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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember your first meet? I was nervous as hell! I still get nerves but I see it more excitment these days!

Me personally I'm not into newbies.. It's like fucking a virgin.. Lol would you want to? Not really, I like people to be a bit more experienced.. But that's just my preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree, we'll not be making the same mistake again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site"

why let that put you of newbies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember your first meet? I was nervous as hell! I still get nerves but I see it more excitment these days!

Me personally I'm not into newbies.. It's like fucking a virgin.. Lol would you want to? Not really, I like people to be a bit more experienced.. But that's just my preference "

but if everyone dont meet newbie then yell run out of people to meet , no?

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site"

I just checked to see if bond was after leaving the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

I just checked to see if bond was after leaving the site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

I just checked to see if bond was after leaving the site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can happen to anyone... but i say it more depends... who kind of person your... your background in terms of sex.... and all..every new bie aint the same )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wouldn't Tar everyone with the same brush, it's just put us off unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he wasn't into you.

But for the life of me I couldn't see why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he reads this post he won't be a newbie anymore I'm sure he'll be a goner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse lol he could of stole your tv lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He's left already, sent us a message saying swinging just wasn't for him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be worse lol he could of stole your tv lol "
Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not good did you make him feel relaxed. Maybe you should FACE TIME CHAT first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he should have came prepared. 2 condoms , a blue pill and a hipflask full of vodka, the essentials!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Face time? Did somebody say FACE TIME?

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

I just checked to see if bond was after leaving the site. "
....................lmao it was't me poor bastard,I'm bad like but wouldn't of posted bout the poor cunt,would of left it alone,must be great when you've some1 with ya all the time!!..........just my opinion tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's left already, sent us a message saying swinging just wasn't for him "
aww the poor chap n turned down that sexy hot missus if only ye were nearer to solo territory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things like that happen all the time I'm sure, unless of course you are one of those super studs that frequent the site. A threesome isn't the most every day kind of scenario so I am sure it was very weird for him too. Always feel bad for guys when I hear those kinda stories, it is bound to be pretty embarrassing for them. Best to just laugh these things off I guess, sex is never that straightforward anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't Tar everyone with the same brush, it's just put us off unfortunately "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be worse lol he could of stole your tv lol Very true "

I fancy a threesome what sort of tv have you got lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not good did you make him feel relaxed. Maybe you should FACE TIME CHAT first lol "

properly loling hahahahah

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site"

Well maybe 31 yr old Fit Bi athletic women are not his thing,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

Well maybe 31 yr old Fit Bi athletic women are not his thing,,,,,"

or maybe he is just human and have real emotions which he cant fake , and maybe he was just shy and nervous , and maybe a lot of people would be the same , and maybe if he meet a different couple he might be the biggest swinger on here in a year, and maybe he just diddnt dig yas, and maybe it is perfectly normal to be hesatent at the start , and maybe he is just lucky enought to be born less full of himself than most peeps on here seem to be, MAYBE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if his first meet was a threesome maybe it was too much too soon.

he is gone now but maybe he might give it another shot and get more experience.

he must have done something right in the first place to get a meet with a very hot profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

Well maybe 31 yr old Fit Bi athletic women are not his thing,,,,,

or maybe he is just human and have real emotions which he cant fake , and maybe he was just shy and nervous , and maybe a lot of people would be the same , and maybe if he meet a different couple he might be the biggest swinger on here in a year, and maybe he just diddnt dig yas, and maybe it is perfectly normal to be hesatent at the start , and maybe he is just lucky enought to be born less full of himself than most peeps on here seem to be, MAYBE"

Wow relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

Well maybe 31 yr old Fit Bi athletic women are not his thing,,,,,

or maybe he is just human and have real emotions which he cant fake , and maybe he was just shy and nervous , and maybe a lot of people would be the same , and maybe if he meet a different couple he might be the biggest swinger on here in a year, and maybe he just diddnt dig yas, and maybe it is perfectly normal to be hesatent at the start , and maybe he is just lucky enought to be born less full of himself than most peeps on here seem to be, MAYBE

Wow relax "

a im fine , idont need to relax

iv no meet orginised for today lol

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

Well maybe 31 yr old Fit Bi athletic women are not his thing,,,,,

or maybe he is just human and have real emotions which he cant fake , and maybe he was just shy and nervous , and maybe a lot of people would be the same , and maybe if he meet a different couple he might be the biggest swinger on here in a year, and maybe he just diddnt dig yas, and maybe it is perfectly normal to be hesatent at the start , and maybe he is just lucky enought to be born less full of himself than most peeps on here seem to be, MAYBE"

Bollox,,,he should have been stepping out of his car with a MAJOR boner,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

Well maybe 31 yr old Fit Bi athletic women are not his thing,,,,,

or maybe he is just human and have real emotions which he cant fake , and maybe he was just shy and nervous , and maybe a lot of people would be the same , and maybe if he meet a different couple he might be the biggest swinger on here in a year, and maybe he just diddnt dig yas, and maybe it is perfectly normal to be hesatent at the start , and maybe he is just lucky enought to be born less full of himself than most peeps on here seem to be, MAYBE

Bollox,,,he should have been stepping out of his car with a MAJOR boner,, "

simplified

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By *ntheMan
over a year ago

kent


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

Well maybe 31 yr old Fit Bi athletic women are not his thing,,,,,

or maybe he is just human and have real emotions which he cant fake , and maybe he was just shy and nervous , and maybe a lot of people would be the same , and maybe if he meet a different couple he might be the biggest swinger on here in a year, and maybe he just diddnt dig yas, and maybe it is perfectly normal to be hesatent at the start , and maybe he is just lucky enought to be born less full of himself than most peeps on here seem to be, MAYBE

Bollox,,,he should have been stepping out of his car with a MAJOR boner,,

simplified "

Ahhhh ya got to feel sorry for the poor fella...... The nerves probably got to him. Thinking all his christmas's were coming together.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Things like that happen all the time I'm sure, unless of course you are one of those super studs that frequent the site. A threesome isn't the most every day kind of scenario so I am sure it was very weird for him too. Always feel bad for guys when I hear those kinda stories, it is bound to be pretty embarrassing for them. Best to just laugh these things off I guess, sex is never that straightforward anyway."

mrs davie here

I agree and for guys its not something that they can fake now can they iam glad sex is not straight forward would take the fun out of it if it were and we were all new at one time and nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not trying to be smart here but how the hell is someone ment to get the experience if your not gonna help out cause hes a newbie he or she will always be a newbie if ur not willing to give him or her a chance id say 3rd time lucky after that no thank u etc but ya really need to give people a chance after all there only newbies an there nervous the same way most people start of here like we where nervous as fuk on our first meet an most likely we where crap but we got on with it an still to this day we meet him and the fun is great shame the guy left the site and sorry it didin go well 4 ya hope that thats some sort of moral advice happy swinging everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not trying to be smart here but how the hell is someone ment to get the experience if your not gonna help out cause hes a newbie he or she will always be a newbie if ur not willing to give him or her a chance id say 3rd time lucky after that no thank u etc but ya really need to give people a chance after all there only newbies an there nervous the same way most people start of here like we where nervous as fuk on our first meet an most likely we where crap but we got on with it an still to this day we meet him and the fun is great shame the guy left the site and sorry it didin go well 4 ya hope that thats some sort of moral advice happy swinging everyone"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Nicely said, curvy and _avie t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some blokes are fine 1-to-1, but just can't get it going with another bloke there. I've never had that problem myself, but I'm a doirty bugger lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site"

not very nice to post tht comment about him!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

not very nice to post tht comment about him!!"

We know that, as we said we feel sorry for the poor fella, he's since left the site, we didn't mention his name or out him

Kinda wish we could delete this post now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

not very nice to post tht comment about him!!

We know that, as we said we feel sorry for the poor fella, he's since left the site, we didn't mention his name or out him

Kinda wish we could delete this post now "

still i dont think its very nice to write it in the forums,he cud have set up a new profile and be reading it now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things like that happen all the time I'm sure, unless of course you are one of those super studs that frequent the site. A threesome isn't the most every day kind of scenario so I am sure it was very weird for him too. Always feel bad for guys when I hear those kinda stories, it is bound to be pretty embarrassing for them. Best to just laugh these things off I guess, sex is never that straightforward anyway."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with some of the other posts.....we were all newbies at one time and had to find our swinging feet so to speak! We're grateful to our first meets for taking a chance on us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

not very nice to post tht comment about

him!!

We know that, as we said we feel sorry for the poor fella, he's since left the site, we didn't mention his name or out him

Kinda wish we could delete this post now

still i dont think its very nice to write it in the forums,he cud have set up a new profile and be reading it now!"

It's done now, can't really take it back fs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you folks on high horses climb back down. No names where mentioned and by tomorrow it will be forgotten. What's done is done. The couple feel bad as it is. They where simple sharing a experience they had. I'm not feeling the love in the forum tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All you folks on high horses climb back down. No names where mentioned and by tomorrow it will be forgotten. What's done is done. The couple feel bad as it is. They where simple sharing a experience they had. I'm not feeling the love in the forum tonight "
....................face time any1 lmao look at the bikerman on the sniff any opp this guys in like a flash lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I love you bikermsn, and I want your babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh did someone just say FACE TIME lol. I heard a new one today called SNAP CHAT lol. On the sniff not me Phil and wife don't have a 3D tv ff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you bikermsn, and I want your babies "
...................ITS THE LEATHERS MICK THAT GET ME XXXXXX NICE WEE SWEATY ARSE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All you folks on high horses climb back down. No names where mentioned and by tomorrow it will be forgotten. What's done is done. The couple feel bad as it is. They where simple sharing a experience they had. I'm not feeling the love in the forum tonight ....................face time any1 lmao look at the bikerman on the sniff any opp this guys in like a flash lol "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I love you bikermsn, and I want your babies ...................ITS THE LEATHERS MICK THAT GET ME XXXXXX NICE WEE SWEATY ARSE!! "

Phwoarrr! I hadn't even thought of that... c'mere I want ya, bikerman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh lads your both to short for me lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Phew, got away with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phew, got away with it! "

That's what u think. Walks up to u wearing a leather catsuit and thigh high boots bullwhip coiled by her side. Wanta check my sweaty ass cheeks

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Phew, got away with it!

That's what u think. Walks up to u wearing a leather catsuit and thigh high boots bullwhip coiled by her side. Wanta check my sweaty ass cheeks "

Phwoarrr! Ah sure if give it a go if you put down that whip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not trying to be smart here but how the hell is someone ment to get the experience if your not gonna help out cause hes a newbie he or she will always be a newbie if ur not willing to give him or her a chance id say 3rd time lucky after that no thank u etc but ya really need to give people a chance after all there only newbies an there nervous the same way most people start of here like we where nervous as fuk on our first meet an most likely we where crap but we got on with it an still to this day we meet him and the fun is great shame the guy left the site and sorry it didin go well 4 ya hope that thats some sort of moral advice happy swinging everyone"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

not very nice to post tht comment about him!!

We know that, as we said we feel sorry for the poor fella, he's since left the site, we didn't mention his name or out him

Kinda wish we could delete this post now "

not at all. you have every right to make your comment , and speak your mind .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave a newbie a chance last night, he turned up but failed to get it up so to speak Stage fright was his excuse, has def put us off giving a newbie a chance again. Not saying all newbies are the same, at least this guy turned up, felt a little sorry for him to be fair, he's since left the site

not very nice to post tht comment about

him!!

We know that, as we said we feel sorry for the poor fella, he's since left the site, we didn't mention his name or out him

Kinda wish we could delete this post now

still i dont think its very nice to write it in the forums,he cud have set up a new profile and be reading it now!

It's done now, can't really take it back fs "

com on everyone , if he did start new profile and is reading this furum , hell be overjoyed with people understanding him and wishin him well, that would never have a chance of happening if this forum wasnt started.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

The poor guy probably lost it in the car on the way over I know my first need worked fine for me but every one is different bet that a lot of peeps bawlked at their first meet but stuck at it and now can't get enough

To the op if U didn't open this thread those newbies that are nervous probably would not try a second time if first meet was a disappointed fourms are for discussion of topics related to the site and this is one of those that has a place her no need to wish U hadn't opened it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Phew, got away with it!

That's what u think. Walks up to u wearing a leather catsuit and thigh high boots bullwhip coiled by her side. Wanta check my sweaty ass cheeks "

Now that's just teasing cat woman hasn't a sweaty ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In still awaiting the pics of the leather lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At the end of the day we gave a new guy a chance which is more than some people do on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect i agree with you very few does.. it shows that your easing and open minded you never know your next exp cud be awesome..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fair play for giving a newbie a chance, which as you say, not alot on here would. poor fella, its happened to the best of us at times. its either your thing or not.

and they didnt say anything bad about the fella tbh, and if he is reading it, he already knows he couldnt get it up

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