FabSwingers.com forum: first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all have them. BUT do you generally meet for a chat/drink or do you go straight for it and have sex.

I've done both, just wanna know generally consensus

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Go with your gut feeling at the time is what lot of women tell me they do. So they normally ask me to stand in open place and phone me from a distance lol.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We like to meet for a drink or coffee havin said our last meet was just straight away fun and was brill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do a coffee meet before I agree to any play.

I've had people I've been messaging and found exciting only to have coffee with them and go "oh no"

I've had coffee meets that have ended up in hotel rooms too mind you!!

But as a general rule.. I like to meet the person face to face before I agree to play. I need chemistry with the other person to want to take things further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to get str8 down to it lol

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"we like to get str8 down to it lol"

Expect lots of mails methinks lol. Great pics

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By *ondicMan
over a year ago

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All my meets are coffee first and try to get a feel for the other people...there has to be interactive chemistry or the meet can end up as a complete unpleasant experience for all and nobody wants this...Once everyone feels comfortable and relaxed ..fun will always follow

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Check pulse and straight to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Email tennis is boring and a complete timewaster.

Go with your gut feeling.

Sometimes I have coffee sometimes I get straight down to it.

No point in wasting time if good sex is on the cards

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any

"I always do a coffee meet before I agree to any play.

I've had people I've been messaging and found exciting only to have coffee with them and go "oh no"

I've had coffee meets that have ended up in hotel rooms too mind you!!

But as a general rule.. I like to meet the person face to face before I agree to play. I need chemistry with the other person to want to take things further. "

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I always do a coffee meet before I agree to any play.

I've had people I've been messaging and found exciting only to have coffee with them and go "oh no"

I've had coffee meets that have ended up in hotel rooms too mind you!!

But as a general rule.. I like to meet the person face to face before I agree to play. I need chemistry with the other person to want to take things further. "

That's my plan but have gone straight too play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first meet should always be a clean meet...go with the expectation that no sex or even no heavy petting will occur.....that way you won't go away un-satisfied.

if something does happen then its a bonus

))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally start with an arm wrestle but if she beats me the meet is definitely a " no no". Also if her shoe size is bigger than mine I just dont feel comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make the first meet a coffee meet. I would never meet to have sex straight away, I made that mistake a long time ago, never again

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I always make the first meet a coffee meet. I would never meet to have sex straight away, I made that mistake a long time ago, never again

I made that mistake before as well, and I'd like to make it again asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight into it, don't have the time for social meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a coffee meet st first is nice bit of flirting over coffee

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

It's absolutely pissing rain here at the moment, and I'm keeping a close eye on this thread to see if there's anyone local who likes to go straight to it! If I can't work, I might as well have some afternoon delight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go with your gut feeling at the time is what lot of women tell me they do. So they normally ask me to stand in open place and phone me from a distance lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet was a couple, an introduction on their doorstep and straight up the stairs lol xx

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

"Straight into it, don't have the time for social meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on what mood I,m in, normally straight to it especially when you know what the person looks like why waste precious time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all have them. BUT do you generally meet for a chat/drink or do you go straight for it and have sex.

I've done both, just wanna know generally consensus

wud usually meet for a drink or coffee first but have been known to dive straight in on occasions

,its best never to promise sex untill u meet in person tho just in case u both dont click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all have them. BUT do you generally meet for a chat/drink or do you go straight for it and have sex.

I've done both, just wanna know generally consensus

wud usually meet for a drink or coffee first but have been known to dive straight in on occasions

,its best never to promise sex untill u meet in person tho just in case u both dont click

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

A meet in person is the only way to establish if there's any chemistry and sure if there is anything can happen sex straight away or relishing in anticipationthat your next meet will be mind blowing!!!

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"first meet should always be a clean meet...go with the expectation that no sex or even no heavy petting will occur.....that way you won't go away un-satisfied.

if something does happen then its a bonus

))"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always make the first meet a coffee meet. I would never meet to have sex straight away, I made that mistake a long time ago, never again

I made that mistake before as well, and I'd like to make it again asap

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By *hite NoiseMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I always meet for a coffee before evening considering playing. coffee ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always meet for a coffee before evening considering playing. coffee ladies?

Such a shame I don't drink coffee ... any alternatives on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always meet for a coffee before evening considering playing. coffee ladies?

Such a shame I don't drink coffee ... any alternatives on offer

I've got something for you to drink Cheeky!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always meet for a coffee before evening considering playing. coffee ladies?

Such a shame I don't drink coffee ... any alternatives on offer

I've got something for you to drink Cheeky!!

Ohhh do elaborate Fooey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always meet for a coffee before evening considering playing. coffee ladies?

Such a shame I don't drink coffee ... any alternatives on offer

I've got something for you to drink Cheeky!!

Ohhh do elaborate Fooey

Water!!

You can share some of mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always meet for a coffee before evening considering playing. coffee ladies?

Such a shame I don't drink coffee ... any alternatives on offer

I've got something for you to drink Cheeky!!

Ohhh do elaborate Fooey

Water!!

You can share some of mine!

With your special powers can you turn it into wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always meet for a coffee before evening considering playing. coffee ladies?

Such a shame I don't drink coffee ... any alternatives on offer

I've got something for you to drink Cheeky!!

Ohhh do elaborate Fooey

Water!!

You can share some of mine!

With your special powers can you turn it into wine

I can turn it into whatever your heart desires my dear!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always meet for a coffee before evening considering playing. coffee ladies?

Such a shame I don't drink coffee ... any alternatives on offer

I've got something for you to drink Cheeky!!

Ohhh do elaborate Fooey

Water!!

You can share some of mine!

With your special powers can you turn it into wine

I can turn it into whatever your heart desires my dear!!

You crack me up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always meet for a coffee before evening considering playing. coffee ladies?

Such a shame I don't drink coffee ... any alternatives on offer

I've got something for you to drink Cheeky!!

Ohhh do elaborate Fooey

Water!!

You can share some of mine!

With your special powers can you turn it into wine

I can turn it into whatever your heart desires my dear!!

You crack me up lol

I know a good plasterer!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has he references lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has he references lol xx "

He can fill any crack, no matter how big or small!

He's capable of filling multiple cracks too!

Even a whole subsidence!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Has he references lol xx

He can fill any crack, no matter how big or small!

He's capable of filling multiple cracks too!

Even a whole subsidence!

Does he work for autoglass? Does he have a special resin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he pay his dues

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

i always do the coffee meet first. You can get a better picture of someone in one min face to face than you can in weeks of email / text tennis.

For me the mental connection is very important. I have been physically attracted to some women but not had a spart with them so it never went further.

But for each its different so do what suits you best. If the two of you are happy then that's all that matters.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Does he pay his dues

God I hope he does. I hate anti semitic plasterers

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