all my mail unless they are just those silly 'whats up' 'hows you' types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always answered ours with a polite refusal if we were'nt interested but lately have kept single guys blocked because it nearly became a full time job and we would hate to ignore someone who took the trouble to politely contact us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We answer all intelligent messages but can see why people delete without reading as 9 times out of 10 when we reply with a no thanks the sender tries to convince us to change our minds.

Also the vast majority of our received messages are from peeps who didnt read the profile yet still expect and or whinge about the fact their messages are ignored

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't realise people are so inundated with msgs!!! Can see now its hard on ladies and couples to filter all the tools out there!!! Shame it ruins it for genuine people on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even I have to use the filters to stop those idiotic messages from guys, trying to convince me that I want my cock sucked by them!!

I was like, "Dude, WTF!!"

So if us guys are finding it a problem, I can imagine how many messages women and couples can get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like me when your getting 100 messages a day you do have to just delete a few of them. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to answer all my mail unless they are just those silly 'whats up' 'hows you' types."

Hey trixpie what's up? How's it going ? There thats saved you deleting a message lol

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

The messages I hate are hey u wanna

Fuck !!!!!im in your part of the country wanna meet now !!!!

You looking lovely how the hell do you know wat I look like I do have a face...

Those messages I delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I hate are hey u wanna

Fuck !!!!!im in your part of the country wanna meet now !!!!

You looking lovely how the hell do you know wat I look like I do have a face...

Those messages I delete

"

Your looking lovely there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I hate are hey u wanna

Fuck !!!!!im in your part of the country wanna meet now !!!!

You looking lovely how the hell do you know wat I look like I do have a face...

Those messages I delete

Your looking lovely there lol "

your leathers would look lovely on the floor lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought you wanted to wear them mizzy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I thought you wanted to wear them mizzy x "

i will wear em if you take em off me again lol xxx

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"we always answered ours with a polite refusal if we were'nt interested but lately have kept single guys blocked because it nearly became a full time job and we would hate to ignore someone who took the trouble to politely contact us."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I thought you wanted to wear them mizzy x

i will wear em if you take em off me again lol xxx"

With pleasure and I will do it ever so slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it's not just the single guys that can be rude......some couples are just as bad. It really irritates me when someone reads your message then doesn't reply or responds to it days later.....wtf is that all about!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I thought you wanted to wear them mizzy x

i will wear em if you take em off me again lol xxx

With pleasure and I will do it ever so slowly "

nmm slowly does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest it's not just the single guys that can be rude......some couples are just as bad. It really irritates me when someone reads your message then doesn't reply or responds to it days later.....wtf is that all about!! "

oh sexy bi u wudnt last too long as a single guy!!!..lol..par for the course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest it's not just the single guys that can be rude......some couples are just as bad. It really irritates me when someone reads your message then doesn't reply or responds to it days later.....wtf is that all about!! "

Some guys can do that as well. They send you a message when it suits them then when you respond they ignore it for a few days even though they are on fab or they sometimes never reply. The they have the nerve to message me again weeks later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest it's not just the single guys that can be rude......some couples are just as bad. It really irritates me when someone reads your message then doesn't reply or responds to it days later.....wtf is that all about!!

oh sexy bi u wudnt last too long as a single guy!!!..lol..par for the course"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a msg? Been a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly sometimes there's just too many! I always try to answer them all though.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We always reply to our mails .

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By *cl2010Couple
over a year ago

cork

I don't reply to a lot of mails, but there is no malice. I just hate typing on my phone. And by the time I'm at a keyboard it's out of sight and mind..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the situation into your shoes if you were a lady and you logged in and you had 500 messages would you reply to all them???? Especially messages with hi?? No you wouldn't lol

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Put the situation into your shoes if you were a lady and you logged in and you had 500 messages would you reply to all them???? Especially messages with hi?? No you wouldn't lol"

Always thought it was rude not to reply, but never thought there were that many jerks that send crappy messages to fill up an inbox

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By *aughtyduo2Couple
over a year ago

sexy town


"To be honest it's not just the single guys that can be rude......some couples are just as bad. It really irritates me when someone reads your message then doesn't reply or responds to it days later.....wtf is that all about!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Always thought it was rude not to reply, but never thought there were that many jerks that send crappy messages to fill up an inbox"

its not even that they are crappy(though a few are),its the sheer amount that prevents us replying.I prefer to be polite to a polite request but if we answered them all it could take hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad to say I find it near impossible to reply to everyone.

As a result you're open to abusive messages about what a b*tch you are. It's a no win situation. I'd love to have the time here to reply and chat to everyone but I don't. As a result I think I've missed out on a lot of gems too.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"

Always thought it was rude not to reply, but never thought there were that many jerks that send crappy messages to fill up an inbox

its not even that they are crappy(though a few are),its the sheer amount that prevents us replying.I prefer to be polite to a polite request but if we answered them all it could take hours "

agreed so its easier to just block ppl that don't fit your requirements its the less rude option I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have a look at the male to female ratios.....usually 10 lads online for every girl...(including the fake female profiles lol)

the girls are inundated with mails....i'd say its impossible to answer them all "

they arnt gettin so many that they cant answer them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we always answered ours with a polite refusal if we were'nt interested but lately have kept single guys blocked because it nearly became a full time job and we would hate to ignore someone who took the trouble to politely contact us."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the situation into your shoes if you were a lady and you logged in and you had 500 messages would you reply to all them???? Especially messages with hi?? No you wouldn't lol"

if that happened me id line up meets till i couldnt stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the situation into your shoes if you were a lady and you logged in and you had 500 messages would you reply to all them???? Especially messages with hi?? No you wouldn't lol

if that happened me id line up meets till i couldnt stand "

well do yas know what , this forum is truely depressin for those who never have that problem,

ffs i can even get people to view my profile let alone msg me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why people don't answer msgs? Even if its just to day no thanks or not interested!! I only msg people whose description I match for what they are looking for but hear nothing back! I always answer msgs just to be polite! "

i used to always reply with a "sorry but no thanks " but it got to the stage were u wud get replies like "why not?whats wrong with me?" or "stuck up cow" so now i dont bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why people don't answer msgs? Even if its just to day no thanks or not interested!! I only msg people whose description I match for what they are looking for but hear nothing back! I always answer msgs just to be polite!

i used to always reply with a "sorry but no thanks " but it got to the stage were u wud get replies like "why not?whats wrong with me?" or "stuck up cow" so now i dont bother "

ya but now the newbies are sufferin for the fookers in the past , and i fear a lot of people do the same

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Put the situation into your shoes if you were a lady and you logged in and you had 500 messages would you reply to all them???? Especially messages with hi?? No you wouldn't lol

if that happened me id line up meets till i couldnt stand

well do yas know what , this forum is truely depressin for those who never have that problem,

ffs i can even get people to view my profile let alone msg me !!

"

I just viewed your profile

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

View my profile, view my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"View my profile, view my profile! "

Wtf am I looking at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"View my profile, view my profile!

Wtf am I looking at "

at micheal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"View my profile, view my profile!

Wtf am I looking at

at micheal lol "

Again wtf am I looking at lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"View my profile, view my profile!

Wtf am I looking at

at micheal lol

Again wtf am I looking at lol "

look at me instead lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"View my profile, view my profile!

Wtf am I looking at

at micheal lol

Again wtf am I looking at lol "

It wasn't addressed to you, ya big hairy arsed biker ya! I was trying to get Mrs Davie t to look at mine after she looked at yer man's. Lol.. nothing to see here. Move along please folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"View my profile, view my profile!

Wtf am I looking at

at micheal lol

Again wtf am I looking at lol

look at me instead lol"

I always look at yours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"View my profile, view my profile!

Wtf am I looking at

at micheal lol

Again wtf am I looking at lol

look at me instead lol

I always look at yours x "

lol perving my ass again lol will have to punish you for that lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol. "

lol i wouldnt be laughing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the situation into your shoes if you were a lady and you logged in and you had 500 messages would you reply to all them???? Especially messages with hi?? No you wouldn't lol

if that happened me id line up meets till i couldnt stand

well do yas know what , this forum is truely depressin for those who never have that problem,

ffs i can even get people to view my profile let alone msg me !!

I just viewed your profile"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"View my profile, view my profile!

Wtf am I looking at

at micheal lol

Again wtf am I looking at lol

It wasn't addressed to you, ya big hairy arsed biker ya! I was trying to get Mrs Davie t to look at mine after she looked at yer man's. Lol.. nothing to see here. Move along please folks "

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"View my profile, view my profile!

Wtf am I looking at

at micheal lol

Again wtf am I looking at lol

It wasn't addressed to you, ya big hairy arsed biker ya! I was trying to get Mrs Davie t to look at mine after she looked at yer man's. Lol.. nothing to see here. Move along please folks "

Michael I have yours as my screen saver

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Go wan ya big riiade ya!

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