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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Why do people mainly guys part of couples and single guys ask after sending a couple of mails, who are they talking to male or female and when we say male thats it no more males. We only play as a couple so we both have to click with ye before we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so they know wether to start talking dirty or not is my guess!

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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We not into that prefer to leave that for the bedroom

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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We not into that prefer to leave that for the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughing so.hard to date I wonder what kind of morons contact you and do they realise the damage they do to genuine single guys on here. I get the other side no matter how respectful my mail is quite a lot of girls and couples just delete no reply no.sorry not for us thanks just a distainful delete.so guys please cope yourselves on if a profile says no single guys dont bother them if your outside age range same goes and its not a meat market bet you wouldn't go up to a girl in a pub and say fancy a fuck so bit of manners OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laughing so.hard to date I wonder what kind of morons contact you and do they realise the damage they do to genuine single guys on here. I get the other side no matter how respectful my mail is quite a lot of girls and couples just delete no reply no.sorry not for us thanks just a distainful delete.so guys please cope yourselves on if a profile says no single guys dont bother them if your outside age range same goes and its not a meat market bet you wouldn't go up to a girl in a pub and say fancy a fuck so bit of manners OK "

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By *ourneCplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

like we say on our profile [not that the vast majority read it first !!]

"dont ask whos on or typing 'cos you wont get an answer , we're on here as a couple regardless of whos typing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laughing so.hard to date I wonder what kind of morons contact you and do they realise the damage they do to genuine single guys on here. I get the other side no matter how respectful my mail is quite a lot of girls and couples just delete no reply no.sorry not for us thanks just a distainful delete.so guys please cope yourselves on if a profile says no single guys dont bother them if your outside age range same goes and its not a meat market bet you wouldn't go up to a girl in a pub and say fancy a fuck so bit of manners OK "

The problem is that when you send back a "thanks but no thanks" mail some (NOT ALL THANKFULLY) see it as an absolute opener and think that if they push hard enough that you will eventually relent! so sometimes it's just the easy option to delete the mail

Also it's annoying when someone sends a mail when they clearly have NOT read the profile and they are absolutely not what you are looking for!!

Guys READING and yes i mean actually READING profiles, manners and respect will get you far in this wonderful world of fab

Rant over

xx

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Why do people mainly guys part of couples and single guys ask after sending a couple of mails, who are they talking to male or female and when we say male thats it no more males. We only play as a couple so we both have to click with ye before we met "

Who knows guys!! People do stupid things and ask stupid questions. I'd have only asked in the past which of couple I was talking too if we'd already made plans and I was looking for some 'direction' on likes/dislikes for the couple and it would help if I knew which of the couple I was speaking too. Not in a 'pants around my ankles fiddling myself' way but finding out which part of couple I was chatting to wouldn't end the conversation it'd just help what way I perhaps asked future questions (perhaps hard to explain that).

It's a pity ye guys have to deal with that as I've met ye several times and know ye are a genuine and lovely couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get the same.. its actually worse when people assume its the female they are talking to.

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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

aww thanks Wilder, it an be so annoying , just as u reply to a mail and then they ask is it fem or male, as soon as u say its male here , then nothing, we just think they are looking for dirty chat and a quick wank if im honest,, but they have to get to know us both before we meet !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just eejits - does the rest of us harm though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people mainly guys part of couples and single guys ask after sending a couple of mails, who are they talking to male or female and when we say male thats it no more males. We only play as a couple so we both have to click with ye before we met "

Well as a single female I find when I talk to a couples profile I find its the male part doing the talking and they often want to meet alone to get a gauge of how their partner would like u. I find that so sad as I often feel if ur chatting from a couples profile u should only

meet as a couple.x

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By *razy-Cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Well said guys

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any


"Laughing so.hard to date I wonder what kind of morons contact you and do they realise the damage they do to genuine single guys on here. I get the other side no matter how respectful my mail is quite a lot of girls and couples just delete no reply no.sorry not for us thanks just a distainful delete.so guys please cope yourselves on if a profile says no single guys dont bother them if your outside age range same goes and its not a meat market bet you wouldn't go up to a girl in a pub and say fancy a fuck so bit of manners OK

The problem is that when you send back a "thanks but no thanks" mail some (NOT ALL THANKFULLY) see it as an absolute opener and think that if they push hard enough that you will eventually relent! so sometimes it's just the easy option to delete the mail

Also it's annoying when someone sends a mail when they clearly have NOT read the profile and they are absolutely not what you are looking for!!

Guys READING and yes i mean actually READING profiles, manners and respect will get you far in this wonderful world of fab

Rant over

xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like we say on our profile [not that the vast majority read it first !!]

"dont ask whos on or typing 'cos you wont get an answer , we're on here as a couple regardless of whos typing""

Who wrote that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As part of a couple with work and family commitments we are not always on here together but we both know and encourage each other to find new "friends" but sometimes the woman or man will only chat to one of us eg we talked to a couple on here but the woman will only speak to my partner and totally ignores me we've arranged a meet but I'm having second thoughts because I don't want to feel pushed aside which I do so I'm cancelling it so please get to know both of us because we both want to talk to BOTH of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who ignores Lee and focuses on me won't be meeting us, part of the reason we use Kik to group chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask who I'm talking to. I find it annoying when I have to keep guessing/asking. Would be so much handier if people just signed off at the end of messages like some do in forum posts.

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